Let's talk sexual dysfunction. I was with a super hot girl yesterday and just as we were about to fuck I couldn't get it up. Thing is, i don't fap too often, i don't watch porn, i lift/exercise and have a bretty good diet. I don't understand what went wrong? help famalam
maybe your body is exhausted. take your zmas. I think it's a good idea to always have backup Viagra or similar on you for cases like this. maybe you were so excited you got a little... nervous?
usually only happens to me when I'm not entirely sober.
i'm a britbong so we can't get viagra over the counter which is peak. should i try zinc pills, i hear they help?
i'm a confident enough dude and i haven't had issues with this before, so it's odd
here is some solid advice from someone who has had this problem before.
when you start getting nervous because she is super hot and it won't get up:
>relax, take a deep breath, realize the girl isn't gonna give you 30 seconds to get hard or leave. you have time
>lay her on her back, get beside the bed/couch on your knees
>lick her pussy while jacking yourself off (use saliva on your hand for lube)
>if this doesn't work, put her up on her knees doggystyle
>get behind her, still off the bed/couch on your knees
>lick her pussy from behind, feel free to get close to (but not yet all over) the asshole
>keep jacking off, you should be hard by now
>if still not hard, get her off with tongue/fingers
>go to 69 position
>if she has already cum a bunch she won't care if you even have sex at this point
>she'll blow you until you are hard and cum, most likely
tl;dr eat her pussy/ass until you are hard, or just make her cum a bunch so your soft dick doesn't matter
IN EITHER CASE: if you make her cum a bunch regardless of erection, she'll definitely give you another shot a few days later. most likely you won't be nervous then.
No porn ever.
this is essentially what happened. i made her cum loads of times so she didn't seem upset and she's still talking to me sexually now, but it's just embarrasing f4m
>she's still talking to me sexually now
just meet up with her again. have 1-2 drinks MAX, a couple drinks can help, but no more than that.
if it happens again, just break the ice and say "sorry, it happens sometimes." if she's chill, she'll just shrug it off and you guys can keep fooling around. eventually your dick will kick in if you are genuinely attracted to her. if not, move on. gotta get out of your own head, don't worry about it too much.
no senpai but i've used this pic before because it's jokes, glad someone's using my content
i know what you mean but no danger was involved here g
good advice, i'll try that
Another problem or actually it's more like a question.
I have a problem with PE. Now I've read a lot about how edging can make you last longer in bed. However there's also a method called 'start-stop-method' where you basically do the same shit as when you edge, but you're actually allowed to cum after a certain time.
Now does anyone have experience with either one of these methods and can tell me what might be the better thing to start practicing.
No porn is actually no problem for me. I've slowly stopped watching and after 1-2 months I didn't even feel the urge to watch porn any more at all.
No fap is something that might cure ED, but I don't think it's the right solution for PE since you cum way earlier if you didn't ejaculate for a longer period of time. I think the best way to cure PE is to train 'sex' or at least simulate sex by masturbating but I'm still not sure wich method to use.
If edging is supposed to be bad though, isn't the start-stop method just as bad?