Role-Reversal and Gentle Femdom General: We don't always need a set edition edition
>preferably recommendations that are on-topic
>What is Role Reversal?
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New doujin list
Rusfemanon VA work:
and drawfags welcome!
My manager is my mistress (non lewd)
"I don't bite"
Smolbrit: Little Soldier Lady
Smolbrit's fashion guide:
Escape form the Bermuda triangle:
Other: Protective Amazons
In Her Argent Embrace:
Valentine /gfd/ (Written by a 4chan writefag. Supposedly was going to be 5 parts, I only ever saw 2)
Part 1: http://pastebin.com/tW34EBHL
Part 2: http://pastebin.com/hMDENVVs
Pretty Human (Highly recommended by many): http://seafoam.pbworks.com/w/page/77839289/Pretty%20Human
Oh no! We may have to type out the whole phrase, or worse, use the catalog!
Mistress got me really into Chopin. She's got a bunch of records from her grandma. It used to be how she'd help me relax and put me to bed... some music and some light hypnosis.
Dumping to assert this as the real thread.
It'd be really nice if these two actually had a gentle relationship. Most of the pictures just make me sad for what could've been.
Gotta save some images for later, so my part is done.
fucking forreal man. like, i could even get off to some of it but theres a limit on how brutal you can be with the boy and it was surpassed
My favorites are Somei Sato, Janacek's piano work (especially On an Overgrown Path) and Sibelius.
I really need to listen to Verdi's operas. Which do you recommend?
I am currently listening to
w8, is there a legit music discussion going on here?
for Janacek, his new world symphony is fantastic and required listening. also it's hard to fuck up, so finding a good recording is easy as pie.
verdi has a fantastic requiem. if you like organs in any capacity, you owe it to yourself to check it out.
no idea if it's better for you or not, but i guess that makes sense considering the way fish hatcheries vs fresh-caught work
can stuff tastes more or less the same if you put the same stuff in it, but there's slimy bits, and dry bits, and sometimes crunchy bits... yech. to each their own, i guess. tuna's tuna, and tuna people share an inseparable bond :^)
i do wonder if there's a better brand or something, though. never tried a bunch of different ones like with pouch tuna
Chopin is never a bad choice, especially for solo piano pieces. I don't watch solo stuff enough any more since I stopped playing. I supposed it makes me a little jealous, but that's pretty damn silly, isn't it?
Thanks for the link, Anon, saving it for later. The Wikipedia page on the composer seems really interesting. I've watching a lot of Japanese Shakespeare but not a lot of classical music.
My three favourite Verdi operas, in negligible order, are Otello, Macbeth (I warned you I'm a Shakespeare nerd), and Aida. I know they're his big three, but in opera they've gotten to be the most popular because they're good. What sets Verdi apart for me is that he excels at both music and story without compromising either. To me that's what opera is about.
Link below is one of my favourite segments of Verdi from Macbeth. It's not one of my favourite stagings artistic decisions wise (everything is just way too bright), but the vocals are solid. Spoilers I guess.
I really like the raw tuna over rice that I get from a local Japanese grocery store, but I do not really go there very often.
I only have Rigoletto, and I have been procrastinating listening to that for ages.
I love Japanese Classical music.
Sorry to hear that. I'm having a lonely night of my own. My mistress is having a really hard time right now dealing with her experiences seeking help with her anxiety. We're not really together right now but she's still someone I want to support with all my heart and it's tough to see her struggling because I know how great she can be.
I'll get to see her in a few months but only for a couple days, most likely.
Yeah, us doms aren't perfect. I'm still kicking myself over that day.
>ending scene is the whole cast doing silly dances
>he really think he can dance, is the whitest person ever but has so much confidence it works
>I'm basically opposite, so awkward that it's kinda my signature
>Sketch has everyone in office wear so he's in a full smart suit, for the closing I've unbuttoned my shirt and pulled down the undershirt a little
>keep asking him for tips throughout because I'm really hopeless
>get a drive home with everyone, crammed in the backseat with him
>my dancing was last so still kinda hyped
>get bumped against him, notice he's a little erect
>relevant info, I'm biscum and have been presenting as a lesbian for most my adulthood because I really didn't understand rr or gfd
>try to ignore it but blushing and kind of wondering what his dick looks like
>he puts a FB post up looking to borrow a certain book for exams
>I lend him the book, mark the section, and also leave his favourite chocolate bar with it
>He can't stop thanking me and leaves two of my favourite protein bars when he returns it
>Had a fucking hundred opportunities to kiss him during graduation weekend, didn't
>Now live a couple thousand miles away from him but watch video of us together way too much
Aw, that's some bitter sweet shit right there Anon. Every time I read something like that here I always wonder why you guys don't contact these former-potential-partners. It seems like the kind of thing I would do in that situation.. then again I've never actually had to do it, so maybe I'm wrong. Either way, it seems like a good idea.
Part of it is that I'm so far apart. Part of it is that he's known me as gay for so long (and I've known myself as gay for so long) it's kind of weird. Part of it is I inherently feel like he's way too good for me and he's reject me and we wouldn't be friends any more.
But part of me also sees taking him to the opera dressed to the nines and then coming home and pegging him while he pleads for orgasm while he's still in his suit jacket and tie.
I like angry girls and instantly submitting to them.
(and yea, i know the lighting sucks + clipping.)
Maybe its just me but if my dom had told me she was gay and was too shy to open up to me when she realized she was bi, but told me much later, id still take her up on dating. Thankfully my dom knew she was bi all along, and we had been friends a while b4 we started dating, so like I said it could just be me and I might be biased. good luck either way, but my gut says go for it! I mean, maybe I am just a go with the flow kinda guy but I've had many friends come out to me and its never been a big deal.
I'm a bit unwell. It might be just a cold but the feelings in my throat are awful. Does anyone have stories of women taking care of their sick pets?
I took care of mistress when she got a bad case of paroxysmal positional vertigo. That was fun, but no fun at the same time, because it really sucked to see her so sick.
Still, it was nice playing nurse for her. I like caring for people and nursing her back to health was really nice.
Nah, I definitely understand. I guess the main hurdle for me is the distance. We are both in a professional career where we can only work in one province. He had a job (and an older father he cares for) in our home province, and I'm away in another and will be for the near future. I just don't see a near future where we could be together, but that doesn't stop my stupid heart and lady bits from wanting it.
Well you could always bring it up to him I suppose? I'm from Indiana and my dom is from Arizona, we met on runescape oddly enough. we were long distance for over a year b4 I got to move in with her, but I was still in highschool and had to transfer over here, it wasn't all that difficult, but I can see how work and family can make that hard. you know your life better than I do so you know what the right call is, but letting him know probably wouldn't cause any issues, and it could evolve into something, so id say its a worthy gamble, but like I said, your life, do what your heart wants.
I'm a total puss is going to be the basic answer here. I would literally rather fight a dragon than be emotionally vulnerable. I blame my upbringing.
Yeah, that can suck. I'm really emotional but also get really guarded sometimes so I just end up coming across as wildly inconsistent as I repeatedly go 'NO I'M OKAY THIS ISN'T BUGGING ME SHUT UP"
Tsundere sub is suffering.
>Opening up about my insecurities makes me weak
Oh man you've got it bad Ontario-chan
If I were a mentally sound person I probably wouldn't be trying for the bar.
"Oh hey,all those times when there would have been sexual tension except I'm not into dudes? I may or may not have jilled it, like a lot, to memories of those moments. Also that time I popped champagne and it soaked my shirt and I you were kinda aroused but I said it was no big deal because it was like we were to bros. Hope we're still cool. I'm seeing Kinky Boots in March, you want play by play notes?"
Really? Like not even worth seeing? Because it's like the only thing playing while I'm in town.
Small town. Had weird feelings for all women and submissive guys. Didn't have a lot of info. Assumed I was just into girly guys because of the homoness. Ignored a lot of signs. Equals one maladusted adult dom.
>Garden of Words
Live Action Film:
>Witch Craft Works
>Madan no Ou to Vanadis
>Morobito: Guardian of the Spirit
>Monster Musume no Iru Ichijou
>Soredemo Sekai wa Utsukushii (The world is still beautiful)
>Akame ga Kill*
>The Pet Girl of Sakurasou*
>Danna ga Nani o Itteiru ka Wakaranai Ken
>Tasogare otome x Amnesia
>Tonari no Kaibutsu-kun
>Gekkan Shoujo Nozaki-kun
>Oji-san to Marshmallow
>Kono Onee-san wa fiction desu
>Unbalance x Unbalance
>Arakawa under the bridge
>Kimi wa Peto/Tramps like us
>Takane no Hana Nara Ochitekoi!!
>Ore x Yome
>Altina the Sword Princess
>Ane no Onaka o Fukuramaseru wa Boku
>Utsuro no Hako to Zero no Maria
>Waltraute-san no Konkatsu Jijou
*/gfd/ is not the main focus of the story. Don't read/watch it purely for the /gfd/, make sure you enjoy it first and consider the /gfd/ a bonus.
Doujin List: http://pastebin.com/BjvGSkMi
Hentai List: http://pastebin.com/jVY1dAeb
On the request of some anon in the last thread I've added Claymore, Jomurgand and Arms peddler to the list. As usual, suggestions and criticism are most welcome. With your help, we can improve the lists.
I guess it must be something about small towns, because that sounds like me in reverse.
>Really? Like not even worth seeing? Because it's like the only thing playing while I'm in town.
Just wasn't my cup of tea. I'm not really a fan of musicals at all but it was free and I didn't have anything else to do that day. Also a girl was involved.
So after stumbling across rr/gfd online, how the hell do you find a girl into this?
Went on fetlife and there's an event near me in a couple of weeks but worried if I turn up it will just be people much older than me (I'm only 20 and look even younger) or people into extreme kink and not gfd. But I don't see any other realistic way of meeting new people with these interests. Thoughts?
Sorry for asking what is probably a generic question
The way I see it, /gfd/ is both a blessing and a curse. It falls in that dark hole between normalfaggotry and fetishism, being too deviant to be normal yet being too normal to be deviant.
On the other hand, that means it's easier to "convert" normal girls. Think about it, what's easier to ask from the average woman: to have her cuddle you and treat you like a puppy and maybe start lifting and/or become the primary breadwinner, or ask her to shit on your chest?
Just avoid the term "femdom" around normies, it instantly makes most people think of whips and chains.
Nevermind. I think her relation with Nux was pretty /gfd/.
[spoiler]Sorry for posting live action pics in /d/[/spoiler]
I live in the Swedish far north, I have kind of given up hope on actually finding a real /gfd/ girl.
The small town I live in doesn't have any fetlife events and I have yet to find any women even slightly into femdom here.
Added a marker to the gfd/rr map just in case.
>Swedish far north
That explains the warm as hell setting you've set your story in.
Good work so far on that by the way, are you going to move on to anything after you're done, or is this going to be like some of the other good stories I've seen, where the author doesn't post anything else for 5+ years afterward?
>I live in the Swedish far north
That must be cold as fuck. In the far north as in near the polar circle? That must be comfy when you cuddle up against your muscular waifu's warm body, both of you sleeping naked under a thick pile of blankets to share bodyheat.
Any guys here into giantess, forced crossdressing, pegging, humiliation, being kept as a pet as well as femdom?
I'm a girl whose been wanting to roleplay keeping a micro guy as a pet/doll for awhile but am having difficulty finding a guy who shares my fetishes.
So should I forget about the FL meets and go back to looking for normies? Or do both?
And yes, I can already envisage the way I would have to go around "converting" a normie. Just have to make sure I don't end up with someone who expects me to be the Dom. Your little explanation made me laugh so hard though.
This thread is more about the relationship, social, and not-really-THAT-unusual sexual aspects of femdom.
Ear biting, romancin', etc, is more our speed.
But you might find somebody, who knows.
If that means a tall girl who towers over you, yes. If it means a skyscraper destroyer, then no.
If she's gentle
Nope nope nope nope nope
>Being kept as a pet
I'm afraid I can't really tell you what to do and what not to do. Personally I don't think fetlife has the kind of femdom most of us are looking for, but I could be entirely wrong of course. I've never been there.
Don't worry, I'll try to keep writing after the current story is done, maybe not as long stories but that depends on what people want to read.
Currently I'm not that far north, the town where I spend most of my time in is about the same latitude as Fairbanks, Alaska. Still, it gets quite cold from time to time. I really need a waifu to warm me up ;_;
If you're cool with it being just about the roleplaying I might be willing to try that out with you since I like pretty much all of those fetishes.
I'm not really open to anything more right now but I don't mind having fetish buddies.
GFD Story list:
>Under the Falcon's Wing:
>The Leprechaun's Charms:
>The Sentimental Succubus:
>A Taste for Christmas Cake:
>Wings of Desire:
>In Her Argent Embrace:
>Bringing the Heat:
>Until you are:
>My manager is my mistress:
>I don't bite:
>The Bear and the Wolf Cub:
>Pretty Human: (by Sea Foam):
>Love You to Bits!: (By SilentOtakuGirl):
>Escape from the Bermuda triangle:
Writers Digest suggests that a normal novel for adults should end up with ~75,000-100,000 words. All the currently posted chapters land at 65,000 and we're probably looking at +80,000 words before we're done. I would really love to try writing a 300,000 word epic but would probably take me close to a year.
When I'm done I'll take some requests on if there is anything people want to read more about, write some short stories from another characters POV like a Klem/Argilis /ss/ short or something like that. If there is anything anyone
I've kind of grown attached to Anya, Lum and the world in general so I'll probably revisit them or throw them into new adventures later on.
Hah, 100k would be good to me, 300k's a little heavy, maybe.
>Lum's future adventures possibly
You know what's interesting? Assuming that Lum has no way back to his world, it'd be interesting to learn how he intends to deal with gunpowder issues for the future. Those guns are waaay too useful in this world to not at least have that on his mind, long-term.
Well, assuming Anya doesn't keep herself on his mind the entire time~
good luck with THAT one sunshine. Also, I think most women would take offence to being told by their partner that they should spend more time in the gym. I think converting a woman to being more cuddly/nurturing/maternal is very doable, but most women straight up do not want to be provide for a guy or be stronger than him because that's simply not how we're socialized.
Neither of those, go to weeaboo events and look for fujoshis. If anyone loves submissive men, it's fujos. Munches are a great way to meet people if you're open to BDSM, but if it's not your thing, you're not likely to find pure gfd there.
>good luck with THAT one sunshine.
Forgive the /r9k/ for a moment, but women have spent decades feminizing the education system to the point where more women than men get a degree every year and unmarried women younger than 30 outearn their pears, yet they refuse to be the main breadwinners?
Golddiggers gonna golddig. By earning more money women did not become equal partners to men, they merely raised the standards for men. No wonder women keep wondering where the "good" men have gone. When the average woman outearns the average man (again, under 30 and unmarried), the "good" (read: affluent) men become a scarce resource.
And they wonder why I'm bitter.
Yeah, it's complete bullshit, but that's just how most women are and you aren't going to seduce them out of it with a pair of cat ears and an overactive prostate gland. It might change gradually with the current situation you've described, but it'll be slow and painful.
Women are brought up to feel like we're undesirable failures if we can't attract a man who is wealthy, physically intimidating, confident and charismatic. Some of us shake that conditioning off, but by no means all of us, and as I said in a previous thread, those of us who do shake it off usually do so through traumatic experiences with not meeting normie values and are subsequently a bit batshit. That, in a nutshell, is why /gfd/ is on /d/.
>Women are brought up to feel like we're undesirable failures if we can't attract a man who is wealthy, physically intimidating, confident and charismatic. Some of us shake that conditioning off, but by no means all of us, and as I said in a previous thread, those of us who do shake it off usually do so through traumatic experiences with not meeting normie values and are subsequently a bit batshit. That, in a nutshell, is why /gfd/ is on /d/.
That's pretty sad, but sounds very plausible. I guess you're right, we wouldn't be on /d/ if we were mainstream.
It is sad, but hopefully it will change. Changing that is a crucial part of empowering women- teaching them to value themselves based on what they achieve, not who they attract. /r9k/ doesn't want to hear it, but truly empowered and self-loving women will be in a much better position to be open-minded about power dynamics.
Well, this convo has made me feel. Not sure what I feel. But it made me feel.
Welp. Thats the sadist thing i've read today.
Time to swallow bleach.
I suppose the men that are submissive can be made to act that way, i am at least.
Its hard to act submissive infront of women in public. but then, when artifical respect is presented, like having kids or a labcoat suddenly it's not so hard, people do it often...
Thats it, i must find a dominate woman and present her with a lab coat.
Feminists (at least the mainstream ones, I know that there are feminists who are not hypocrites but they are not in any position of influence) are complete hypocrites, it's like Animal Farm, 'both genders are equal but one gender is more equal than the other', equal rights for women (forgetting the laws that discriminate against men) while maintaining female privileges. Meanwhile, men's gender roles and expectations are the same as they were a century ago. And if you point this out you get called a 'whining misogynist manbaby' or something along those lines.
You really think weeaboo events are a better opportunity? Again, you've got to identify who the fujoshis are. I'm crossplaying to London MCM in May though which is always good for attracting female attention.
Anybody else going that fancies meeting up? Would be amazing if a few people here are going too!
See, here's one thing I've never understood about this japanese art stuff...
Where the fuck do the dude's eyes always go when they draw them doing shit like this? His hair isn't -that- long... Where the fuck are his eyes?
That's not been my experience with the people I know, although it can seem that way sometimes.
The argument I've gotten from feminists is that they acknowledge toxic expectations of men and fucked up shit that happens to men, but that's not their focus right now. They're WOMEN'S advocacy groups, because they're focused on discrimination against women.
Most of them I've spoken to are totally willing to address men's rights issues... if you bring them up outside of them trying to talk about women's rights issues.
They don't not want to talk about it, they just don't want it to be used to marginalize what they're talking about or divert focus from the movement. And face it, a lot of people who bring up toxic issues for men are doing it to lessen the impact of the movement by making them seem selfish or unjustified, so it IS used as an attack - 'you don't have any right to feel bad when men can feel bad too'
It's about time and place.
A lot of bitterness here...come on guys. Think about it this way: what are you looking for in a relationship and what are you going to bring to it yourself?
Getting to be a house pet 24/7 isn't realistic. Finding a woman who earns more than you and is willing to indulge your fetish is realistic, although you need to pull your own weight.
Let me put it this way - if you're depressed (something I'm sure people here can relate to) and you try to talk to someone about how you're feeling because you're seeking empathy over a bad situation, and their immediate response is 'yeah well I had a bad day once and I'm doing fine, you just need to be more positive', that fucking sucks, right? You're looking for people to address a problem you're dealing with and you've personally experienced and their response is to invalidate your experiences and feelings because they're not unique.
That's what it's like every time someone facing discrimination gets told 'yeah, but here are all the bad things that happen to me and my group'. Your troubles are valid and there are things that need to be done for all people, but some experiences are specific to a specific group of people and those need to be addressed in a focused way instead of being made part of a globalized pity pissing contest.
/gfd/ is on /d/ because mods here are cancer and don't do their job properly
>which is always good for attracting female attention
IF, and ONLY IF, you know what suits you and you look good doing it. If you do it well, yeah, that'll attract exactly what you're looking for. I'm not going to MCM in May, but I'll be at the October one.
Except that many feminists maintain that feminism is the only gender equality movement and that if you're not a feminist you are against gender equality. Also, if feminism is focused on women's issues, then what is the problem with forming a movement focusing on men's issues?
>Where the fuck do the dude's eyes always go when they draw them doing shit like this?
The less distinct the man's features are, the easier it is to self-insert. Monmusume's Darling is actually a parody of this.
Yeah this right here is my issue. If feminists don't want to deal with men's issues, that's absolutely fine, but can they stop having a huge shrieking shitfit and actively censoring men who want to deal with the issues themselves?
Now, see, that I can agree with. No civil rights movement should be working at cross-purposes to another because ideally their objective is for everyone to achieve equality and it's dumb to assume that someone else working to represent their interests is inherently hostile to you and yours.
Gender equality is never going to come from a mentality that paints one gender or the other as an aggressor. Men vs Women will never accomplish a future of men AND women working together, because it's inherently adversarial.
>Men vs Women will never accomplish a future of men AND women working together, because it's inherently adversarial.
That opposition doesn't come from social constructs or whatever, though. It's an inherent, evolved trait. Read "The Red Queen".
Feminism is a farce. So is fem"dom", but we're just here to jack off.
Came for the porn, stayed for the inconvenient truths of western society.
Of course the only solution is to eliminate our obsession with equality. Not everyone is equal. Sure, there isn't a class/race who is intrinsically better or worse (well for all intents and purposes, let's assume that Asians aren't the master race), but there is definitely case-by-case inequality. All that could be done to allow for the cultivation of individuality in inequality has been done, yet feminism/affirmative action DEMAND that racial/sexual inequality be systemic such that white/asian males are disadvantaged.
The worst part of the feminist double-think is
>duh patriarky objectify me
[insert attempt at first contact]
>"hah that reminds me. BOYFRIEND I HAVE A BOYFRIEND I have left you no escape from this awkward conversation because I mentioned a BOYFRIEND THAT OWNS ME"
Anyway, this is my first time in one o' these threads, so bare with me as I return to the main topic. I am narcissistic. Because of this I have trouble well, bonding with the opposite sex or even reciprocating friendship to men. Anyway, yeah as much as I would like a meaningful relationship with another person, I can only really find interesting people to inevitably bore me. I'm not saying that I feel like they're lesser or anything, just that I change in outlook (and ability) such that I outpace their intrigue. Imagine a less pompous "Seducer's Diary" or Don Giovanni. I feel it necessary to give this dynamic before addressing my main problem. Sexually I like to dominate or submit. It all depends, really. But in a relationship, it's (hypothetically) imperative that we remain independent. In most of my relationships, this has not been the case--I have been dominant. In the exception, I was young and my feelings undeveloped while in the typical I quickly developed a hardness which saw my partner as merely a means for the sensual.
How do I reconcile competing tendencies?
My mistress really liked the idea at least in a costume sense. She'd talk a lot about dressing me up as a maid or nurse when I'd care for her.
I kind of like the idea too, although there are things I'd want to change about my body first (I have really hairy legs thanks to glorious Czech genetics)
What I would have liked to say if not for the character limit is that I have allowed my relationships to deteriorate as I lost interest; due to this the other partner would inevitably break it off. I assume these more fundamental problems might be solved after meeting "the right woman."
My real issue is that I would rather own than be owned (romantically) and rather remain independent than either.
But I still like to do the typical bullying in bed AND conversely I like butt stuff and submission (gentle or otherwise, but certainly by /d/ standards only to a vanilla degree).
has nothing to do with gfd and is painful to read, you don't need to shoehorn as many 50-cent words into a post as possible to try and look like you're intelligent. Genuinely intellectual people don't do that so the fakes are very obvious, and you're not going to win any points on a porn board for talking about yourself and how superior you are in as long-winded and pompous a fashion as possible.
Okay, currently writing on the story and need to some slight research here on /gfd/.
Female dommes, what behavior in sub men do you find most sexy?
Not actions you want to do with him but when talking to or seeing a man interact with someone else, what makes you think "Damn, I really want to cuddle the living fuck out of him/peg his boipussy"?
Like if you meet a stranger or a fleeting acquaintance.
Yes, I would probably try to use this info IRL should the opportunity present itself but I also need it for my writing, honest.
I should really try and make less of those, shouldn't I. I'd appreciate a gentle nudge when I'm going over the line because I'm a bit autistic with these things and I genuinely can't tell if I'm being rude half the time.
- being well dressed and a little vain (correllates very strongly with an interest in being lusted over and objectified imo)
- messing with his hair a lot
- teasing/taking the piss out of women with that 'oh man you're totally gonna slap me for this aren't you' gleeful tone
- blushing/getting shy when somebody compliments him
- wearing/doing things which accentuate his neck
My apologies. I realize that much of that is superfluous to the question I intended to pose, but to me it is a very real factor.
People tend to emulate the language to which they are exposed. I fail to see how my language is particularly pompous. It does relate to the topic in this way (to put it plainly):
I want to make the leap from jacking off to Chinese cartoons to real world femdom. However, I feel that it would be more difficult to find a partner who is not romantically dominating nor exclusively sexually dominating. Am I just shit out of luck?
Huh. I do most of those except the first and third.
The first is less about not wanting it and more about having a hard time presenting myself real openly - I'm real soft spoken. And I'm not very stylish, although I've been looking more into fashion lately.
The third's mostly because I'm autistic and I don't use a lot of sarcasm/teasing in general because I worry about tone not being conveyed well. I tend to be really emotionally straightforward just to be safe.
>People tend to emulate the language to which they are exposed
Sociolinguistically speaking, while that does happen, tailoring one's language to the target audience is far more common and generally seen as practical. Work on your code-switching, you'll make a better impression on people.
It might help you to make a list of what specific acts/habits/behaviours you'd like in a relationship, and see what kind of picture you can draw from the combination of those things.
Given that this is one woman's opinion of many and I have no idea how anyone else feels about those things, I really wouldn't worry about how well you do or don't fit the description.
If you'd like a character who exemplifies those behaviours to look at, Momo from Tramps Like Us/ Kimi wa Pet fits the bill very well.
You gotta develop an interest in fashion man! Fashion is absolutely fascinating when you take the time to get to know a few things about it. There must be some kind of look you think is cool, right? Let's start there. What's the look that you see on other men and think 'dang, he looks good'?
There's a guide in the OP.
I felt like shit after it because most of my wardrobe consists of T-shirts and cargo pants.
Though the past few times I've gone out I've worn a collared shirt and khakis.
okay let's start there boyo. EVERYBODY needs at least one pair of jeans that makes their arse look fantastic. Everybody. Every boy. Every girl. Every granny. No exceptions.
And especially no exceptions among men who want their arses lusted after. And trust me, we do notice this shit.
It's quite hard to put myself in the mind of a woman so it really helps to have input from the real deal when writing.
At least one character I'm currently working on will as such share your taste in men.
My interest in fashion generally expands to "does it work with a polo?".
That being said, I have a larger collection of formal shirts than any other piece of clothing. I just always feel overdressed wearing them in public.
Yes /fa/ is fucking garbage but HOLY SHIT LOOK AT THIS THEY WERE RIGHT ABOUT SOMETHING
nail polish on men is 10/10 'will notice every time' tier
How very, I feel important now. We seem to get more women in here late at night (GMT), so hopefully you'll get some more ideas!
I wore cargo shorts because they were comfy and I enjoyed the pocket space.
I have a few pairs of jeans somewhere, as I moved to Florida about a year ago and haven't really needed long pants when out casually 90% of the time.
Plus I have no ass.
I-I don't know, I really am inept at this. Half my shirts are long sleeved plaid button ups because my family thought I loved those.. And I kind of do because they're made of tough material for when I do heavy yard work, but I can't imagine that's /fa/ approved.
I think I'm going to need a fashion crash course.
Okay, rid any notion of 'overdressed' from your mind, because most men's idea of 'overdressed' is 'I'm not soaking in my own sweat with eight days' beard growth, this is unacceptable'. Shirts are totally fine for day-to-day wear, especially if they're unbuttoned down to one button this side of scandalous <3 man cleavage is the best.
Sounds like you'd better start squatting son.
Yep, sounds like you are. Honest advice? Get ye to tumblr. It's great for building a steady influx of inspirational images for fashion, hair, makeup etc.
Dunno if it's just me but half the shit that gets posted on /fa/ looks like it belongs in a sci-fi movie. Just look to people you know that seem fashionable.
>f they're unbuttoned down
I usually leave collar & 2 down unbuttoned if it's casual/just gotten off work.
I really, really like shoes, so that's generally where most of my fashion budget goes. Think I'm going to invest in some more shirts though, some of mine are getting old.
>My entire wardrobe is graphic band/anime/cartoon/video game T-shirts, jeans, and the occasional hoodie during the winter months.
I don't really dress to look good. I dress to warn people that I'm weeaboo trash and should be avoided at all costs.
I was always too self-conscious to wear weeb stuff. I used to wear a lot of band t-shirts when I was younger but I got out of that too.
Being the 6'3 pale guy wandering around with a Cannibal Corpse t-shirt didn't do me many favours.
this is an odd question but do you boys ever fantasize about being pregnant? the idea of impregnating my sub is a huge turn-on for me but i wonder if it's even considered rr anymore at this point
The idea never once crossed my mind, and I'm pretty big into this.
Thinking about it, being pregnant would hold absolutely 0 positive quality to it, for me. The only good thing would be "Hey we're having a baby 'hon" and "Okay we now have a baby, hon"
Maybe it's because I haven't been raised to ever expect it, and there for haven't romanticized it to any extent at all.
Honestly, I genuinely find it really difficult to relate to people who aren't really into at least video games or cartoons. I've been lucky to have had a decent amount of people in my life to share that with.
I'm still a little ashamed of it, but it's the person I am and I can't pretend otherwise so I just make sure people who are going to be jerks about it avoid me to begin with.
I'm sort of in a similar position to you. It scares me, to think that I'll have to put a lot of effort into finding 1. A dom girl 2. A dom girl who likes me and 3. A dom girl who's even accepting of my hobbies, let alone interested in them, let alone actually into them herself!
Practically impossible, from what I can see from my current position.
Mate, I've been wearing a button down for years, I've never had complaints. Maybe people are too polite.
Stay positive boyo, you aren't gonna find happiness if you aren't looking.
Whatever works for you really. Just bear in mind that there's a stigma about that stuff and people are likely to judge you for it. There's a reason hiding your power level is a thing.
It's just a sacrifice that has to be made sometimes. Besides, if a girl is willing to be with you in the first place, I doubt your obsession with games/weebshit/whatever is going to be the breaking point mate.
Do doms like feminine guys? I feel like they are more attracted to more muscly guys
>not a lot of body hair only on my legs and private areas
>thick long hair that grows back fast
>have facial features from my mom
>long eyelashes and thick eyebrows
>i'm very emotional and tend to cry and get attached easily
>large and thick thighs
>really weak i was probably the weakest person in school and i struggle to open jars and bottles
>i look really young and feel like i look 15 or 16 even though i'm turning 20 this year
>people still ask for my ID unless i let my beard grow
>i have gyno which makes my right breast larger and i'm too scared to go for an operation
I feel like i could easily pass as a trap. Sometimes when i look in the mirror i notice how girly my face looks after i wash my hair. People commented on some of my feminine features troughout my whole life.
Take it from a guy who has more experience than he should on paper: there are plenty of reasonably attractive girls that share your hobbies, and would want to share theirs. The dom part is a little harder thanks to the above mentioned socialization in women, and partly thanks to the stereotype of the lazy male in a relationship.
I've mentioned before, but in one relationship a girl mistook my social anxiety for being lazy and she dumped me, and since then I've felt more insecure about my shyness/anxiety bring a turn off than my love of Chinese girl cartoons.
I'm very well aware of the stigma. Ironically, I think there's some kind of expectation reversal that happens when I talk to people while wearing that and I can follow the conversation naturally without redirecting it to something nerdy.
I think some people can get attracted to that? At least I've met people that are more within the hipster, or indie film/music category that go for me sometimes.
I wrote that weird. Replace "a lot of effort" with "A SHIT LOAD of effort"
I don't know Anon, how many girls do you know that like any of the following, let alone any combination of the following: Guns, Shooting guns (N-not the same thing, I swear!), videogames, wood working, fitness, reading, writing, pen and paper gaming, and more that isn't worth listing here.
I'm starting feel like my requirements are unrealistic.
I definitely know a girl who is into all of that. I don't know if she's into woodworking or fitness, but it seems up her alley.
If you're looking for a girl into ALL of those things, your gonna have a bad time. But I'm sure you can find someone into several, and share what interests you about the rest. If someone's really into you, they'll definitely want to learn more about why you're into stuff.
Sounds like you've found what I would consider a perfect catch then, Anon.
I've just never found all of that. Or any of that, really. The closest I got was a girl who was very very casually into games, and casually into guns but-not-really.
There's always going to be people that respect you for being yourself and not being shy about your interests, but that's not going to be everyone, that's all. Still, credit to you for doing that.
>videogames, reading, writing, pen and paper gaming
You'd be surprised. Women like a lot of the things men do too. Out of all of my D&D groups (about 20 people in total), 6 of the people there are women.
Plus, I thought it was a pretty common stat that women read a lot more than men? Could be wrong, just seems to be that way from experience at least.
Fuck no, lol. That would require hard work, which the majority of women are adverse to.
If women ever end up getting more money than men, it's because they're given the money.
Good to see you, /pol/. It's been a while.
What if I told you I live off my girlfriend's salary, would that trigger you?
It's alright, just look at the pretty pictures and stay quiet. That way the spooky scary feminazis can't hurt you.
>to which the majority of women are adverse.
Is what you meant to say
my girlfriend is a dom, but has a height complex and gets really uncomfortable whenever my giantess fetish is brought up. not sure how/if i could really roleplay it irl anyway.
Manager of the barasub appreciation station
No breaks on the gains train.
Lightning/Hope is one of the hotter pairs out there. The domm is strong and confident with her own flaws, and the sub us more timid but strong in his own right.
And if anyone can find the sauce for this image here that would be fantastic. Rediscovered it in my files and I can't remember where it's from.
Yeah, I have. Not to sound all weird or mushy, but I think carrying a child seems like a pretty special experience. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't a little jealous to not have that opportunity.
First all the manly men getting worried, now the feminine men? It feels like we're coming full circle on this question now. There are certainly girls out there that love feminine men.
Makes sense. Boys were made for bullying after all.
>Can we stop talking gender politics now?
can we keep the redpill shit out of the threads, please?
start dumping, when i was dumping no one talked
Where are the mod when you need /pol/ out of your fetish board?
>Is this fetish full of bossy bitches
This fetish IS bossy bitches, anon.
This can be solved by getting into self-sufficiency skills.
There's common phrases like "women love a man that can cook" which end up being true, and are also a gateway to a more role-reversed relationship. If you make sure you look well-kept-together, can cook and clean, do repairs and all the other household things... it telegraphs a sort of "Hey! I'm NOT going to just be a lazy sack of shit and play vidya while you're at work!" that shows you're looking for a wife and not a nanny.
Plus most of these kinds of tasks give you subjects to talk to people about. Everyone loves food, and there's a significant amount of people who love cooking or would like to try it. People also like complaining about things, so having more common woes ( like finding out about how something makes awful stains on fabric) helps too.
This is coming from someone who just had vidya to talk about most his life and it was awkward as hell. Learn your domestic skills, Anons.
can't really remember, but it wasn't straight up pr0n. Google says himitsu no akuma chan
I have all those skills though. I built the desk I'm typing to you on myself like, two years ago, and an extremely handy and what not.
I-I'm just saying I'd like my SO to have similar / some of the same interests as me, but those interests are ones I've never ever found.
>not a lot of body hair
Brah, are you intersex? And I like feminine guys, but definitely not ones with hips and tits.
i have strong feeling that "boys being cute" don't really belong here
Because mutual love and respect in a romantic dynamic was too much to ask for, jeez.
fine, tho i am bit out of it
Alright, there's some cute soloboys.
Nah, regular femdom is bossy bitches.
GFD is more like forcefully-suggestive bitches.
some "real" name to find more pics with that position?
Being kidnapped and raped is my fetish!
I could use a good bullying right now
Cute boys is fine by me, and I'm a sub.
Although I'm also bi so I may be biased
Although with less beating and pain.
They have names :/
can't do, I am mostly here for trap threads, I just frequent gfd from time to time
But... But... This is GENTLE femdom...
It's not the rape that's hot, it's the post rape cuddling...
Yes but by that same merit the post-consensual non-con aftercare and physical care and loving over your bruises and marks is great.
But the act in itself is uh, hot, too. Getting forced down, struggling against them and they get their hands all over you, having their way, throwing you around as they place and taking out the frustrations of their day...
Don't judge me.
I don't think anyone here would judge you for that. I would think that there's a fair amount of people who like the rough stuff with their cuddles and headpats.
Definitely true for me. The hardest part of an LDR is that it's really hard to hurt yourself in a way that's satisfying. My masochistic tendencies are very underfulfilled, which is a shame, because they help a lot with my anxiety.
Cuddles and headpats are great aftercare for rough stuff.
Man I made that sound awful
To be clear I don't self-harm as a release thing, it's just that masochism is really head-clearing for me. Because of the endorphin rush and also because it gives me a single strong sensation to focus on which combined with gentle aftercare is really therapeutic for my tendency to get overwhelmed when panic sets in.
>What if I told you I live off my girlfriend's salary
Are you a good househusbando to her?
So how do vampire rules work? I mean they both clearly have shadows cast by their bodies on other parts of their bodies (head on neck is most noticeable) but what about on her scalp? Or under the soles of his feet in his shoes?
Yeah but who cares, it makes it easier for her to sneak up on you if she's not casting a shadow.
I'm more interested in how she's managing to insert her hand into her leg.
Go with dark colours at first, it tends to read as more masculine somehow.
>guys with smart or goth clothes and painted nails
in other news, I am reasonably intoxicated and just sent the qt a fucking essay about how much I miss him and he's on holiday (or vacay for you yank faggots) so he doesn't want to read that clingy shit so I am a worry
How the fuck am I the only vote for 'dom into pegging'? You other degenerate bitches need to wake up and vote
Tall girls, yes. 50 foot woman, no
>forced cross dressing
In private definitely, apprehensive about publicly
Gently but oh God yes
During sex its so hot
>Being kept as a pet
This place is often just petplay, and fuck yes
In the same that men are brought up being judged entirely on what they're going to able to provide to other people, father than what makes them happy themselves. There's a good few reasons the male suicide rate is 4 times that of women.
That's cute as shit. I think I'd have a brain meltdown if I got something like that. I'm sure he'll love seeing it, even if he's away from you. It's knowing that you're still thought/cared about that helps make the time apart bearable.
>forced cross dressing
Pretty much the same answer actually. I like the idea of being treated roughly during pegging but I agree with the rest. Not sure I have a preference on height though. Being my height means that 99% of females I meet are shorter anyway.
Well, I hope he at least thinks it's nice and isn't annoyed by it. I'd probably be annoyed by it if I was off on a bender with mates and my partner was being soppy. My self-discipline is just terrible when i'm high.
I don't remember if it was in this thread or in the previous one, but someone mentioned something about trying to get girls' attention at cons by cosplaying or something.
Has that ever worked to anyone here?
If I got back to my place, completely plastered, I'd be pretty chuffed to see something soppy waiting for me. Obviously I don't know him, but I'm sure it'd be appreciated regardless. I know the feeling though, I have a habit of getting emotional and or clingy when I'm high/drunk.
Oh christ is this true?
I was on SSRIs throughout highschool and now I look like the alien hybrid from alien resurrection
Ugh, why'd you have to remind me. Lately no matter how much I jack off I'm still super horny, and the only thing that helps satisfy my lust is fucking my ass. Buttslut is suffering.
Speaking of fashion, generally I wear a dark colored button-up, with a pullover and jeans.
How is that?
I'm the one who made the fucking fashion guide and all I've worn for a while are chinosz rave t shirts and my army surplus jumper
I've never been in a con, but I've heard that in some cons there's cat boys offering their leash to girls and asking them to take them to their hotel room. I've also heard male cosplayers get more attention and girls taking pics of them when crossdressing than when cosplaying males. Furries also have girls hugging and cuddling them because of their suits.
I feel like many guys in these threads might be closet furries because they love pet stuff and girls being animalistic so much.
You should go for it girl. I had a friend who told me he was asexual for a long time before coming out as gay and it didn't really phase me.
If you spend a little time explaining your situation I'm sure he'll understand.
At the very least you'll get some closure.
>dark colours at first
I agree, I'm a big fan of blues and purples. I'd love black, but you have to dress around it.
I look forward to the day when men can be more open about it. It's annoying that it's associated with edge and cross-dressing rather than just looking nice.
I would love to do it. I supposedly have "slutty" legs, but I'm way too insecure about my body-hair and... large member (It's too large if it freaks out your dom the first time they see it, and they are used to gay porn.)
This may seem like an stupid question but are there any particular countries that have higher chances of harboring /gfd/-tier women?
Finland and the Scandinavian countries stand out for me and Canada to a lesser degree, as young girls there appear to be raised to be independent and strong adults when they're older in the same manner as young boys are, I'm just wondering as I graduate next year and looking make a fresh start outside of the UK.
>"If you ever tell anyone about this I'll kill your dog and then I'll kill you, got it? I know where you live, bitch."
>sobbing accompanied by a quiet "okay"
>"and you're coming back tomorrow, too"
This would be wonderful especially if men's rights activists and feminists could agree and work together on things, but honestly that's just the ideal situation and would most likely only work in theory.
For one thing, honest men's rights activists would get lumped in with "meninists" and people (especially radfems) would just assume you only want to bring up men's issues solely to derail feminist discussions, when that's not necessarily the case.
Personally I think we need a movement that's inclusive of all genders and their issues, and why forced traditional gender roles are bullshit.
That's not how it works though.
>Are you a good househusbando to her?
I try, but I work as a writer, too, so I'm not really as good a one as I could be.
>Any guys here into giantess,
I do it willingingly.
I'm a self-loathing type of guy, humiliation wouldn't kill my ego. So, sure.
>being kept as a pet as well as femdom?
> When a guy is passionate about things he loves. Doesn't matter what it is or even if I have an interest in it myself, if he's not afraid to get really excited about it or it makes him bounce up and down with happiness then I'm happy too.
> Falling asleep on my shoulder or lap, bonus points if I'm stroking his hair
> taking care of their appearance and having an interest in being well-dressed (style of clothing isn't usually relevant, it's more the fact that they have a "look" that they like and try to maintain that, if that makes any sense)
> Nervous laughter and blushing when they get embarrassed
>People tend to emulate the language to which they are exposed.
Frankly, and to put it plainly: you sound like you're from Tumblr. Take your confessional soapbox there.
What you typed was unnecessarily needless and could have been summed up in five sentences. Nobody want to read long-winded texts on /d/. They're likely masturbating and don't care for your two cents worth of an opinion.
Remember: Keep It Simple Stupid.
Reminder that people who don't post pictures are cancerous faggots, unless they post something to do with the thread.
>Do all of these things
I hate living in and around Seattle.
In another dimension, anon.
Anyone else have a gfd fetish about being a quad-amputee in bed for fun? Especially with an adventurous girl that likes teasing? Because unfgh I had an awesome dream about it the other night.
Hey, sorry about this, but would someone mind dumping the How To infopics?
My gf and I were thinking about staring to do this, and I remembered seeing them a while ago.
I have one, pic related
Different guy but I tend to find evolutionary psychology to be dubious at best.
The field is so vague and has way too much opportunity for people to pick out pieces of information that help them support a conclusion they've already decided on in their minds.
who of us doesn't have a fantasy of someone knocking you down, tying you, putting a ring gag on you, then squating over your face and taking a huuuge dump into you mouth, making sure that you swallow everything, then taking a photo of you and saying something like "be here tomorrow at the same hour or this is going public. see you later, toilet"
I do not have this fantasy.
I very much do not have this fantasy.
I very, VERY much do not have this fantasy.
It's kind of hard to avoid it. Gender politics is the whole reason gfd needs a term to distinguish it from femdom, and also the reason so many gfd guys have so much trouble. Talk about gfd long enough and it's bound to come up.
Fuck, not this again.
I thought you faggots were banned.
Why would anyone want that? It's fun to talk in these threads, especially with the anonymous factor which I am blindly assuming that off-site thing doesn't have.
These threads are great, I go here, I enjoy the porn, I enjoy the discussion, I enjoy the stories. Why would you want to take something with some life to it, and strip it down to a lesser state?
It is sad, but some faggot not having romantic success is no reason to discredit the entire fetish.
>don't want to experience the feel of hot chocolate anaconda slowly forcing itself into their bellies, making you look like you're pregnant and enjoying its taste as it rubs all over your tongues and penetrates every single taste bud
>Hopefully people will begin to take that kind of discussion to the off-site so we can keep these threads for porn.
HUE! good one, anon