Can I still be effay if I don't own a single pair of heels? Is there any way not to look childish/trashy/disabled if I show up to a formal event in flats?
Height is not an issue.
Are you that guy from a few months ago who was weirdly anal about the term heels? Heels in this context clearly refers to high heeled shoes. Op obviously didn't mean literally every type of shoe in existence with a heel.
D'orsay flats on the dressier side seem to be typically recommend to women who don't want to wear heels to formal occasions but as long as it's not ballet flats or something entirely inappropriate then it shouldn't be too jarring. The things to keep in mind would just be that if you're going to be in photos to make sure your feet are positioned well or you'll look like you have flippers next to anyone in heels.
Alexa Chung seems to wear flat shoes to formal events fairly often, so you could take a look at how she manages it, pic related.
Brogues or Suede and you'll be just fine, darling
wear flats and them dangle them like this everywhere you go
I am probably in the minority of men, but I don't find anything about heels attractive or sexy. I just dont like how it makes calves look and most women cant walk in heels properly anyways. I honestly prefer plain or simple flats instead.
if you're super tall then I get not wanting to wear heels. I would say probably just got for kitten heels, more comfortable and give very little height while still having the appeal of normal heels.
You can be effay. Very few guys here wear heels, so I don't see how there is a double standard with what is effay. Besides, effay isn't real, it's an imaginary orthodoxy, one of 4chan's favorite things.
I've always thought heels are the definition of trashy.
OP you could be effay but coming here and asking makes you forever non-effay. So fuck off and do whatever you want. Jesus christ.
Ayy lmao, actually tranny here, I have more pairs of heels than my real grill friends/relatives.
All they wear are hi-tops and flats, the older women have some stuff they pull out for special occasions but they're fat and old and can't wear them like before.
idk how much shoe stuff I have left. most of my webms are of naked soles and/or footjobs.
this is a different woman.
true but i wanted to at least try to be on topic.
the flip flops woman and the flats woman are different people
but idk what else to tell you. she's not fat. she's actually quite thin and lanky.
well idk what images you're looking at but her calves and her feet are basically skin and bone. anyway, liking feet isn't stupid don't say stuff like that.