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Let's talk sexual dysfunction. I was with a super hot girl yesterday and just as we were about to fuck I couldn't get it up. Thing is, i don't fap too often, i don't watch porn, i lift/exercise and have a bretty good diet. I don't understand what went wrong? help famalam
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Maybe you just didn't want to sleep with this particular girl

You're not a robot programmed to fuck absolutely any hole
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>>35486131
i really did, that's the thing. i was SO ready to fuck and she was a solid 8/10
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bump
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>>35486105
maybe your body is exhausted. take your zmas. I think it's a good idea to always have backup Viagra or similar on you for cases like this. maybe you were so excited you got a little... nervous?
usually only happens to me when I'm not entirely sober.
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>>35486250
Apparently not that ready lmao

You were probably just nervous, friendo.
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>>35486536
Yeah it happens OP. There was prob some subconscious reason. Wisdom of the penis m8
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>>35486457
i'm a britbong so we can't get viagra over the counter which is peak. should i try zinc pills, i hear they help?

>>35486536
i'm a confident enough dude and i haven't had issues with this before, so it's odd
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>>35486105
here is some solid advice from someone who has had this problem before.

when you start getting nervous because she is super hot and it won't get up:
>relax, take a deep breath, realize the girl isn't gonna give you 30 seconds to get hard or leave. you have time
>lay her on her back, get beside the bed/couch on your knees
>lick her pussy while jacking yourself off (use saliva on your hand for lube)
>if this doesn't work, put her up on her knees doggystyle
>get behind her, still off the bed/couch on your knees
>lick her pussy from behind, feel free to get close to (but not yet all over) the asshole
>keep jacking off, you should be hard by now
>if still not hard, get her off with tongue/fingers
>go to 69 position
>if she has already cum a bunch she won't care if you even have sex at this point
>she'll blow you until you are hard and cum, most likely

tl;dr eat her pussy/ass until you are hard, or just make her cum a bunch so your soft dick doesn't matter

IN EITHER CASE: if you make her cum a bunch regardless of erection, she'll definitely give you another shot a few days later. most likely you won't be nervous then.

No porn ever.
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>>35486105
Im gonna take a shot in the dark here and guess that you have anxiety problems? Like in a lot of areas in your life?
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>>35486638
this is essentially what happened. i made her cum loads of times so she didn't seem upset and she's still talking to me sexually now, but it's just embarrasing f4m

>>35486660
see >>35486581
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>>35486105
Drugs or nerves. I was so nervous I took a bar and couldn't fuck my high school crush when we hooked up years later.
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>>35486938
i don't take any drugs, only alcohol and i was stone cold sober that day
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Send this question to Uncle pain senpai
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>>35487180
not gonna lie that's tempting LOOOOL fully road response
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bump
if more people reply i'll start posting her nudes hahaha im a bit wavey as you can tell
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>>35487235
We're you on /v/ earlier cuz? Someone made a thread with the same Big Narstie pic
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>>35487499
Bumpin 4 that
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Sometimes your dick just knows better than you do, probably dodged a bullet desu
girls are dangerous
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>>35486912
>she's still talking to me sexually now

just meet up with her again. have 1-2 drinks MAX, a couple drinks can help, but no more than that.

if it happens again, just break the ice and say "sorry, it happens sometimes." if she's chill, she'll just shrug it off and you guys can keep fooling around. eventually your dick will kick in if you are genuinely attracted to her. if not, move on. gotta get out of your own head, don't worry about it too much.
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>>35487103
see:
>>35487619

1-2 drinks can help increase bloodflow and relax your nerves. just don't overdo it for god's sake.
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>>35487532
no senpai but i've used this pic before because it's jokes, glad someone's using my content

>>35487560
i know what you mean but no danger was involved here g

>>35487619
good advice, i'll try that
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sometimes the first night i get weak erections or cum quickly but in the morning im always ready to go for hours
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>>35487834
What video is it from?
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>>35487892
it's on normiebook cuzzio, search for 'instagrime' and look thru the videos - it's not too far back
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It happens. When I have no connection with someone they can be a 11/10 and I can't get it up.
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>>35486638
>lick her pussy while jacking yourself off (use saliva on your hand for lube)

Why would I need to spit on my dick to jackoff?
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>>35488023
if you need some lube. this isn't rocket science
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bumping cos im interested too op
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Another problem or actually it's more like a question.

I have a problem with PE. Now I've read a lot about how edging can make you last longer in bed. However there's also a method called 'start-stop-method' where you basically do the same shit as when you edge, but you're actually allowed to cum after a certain time.

Now does anyone have experience with either one of these methods and can tell me what might be the better thing to start practicing.
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>>35488622
OP here, the one thing i've heard is that edging is really bad for you most aspects sexually wise, including PE and ED. maybe try no porn like me, or even nofap?
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>>35488733
No porn is actually no problem for me. I've slowly stopped watching and after 1-2 months I didn't even feel the urge to watch porn any more at all.

No fap is something that might cure ED, but I don't think it's the right solution for PE since you cum way earlier if you didn't ejaculate for a longer period of time. I think the best way to cure PE is to train 'sex' or at least simulate sex by masturbating but I'm still not sure wich method to use.

If edging is supposed to be bad though, isn't the start-stop method just as bad?
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>>35486105
Do you actually do any cardio or do you just to the Zyzz split and call it good?
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>>35488622
Reducing anxiety, drugs (alcohol/THC/SSRIs), getting older.
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>There are now road-men on 4chan
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>>35488989
>implying tempz hasn't always been my fit-spiration
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bumping with roadman stuff
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>>35486581
>which is peak

Get the fuck wigger.
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>>35489426
fight me in ends senpai
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>>35486105
BDL
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>>35486660
not OP but I have OPs problem sometimes and this is a yes big anxiety issues
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