/fa/, I'm a big-chested woman. Can't-buy-bras-in-most-stores big-chested. Not a whale, so that's something. Can I ever be (gril) effay, or should I just give up now?
Yes. They make custom bras. Just get a few high quality bras made to your exact measurements and start wearing them. If you have the proper bust support, it shouldn't be a problem to dress well. The key is to acknowledge your bust without focusing on it. Big breasts allow you to wear some classier items in order to counterbalance your physique. Just stay away from trashy items all about the bust, as they'll just make you look cheap.
Have you been professionally fitted. The added support you'll need does mean you'll typically have fewer bra style options which, in turn, means fewer neckline options, but just work on balancing out your proportions with things that add a bit more definition to the curve of your hip or making sure your silhouettes are longer to make you look less top heavy.
My sister is big chested and curvy and she has the hardest time dressing. Trying to be /fa/ when you have big tits just makes you look like a whore. I'm trying to help, but I don't think there's much you can do. I would look to maybe Kim Kardashian's more modest fits, but know you're envied and I understand your feels to an extent
first off, you have no hope when it comes to wearing mens (or a lot of women's) closed-front tops. they simply aren't cut to accommodate breasts, and anything that'll fit you in the shoulders won't be able to fit around your chest.
get into cardigans and unbuttoned shirts. if you can find a nice t-shirt or tank that fits you, you can layer stuff on top of it for a nice look.
Ah, sorry for my misunderstanding. My experience is that a LOT of bigger chested women do tend to be in the wrong size (e.g. undersized cup, oversized band and vice versa), so I almost automatically start there because it fixes so many problems.
My other piece of advice is to not try to smother and cover them up in a conspicuous way; it just never works that well. I won't say AVOID things that nip in the waist, but just be aware of the more pronounced hourglass form you get with wrapped/belted garments and add ease where you need to maintain the right proportion. You may want to look into things with peplums or cutaways silhouettes to create a more natural X shape (the two Vs of the shoulder/bust and waist/hip) so that the proportions don't get out of hand.
i wasn't being sarcastic, actually. i'm only a b-cup but i'd kill for a full mastectomy... i'd be able to wear the clothes that i want, men would leave me alone, i wouldn't have these weird sandbags bouncing around on my chest all day
Haha, b cup isn't bad. My sister just graduated D cups. take them as a blessing. I think you can work with B cups. Just don't wear low cut shirts or really tight skirts and dresses. You're blessed OP. Though being a noticeably sexy woman must suck, my sympathies.
How could you be anti titty??? B cups are good. They're on the very verge of being saggy and if they're perky hnng. Tits are the greatest thing in the world. I love my girls tits with reverence. Tits are power in this world. Don't take them for granted.
>tfw A bordering on B cup
>tfw friends used to make fun of me because I had no chest
>told them I would rather be skinny and have no chest than fat with D cups
It also feels so good to not have to wear a bra.
i was never sexually abused, so that can be ruled out. being treated as a women by society is a pretty bad deal, so that could be a motivation. but i'm not sure what exactly made me : ( about this body instead of : I
men can be cool and fun to talk to, but the thought of doing sex things to them is nasty
Most stores carry 32/34/36 with larger cups easily, it's in the reverse where you get into trouble, 36/38/+ in smaller cups
Even if it's hardly a new concept, I'd hate to see how they look under clothes
And what about androgynous males?
I am just curious, I dont know many lesbians or women alike, only gays.
I belive human genitalia is gross.
Male's one more than female one's, but I guess that is what makes me heterosexual.
Still think hairy saggy sack of skin and anteater mouth on top is gross. Thats why I am glad I am circumcized and keep the hair at bay.
Sorts out I thought you and the hip girl were different anons. Good luck with the menswear but I will repeat to you the same whenever I perceive you are the hip-femanon.
post a couple of pictures of your clothed body, standing up, from a couple of different angles, so we can get an idea of what you look like
/fa/, post inspo images
I don't have any, but that is how to get the thread back on track
probably not, big breasts and big asses ruin the silhouette and it makes it almost impossible to wear garments with printed fabrics because it distorts the whole garment design, just like a blackhole bending light
just stick to not so tight garments without printed fabric
enough money for lena hoschek etc.?
and some casual inspo
In truth a reduction is the best way to go. Mine have grown back a little but still more manageable and comfortable then it was before. There will always be some clothes however that make you look fat because of your bust.
OP, I was in your last thread too. Are you still here? I'm just like you, I like girls but I have sex dysphoria.
i'm samefagging so hard right now. anyway, are you me? i am female-bodied and identify as female, but i have always admired men. until recently, i confused that admiration as sexual attraction, and thought i was straight. now i am attracted sexually to girls but don't really associate myself with the female gender. i really like men but feel no pleasure from doing sex things to them. i guess i align myself with 1st and 2nd wave feminism, but have never called myself a feminist in fear of associating with this new radical tumblr 3rd-wave bullshit.
this is the first time i've been really honest to myself on 4chan : (
hey y'all, just wanted to clarify that i am not op, just an unrelated sex dysphoric homo girl. i don't identify as "male" because the ideology of innate gender identity is garbage, re-enforcing gender roles and throwing gender-non-conforming people under the bus by insisting that they become the opposite sex to validate having interests outside of what is acceptable for their group. holding traditionally "masculine" interests, being assertive and blunt and having sex dysphoria doesn't mean i have a "male brain"; i'm just a person whose societal sex-class doesn't accommodate my traits. third-wave feminism sux and dworkin would be horrified at what's currently going on
>mfw my gf wears 32D cup bras
>mfw she's a cheerleader
>mfw I cuddle with her while being in her comft chest
She manage to hide them pretty well, the tricks is to wear baggie cloth or a scarf, shitload of scarves. Moreover there's many shirt that you can wear that won't make too much emphasis on your boobs.
>try harder you slut
You're the thirstiest cuck on /fa/
>being a girl
>hating your boobs
Why not just accept your femininity?
shut your bitch ass up
My gf has F cups and normally she wears polo shirts of all things because insecure.
Although she does occasionally don dresses which I think suit her really well, both knee length and full length.
Honestly with a chest like that, any medium/low cut dress or shirt will look good, the focus will be on your tits and not what you're wearing though, so if you want that I suppose you can layer with coats n stuff, a more boyfriend-wear look
tiddies on other people are a-ok
thought you could only be trans if you identified that way? i feel like it'd be pointless to "identify" as anything other than what i'm percieved to be. it wouldn't make sense for a stubborn person to identify as open-minded, or a white person to identify as black...
maybe! not really interested in acquiring a specific diagnosis rn, but its a thought
Not OP here either, but really cool that I'm not alone, I have the same exact perception as you when it comes to all this. I guess I might define as slightly genderqueer, but I'm not into labels. I don't see it as a negative thing, I just hope the world soon follows and realizes that nothing in this world is black and white, not even gender.
This is me again.
Not intended to me but, I have to add it's kinda confusing when you're attracted to other girls and their breasts. It's confusing because you think your own breasts looks nice, and you like them, but you would prefer them on someone else you know? It doesn't feel right, on me.
That's how I feel anyway. I don't hate them, I'd rather just not have em' and they're in the way.
BDD means you're dysphoric about your own body, tits being a very common focus point for women with BDD and you sound exactly like one. I highly recommend therapy for your disorder, be it BDD or something else.
there's this internet forum/discussion group u might be interested in... hmu at [email protected] for details
i also have bad feelings about my hips and heigh, but to a lesser extent, since there's nothing i can do about them. i've brought it up w a psych before, and her reaction was "oh, uh, well you seem to have it under control, idk why i can do for you". thanks for the concern, tho
Yeah, I got that too... my hips, and height. Although my height isn't that bad.. but I truly wish I was taller. I also have some dysphoria about my face, I wish I looked more mature/masculine and not walking around with a constant babyface.
And I got quite boyish hips, so I can pull of androgynous, but that's only due to the clothing I wore. If I wore tight-fitting clothing, it would just look like a normal woman.
this thread is seriously derailed. can somebody pls finally answer OP's post? This is an important question since every model that does fashion outside from victorias secret is flat chested. and it is kind of disheartening that most cuts just look extremely slutish/off with bigger breasts. pls post big-breasted /fa/ inspo...
Wear layers, or a scarf if its cold. Coats, flannels, and certain kinds of shirts can de emphasize boobs, conversely there is not really a need to hide large breasts as it is attractive and easy to be fashionable with them showing. Such as in a dress or med/low cut shirt.
Now go kill yourself for being a lazy sack of shit faggot
Girls who act too prude are the slutiest
Stop lying to yourself op kek
>getting a breast reduction
>Not working out your core or doing any sort of weightlifting
>not doing cardio to reduce fat
>I bet you slouched when you walked around
Keep on taking the easy way out ladies
enjoy your scars and mutilated body, stupid ass bitch.
a true man values big tits. have you actually tried to accept your fucking body the way it is?
you looked better before doing that to yourself (unless the weight of your tits is unbearable which I doubt)
Those arent that big. Mine are around that size and I have no problems with them at all or finding nice bras or clothing that fits and looks good. If you have problems they either have to be fucking enormous or you have weak muscles, in which case do more exercise. I can run with no bra and have no problems, and no I dont have saggy tits.
Lel at this thread.
YOu women will turn to dck lovers once you hit your 30s and realize you want children and only a penis can give it to you.
Stop hating your body know you tweens, you will hate it in 10 to 15 years nd regret your decisions then.
Check out /r/abrathatfits you probably have no idea what bra size you actually are.
I've had little boobs all my life and go braless most of the time, but I'm a 30F. All these guys talking about B cups have no idea what they're talking about and don't understand that band size greatly changes the volume of the cup size.
I do work out
A true man has is own physical preferences.
i'm wearing three bras a regular and two sports bras to keep it all smashed in so they look smaller than they are. And I highly doubt you can run without a bra and be fine, there's no need for lies anon, you are not impressing anyone.