Man or Boy

I'm 21 and still consider myself a teenager.

I'm 20 and I'm a 6'3 child who is still afraid of the world

>>35476132
a man

>26yo
>live on my own
>have a steady job
>pay for all my stuff myself
>had sex, had relationships
>I can take responsibility
>I take care of my family and friends if needed
>I can hold my own in a fight
>I stay to my word

I'm attracted to children, so compared to who I am attracted to I am big, so man.

>>35476141

You are objectively wrong.

is fuccboi an acceptable answer?

>>35476176
>objectively

I may not actually be in my teens, but I am still a teenager in my behaviour.

19, consider myself a nan

>>35476183
Depends, pics?

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>>35476172

3 years ago I was working retail.
I was middle management of a small store at 23.
It was a fairly relaxed atmosphere.

In conversation the phrase "Men like Anon" happened to come up.
Two of the girls who worked in the shop, under me, said "Anon? Man? *giggle giggle*".
I said something sarcastic back and generally laughed it off but the incident hasn't left me.

"If I wasn't a man at 23, when would I be?" I remember thinking.

I think it's part of why I got into fitness during 2015.
I've lost 30 pounds through running and would like to start lifting in 2016.

The man/boy issue has a lot more to do with the notion of respect.
I think people called a "boy" after your early 20s is a mark of disrespect in general.

I suppose we'll see how this changes if I ever make it, whatever that means.

>>35476167

>i post on 4chan

>>35476288
>would like to start lifting in 2016
>would like to
>in 2016
>not right now
you'll never make it

>>35476132
A moy

>>35476132
both

>>35476317
but right now is 2016.

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>posting on 4chan
>a Man

ayyy lmao

>>35476167
You're only a man when you have full responsibility for another human being.

>>35476289

lol'd. forreal tho I'm very similar to that dude, just 27. 4chan is str8... well some boards. The only acceptable normfag/anoncreep hybrid lifestyle boards are:

/fa/
/fit/
/pol/
/biz/
/g/
and then mix in whatever your relavent interest boards are like /lit/ or /sci/ or whatever they are for you

>>35476374

/sp/ is normie as fuck

>>35476141
You're a young adult

>>35476386

yeah thats straight. as long as your not spending time on /b/, /soc/, r9k/ or some hentai board, you should be ok. There is at least hope for you

>>35476132
how could that impact someone's life

I'm 20 and I don't feel like I'm fully either one but if I must chose I don't think I'm close enough to be considered a man yet so boy

>>35476351

>zero fun allowed past age X

>>35476374

/fit/
/sci/
/diy/
/mu/

was /fa/ for a while, but they're more about high fashion vs. functionality + looking good. They shun the preppy/outdoors/athletic look.

vid related: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7wMJWlql-UY

>>35476448
>Fun
>On 4chan

What is this, 2007?

not a boy, not yet a man.

>>35476289
so? I'm here for 10 years and still am normal.started on /b/ like everyone else, now I'm only on /fit/ and /tv/

>>35476359
thats an interesting definition. so some guy that never fathers children or takes care of them is never a man?

but I do agree that every man should try to have children and raise them

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>>35476132
Go home, son. You are drunk.

Im 20 but i'd consider myself a boy physically. Not really physically matured, i dont grow facial hair and i'm estimated aroind 16 years old.

>>35476132
I'm 20 and I'll be a fucking clown my entire life.

I'm 25 and I think I'm a man because for the first time in my life I truly feel like I'm on my own if something bad happened. Which is kind of sobering, its like shit I better get it together cause nobody is coming to the rescue but me

Pussiboi :33

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>>35476132
25 year old here. I don't think I'm a man yet.

For a long time I was coddled (single child) and had everything given to me. Basically a boy in a 21 year old's body. Pathetic.

My dad passed away from cancer. I moved to south america (shithole) to live in 2012. Tough living makes for tougher men.

I had various interpersonal jobs. I take care of cows (rancher). Relationships with girls. Cook and clean after myself (thanks gym). Do shit alone. Go to parties.

All I need is a skill (that I will learn), to finish university here, and then I will be the man I'm supposed to be when I move back to the USA as a changed man. I've mapped out what I want to do to have passive income and travel where I want for the rest of my life.

+
>buy my own food
>have a car
>pay all my bills (health insurance, car insurance, credit card)
>have a job

-
>live with mother and sister who don't respect me
>don't have enough money to move out yet
>no long term relationship ever
>not in any social group, loner

I don't think I'll ever consider myself an actual man tbqh senpai

young adult?
inb4 20 yrs old

>>35476504
Not the original dude who posted, but I would argue that caring for any other person would count .. example, having aging/dying parents and needing to not only care for yourself, but tending to their needs too on the daily.

I'm mean really, how hard is it to be a functioning individual in this world - ain't hard anons. Any boy can fend for himself. Being able to sacrifice to care for another is pretty strong characterwise doh. I dunno if that's the true mark of a man, but I would argue it's closer to it that soley stating independence and manhood are on par with each other. Iunno .. thoughts?

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>>35476650
>tfw none of those.
Proud omega male here.

>>35476374
Can I be a normal person and go on /tg/? I like playing magic but Idon't make it my life

>still live at home
>no bills
>no meaningful romantic relationships

I'm a 21 year old child

>>35476374
>/pol/
>acceptable board

>>35476374

>/pol/

HAHA

26y boy

I am trying to change it though, i have regular sex and i am learning a job, but still i am so childish and immature ...

>>35476450

Yeah 90% of /fa/ is fuccboi. But their are decent inspo and fragrance threads that pop up. And some other random shit, but mostly like you said: you call it "high fashion," I call it fuccboi. But everyone knows once you get /fit/ you have to get /fa/. Their sticky for basics is a must read.

>>35476452
>>35477458
/pol/ is fucking hilarious and I am voting for Donald Trump if he is on the ballot

>>35477181
eh you're pushing it m8. magic like magic cards? playing a video game in that genre would be more acceptable. have you ever seen any jacked dudes playing magic cards? do you even actually lift?

>>35476132
Yes.

>>35477579

I like the way you think

>>35476132
25 yo, and probably boy. I know I've matured in the last years, but I guess what's still missing is being involved in actual work, in the real world. Being a student means living a life without responsibilities nor expertise. You are always the soon-to-be.

I'm German, and in German there are two pronouns to directly address a person: "Du" und "Sie". The first one you use for friends, relatives and children, the second one for grown up people you don't know and in more formal contexts. People I don't know (cashiers for example) usually talk to me using the informal pronoun. I used to ignore that, but I'm fucking 25 now and I slowly start to take that as an insult. My usual response is that I talk back using the same pronoun, just to make sure they understood how fucking weird it is.

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>>35477458
Clearly you haven't been redpilled

>>35477923
you are a 'jij' or 'du' until atleast 30

>>35476351
Actually laughed out loud when i read this

>>35477546

their sticky is definitely quality. My fashion sense is very, bar "high fashion fuccboi", fashionable for the average guy. Sorority chicks LOVE my style, and besides I'm in a suit or at least a shit, tie and sweater 5 days a week.

I'm about to turn 25 and feel like I should be a man but haven't performed well enough.

I'm only 19 but my mind is older

>>35476167

It's weird, I moved out of my mom's house when I was 18, have gotten a couple degrees, work a full time well paying job, engaged living with fiancee, have a dog and a house yet I still feel like a kid. I feel like I'll be a kid well into my 50s, it's not like it's stopping me from doing what I need to do anyway

man on the outside, boy on the inside? guess im a fucking manchild

>>35476132

I'm 24. I consider myself a guy. It's weird when people call me a man, but also weird when people call me a boy.

Perpetual man-child master race.

>>35476132
People have Always told me they thought I was older than I am. always been wise amongst peers. Always been able to give advice. Dominated gf physically, sexually, always looked at me as her man.
Gf left me, work in the arts, all my peers doing better than me, went home for Xmas to a family of chubs, gorged like I used to as a fat fuck before uni.
Want to go back to LONDON and sort my life out. Never felt like more of a lost child tho.

>>35476132
i'm an adult, but i feel like i stopped maturing at age 14 or 15

i think i'm stuck at that age forever

>>35476190
That's not a good thing.

I am a boy.

I have no beard and no wife. I am not a man.

def not a man

Still look like im a teenager due to babyface and manletness.
teenagers still find me attractive, no girls my age.

whatever i'll take prime pussy

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>>35477458
>>35477492
Confirmed for never having browsed /pol/

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was just thinking about this the other day.

I'm 24 so I suppose I am a young man now, but in my whole life situation and actions I am pretty much 14.

>no license/car
>shitty job
>haven't gone to uni

I'm definitely smarter than i was at 14 and hell even when I was 21... but I can't help shake the feeling I'm just a huge manchild.

so I consider myself neither, I just consider myself a "guy"
not a boy not a man.

>>35480235
Libertarians are socially liberal...

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It changes depending on who I'm around. At work, I feel more like a teenager, which is weird considering all my coworkers are around my age. For some reason though, they all see older and more mature than I am. When I'm with my friends, I feel more like an adult.

>>35480235
Where does it say otherwise?
>he is capable...but utterly ineffective in challenging it morally or ethically since libertarianism tends to adopt a non-interference attitude to ethics and morality

26, I'd say man. Good job, moved to two cities without help, now living in NYC. I wish I was closer with family, but it did mature me fast. I get a lot of sir's and general respect. Joke's on them though, I still get blackout shitfaced and dance like an idiot about once a month. May they never find out.

>>35480377
meant for >>35480359

I'm 24, own my home, have a good living, and just recently got out of a 3-year relationship with a consenting female.

Still won't be satisfied with my masculinity until I'm making over 80K and can bench 315 tho.

>>35480378
Dancing like an idiot is never a bad thing if you're out with your bros or trying to tame strange dude. Rock on.

>>35476132
I'm 30, married, with a six figure salary and I'm just as immature as when I was 18. I'm still a teenager.

>>35476437
fuck you i like /b/

>>35476132
19 going on 20 soon, still feel like a kid. Still am a kid.

29 virgin never worked $100 savings.

>>35476374
Take out pol and g, and you're right about the interest boards

A boy

I'm 5'7" so no matter what I do, I'll always look like a boy.

Man

I have considered myself a man since I left home and started paying bills (actually really living on my own) at 17

21 years old.
Still live at home but I am a man.
People are pussies and if you're assertive and look like you know what you're doing people will assume you do.

Right now i'm 21 yo student. I try to take responsability for the things i do. I try to not waste the money i'm given.
I dont have problems getting gfs or making friends. I'd call myself a little wiser than most of my age and generation.
But i cant consider myself an adult, i believe i got a long way yo go yet, even though maybe i'm just idealizing the concept, since most adults are shit anyway.

>>35480697
you sound like a child

>>35476374
>/fa/
>/pol/

You're a boy m8.

>>35476132
I consider myself a man
>am 17yo
>fuck you if you call mods
>continuing....
>live in my grandmas house
>she feeds me
>have a gf
>am a virgin
>fuck you if you think thats weird
>continuing....
>am studying medical
>dont know how to check temperature
>fuck you again if you think thats weird
>now go fuck youself

Man in a way that I have acknowledged and accepted my flaws and weaknesses, boy in how I fail to overcome many of them (yet).

27y/o fatherless manlet btw

>>35480824

>17yo virgin who lives with his grandma
>thinks he's a man

lmao my sides

>>35480337

you're a boy. pick something, fight for it, spend the rest of your life drinking to forget the pain of losing the only thing you believed in. usually it's the love of a parent, and it manifests itself in a lot of ways. burying a parent is another great way.

>>35480768
Only thing that would make that so is I'm still living at home. I have flaws and weaknesses, if you're a man you acknowledge and accept these.
Set goals to work in these flaws and such and make progress everyday to become alpha.
Also actions speak louder than words so I wouldn't expect everybody to instantly assume or believe I'm a man solely based off of a post of an Algerian abacus trading forum.

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>>35480824
>I'm a man
>live in my grandma's house
>virgin
>fuck fuck fuck fuck
Whatever you say my little friend

I don't really care.

>>35476132
29 and I would say I'm a dude/guy.

Married, have a part time gig, workout, faithful and true, etc. Saying I'm a man is still weirdly daunting, kinda like how "Mr.[My Last Name] is my father." It'll happen, just not now.

I'm an adult male, so that makes me a man.

bich im the man
ho im the man

>>35476132
Masculinity issues general?

>>35476167
REEEEEE

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>>35476374
>/pol/
>acceptable

where the hell did you get THIS idea?

>>35477546
>I am voting for Donald Trump if he is on the ballot

ah, so you're a moron. that explains it.

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>>35480848
bad advice ťbh.

I'm sorry for your loss, friend.

>tfw I've already lost my fathers love but it's cool bc he lost mine

>>35476132

>>>/r9k/

I demand robots to leave

>>35477064
thats pretty stupid desu. having actually done it shouldnt be considered being a man. you might as well say, surviving a plane crash is the only thing that makes you a man. its not the thing itself its the capability. if someone is prepared to take care of someone but doesnt get the opportunity they just never get their man card and die a little boy?

>>35480363
you are shit at work and people make you feel inferior is what I'm guessing.

Man.

>financially independent
>loving romantic relationship
>in good shape
>always trying to improve myself
>always trying to make the right choices in life

There are things I want to work on though.
>want to be able to be the sole financial provider for my immediate family
>want to have a greater positive impact on the world

It's a journey.

>>35476446
tfw 21
tfw no drivers license
tfw dont even have an id
tfw just got my first job
tfw make like $50 a month
tfw my mom still buys my clothes
i-its n-not my fault i s-swear
shit feel desu but im doing what i can with what i got and i look forward to the day when i make enough money i dont have to ask my mom to buy me a new pair of socks cause mines got holes in it
gonna try to get a second job when i get back to uni and am hopefully getting an ID next week.
next person who tries to talk shit about me needing an id or a license is getting their teeth knocked in though. it seriously isnt my fault and i did everything i could. im fucking sick of people being on their high horse when i can probably still probably drive better than them

>>35476450
/mu/ is a complete shithole

>they shun the preppy/outdoors/athletic look.
tfw /fa/ hates my aesthetic
i still browse /fa/ a lot to try and learn some shit, i dont learn very much but qts get posted a lot so

>>35477107

>not having a beard

what a bent cunt

>>35476167
>>35480133
>>35480337
>>35480378
>>35480363
>>35480824
>>35481681
interesting so so to be considered a man you have to reach certain milestones or accomplish certain things in life?

isn't a man just a stern person who lives his life the way he wants without any swaying and wholeheartedly takes responsibility for actions? or am i watching too much anime

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The dichotomy is based on the physique.

You could be a 26 years old virgin living in your mom's basement living off her salary, you would still be called a man if you looked like this.

>>35481698
Lol? How is it not your fault? Unless your spending all your money for medical reasons, you have no excuse. You are funking 21, anything you do is your decision. An adult takes responosibility even if its not always their fault, a child makes excuses even if it is their fault.

>>35481766
well if your talking about the money, i only ask when its something i need, if its something that can wait i save for it. i buy clothes from thrift shops so that wasnt really a valid example. and i wasnt kidding when i said i only make like $50 a month my job doesnt require many hours.

as for the license, neither of my parents would let me take drivers ed, pay for it, or anything. i finally borrowed a book from my friend and got my permit but couldnt get them to take me for my license test. and my town doesnt even have a dmv. im not about to walk like 80 miles, even if it was actually possible, to get my license. and because i didnt have a license i couldnt get a car which made it so i couldnt get a job far from my house when both my parents blatantly told me they wouldnt drive me. i applied to every job within walking distance, and some out of it. its not like i just sat back and made excuses.
and still i find it hard to complain about my life because other than this one thing my parents are good and my life has been good relatively, i guess.
but i mean you can go ahead and patronize me like everyone else when you dont even know why its not my fault. just because you have parents who like you and want you to succeed and helped you get a leg up on life doesnt mean everyone elses parents did anything besides provide the necessities

I'm consider myself a man. I'm 29. I work hard. I've paid my mortgage for the past 10 years without missing a payment, I can deadlift 200kg, and I can deal with mishaps without needing to blubber on social media. I'm most proud of the relationship I have with my wife. We're an awesome team. Sure things in random elements of life could be better, but that's the point; I'm always trying to progress and improve.

> Destroy
> Erase
> Improve

>>35481799
Woah big boy calm down, I didnt get my license till I was 18 for similar reasons, but it sounds like you might be relying on your parents as a scapegoat. If you really wanted something bad enough then you could manage it on your own. Im fucking latino, ive literally shoveled shit for minimum wage at one point. But go ahead continue justifying yourself on a vietnamese fishing forum if it makes you feel better

>>35481876
im white and im not above shovelling shit for less than minimum wage. ive had so many of my friends ask why i tried so hard to get a job. several have flat out told me they wouldnt have bothered if their parents didnt hook them up with a job. i live in a relatively affluent community, and am easily the poorest family of all my friends. my best friend got a fucking car for his 17th birthday. and my parents wouldnt even pay for drivers ed.
and it does make me feel better. and its kind of a sore subject for me because now my parents have the gall to make digs like 'if only someone had their license' and shit.

>>35481917
Well then its exactly like ive said before, thats all on you. Thatll be $125 for the therapy.

>>35476141
Pretty much how I feel.

Hopefully reaching my lifting goals will change that.

>>35481958
youre triggering me

>>35476132
21 here. boy

>>35476132
I don't consider myself either because I don't have to identify with some preconceived notion of something in order to embody some of the characters said notion carries with.

>>35480824
such an hero
MODS MODS MODS!!!

26, live on my own, have a full time job, been through some rough years, have had gfs, friends. Still feel like a child.

Maybe it's because I look like I'm 15. When I get my bus pass they ask if I'm in middle school or high school. I get asked if I am going trick or treating this year and I get id'd for video games like borderlands 2.

Or maybe it's because I haven't grown up sexually. Attracted to jailbait more than anything, though I would never act on it.

I'm 17 and fat as shit so a boy

mods please ban me again i need to focus on my work and i can't stop shitposting

>>35476132
24 and only really came to terms with the fact i am an adult man within the past month.

but i am still a very childish and immature man...

but most of my idols were up until their grave, so i am probably not going to improve terrifically further.

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Speaking of growing up, how am i supposed to shave my dick and balls without ingrown hairs?
And what about my ass
No homo

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>>35476132
Im a 23 year old Transage Man
Age is a spectrum
It is not defined by Numbers
I was Born 1985

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>>35476172
I love your TMI bombs, breh.

I'm a little girl :3

>>35483136
So you are agebending tranny ?

Recently turned 20, started feeling like a man a few weeks ago. Trying to take command of my life, started making more initiatives and took responsibility for my actions. Gf in the making :)

27 and still think im a kid. I don't act like a retard but I don't feel like responsibility has been cast on me. Still live with my parents but im Spanish so it's only slightly more acceptable then with whites. Parents don't coddle me aside from not kicking me out

I'm 23, biologically and physically an adult, mentally a kid. I just want to be four years old again, it was the best.

Also I hate when people, especially teenagers, call me sir. I feel like yelling "damn it, I'm practically one of you," but then I remember I fucking hate teenagers.

>>35483206
A naughty little girl?

>>35483249
I don't flush the toilet after I use it ;3

>>35476132


Man. I've lived through and succeeded enough. There should be a rite of passage these days though. That's why you have so many wandering aimless manchildren.

related to this question, might belong more on /his/ but gives a interesting explanation for the current state of affairs people.uncw.edu/kozloffm/glubb.pdf

>>35483272
So if I came over to your place I could pee on your pee?

>>35479786
The truth is, most people never feel fully mature. As time passes, you just get more responsibilities, that's it.

>>35476132
im 25 and i feel like im about 15 in my head nothing has changed in me since then
but then reality hits
i catch a glimpse of myself and i don't recognise the man looking back
and im instantly depressed that them easiest years of my youth are behind me

>>35476167
i have all of these
but still see myself as 15
feeling like a man is not a noble thing to strive for
being able to act like a man in a situation is
but how you feel is your own personal thing

>>35483338
Anon-kun don't corrupt my mind with these images ;3.

You can poop on my pee and I can pee on your poop ;3

I was a man at age 17 when a stranger called me a man for the first time

22 but I still feel like 'a guy'

Maybe I'll feel like a man at age 30 or something

>>35476132
20 year old child
>still goes to school
>shitty part time entry level job
>lives with parents
18 yearolds are not adults

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the last words my ex said to me were

"you'll always be a little boy"

>>35480025
Didn't say it was did I?

>>35476141
People actually consider everyone from 13-25 as a teenager. For example; my parents.

Young adult

>>35476141
Same here. Sometimes I when I'm doing something like comparing my age to someone else I genuinely forget that I'm not 18 for a few seconds

>>35477923
>tfw polish and have the same distinction
>tfw 29
>tfw getting addressed as Sie more and more
>tfw actually feels kinda bad

I guess I just don't want to grow up...

>>35476650
interested in the passive income part. Do tell more.

>>35476132
im 23
im a fully grown adult

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>>35476132
Not a man yet - a young adult
Until i get a gf, a house and a living payable job will i call myself "a man"

Then again - What is "A Man"?

>>35476132
25 y/o man-child but I'm working to change that.

>>35477458
Paki detected

>>35476132
I'm on 4chan which makes me a manchild.

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>tfw 27 and still get called boy

I'm not sure. I don't think about the question, honestly.

To some I may be a boy, but to others I'm a man.
I know my mom and dad respect the life decisions I make and know damn well I'm surviving on my own.


To be quite honest senpai, I don't really care

>>35476132
A boy of course.

>>35476167
That's not enough kiddo.

There's not a single man on 4chan.

/thread

23yo here, but my master calls me "boy". So he is correct.

>>35476132
yesterday in change room at sauna and pool. little kid says "look dad theres that man" as I went to fill up my water bottle

guess ima man

>>35484794
protip: you are not

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Everytime someone calls me a "Man", they use that tone, like when you say to 3yo kid that he is a "Big Man" when he can use a toilet on his own.

I hate it.

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>21
>Kissless virgin
>Life with parents
>Shit tier, no education needed level job. because there is an overflow of people in my field

Yeah, I feel like a kid who if fucking up everything.

37 and only felt like a man for the last few years thanks to lifting-instilled confidence. I've had a house, kids, mortgage, etc for years but never felt on par with "men" until I got confidence. I was raised as a pussy by my mom.

It happened at once when I was getting bullshitted by a young salesman in T-Mobile and I just stopped him and said "What you just said was bullshit and we both know it". Pre-lifting me would have never done that. It was the first time I did something based on confidence without thinking about it or planning , etc. I just said something confrontational but naturally because it was what I wanted to say. There was no over thinking, no sugar coating, no meaness....just a simple matter of fact statement.

> 19
> black
> tall, lean
> somewhat muscular
> not that many facial hair
> work retail
>little kid comes up to me
> "sir could you help me get this game?"
> another guy goes
> "excuse me sir but can you help me?"

Guess I'm a man after all.

People mistake me for a butch gril

>>35485742
Get a haircut

>>35486239
What kind of hair can separate me from grills? I already have short hair.

>>35486327
A mullet.

>>35486784
There are lesbians here with mullets. That won't work.

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>>35476132
God.

>>35481635
>you're a moron

Implying you aren't? How is that a valid argument you retard? No wonder why the left (jews) is losing...

(Different anon)

>>35477546

Mate, you would not BELIEVE the cross-over between /tg/ and /fit/.

There was a thread a few months ago where you could post a picture of yourself, the other boards you visit and your favourite /tg/ interests.

/fit/ and /fa/ were among the most common, and some juicy looking motherfuckers are fa/tg/uys.

>>35478792
>suit
>shirt tie and sweater
>fashion sense

Shirt tie and sweater is literally the most uncreative, generic and uninteresting look you could pull off. Suit is an immortal classic, but it's NOT fashion sense, just picking the 'safe' option, which means overdressing 90% of times.

>>35476132
A MUTANT

>>35477546
>have you ever seen any jacked dudes playing magic cards? do you even actually lift?

Yeah yeah, we all have to fit the right archetype, otherwise we automatically become failures. God forbid we do stuff we like if it doesn't correspond with our looks/job/degree/style.

>>35481678
Actually I'm one of the best people there. I work for the media department, and I'm an ace with a camera, so I just shut up, do my work, and then go home.

Physically a man, mentally a boy.

>>35476132
I'm transitioning from boy to man.
>me, turned 17 to 18 in October 2015
>first half of senior year, fell for a girl who wanted nothing to do with me, tried to get her to date me, acted like a cuck around her, put her on a pedestal, friendzoned, etc.
>She doesn't want to date me, see her interested in other dudes
>read the beta stories on /fit/, took that red flag immediately, cut contact with her because it'd be awkward. Haven't spoken to her since the first week of December
>In the span of that month, I've enlisted in the Marine Corps (something I want to do, almost didn't go because I wanted a chance with her), gave myself a buzzcut since girls are as disinterested in me with buzzed hair as they are with my old hair
>started working out on my own, and not just on the tuesdays and thursdays I do at DEP
I'm gonna make it, guys.

>>35488652
Good luck, kid. Just realize that the second you get off the plane after Basic nobody in the fucking world gives a shit about your experience at basic. Don't be another goddamn boot.

>>35488700
I go to a charter school in Miami and I'm the only kid joining the military. I don't brag about it.

>>35476167
Same to all of those except age (older)
Boy.
Why?
Because I have alot left to learn?

Both.

>>35484066
Real Estate. I think you're smart enough to figure it out from there.

As Andrew Carnegie once said, "Ninety percent of all millionaires become so
through owning real estate."

>Turned 19
>Have job work 45 hrs a week
>Provide for myself
>Still feel like a child
Fuck is wrong with me?

I'm still doing the same shit I was doing 3 years ago basically, but I still consider myself a man now.
Why?

Whenever I was watching a scene with father and son, or when a memory from my childhood came to my mind, I was always the kid. I was going fishing with my father or he took me to the movies.

But some weeks ago I was watching a tv commercial with a kid and his dad, and started daydreaming about a father taking his son fishing. And the I realised that for the first time, I wasn't the kid, I was the dad.

I've thought about it a lot and I come to the conclusion that I'm done. I don't need my father anymore to teach me things, I don't need his approval or feel the urge to make him proud. I love him, but we are suddenly face to face and not me looking up to him.
Seriously, if my gf came up to me and told me she's pregnant, I wouldn't feel overwhelmed anymore, I'd feel ready.

>>3547613
man to what i was,boy to what i must become

>>35476132
People call me boy a bit more often than I'd have expected for my age, I look a bit younger some peg my face at mid 20's, but I think people can see the inexperience in my eyes.

I'm 32 y/o former neet who got his first job at a walmart a year ago. I talk to men older than me and even a few years younger, hell even some 20 y/o men with much more life experience. They talk to me like a mentor, I feel like a boy. The only time I feel like a man is when I'm mentoring.

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>>35476132
I'm 20, but very smooth and hairless. So I guess boy more so than man.

>>35491411
If you really are twenty, then.... well, twink mode for you. You need to eat, son. Why so tiny?

>>35491522
I'm about 53kg right now. I find gaining weight hard, but I've gone from 48kg to 53 in the past 2 months.

>>35491411
I wish I could be you and crossdress all day long.

>tfw face of a boy
>tfw short
>21 and everyone thinks I'm literally 14
what do I do

>>35491731
fucking kill yourself

>>35491754
Post pic

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>>35491731
I actually own about 9 dresses and bought this a while ago. It should arrive in 10 days or so.

>>35491769
hell no man, this is /fit/

>>35476132

im 30 but still feel like a kid

more fit than most people so why not

>>35491827
Yes. Yes it is. Now post pic. Do it.

>>35491792
Pic from you too pls.

>>35484270
That's because you're black, anon.

>>35484165
A man is anyone with a hairy dick

>>35476132
A mix of both really, I'm mature enough for being 20 but I can still improve some areas in my life.

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>>35476172

>26
>married
>2 children, 3 year old and 6 month old
>make 65k a year, 2nd year out of school
>1 yr remaining on company paid masters degree
>moved to a different city than my parents and family last year
>bought a house in May
>sole breadwinner of household
>after mortgage/bills/investments still have a couple hundred dollars leftover each month

am I am man, /fit/?

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>>35491848
Here you go. Worst one I own though

>>35492988
Yes,
To top it off do you have a skill or hobby that is considered craft/trade, like cars, carpentry, metal work? Not to live off of but you can do?

>>35491755
never fucking reply to me again unless you're contributing to this thread

>>35490566
You need to have kids. Marry a woman who already has one to skip the beginning stages

>>35483898

YEH I'm 21 and honesty feel exactly the same as I did at 16. Then I see 16 year olds and realise, "YEH.... I'm not fucking 16, I FKN hate fkn 16 year olds" I'm like an old man.

>>35490052

And when did andrew carnegie live eh? Internet is new real estate, tech start ups too.

30, live with my gf, work full time in a field relevant to my "career" and studying the degree that will qualify me for it and make enough to support myself but not a kid. So almost there I reckon.

I'm still weak and my understanding of the world is still limited.

Just turned 20. I'm a boy.

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I consider myself pretty mature as an individual but just don't quite seem to have some form of achievement to prove it to the world. Not that its important to prove to the world, except only to myself. These kind of questions make me stress. Fuck you OP.

26
But i lost everything and back at my dad's.
JUST

>ctrl + f lad
>'no results'
im a lad, lad

>>35476132
>man
22yo, lives with girlfreind, study and has job.

>Teenager
lets lifting stats determine selfworth, lazy, always provoking people.

>child
has teddybears, drinks tons of soda, forgets to brush teeth for long periods, sit around watching movies all day if i can get away with it.

its complex

Cannot into cold shower. Still a child.

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>>35477458
>>35477492
>>35480783
>>35481635

>>35493798
Looking good, boy.

I'm approaching 40 and still posting on 4chimp so yea you know the answer

>>35495805
anyone who self identifies as a lad is a cunt

>>35498122
Hello future me

>>35493798
post butt pls

>>35476132
I would say only very meaningful and heavy experiences an especially tragic ones can turn someone into a complete man, I don't know If I want to sometime become a "full man", it's such a bleak and serious outlook, real men have no fun, only duties. I will apply to being an Officer in our army soon and I hope I will make it, I am only 19 now, but I will have to stay in there for 13 years if I chose this path. Wish me luck fit

>>35499298
How is being 24yo virgin not a heavy tragic experince?

>>35499345
19 y/o virgin myself
I could've had sex a few times but I prefer not to

>>35499345
I'm not a virgin but I'm 28 and not done it since I was 16. I might aswell be nearing wizard status.

Biologically a man, psychologically a boy.

>>35493798
Was this the best pose you could do? Show a little ass at least, bb.

>>35490067
same, only I work 50-55 hours a week. Never want this feeling to go away though, I enjoy acting like an adult whilst feeling like a child

>>35481714
seconding

/mu/ is for obnoxious SJWs who pretend to ironically like top 40

>>35476359
That is completely fucking wrong

>>35476132
26 in few days
Not even close to a real man
Not as reatard as when I was 16
Not as mature as my father was at my age
My family still sees me like the little me who used to attend bdays and xmas parties
No kids
Gf
Bike
>Too lazy to proper greentext
Why do I even live?

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>>35479825
>perpetual man-child
Fucking 8/8 m8
Being a man to fuck the pussy
Being a child to shitpost on fit

>>35478792

Who ever said I was taking the "safe route" m8? I go for the best combinations I have available ,while maintaining a trendy motif. I can't get reckless though due to my profession.

>back to /fa/ fuccboi

Well considering I'm 26, live alone, pay my own bills and have a career, I'd say I was a man.

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>>35499473
I don't own a full body mirror at the moment, so it's kind of difficult.

>>35503119
>made me think you were a girl for a moment

Well...

>>35493798
tank looks gay on you

>>35478328
Haha me too

>>35503119
You have a scar on your thigh by any chance?

>be 20
>consider myself a man
>live with parents
>two older siblings
>everyone treats me like a kid
>tfw living in toxic conditions preventing my maturation

18 years old, I'm far from a boy but not quite yet a "man". If you're above 16 and consider yourself a boy you fucked up, the transitional period is important for growth. I worked at a fast food joint for a quick minute, a lady called in and said "that man ruined my order", the manager retorted 'ANON? A man?" and proceeded to laugh. It's funny because the majority of 'women' are just old children who don't accept responsibility whenever it's convenient. I may or may not be a man, but I've never broken down crying in the backroom because "muh too much work".

>>35498168
hello me past

>>35476132
man

self sufficient 28 year old electrician with a condo, car, and a cat :3

>19
>never thought about it

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>>35493798
Halter top dresses aren't flatering.

>>35476132
I am married, have a son, and have all kinds of responsibility. I am a man.

>>35504186
get a job faggot. move out faggot. grow the fuck up faggot.

I consider myself a young man

>>35476132
im a little girl

I am a young man with an old man's soul.

Boy

I don't think I'll be a man until I have a family of my own, and a house or some shit.

I'm in my mid 20s, and I'm still renting, so I don't think that's really man status.

>>35504945

shut up you hipster faggot

>>35483005
I don't get ingrown hairs but I never feel completely shaved. Same for the face.

For butt hair I shave that thing clean, only problem is figuring out where to stop with my hairy ass.
If I don't shave my bunghole I'm sitting on a pillow everywhere I go.

>>35505000
No you neckbeard.

>27
>have my own place since forever
>like old shit

yet i feel the same as when i was 18

>>35504891

I have a job, but
>moving out to spend >$500/month on rent
>~$6000/year and up

I'm a fucking Jew, dawg

>>35476132

Manchild at best

>24yo nice house nice car solid job
>pay bills
>clean cut well spoken
>stay up to 3am playing games drunk with other bros
>only reason i talk to girls is to get nudes off of insta or to fuck them & nothing else
>i slide into DMs of girls in a seemingly happy relationship & it works sometimes
>posts on 4chan

im also afriad to set up my own doctors appointment for reasons i dont understand.

>>35476176
>>35480025

A S S H O L E
L
E
R
T

>>35505327
I'm the same

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Young adult. I'm larger than a boy, think closer to a "man" but am in no way wise enough to make decisions that real men have to.

21

a boy. Still live in a dorm, haven't worked since I started college, just fuck around and have no responsibility.

I think I'm at a weird point in my life where I'm no longer a boy, yet not entirely a man. 20 and a virgin, yet I haven't given much thought to it. Got some financial independence in that I have a job to pay for my own stuff (rent, furniture, range time, etc), yet I'm fortunate enough to have gotten my education payed for by my grandparents and parents. Doing original research under the supervision of my professors with some hefty grants attached, which I guess is some good responsibility (I also love the work I'm doing and hope to have a career in it once I graduate). Don't really have too many friends my own age, but plenty of grad student friends who are less likely to act like dipshits than many other 20 year olds around me. In short I don't think I've experienced enough to consider myself a man, but I am putting my childhood behind me faster than a lot of my peers.

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>>35481635

>>35476132
I'm trying to become a man but I don't know where to start. Right now I'm looking for a part time job.

I plan to kill myself in my 20's fuck getting older

Man or Boy? Probably Boy

If by man you mean, completely self sufficient and goal oriented. Then definitely boy.

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>>35476289
fucking lold

4chan is a page designed for autistic manchildren, what'd you expect?

>>35477923

Du bist ein Kind.

Boy. Until you are self-sufficient, financially and emotionally, you are not a man.