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Gf recently bought this online and wants to wear it to clubs and such. Would you allow your gf?
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Backside
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> allow your gf

She is not your property, fucktard.
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>>9231431
This.
Stop being a bad boyfriend and a shitty person.
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>>9231431
>being this beta
>voicing an opinion

Pick one.
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your gf definitely cheats on you, she wants thats attention. it sucks knowing that you gf is just settling for now.
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>>9231433
>being this insecure
>calling it alpha
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>>9231422
i wouldn't have a gf that dresses so terribly
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It's kinda lose lose. You can say you don't want her to wear it but shes gonna feel like youre oppressing her sexuality and cheat on you or some shit.

Basically you can deal with it and use it as a reason to flirt with other girls at the club to make her jealous or break up.

Either way, you gotta fuck the shit out of her.
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>>9231422
If I had a hot gf, hell yes.
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>>9231422
post a pic of ur gf op
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>>9231422
start looking for a new gf. Accept that its over.

You know she is testing you, you know she is pulling some bullshit off now.

>>9231431
She is not his property, but acts like that is a violation of the contract, or their agreement. There is nothing wrong with him denying her that or telling thats a breach of contract and if she breaks it then boom contract over.
>>9231432
You know whats being a shitty person? Doing shit thats obviously meant to either upset the partner or potentially cheat or look for an upgrade. You know whats being a shitty person? Not honestly saying what one thinks and holding boundaries.
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>>9231422
don't invest anything more into this girl
she is casual sex material only
if you're a relationship guy, cut contact and move on.

>>9231431
>>9231432
p sure u guys are just playing dumb, but just in case
ofc she's not his property. the question isn't whether or not to let her wear the dress; it's whether or not to let her wear the dress and continue being op's gf
to which the answer is, obviously, no
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See what it leads to.
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>>9231422
it depends on what kind of person your gf is, idk why you expect us to judge her based on some ugly dress she bought

ppl wanna dress comfortably at a club, they're going to sweat but they still want to look good, so I think something like op's pic matches the criteria. I don't think it necessarily means she's trying to impress the opposite sex, if anything she's trying to impress everyone and feel good about herself.

if she's that untrustworthy that you're worried about her going to the club dressed like that then why are you dating someone like her?
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>>9231431
>>9231432

SJW, gtfo please.
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>>9231431
being this much of a cuck
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>>9231422
shes already getting gangbanged by niggers, get out before you become an official cuck
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>>9231625
This. Just play along with it.

If your girl is sexy, with the low cut dress and all, show her off.

One thing that strokes my ego is having total strangers give me the thumbs up while I'm on a date with a hot chick.
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>>9231555
It's her choice. Sure, he can express his opinion, but to think he can "allow" or "not allow" her to do something is silly.
Yes, he can break up with her over some shit she does he doesn't like. Though breaking up over a dress is laughable.
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Enjoy getting clucked
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>>9231672
>>9231676

Oh no my girlfriend is dressing the way she wants!

Grow the fuck up. If he doesn't trust her enough not to worry about a DRESS - not her meeting with a guy friend, or something - they shouldn't be toegether.

You guys are so fucking insecure.
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>>9231422
sorry to break it to you, but she's my girlfriend now dude.
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>>9231422
What would be the male equivalent of that? Find it, wear it around her friends or sumthin, and see if she's ok with it
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>>9231742
the male equivalent of women wearing skimpy clothes to show off her body is not only to dress dapper as fuck, but also to spend money on other women.

women dress like that to show off their value as a healthy mate, men spend money to show off their value as a healthy mate.
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>>9231698
>Though breaking up over a dress is laughable.

It's not. I would never date someone that wanted to wear a dress like that seriously. I'd understand if my gf wore it as a joke once, but if she actually wanted to dress like a slut I'd leave her.
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>>9231422

So here's my take on this from my exp with my current 5 yr girlfriend who's not dumb.

1) tell her that you don't want her to wear the dress and explain calmly why you don't like it. "you're too sexy for that dress" "don't want all the dudes staring at you" say it jokingly and with a smile.
2) she will probably continue with your joke but still wear the dress for the night, in order to assert her self in the relationship and not to waste the money ect...
3)tell her it's ok and that you trust her to make the right decisions (use the words)
4) go out and have fun. don't be over protective

at the end of the night you have some options:

1) hide the dress
2) find some pictures of the night and point out some faults "the blue dress that you wore last time made you look slimmer than this dress"
3)let it go
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>>9231422
i wouldnt ever date a girl that wants to go to clubs
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>>9231431
cuck
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>>9231431
sjws please go
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>>9231724
Greetings fellow knight!! How goeth thy quest to protect the purity of all the fair maidens in the land?
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>>9231810
>2) find some pictures of the night and point out some faults "the blue dress that you wore last time made you look slimmer than this dress"

top kek

>>9231422
"Sweetie, I think you look gorgeous/sexy in that dress, but I honestly think it sends out the wrong vibe. Obviously I know you're not one of 'those' girls that only go out for attention from guys, I just don't want you to get harassed by guys while we're trying to have fun. Of course it's up to you, I just want you to know how I feel."

Try someting like that?
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>>9231422
why is this a fucking question of course you dumb fuckwit now leave this fucking board
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>2014 + 11 months + 21 days
>dating
>a basic bitch

cmon you knew it would come to this bra
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>>9231853
Audibly kek'd
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Yeah it's fine nowadays. My wife often goes to the clubs in Atlanta like this. She doesn't cheat on me ever, she dances with black guys and all that but everyone does that at the club she's loyal.

Stop being a over controlling beta op.
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>>9231649
This. everyone else in the thread is a beta
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>>9231969
i would date a basic bitch
i just want someone to help me socialize
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>>9231981
Lmao
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>>9231649
This op

Just let her go to the club. God you're so pathetic she just wants to have some fun. Sure she might dance on some guys but I promise you that's as far as it will go and before you know it she'll be back home kissing you on the mouth and riding your face
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>>9231422
fuck yeah that would be pretty hot
my gf is asian with a nice body, id be all over it

why wouldn't you guys want your gf to wear this out clubbing with you? she's your girlfriend she's going to dance with you and fuck you at the end of the night
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>>9232066

She's probably going to fuck some alpha while OP holds his coat.
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>in a relationship
>but still going to clubs
>while dressed as a whore

I've got bad news for you OP
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>>9232086
>implying you've ever had a girlfriend
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absolutelyharam.jpg
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>>9232066
>she's going to dance with you and fuck you at the end of the night
>implying she would take her boyfriend to the club
OP obviously wouldn't be worried if that were the case. you might as well dump her now OP, she's on the prowl for someone else and she's just keeping you until she finds someone else
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>>9231422
fuck no you pussy whipped faggot

she's probably cheating on you right now with a gang of black guys. one in each hole.

enjoy.
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>>9231422

>being a cuck: op's story
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>>9231431
>>9231432
>2015 -10d
>being a cuck
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>>9232091
I have, and she sure as shit isn't some promiscuous clubslut. I suggest you look elsewhere m8, unless you want a kaleidoscope of std's
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>>9232127
Why you gotta be racist?
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Insecurity, the thread.
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Don't worry, OP, she'll not cheat on you, she'll just be 'raped' by a bunch of guys.
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>>9232157
This

Don't be insecure dude she's just having a good time at the club
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CUCK GENERAL? CUCK GENERAL
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>>9231724
>implying fashion and clothing isn't a form of communication
>implying that dress doesn't say "I live an easy life, full of luxury. I think my youthful body is my most important asset, and am available for sex with any alpha male willing to pay my way."

good luck OP
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>>9232142
it happens. reality must be racist then.

plus how is black men getting white bitches racist?
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Its just an ugly dress anyway. Relationships are about compromise; you dont do lame stupid shit she doesnt like, and she tries not to embarrass or neuter you. If this is one of the terms that should be agreed to, and she doesnt want to cooperate, then just slowly end it. Either way, in my opinion, the best, most beautiful girls, the ones that challenge and inspire and motivate you, would never be caught dead wearing a trash rag like that.

I'm so damn tired of "the club"
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>date 8/10
>go to da clubs
>blacks consider her a 10/10
>brothas be like "ayyy, playa"
>they think I'm the shit

yay
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As long as you're going to the club with her and she looks good in it, I don't see the problem
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>going to a nightclub with your gf

For what reason

no really I have no idea why this would be a thing to do, why would someone do this?
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>>9232277
always wondered this lmao
you have to dance with just the one person and take care of their drunk ass? fuck that
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>>9232277
To socialise with people you know

Not every club is like Jersey shore

But for real clubbing is shit
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>>9231981
Scummy cuckold KIKE
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>>9231422
No
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Clubs are no longer my thing. After 22, I just stopped caring about that stuff. If I had a girl that wanted to go clubbing or some shit, then that's just a conflict of interests. I would absolutely go to parties or other social events, but I'm not going to bother with shitty music, overpriced drinks, and obnoxious people.

As for the dress, if she looks sexy in it why not. I mean, why not, those skimpy cocktail dresses are fun to peel off. Ayyy.
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>>9232277
>Experienced it
>Made me hate clubs and douchebags who go to clubs even more
>Wish I could forbid clubs if I were a dictator
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>>9232175
underrated post
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>>9232390
>knoch and his mum.webm
lel
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>>9231422
Depends on how long you've been dating this girl. If you've been with her for less than a year, BTFO and kill yourself. This slut is going to fuck everyone you know and there's nothing you can about it.
If you're pretty invested in this girl then tell her that you really aren't ok with her being dressed like that. If she does not respect about how you feel about this matter then she cares more about her self image than she does about your emotions (no homo) and your relationship still has a long way to go.
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>>9232445
This. I'd say let her wear it, but don't be super encouraging. Go once and observe her behavior, if she's getting too flirty pull her aside and talk about it. If she gets mad or cheats just walk out and leave her there. If you're alpha enough then take a girl with you.
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>>9231422
If you can't trust her bail bro

I would let me gf wear that, then fug her in the car outside the club
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>>9231422
I love when the girl I'm with dresses like a sexy slut. As long as she ends up going home with me I don't give a fuck. Whatever makes her feel happy and sexy means more happiness and sexiness for me.
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