how to take compliments on fits?
hey /fa/ been browsing for a year and finanly have a pretty good wardrobe, somewhat mfa tier but hints of /fa/ mainly monochrome with some tech.
>standing with group in tech theater class
>notice qt staring
>i overhear her talking about me
>thought she was being ironic or some shit but she was actually mirin my fit
>i ask her why shes talking about me
>she ends up saying some shit like "why cant more guys dress like anon"
>and then she fucking disected my entire outfit infront of everyone and was saying a bunch of shit.
>all i said was thanks
>didnt really know what else to say.
what do /fa/
how do i take compliments
i felt cornered
didnt know what else to say other than thanks.
>i wasnt even dressed that good. clarks pinroll tapperd jeans black shirt and a green bomber.
I'm in software engineering and 99 percent of the guys wear basic bitch shit like Aeropostale with the logo prominently on display, or old Iron Maiden tour shirts
There is nobody around to be 'mirin my style, fugggg
I get lot of compliments from girls, some times i caught them mirim, sometimes they come up and tell me. My general answer is "thanks i appresiate that".
being black and effay is the best thing, since you got no competence, and it's rare to find a black effay guy
she has been acting weird for the past 4 weeks
saying random shit like
and just playing a bunch of weird ass fucking games.
thought she was being ironic since i use to be pretty unaesthetic fat overweight shit haircut, and ive done a complete 360.
>tfw left my fat unaesthetic shit body
>still havent left the mental state of it.
wasnt really just a casual hey
i was walking in the hallway and i was noticeably in front of her and she says my name once, didnt hear, then pratically screams it and i turn around and she just says "hey"
you could be hitting that right now
at this very moment
instead of posting feels
ok need more advice like this, a little vague.
dont take advice from 4chan
log off, grab some coffee or whatever and think about it yourself
if you need a stranger online to give you a list of things to do and set your behaviour up for you you're not going to mature, you're not going to develop any problem solving skills for life
You have a brain, use it
Go read some ayn rand
subconciously i know you are right.
i just like using 4chan to throw out and play around with ideas.
you were doing good till Ayn rand, what the fuck lol
also your principle of not taking advice from strangers also applies to (shitty) books
op my two cents are to just complement them back. find something you like about her outfit or hair or whatever and let her know about it. if you dont want the focus on you, redirect it positively. being able to take a compliment humbly yet confidently is a skill that usually involves reciprocating. even if your thought process is "this outfit isnt even that good I dont deserve a compliment" youre still being self centered and most people won't stay interested in that kind of false modesty for long. being humble means realizing you deserved the compliment and that they have something worth complimenting too.
and dont feel pressured to keep the conversation going. if you force it youre going to feel awkward and probably fuck up. be ok with silence and let the convo flow naturally
u talkin shit about my hunny ayn-kun?
kek top pleb
u a master or a slave bruh?