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>see a beautiful girl >instantly feel lonely somebody

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>see a beautiful girl
>instantly feel lonely

somebody help me with these feels
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Fa feels thread
Go
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>>9050453
>have dream about any pretty girl
>instantly fall in love
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>>9050458
;-;
She actually exists
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>go out side
>instantly feel hated by everyone
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Beautiful woman I've developed feelings for in college is only here until Christmas before she goes back to Germany. I think she likes me. But there's no point in pursuing anything romantic.

:'(
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>On bus
>See this blonde chick that is seriously the most beautiful woman I've ever seen in my life
>felt weird inside
>was on the way to my gf's place anyway
>gf is also extremely good looking but the tats bring her down slightly
gf would be perfect without the ink
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>laying down and reading
>randomly remember her for no reason
>soul crushing sadness and guilt
>get flirted with/hit on fairly often when out
>feel like a sperg for not being able to get over things from the past and move on with my life

God damnit I just want to go forward and learn how to be happy for my own sake again.
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>>9050488
Yes there is. Go for it. It's going to be a great experience. Don't pussy out.
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>>9050528
its all gonna be okay fam


were all gonna make it
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>>9050528

>17

you're gonna have tons of opportunities to do stuff, don't worry about it.
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>>9050488
You might as well enjoy the relationship while it lasts. You're already miserable so yo might as well grab happiness no matter how temporary.
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>>9050528
because you're just a kid
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>>9050552
Yeah I know, but it just sucks when everyone around you is changing and doing stuff while im just posting on 4chan
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>>9050560
Then stop posting on 4chains. This place won't do you much good.
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>>9050559
Hope you get aids /b/ro ;^)
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>>9050539
But what happens when she leaves and I'm devastated?
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>>9050528
i forced myself to go even though i didn't want to. when you feel just as uncomfortable in social situations as you do thinking about not being social, there no reason not to be uncomfortable both places!

You're only seventeen, i can only say its gets easier. Girls get easier to get as they grow older. without thinking about about you will problaby get with some girls. you dont have to care. When you get laid you will probably just as before.
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>>9050528
dude you should go to bars, even better when there's a dj or a band playing a genre you're interested in, i started going when i was 16 and met great people, i must've been to 5 high school parties max.
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>>9050453
man i share ur feel, asked a gril out today, she just said 'no' dont really know how to handle it tho
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i want a bitch with a big ass to sit on my face and start farting like crazy
Ive seen a fuck ton of porn dawg
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>>9050528
I'm a tad older than you are, and I just went to my first party. I recommend it.

The only cool thing about it is the tight knit atmosphere. Sure, maybe a few people showed up that you didn't know, but all you have to do is tell them your name and shake hands. You're all best friends for that one night. You're all at the same party on your own trip. You won't really understand until you go to one for yourself.

The good thing about it is that it's your night.

Really though, don't get yourself down about something so silly. You haven't been to a party. So what? Don't get sad about it. That's a daft idea. If you want to go to one so badly, then go,.
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why do only slight fat girls seem to go after me?
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>>9050584
when you get rejected by a girl there is nothing else to do than going after another girl, and to throw the old one out
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you are me last year
but i'm still a virgin
now i'm in college and everyone in my classes are 21+ while i've just turned 18 and can't really go anywhere for the next 3 years, but i'll have my aa and bs by then
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>>9050577
life will go on
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>>9050596
i know that u right, but i really liked that girl and it feels bad to recognize that she is not interessted in u besides a shallow friendship
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>>9050563
maybe he likes posting on 4chan, turbonerd.
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>>9050528
>thats lifeee... so social...
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how 2 get confidence to talk to girl?
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>>9050612
are you actually good friends, or you did you just know her as like shallow friend and thought "i gonna hit that". Be honest, the answer might surprise you.

now when you have been rejected you probably feel like you were closer than you were. dont lie to yourself

>>9050639
there is no reason why shouldn't be able to talk to girls. just think about girls as regular humans. because that what they are! You don't have to give a shit, just talk. it mostly doesn't matter what you talk about, it only awkward if you find it awkward.
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>>9050577
You'll hate yourself more while living with regret than the alternative.
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>>9050664
i cant talk to guys either
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>see qt boi
>feel sad when I see his gf is a pudgy basic bitch
also
>tfw go to a concert last night and flirt with a blonde 6'4" qt
>ask him why he has his hood up when he has such nice hair
>he giggles
>tfw don't know if he's gay or not since his other 2 friends are obviously gay
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>>9050664
hm i mean we not close friends, but i see her every day in shool, she is always really nice to me and we seem to get along very well...but she said no anyways
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>friend is drunk
>puts his arm around me and tells me how brave I am because my dad died 4 years ago
>asks me how he died
>tell him he killed himself (money troubles)
>he starts crying
>I start crying

damn man
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I hate threads like these.
Nobody wants advice, they just want to tell you why your advice is bad.

Everybody will say "but that's only your experience it's not like that for everyone!"
seemingly oblivious that same mentality holds true to any advice they have to offer as well.

Or you say something about a generalization and get instantly labeled as a PUA.

or you say you do ok with get girls and have a lot of experience but the only possible way to prove it is to upload a pic that must meet /fa/s high standards because the only way you can be successful with girls is if /fa/ says you look good.

One hundred percent honesty:
I read Book of Pook and it changed my life.
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>will never be /fa/ because I'm a poorfag for life
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>>9050584
what did you say to her
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>>9050702
true
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>>9050453
Are you autistic? Why would you feel lonely from seeing a beautiful girl? I don't see the connection.
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>>9050702
>me-mes interest me
>i am the me-me master
your advice sucks kid
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>>9050577
"It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." - pigfuck, seasoned cryptozoologist

But seriously, you can just post about it in a feels thread. It'll be alright.
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>tfw never kissed a girl
>went out on a date today with a qt
>it went really well and when it came time to part i could see that she wanted to kiss
>i just hugged her and said goodbye
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>>9050730
Dude, you put her down. Why did you do that? You're a fucking douchebag and you don't deserve her. If you don't like her, don't ask her out you faggot.
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>>9050583
bars at 17? where do you live?
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>>9050735
i do like her a a lot but i was crippled by fear
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>>9050713
Yeah im autistic
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>>9050577
One key to a successful relationship is something i rarely see people talk about here:
Never make a relationship a big part of your life.
If you NEED a relationship, you are destined to end up miserable by the end of it. You need to get to a place where you have a life outside of a relationship, and let a girl become a PART of your life.

It is never easy to break up or be broken up with, but nothing hurts worse than when you had your entire life invested and attached to a girl. Keep your relationship a minor part of an already somewhat fulfilling life and you'll have lots of success with dating.

No matter what anybody says, the person who cares the most has the least power, and therefore the most to lose. You can cry about that concept all you want, but anybody with half a brain or shred of experience knows it is true.
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>>9050740
Why don't you think about how she feels instead of being so absorbed by your own irrational fear of rejection? You said you noticed she wanted to kiss you. What the hell man?

She was brave enough to show her interest and you were the one who rejected her. What do you think she's thinking about you right now? "Why did Anon do this? Is he just toying with my emotions? Does he not like me?"

You'd better fucking kiss her next time you see her faggot.
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>>9050753
very tru

luke is that you
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>>9050753
Great advice. Thanks.
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>>9050759
i will for sure.
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>>9050708
i casualy asked her if she wants to join me for some sushi in the near town...her response was rather quick, she just saied no and when i asked why, she saied she didnt have time even tho i did not say on wat day :(
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>>9050689
can you talk to cats? then talk like that
>>9050713
I dont think so, maybe. its weird i know. when i see a perfect grill i usually think "why am i not with some like that" or "i could never get someone like that" etc. I think i am feeling jealousy, of not being with a pretty giril? or maybe its because i, myself is not a pretty girl. i dont know
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>>9050591
because your ugly
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>>9050753
you're right. lol @ virgin neets who think getting a gf will magically solve all of life's problems (lack of social skills, money, taste in fashion)
>>9050778
don't worry about it. you're the prettiest and you know it :^)
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Anyone else play out little scenarios in their head where they see a pretty girl and then imagine dating her, arguing about stupid shit, cuddling, going on trips etc..

I do it all the time, but lately I've been trying to avoid it because It feels kind of schizo when I get really deep into my thoughts, like it almost feels real....
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>>9050791
If a girl is nice to me only for a brief moment like at the drive thru or something, I imagine if she likes me and what it would be like dating her and shit

I only have to be shown the smallest bit of niceness for me to be interested in a girl like that if they're half decent looking
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>>9050789
>getting a gf will magically solve all of life's problems (lack of social skills, money, taste in fashion)

it does in a way tho, especially for that kind of people

too bad it's basically escapism
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>>9050547
Lies
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>>9050799
>it does in a way tho, especially for that kind of people
But the thing is, it isn't healthy or realistic. It is setting themselves up for failure because when she's gone, they have even less than they did before.

A guy in that state shouldn't be in a relationship because he can't be in control of it. I know it's possible to be in a "good" relationship under those circumstances, but too much depends on HER. If she wants it, she gets it, if she moves, you move, if she says "no" you don't get it. You have nothing - you don't even have control over your life. You'll make so many compromises for a girl who couldn't and wouldn't ever do the same.
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Been lonely as fuck recently, today some qt tall girl, 6 foot (my fetish) asks to come see me

All I can think about is fucking her from behind and finishing all over her face tbh, I hope I don't spaghetti
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>start taking a greater interest in how I dress
>regularly lurking /fa/ during summer
>conscious of other peoples fits
>school starts
>notice v effay asian qt in a couple of my classes
>constantly want to talk to her and compliment how she dresses
>tfw no friends
>it would just be me awkwardly trying to talk to her from the time she leaves class to when she sees her friends
>still not effay cause no moneys
>always want to cop shit so I can gain confidence and talk to her
>know that that wouldn't solve my problems
>always think that I'm uninteresting and ugly and constantly beating myself up because of it
days consist of schoolwork, /fa/, and crying listening to slowcore
>tfw deep down I know I could get her if I just tried
I feel empty
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>ex gf dumped me months ago
>move to other side of the world
>still not over her
>still fall on my face when I try to get other girls
>fast lane to dying alone
>can't see myself loving anyone intimately ever again
>can't get a dog

I need a roof
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>>9050840
suffering is the path to effaydom
just get your hygiene on check and make loads of money, then get taste after you have money to actually buy clothes
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>>9050799
No, it doesn't. People like that are never happy with what they have, or who they are.

I think many of us experience the same thing, at least in a less emotional way, with clothing. You're not satisfied with your Levi's, so you go for raws, you're not satisfied with those either, and you blow hundreds on vintage Japanese selvedge, slubby shadow denim, persimmon hand-dyed cotton, yet you're still looking for more. Sure, you can gain temporarily satisfaction or fulfillment after you hit that "buy" button, but are you still going to be as happy the next day?
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>>9050797
yeah exactly, and I of course know it's not true but I get deep into my own imagination and it's annoying.

Sometimes I expand the stories to include myself dying in an accident and the girl receiving the bad news and mourning me at a funeral . I honestly don't think it's healthy haha
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>>9050850
hm
this is similar to me
mine was slightly more than a year ago
and I moved to other side of the world too
funny how about 3-5 months after break up I was almost over her
and then it returned
and it's still here
what do we do mate
what do we do
I cant get a dog in my position either and I considered it
probably will try to cop another gf
but its so hard cause I've gone to such level of autism in the last year.
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>>9050860
It's daydreaming and escapism. Like I have daydreams where I am a rock star or a famous actor or a billionaire or that I am friends with movie stars and party on their yachts. I also have fantasies of having a gf and stuff where I do things with her etc

I think it might be unhealthy but it makes me happy for that brief moment like fapping does. I've had weird daydreams like you where I die and the gf mourns me or where she dies and I mourn her. Sometimes it's where she or I go missing and then afterwards we are reunited

I think it just comes down to wanting to be loved, which is why you have the daydream where you are dead and she is mourning you. You want to know that you are special to someone and that she will miss you when you're gone. I think we just want to feel loved and that we matter is all
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>>9050862
it sucks because I've only met one girl who I thought could've really taken her place, and that girl totally fucked me over and ended up with some skinnyfat waste. it's really too bad. I'm just gonna keep trying to contribute actual good things to people around me and hope my luck turns and I find some contention with life again.
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>>9050868
Damn, not the guy ur talking to but I do this a lot. Sometimes I've daydreamed about being in a bad accident and that girl I like coming to visit and everyone feeling sad. I think its a narcissisism thing.
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>want to buy clarks desert boots
>see this video

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_xjLDIUAllg

Goddamn it
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>>9050880
Could be some narcissism but it could be that's the only scenario you can picture where the girl would come and give you attention. Then you might daydream of you getting together

I've had daydreams where the girl in in an accident and I come to her aid then visit her in hospital and then we get to spend time together. It's just an excuse for me to spend time with her rather than asking her out and possibly facing rejection
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>>9050856
Oh god I know this feel too fucking well.

>Spend 3k on computer
>Happy for a few weeks
>Rarely use it now
>Buy 3k on guitar
>Rarely play it

God why
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>tfw your friend tells you a 9/10 girl at your school said shed hook up w/you
>tfw you know nothing will ever come of it
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>>9050895
whose fault is that?
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Am I the only one who truly doesn't give a shit about having a girlfriend but enjoy when girls pay attention and show interest on me? I rarely happens but when it does I always fuck it up on purpose by acting autistic as fuck (on purpose) or being an asshole, I fucking enjoy seeing how far I can take it before the girl realizes I'm a fucking weirdo and stops talking to me, I do this because I really could care less if she becomes my girlfriend or not, it's like a game and I enjoy it.
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>>9050902
Mine you dumb fuck. That's what makes it worse
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>>9050902
Hers for being a slut
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>>9050907
l0l ur cool d00d
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>>9050529
Lacuna Inc.

They have a valentine's day special
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>tfw narcissism and feel better than anyone else and always do things for my own gain.

Feels good man.
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>>9050892
You're right. It sounds cheesy, but real happiness does come from within.
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>>9050914
lol thx m8
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>learn beautiful qt blonde blue eyes girl
>friend knows her brother, tells me she should never had a friend or has any right now
>talk to her, she is shy
>tfw know nothing about her
>tfw met at the friend's Birthday, even danced like autists to this kinect game
I don't know guys, I'm retarded.
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>>9050691
>take her man

>ask him if he thinks some random girl is cute
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Ok somebody pls respond:

>went out with a girl from February to end of April
>had anorexia
>things were hard
>looking back, I was a Shithead, I complained and got angry because something wouldn't fit her(too big), when she was already so bad about her size
>we broke up in a weird way
>she still reads my snapchat stories
>don't follow each other on Instagram
>still she likes my photos occasionally
>I think I love her still
>we lost our virginities to each other
>i feel like she still feels something for me
>her little sister sent a snapchat from her phone to me once, she was a beautiful little girl (no /b) always used to say me and her sister would get married

Maybe because it's late and I'm listening to Yiruma im just sad and shit, but is it worth just maybe saying hello again? Just trying once, one afternoon? Idk, I've never felt this feel towards anyone.
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>>9050949
>>>/adv/

Fucking normalfag
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>>9050949
Yes, do it before you regret it for years.

Beleedat
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>>9050911
so do something you fucking pussy :))

PS my question was rhetorical, you dumb fuck
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>>9050453
>dont look at said girl
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>tfw friends think it's weird when I am laughing at plebs when we chill.
>tfw I have to contain myself bc they think im a fag bc of this
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>>9050892
>buy 260$
>don't play often because school
>feel happy when I do
it's about what the object means not how much it cost you
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LuyMicRUUnw
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>>9050949
I don't think you should message her. I fully understand the desire and rationale that makes you consider it, and i've been there numerous times myself. But you know that she is in a different place, and you are in a different place. Even if she still had feelings for you, you would NEVER be able to get back the original spark when things were fresh and fun between the two of you. There will ALWAYS be the memories of the fucked up and bad aspects of the relationship, which neither of you will be able to forget or truly forgive. You've seen how it ended up once already. Plus, there is the underlying problem that YOU can't get anyone else and will always fall back to her, which will subconsciously always make her think of you in a bit of a pathetic light, to simplify things.

Saying "hi" opens the door, but it will only confuse and make things worse. It's better to just let her fade gradually. You may have good memories of playing with Pokemon toys when you were a kid, but playing with them now would only be out of nostalgia, or failure to adjust to adulthood.

You may regret not doing it, but you may also regret doing it. I think the BEST option is to not do it, and feel confident you are acting in your best interest. There will always be a "what if" no matter what option you choose, which is why your best option is always what's in your best interest and in this case it's finding the strength to move on into the future. Let the past be the past.

>>9050959
>adv
never under any circumstances
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>>9050453
Stop being a faggot.
/thread
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>barely ever have real crushes on girls
>when I do I can't keep them
>just have shitty drunk one night stands or fuck buddies every now and then
>haven't even had one of those in like 4 months

I've lost my mojo /fa/
Moving back into my parents' after graduating was the worst thing I've ever done for myself
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>>9051004
But when you move back out again, I bet you will get your mojo back. That's how it happened for me.
I moved out after high school, life was good
moved back in with parents, life sucked
moved into apartment, life was great and better than ever
moved to college, things were ok
moved back in with parents, life turned to shit
moved into my own place, life is good again
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>>9050996
Wow, thank you for the great response.

I've been with a few girls since, Im meeting another tomorrow, but I've always had this feeling for her since we broke up, and i think she does too. When I meet these other girls, nobody seems interesting enough, not nice enough, tbh im a complete twat to most people, without wanting to sound too edgy I honestly care about nobody, but she's different, I don't want to seem desperate, but she's always trying to get my attention, I feel by saying hi I'm just giving an answer to her attempts, because she also knows I've seen other girls.
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>>9050850
whered you get that pic from? I thought id never see it again.
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>>9050777
Did you just walk up and like, "Hey wanna grab some sushi in "x" town"

That's aspy as fuck you don't just go 0 to 100
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>>9050453
w2c?
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>>9051010
thanks for the support anon, I'm glad your life is good again
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>>9051031
>you don't just go 0 to 100
A lot of us are too nervous so we have no idea how to ask a girl out. You're meant to talk to them first and shit but I think we're so nervous we just want to get it over and done with so we ask them out before we say or do something really awkward. Often this won't work because the girl doesn't feel comfortable yet to go out with us, but we're just trying to get through the conversation as quickly as possible
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>>9051030
i forget, had it saved for a while
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>>9050907
Keep telling yourself that you act autistic on purpose. It seems to be masking your crushing loneliness well
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>>9051023
I'm in the same situation as you, except with minor differences of course. I know exactly what you mean. What we had with our girl was something strong, and special, and no matter what girl I hook up with now I can't get that spark back. But what I realized is that it's actually for the better. I learned a lot in the aftermath of that relationship, and went through numerous changes in emotion over how I felt about it. I always want to go back to when her and I were at our happiest (or at least when I was happiest), but it could never happen. Plus, I'm a different, and better person now. I'm smarter, and I see things clearer. When she texted me after months of no contact saying "I miss you" I knew she was lying. She didn't miss ME, she missed the way she felt around me. She missed the attention I gave her and the strong bond we had. She wanted exactly what I wanted, which is something neither of us could have - a time machine.

I always wonder how she feels about me still, and I want to know what her life is like now, but at the same time, I don't. I really, really don't. I've seen the bad parts of her, and she's seen the bad parts of me. God knows I was a real dick at times in the relationships. She was great to me, but I fucked it up, and then she fucked up and we just can't go back. Relationships end, and the hardest part of life is accepting that. All that I've learned from my relationship with her has helped me to have better relationships now.

Ultimately, if she does look back at me I want her to look back at me and see someone who has gone out and lived life. I wasn't stuck in the past, trying to rebuild something. I was able to move on, and let her be, and she did the same. To try to insert myself in her life NOW, after all this time apart, all the experiences i've had, and personal gains / losses i've taken would be a huge failure, and set back. I would hope there is no place for me in her life these days, because she was able to move on.
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>Tfw I tend to dress bad.
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>>9051041
No matter where I go, no matter how bad or how good my life gets, I still end up on the Chan.
But yes, it is so relieving to move out of your parents place. I know you'll bounce back. The comforts of home are nice, but there is also all of the bad shit that comes with it. My parents aren't easy to live with, but I think it's pretty much universally accepted that, even under the best circumstances, moving out of your parents house is freeing in an unbelievable way.

My lifestyle isn't even different, but almost every single element of my life has improved for the better.
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>>9051108
I agree with you, 100%.

I'm going to use your game analogy again, but I guess it's akin to when you remember all the old grand theft auto games, finding the Easter eggs, being that age again, only to play it now, and be faced with a generally disappointing time.

The thing is, she was my first with a lot of things, first genuine girlfriend, first girl I travelled places with, first girl who we went to nice places to eat, first girl who genuinely accepted me for who I am, and didn't judge. The times we shared I'll never get back, she was my first love, still, right now I hope to see her one day and we just go from there, because my parents did the same thing, and they've been together 25 years. I'm changed now, though. Some of the times we shared were beautiful, and to dwell on them would only make me feel worse.

Although, it's a classic case of Rose tinted classes, because there were bad aspects, she was overbearing, only cared about herself and you couldn't say a thing without her going bat shit crazy. I do believe there is someone else out there for the both of us, who will help us forget the girl we're both thinking of, I need to stop seeing a girl as a goal, it never works out.

Right now, I'm off to play some old Grand Theft Auto. Thank you, anon.
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>>9051138
>My lifestyle isn't even different, but almost every single element of my life has improved for the better.
How has your life improved after moving out?

I have always wondered why so many people do it so young because it costs so much money. What actually has improved with your life?
>>
>tfw that one guy hasn't texted you in awhile
Fuck why are men so bad at texting you back,
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>>9050453
>sister notices I'm getting into fashion
>we're talking about clothes
>I tell her how common projects are my grail
>she doesn't know them, asks how much they are
>don't have heart to tell her full price
>"they're about 200"
>show her a picture of them
>"omg anon why would you spend that much for shoes that are the same as white vans"
>later show her a Rodina watch I'm interested in getting
>"why would you even get that anon? it looks exactly the same as your one"
>pic related is my watch now

why are plebs so blind?
>>
>crush on someone
>somewhat try but not very hard
>end up doing nothing about it till i don't crush anymore

i've done this multiple times too, i'm fucking retarded
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>>9051183
Iktf. Why is this relationship thing so hard.
>>
>>9051170
First off, i'm not really that young. I'm 25. I also had already experienced living on my own, barely able to make rent each month, and all that, before I ended up moving back. If you have a good relationship with your parents, maybe there is no reason to move out, but that isn't the case for me.
I was always living under fear of my parents snapping and kicking me out as they did before, for no reason, and with no warning. One thing I felt I never had living at home: control.
Or privacy.

I can't explain why I feel so much better, and I don't really like that i'm essentially wasting money by having to pay rent each month, but I think it may be as simple as knowing that I have control. Nobody can tell me what to do, and I don't need to answer to anybody. I think it's just something subconscious, like a huge weight being lifted off my back. Living with my parents just suppresses something inside.

Every thing is easier on my own, and it also makes me see more opportunity, potential and desire to see positive changes in myself.
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>>9050488

Do it. I missed my German exchange student a week before she left and we still talk two years later.
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>>9051211
Probably because you had parents that you didn't want to live with. It would be scary to live with them and fear they would kick you out

I am over 30 and still live with my parents. They treat me well so I wanted to save money by staying at home. The problem with this is that I should have moved out sooner and gained some independence. I moved out before for a year and didn't like it all that much so moved back home because it was convenient

Now I am about to move out because I don't think I can get a gf if I am still living at home
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>>9050993
What did you buy $260 with? Euro? Yen? I see you do currency trading too
>>
>>9051108
Damn. I'm not the guy you replied to, but thank you for sharing. I'm happy you're doing better now.

>>9051226
>I am over 30 and still live with my parents.
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>>9050591
because you tumblrcore af goy
>>
>>9051182
tbh I have more respect for the casio than the rodina. The rodina is tacky knockoff, at least the casio isn't pretending to be anything.

Listen to your sister more.
>>
>>9051327
b-but someone on /fa/ told me tumblrcore would get me all the qt bitches
>>
>In an extremely shitty mood
>an absolute qt bumped into me, giggles and laughs
>I flip the fuck out
>everyone around me sees
>go home sad and depressed
Some where, in a different universe, I'm happy.
>>
>>9050585
made my night
thanks anon
>>
>>9051337
not sure if joking...
>>
>>9050585
Stop man, that's not cool.
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>tfw was a player in middle school but haven't had a gf since then
>college now

still haven't found her
i half-care and half-dont
>>
>>9051354
he is right. the rodina is a chinese knockoff of a $1000 watch.

the casio is not a knockoff of anything. it is a fully realized idea. why would you settle for anything less?
>>
>qt girl talks to me
>images flash in my head of going on a date with her, kissing her, getting married, who we would invite to our wedding, what our children would look like and how many we would have, growing old together
>meanwhile irl spilling spaghetti everywhere like an autist

;_;
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>>9051362
because it is basic af
>>
>>9050529
god fucking damn this is me
>>
>>9050529
;-; im sorry anon
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>haven't seen gf in 5 months
>still another month to go
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>>9051395
Long distance relationships work, and are practical for a number of reasons.
>>
YO!

Anyone know where Cool man luke/ Starfucks went?

did he change his tumblr?

i miss that nigga
>>
>>9051399
It hasn't been too bad but recently these lonely nights are getting to me
>>
>>9051395
>5 months
>expecting she hasn't had anybody else's dick in that long ass time period
>>
>>9051408
nah i think that's pretty obvious, anon is just sad that he hasn't gotten his dick wet in all that time
>>
>>9051401
if you dont want to post it on here my dood, hit me up at my email
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>posts in feels thread
>few hours later come back
>haha look at that faggot and his problems what a bitch
>wait that's me
>mfw
>>
>>9051408
i don't date sloots m8
>>
>>9050706
being /fa/ in the real world doesnt matter to at least 90% of girls. you do you bb
>>
>tfw alcoholism.
>tfw addicted to amps.
>tfw smoke 28 cigs everyday.
>tfw every morning I have the shakes, need amps and crave cigs.
>tfw I'm just 20...
>>
>>9051410
Hehe

Trunks fakerrrr
>>
>>9051435
wut?
>>
>>9051432

you need help mate
>>
>>9051461
I need amps, amps makr me smoke, i need alcohol to sleep, after alco I crave amps and cigs, drink to sleep.

Im still functional tho
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>>9050699
Fuck your making me feel shit too

>tfw mom died when I was young
>tfw best friends mom died last year
>He turns to me for help
>I mishandle things
>He slips back into drug use, then his gf breaks up with him, then his dog dies
>I wasn't there for him and didn't even try to reach out to him

Fuck, I need a moment like what you described.
>>
>be me, be shy
>start dating girl
>dont hit it off, split apart
>stop talking, dont think of her
>don't see her around
>time goes on
>i change
>suddenly she reappears
>she changed
>start lusting after her
>see her everyday occasionally making eye contact
>don't know what to do
>its lost
>>
>>9051476
Call him NOW.
He will realise you care.
>>
>>9050753
last paragraph hits hard

the more I care about something the less power it feels I have to fix it or control it.
>>
>meet girl
>love girl
>girl now lives on the other side of the world because her family went fucking crazy or something
>she still likes me
>facebook is as close as it gets
>"fuck you" - life

also i've got the same range of mental health problems that bring most people to 4chan
>>
>>9051486
I'm scared dude, what if he doesn't care? What if he didn't even think I messed up? I haven't talked to him in months ;_;
>>
How do i know if i'm depressed?
>>
>>9051498
doesn't matter

even if he doesn't care (which he will, if he is a friend of yours, it won't matter, it really sounds like he needs the help) then you know that he doesn't and you have done you duty and gotten it off your head

pls do it, trust me
>>
>>9051401
>>9051410
please come through man, i wanna talk to you and see if you have been posting new stuff


>>9050753
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>>9051529
i took this internet test that someone posted on /fa/

http://www.depressedtest.com/
im sure it'ss 100% accurate :^)

it told me that i have cyclothymia and that actually fits quite well
>>
>>9051538
Email?
>>
>>9051540
said i was High for Major Depression... I don't want to believe that me, of all people is depressed though.. Like i used to be always the super popular happy smiley guy.. Now i'm depressed? wtf nothing even happened to me...
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>>9051538
see
>>9050996
>>9051108
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>>9051575
i have a tip so you stop being depressed anon
stop using those gay ass dots you faggot
>>
>>9051461
w2c help without getting marked as an alcoholic/addict?

When I ingest enough of them and I'm at the zone I feel like a god.

>tfw cocaine is no script-drug.
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Is it bad to msg a girl on fb if I could just talk to her at school first

idiot here
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>>9051713
Don't message her on facebook unless you've had many conversations irl

Don't even friend request her until you've had many conversations irl
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>>9051716
>tfw u never add any1 of facebook because your facebook picture looks shitty
i accept when they friend request me though so i don't seem too autistic
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>>9051724
Facebook is retarded lmao

I only use it when I can't find a party to go to or to get invites for car meets.

Using facebook as a social platform is laughably uneffay.

If you're that same guy, here's a forewarning. I don't date bitches who are all over Facebook and Twitter and Instagram and all that shit. It's a mess. Have you ever tried being friends with someone who's constantly on his phone? Imagine that, all the time, with a girlfriend.
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>>9051734
im not the same guy
i just feel bad about my shitty facebook picture
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>>9051734
yeah i only use ello.co these days
>muh privacy
#snowden
*tips tin foil fedora*
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>>9051741
>hur dur u r so euforick tip le fedildo

This joke isn't funny anymore.
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