Female asking, i don't like wearing jeans this way, but i see a lot of people having their jeans up their butt, what do you think?
High riders that go up to your navel are pretty hipster. I think it's an old school look because girls wanted to show of their asses before skinny jeans and leggings were a thing. Now a days, it's like a flash back type look that can make you seem mature yet flirtatious if you build the rest of your look around it. Obviously your skinny jeans wont work for this look OP.
neither is being unattractive. seriously, who hurt you so deeply to think a basic bitch look is for whores?
I say go for it, OP, only if you're in shape, the right shape, and it looks good on you (you should probably go try some on at a mall, get a feel for what they'll look like on you before you actually buy into them)