>tfw i could pull some cool fits
>if i had money
>tfw buy everything at mango/zara/h&m/cos/boutiques and still manage to look good
Stop whining. If you look like shit it's not because of lack of money, it's because you're shit at dressing yourself.
>style hair perfectly
>be outside for 45 seconds
>wind completely fucks it up
EVERY FUCKING DAY
>spend copious amounts of money on clothing
>wait up to two weeks for it to arrive
>it doesn't fit
It doesn't happen often, but when it does I feel like dying.
I'm not a tranny or anything but sometimes I wish I was a girl so I can dress like one. They have so many options. Yet all I see is yoga pants baka, at least they make their asses look good bc style wise they suck
women clothes definitely have more options but i feel like whenever im looking for something there always one small detail or some bedazzled crap that ruins it that's why i like the simplicity of male clothing.
can't even shop at the mall anymore, everything a fucking crop top and has slits and holes somewhere
i know i sound like a grandma but yea
>tfw i keep thinking about losing weight (80 kg/176 lbs at ~187/a little under 6'2) but i'm plagued by a never ending appetite
>tfw i sneak into the kitchen at night and eat slices of cheese because i can't find any better food
i sometimes put ketchup on them
i wish there was some kind of not terrible-tasting food that didn't make me fat so i could always eat something and be content
why can't i stop trying to fill the void
>stopped talking a fukboi that has been saving all of his money to buy Rick
>started talking to a qt that already owns Rick
It's a good feel, senpai.
>tfw incredible loneliness even when surrounded by people
>tfw anxiety gets insufferable at times
>tfw been putting off classes more and more since the semester started
>tfw no drive to do anything lately
>tfw into someone but don't know how to make any moves or what I should be doing
>tfw don't know how to approach people who might show interest in me
>can't into the social world at all
>haven't hung out with anyone outside from classmates in months
>tfw my interests aren't filling the void anymore
>tfw eating disorder
>can't even shop at the mall anymore
Maybe its worse for women but I cant stand to shop there as a guy either - everything they sell here looks like its designed to appeal to a seven year old.
And its so hard to find quality basics. I dont know if its just an Aus thing but I hate how hard it is to find regular cotton Ts - everything is shitty thin clingy form hugging polyster or something called 'modal' - every T has some shitty graphic on it - its always too big or cloy. I also dont like the idea of owning something I might see someone else wearing.
Cotton exists but it shouldnt be this difficult to find, at least now I know where they sell it I dont need to go anywhere else.
you don't even need to go as far as wearing a dress, you can be pretty subtle though it helps if you have the body. For example The Garden.
This being said, you will attract attention and be laughed at - but at least you can write it off as 'fashion'.
I don't know what I want to do in fashion anymore. For some reason not knowing and not wanting to make my next "move" kind of depresses me. Does this mean I don't like fashion anymore?
I've finally settled into doing my "thing", which is in no ways original.
>tfw weak chin but god tier cheeckbones
>tfw people are always raving about my hair but I'm so fucking bored with it
>due to the shit jaw there's not a lot I can do hairstyle wise
>tfw get mild acne from dairy and I fucking love dairy products
>tfw cops ain't doing it anymore
>tfw no cash to cop expensive pieces
>tfw not living in a world where everyone is dressed in slackercore and Japanese comfycore
>tfw biggish ears
>living in lithuania
>anxiety and loneliness
>lost a lot of weight (and friends)
>not fitting in the "basic bitch" style
>favorite guy from /fa/ deletes hus tumblr
>over the time I managed to get a crush on him
>he lives in america therefore frim the chance 0 to ever talk to him it's now -1
>no one to talk to for straight 4 years
>never had a boyfriend
> always obeying parents, never going partying
>literally listening to "never meant" for 3 months straight
>the overall stress
>suicide thoughts since no one is really going to care
>havent used vocal chords at all in 2016
>feel like ive become so disconnected from the social world that i will never make it back in
>the loneliness preoccupies me 24/7 and i am in constant despair
>tfw would literally be male-model tier if my jaw wasn't so fucking weak
asthma as a kid brought about mouth breathing, it fucked me over big time. I only mouth breathe when I sleep now, which has decreased what excess damage could be done, but still nothing's worse than having a little baby chin.
>overweight (but still skinnier than I ever have been at least)
>addicted to nicotine
>few friends, only 3 I genuinely like but they're all from different friendship groups
>girl I've fallen for has bf
A-at least I dress okay. At least things are getting better, I'm headed in a better direction than I was a few years back.
>dont like the idea of owning something I might see someone else wearing
fucking this, i remember as a teenager i would shop at Topman™ and saw some dude wearing the same thing as me around town and i wanted to hang myself. Still see the guy every now and then, he still wears it.
>built decent minimalist wardrobe before
>havent bought anything besides t shirts and socks underwear for 3 years.
>19 when i moved out 22 now
>everything has holes in it.
>still looks dope.
yeah, that's shitty. i always get way more attention when i'm with somebody. what the fuck is wrong with girls that they chase guys in relationships when there are perfectly good single guys available?
Cali weed is so cheap. Wax is like 20 bucks a gram. Places do buy one get one free all the time....
Druggy life hack i guess. U can spend like 40 bucks and get high for weeks depending on your tolerance
>tfw never satisfied
>tfw see someone wearing a better fit than you so you go home and buy a grail out of spite
>tfw lost down the rabbit hole of finding weirder, more unique garments to be less normie
>tfw you dress in full Rick, Julius, Obscur, Haider, Ann D, etc and any sense of normality has gone
>tfw people stop and stare
>tfw becoming detached from clothing reality
Tfw spend more time making sure I look good then working on my conversation skills.
Tfw no streetwear queen
Tfw all my own fits not stolen from /fa/ make me look like a gay
I suck at everything I do now. I used to excel in most fields i layed my hands onto. University is going shit, I'm in the better half, but not among the very best, like I've always been. Since I want to get into research that is sort of a requirement. I feel useless, desu and don't now if I choose the right path for me. My grade is currently on a GPA around 2.9 to 3.1, although I worked my ass off. I'm doing something wrong and I don't now what.
>participating in a date auction tomorrow
>have to decide a song that will play during my walk-up
I cannot think of anything good at this time, my hard drive crashed a month ago and ever since, I have lost my bearings on good music. What would be a /fa/ song to go up to familia?
>0/10 meme rating
While dressed in full SLP with makeup to make it look like you havent slept in weeks
>10/10 meme rating
While dressed in African mercenary core
If you regret it, probs not
But if its a case of "I could be single and jerking it again" or "At least Im getting sex on the regular", its probably best to go for the latter
Its sad, but its sad either way. And at least one of them is sex
>tfw ride a motorcycle
>can't wear white shoes without getting the left one dirty from gears
>leaves the awful smell of the exhaust on my clothes, if I wear a backpack it seems the backpack absorbs a lot of it but still smell like it
how do I fix last one?
>ketchup on cheese
Seriously mate eat cherry tomatoes or raw carrots or got to the asian story and buy konnyaku anything (little to no calories). Or buy a satisfiying flavored infusion and drink it (without sugar oc) everytime you crave food. As a general rule drink water instead of binging.
"So let's just pretend
Everything and anything
Between you and me
Was never meant"
That's how it goes. One of those ironic things that's always happened and always will.
However you can use it to your advantage by having a girl friend (not GF) that you go places with.
Ive been told im good looking by many people including girls that are way out of my league. I dont understand it cause my gf just broke up with me about a month ago and she was honestly below average. I cant get good looking girls even though i have good features except for my odd nose.
>tfw eating disorder
>tfw i started smoking more (cigarettes and weed)
>tfw depressed but friends are too stupid to realize and help
>tfw most girls are boring
if you want to get girls easily, by simply relying on your looks, you'll never get a girl that's in or above your league (looks-wise). you'll get girls that are below your league but still have some good features. it should be obvious why that happens, but a basic explanation is that your looks raise your value and a girl in a lower league doesn't expect the same high value that a hotter girl would.
to get hotter girls you have to raise your (perceived) value by increasing your game. your looks will always help, but girls have a lot more options the hotter they are. your looks aren't as valuable to them.
I feel like I would actually care about my fashion sense if I had friends or a girlfriend, you know, a reason to actually care about it. A reason to care about my appearance
It isn't like I'm a complete slob but just nothing stands out for me. Just a t-shirt or button up shirt, jeans/pants and sneakers kind of guy. I try to just blend into the background because I'm pretty ugly/weird looking (also look really jewish) and socially awkward
And it also sucks because I'm really quite skinny so if I just worked out even a little bit, I could get a decent body and probably be able to pull off a lot of the styles on here, but instead i just remain a toothpick armed barrel shaped manlet aspie
>everything is shitty thin clingy form hugging polyster or something called 'modal'
>something called modal
>tfw realisation I put so much effort into my dress because of my awful self esteem
>awful self esteem but still incredibly vain
>tfw would trade not caring about my dress for average self esteem
>attractive people can wear almost anything and still pull it off/look good in it.
>Have bad scoliosis so I look like a monster in anything
I'm not so surprised that you're all depressed. You easily succumb to fashion advertising, that exploits your deepest desires, connecting their products to them.
You are subliminally told that you will not have good personal relationships unless you look good, and they tell you that their clothes will make you look good. They tell you that you are not happy, and it's because you do not look like the celebrities they tell you to idolise, but if you just spend a little more, they can bring happiness.. and you believe them.
Only when it gets down to it, commodities can never alone bring you happiness. And you're left with an unfulfilled promise, empty pockets, and still a desire to buy more.
Being interested in fashion is fine, but to be happy you have to stop being such rampant consumers. Realise that what you want is close personal relationships with friends, family, and intimate ones. Clothes will only go so far to bring you that, and I imagine you have all spent enough on clothes that it is just diminishing returns now. Focus on doing something that truly fulfils you, rather than spending so much time and money on superficial things. I expect to get mad hate for this post, but if it affects just one of you, it's worth it.
>have very thin skin in rectum
>ass constantly bleeds after wiping after shit
>always have blood in underpants
>mom thinks i'm gay now but doesn't say it outwardly especially because I wear nice clothes and don't have a gf
The other day she asked me what I thought of her friends gay son. wtf.
Are you me, anon?
I think I might've made her even more confused when I actually brought over a girl for the first time like a month ago, who kept fondling my dick and kissing me any chance she could get. It fucking sucks that I actually have to behave this way just so my mother wouldn't be so ashamed of me...
I just want to focus on school, get a degree and move out. Then I can start focusing on relationships. Besides, what girl gets turned on by a 25 year old loser who still lives at home? No wonder I never bring any home...
You're not wrong, it feels like 90% of this board are just clueless idiots scrambling for the approval of each other instead of living a bit.
You should probably see a doctor about the bleeding.
Are you studying while living at home? My mum persuaded me to do this but personally I found it too difficult to be so isolated all the time at home, especially in a socially orientated art school. I failed the first time, but i've moved out now and trying to get back to uni.
Not the other guy but thanks. Trying to build up a list of active and good stores around Aus. Atm favourite place to shop is Incu, have one a minute walk from where I work in Sydney.
>Are you studying while living at home?
Yeah. I just need to pass one more exam and get a steady job, then I can take a loan and move out. I've been working before and have ~$50k saved up which should be enough to get into the housing market, though prices are rising to ridiculous levels here.
It has its downsides living at home while studying, like a lack of social life. But I really want to move to a nice apartment in a nice place instead of some ghetto where I'd get stabbed to death the first week, so I'm hoping my sacrifice will have been worth it in the end.
thanks man. i was actually thinking about making a thread about it, but didn't know how to address it, but this article on the sticky ( http://tuxbell.com/index.php/Stores_In_Australia ) is long out of date. perhaps get some other aussies together, update it with more stores, have a checklist for which stores are in which states or something similar.
also maybe build a masterlist of international stores (stuff like asos and urbanoutfitters come to mind) that ship to australia.
thanks senpai, if this thread's still up reply to this post with the new thread ID and ill suss it
otherwise ill prob see the thread anyway, make sure to put something obnoxiously australian in the op picture
shit never even knew about any of these places