Last one got saged.
I bought my own chastity cage and it'll be here in a couple days. Excited as fuck guys. Can't wait to lock myself up. I'm nervous too though.
>Oh wow really? Well that makes sense. What about cleaning it? Is it practical in that regard?
I am not an expert as I don't own a female/shemale/whatever chastity belt but from what people who have blogs have said about them (and even uploaded on some amateur porn video sites that work akin to youtube) it seems most belts done in the west are done in stainless steel and you can basically keep it hygienic by showering every day and being careful to dry everything off with paper after peeing if you go outside/in public.
With that said, I think someone in the previous thread mentioned owning one of those, maybe if he shows up again he (or she) can explain in detail
Seeing how the previous thread took a focus on feminization/trappification, here is an item that doesn't get discussed too often (normally seen more with female outfits): Thigh-Bands.
These beauties lock to your chastity belt in a similar way to garterbelt (but using chains) and make sure you cannot wear pants but need to wear skirts or similar (how long those skirts are is up to you). Then again you could decide to co pantsless/skirtless and leave your legs exposed.
They also shorten your stride (you cannot run, only take average-length steps) and you can maximize the effect if you add in high heels (or worse/better, ballet heels).
Also pictured, albeit maybe less interesting for potential traps: the chastity bra.
This one is designed to make it impossible to use your nipples/breasts for stimulation.
In previous threads though it has been deemed that for trappification chastity play (where the object is to change the focus of your pleasure rather than completely denying it) it is not the best idea to use it, as we are trying to train the trap to enjoy using their butt (or rather their g-spot down there) + nipples for pleasure to the point they'll forget how to gain pleasure from just using their penis/clit (ideally not even knowing what to do with it even when unlocked)
And yes, the artist forgot to show them connected to the actual belt but you get the idea. You lock them up to the belt and deny the possibility of wearing pants (or even regular underwear to try and hide the chastity belt if somebody flips up your skirt so you better not be wearing a miniskirt).
Mine looks just like that in OP's pic, but it's silicon/rubbery material.
You should really measure yourself flaccid and hard b4 and months later. I've lost inch and a hlaf from my flaccid size from wearing mine 4 months. My wife measures mine every week
I got my cock cage a week ago and I must say, it was a mistake. The junk I got bruised my dick in several places, was heavy as hell and it didn't actually prevent me from reaching orgasm whatsoever. Then I found out that the ball ring was apparently designed by an idiot and you can take the whole thing off without removing the padlock. At that moment I decided to return it to the store. I'm posting picture as a warning DO NOT BUY THIS MODEL IT'S JUNK!
I bought this one too and I agree, it put me off chastity for a bit. Heavy, pinching, constantly slipping down your dick due to the ring not attaching well, everything that could go wrong goes wrong with this
Trans-femme sissy here that got a month locked up from the last thread. Sadly I only have a cage, but perhaps by the time I have breasts I can afford to get a full belt, thigh-bands, and perhaps chastity bra. The last one just sounds kinda silly though. After having just grown breasts I am not sure there would be any fun in locking them away.
It would probably be easier to use something else to do the trick, either by using leather belts (or something similar) around your thighs and then using chains to conect them something around your waist (a corset perhaps or another loose leather belt around your waist) aswell as too each other (in order for you not to wear pants).
>After having just grown breasts I am not sure there would be any fun in locking them away.
Depends on if you are into chastity for denial or other reasons. The breasts provide quite a bit of stimulation for women (hell, even for men nipple play can be quite erotic)
No. Jerk your little cock until you're about to come and then put on some pants and wait until... hmmmm.... 8 pm eastern time.
I'll be back then. Did you think I was going to play with you right now?
Really? It's gross how perverted and horny you are. Go shamejerk your tiny cock you slut.
Not that it'll be hard, sluts like you get off on being so shameful and gross. Be back by 8 or don't even bother jerking your cock for a week and if you do, realize you're so fucking horny and slutty that you can't even control yourself.
That's gross anon.
that's all I got until the other thread decays completely.
I'm in the UK so I have to stay up late, but I've beed edging for so long I can't wait for him to get here.
Don't worry, if you're in this thread I'm sure just about any real man would tease you anyway~
That's a thing with me, I love the idea of having my cock owned and controlled, played with and left without cumming for days or even weeks...
but I love being masculine. I'm tall, strong, I lift and my daily life is very dominant, in bed too normally I'm in charge. I think that's why I love the idea of letting someone else control my cock for once >.<
I decided to be late for fun. I bet you got worried I wouldn't tease you.
I can't believe someone would worry about that.
I bet you had -so- much trouble controlling yourself. That's probably why you want me to do it for you, because you're so weak and worthless.
You can beg me to tease you though, and if you do a good enough job, and you really beg, maybe I'll think about it.
And I'm not sorry I was late either, I'm glad your cock had to suffer because that's what a submissive cock like yours deserves,
If you want to do that you have to 100% stop using your cock at all, and it helps to take supplements like pygeum that increase prostate fluid to make it easier to hit with a vibrator or dildo.
other than that give yourself an enema and go slow with a vibrator and think of the goal as 'feeling good' and not 'coming' and you'll get where you want to go
>tfw 3.5in flaccid, 7in erect length
>constantly fantasize about being made fun of the way that anon with the tiny erect dick was last thread
>tfw you will never be made fun of for having a small dick ;_;
Considering the prostate is part of the male reproductive system, I doubt stopping penile stimulation for more then three days will make much of a difference. Unlike hentai, the body does not just build and build fluids. It adds up for 2-3 days, then slowly builds at a much slower rate for about a week total. After that, semen and fluid build up is at its max, and everything is just psychological after that. Like quitting cigarettes, 3 days and the nicotine is gone, and the brain is resetting itself. But yet people relapse, because of the ingrained psychological habit. I think you have your own reasons for telling me to stop touching my cock. :)
I have had no luck with vibes, they tend to numb rather fast. I have not tried egg vibes, which I like, but have not bought yet. They are cute and feminine, and you can tuck them into a thigh high or tape them to your thigh or ass cheek. Was told to always make sure the egg was in a condom, as the wire can break, then you have an egg lost in your ass, perhaps with a chance of sharp wires.
Aneros feels good, but it does not move enough, nor put enough pressure where it needs to be. I feel my ass "get turned on" when it wants it though. Kinda strange feeling, like my dick wants no part of it, just my ass. There is no cumming or involuntary spasms though, even after hours of use.
A cruel hint, as the prostate is part of the male reproductive system, perhaps your friends should not be allowed to touch it. Anal rimming or mile thrusting only, with no focus on the prostate. Otherwise its just triggering the same nerves that a penis has. Or make them milk themselves with no orgasm. Instructions here:
Only site that talks about doing it safely, so it should be the only one followed.
>If you want to do that you have to 100% stop using your cock at all
Not to rain on the fantasy, but this isn't even remotely true.
I jerk it probably 3-4 days a week. I can still have a full prostate orgasm while in chastity.
Don't you think I already know that? Unless you're some sort of girl or something in which case post yr. pussy.
As if I care either way. Don't make me respond to you again, stop being so needy.
Ignoring biology does not make you look experienced. Your fantasies do not change basic function of biology. Why are sex writers so useless? I swear 99.9% of them of below fanfic tier.
>sexually submissive and chastity turns me on like crazy
>hate not being in control when not in bed
That and for whatever reason the idea of holding a key for a guy or having it held by a guy is more arousing than a girl doing it and my gf would fucking kill me if I started having sex with men.
There are dildos that allow her to pump saline or lube into your ass as she pegs you. Others, such as a feeldo, allows her to to hold the dildo with her kegals, and she gets thrust into as she thrusts into you.
>There are dildos that allow her to pump saline or lube into your ass as she pegs you
She's been looking at bad dragon stuff. Maybe I'll get her one for valentines if I have any money left after blowing it on an AR. Thinking about a holy trainer as well.
Still can't feel me though.
I read on the previous thread about someone and their SO were switches and they were sort of taking turns. I hope I can have that life one day. It just seems so hard with all these different wants. On one end, I want to be dominant and give orders and make someone a pet. And then on the other, I want to be dressed like a girl and treated and teased nicely. It's pretty hard to find people willing to bend that far both ways.
Well. I dont have anything for that. Sorry. A feeldo will help her get off, and she will feel your muscles spasm as you cum, but she wont feel the warmth of you as. Her hands can though.
I feel like on my dom side I want to control my sub very greatly, but on my sub side I have a lot of hard limits. I also feel like my dom side has been fleshed out very well, while my sub side hasn't had much time to shine.
How do I use my prostate? I tried to use my fingers to find it - not long enough. So I uaaed a ribbed tooth brush. At time it encountered some resistance, but after gentle pushing I got it through. I didn't feel much when it was fully inside me, but at one point when I tilted and twisted it I felt a kind of pressure in my stomach. Them, I stopped. Help
Yeah your dick is absolutely disgusting to look at and if I had a dick like that I would be ashamed to even have it out like that.
The only good part about you is that you're in shape but everything else is so gross.
Please lock yourself up as soon as possible so you don't have a gross dick that like hanging out.
I would never ever fuck a dick that gross looking. The only thing you're good for is your ass, even your nipples are disappointing. I hope you can learn to please people with your ass because with a dick that like you're just as useless as 3.5 inch, lol.
Put a condom on your fingers. Make sure your hands are well washed, and your nails are well trimmed. File them if you need to. You need them to be as smooth as you can. The tissue is very sensitive, and you can't just slam something up there and think it will work out. This is a very delicate part of your body, and you can hurt or kill yourself if you are not careful.
Lube up. Cant have too much lube. Add lube to the anus, and run your finger around, slowly, SLOWLY, loosen yourself up. In porn they do this for hours, sometimes days before hand, before attempting anything. Thats how slow you need to be. It should not feel any pain. Period. Pain is bad. Reach in with one finger, your middle finger, and feel towards the back of your balls. Apply gentle pressure as you move up, move in small circles. When you hit it, you will feel a sudden urge to urinate. Thats the prostate. It will be a harder spot then the rest of the rectal wall. Be about the size of us nickel. Give that weak pressure. You want to almost tickle it, weak pressure with small circles. Your urethra runs though it, you will feel it move, but the tissue is weaker here, so dont smash it. The center has more nerves, and you can damage those nerves if you are too vigorous, which can lead to numbness. Focus on the sides of the prostate, rather then the whole thing. Keep your self relaxed, with a towel down. You might milk yourself, which will lead to a a mix of prostate fluid and some sperm dripping down, with no muscle contractions. Let it happen. It will kinda feel like you need to pee.
If your fingers are truly not long enough, (how tall are you??) then you need to use a sex toy. Not something you found in the house. An aneros is fun but wont give you any interaction. Vibes lead to numbness, avoid them unless you are using them with another toy, such as touching the tip of a vibe to an aneros. A simple buttplug will not give much stimulation - cont
I don't need to tell you. You're begging me to tell you how useless you are, THAT'S how useless you are. Like I said the ONLY good thing about you is that you're in shape and really that's not even a benefit to anything sexually arousing about you because nothing else is. Your dick is fucking gross and needs to be locked up, it's incredibly thin and it makes me uncomfortable to even look at it. It looks like a worm. The only thought I have looking at your dick is that I either want to lock it up or whip the fuck out of you so that you never try to show anyone such a disgusting sight again.
Like I told that other slut anon, take a marker and write 'slut' all over your gross dick, but you also need to write 'filthy disgusting whore' all over you as well because you really thought someone wanted to see that gross dick AND you begged for someone to look at it to tease you too.
Fucking gross anon. You better get locked up soon.
Njoy makes a few good models, all steel, that will put serious pressure on your prostate, but it will take some getting used to, and is not for a beginner. Buttplugs can enhance the regular jerk off experience though, and are fun to wear around the house. Prostate toys tend to "knock me down" and its hard to do anything but lie there.
Dildos are a hard topic. It depends on what you are looking for. When you have a normal orgasm, you anal muscles, both external and internal, spasm. If you hold them open with something, or move something though them like anal beads, its quite pleasurable. Dildoing your prostate is a hard topic. Its frankly kinda dangerous. Tears and stretching can occur. On the other hand, thrusting or any kind of repeated penetration is hard to compare in terms of pleasure, particularly when mixed with prostate stimulation. I suggest not touching yourself. If you avoid a penile ejaculatory orgasm, you will feel really weak and feminine afterwards. A real after glow, like a "used" feeling.
If you choose to use a dildo, and you want to hit your prostate, use a g-spot dildo, making sure its long enough to reach it, and long enough hat you wont lose it in your ass. Can you imagine anything more embarrassing then having to go the ER to have your ass opened up and a toy pulled out? Have the Ball part of the gspot toy facing towards your dick, and slide it back and forth, focusing on your ass. If you are soft, give your dick a few hard strokes to harden up, which ill engorge the prostate and make it easier to find. Feel for the "different" or have to pee spot, and just start rubbing it weakly, mild pressure, small circles. Focus on your ass, dont get distracted. Do it long enough, and your will start to feel a wall building. If you get over that wall with enough relaxation and stimulation, you will orgasm with your ass.
You have no idea how slutty you will feel.
Milking you are just manually moving the fluids. You can do it to anyone, whether they want it or not. Its more common in BDSM, but I think its kinda fun on its own. You can lose arousal after it happens, and the feel afterward is kinda like a ruined orgasm, only 10x worse. You want to cry, but you still feel good. Kinda a "spent" feeling. Orgasm is triggered by stimulation, and the person has to want it, be very relaxed, and allow it to happen. It takes practice, and is super pleasurable. Your muscles will spasm, your dick might twitch, even if you are not hard, fluid may or may not be pumped out, and you will kinda just feel broken and used. You can rub one out after if you want, because there is no refractory period, but I find that removes the afterglow. Penile stimulation is okay, but you dont want to touch yourself to the point of normal orgasm starting. Your ass is your goal for these sessions.
In terms of finding it, lets try externally. You can give yoursefl external massage, assuming you are not a fatass. Give yourself an erection, and lift up your balls. Follow the urethra down, you will be moving along in internal penis structure. (You can rub that to orgasm too, its normal penile orgasm, but its very different, plus its more feminine to rub rather then stroke) You will feel a softer zone as you pass the end of the penis structure. Press gently but firmly into this soft zone. Use several fingers, this is delicate tissue, and you dont want to put too much pressure on any one area. As you push, feel for a roundish hard lump that your body reacts to touching. It might be the urge to urinate, or you might force a drop of cowpers fluid from the tip, or your dick might twitch. Once you locate it on the outside of the body, try and find it on the inside. Dont be afraid to go look up pictures of male internal anatomy to find these things. Male reproductive anatomy is just as complex as female. Tons of little tubes and glands.
Reason I asked your height is prostate location varies, and height is the big factor. You are pretty short, so I would be surprised that you can find your prostate with your fingers.
You can massage your prostate externally, but I highly recommend against it. You have too many delicate structures in the same area, and the pressure needed to find it might hurt them, let alone stimulate it. If you feel anything wrong, stop instantly. A nice orgasm is not worth penile numbness for the rest of your life because you crushed a nerve trying to anal orgasm.
Everything in your body is just biology, and while its not "sexy" you should know whats going on. Life is not porn, its not hentai, and its not jerk off instructions. These things work for a reason. The nerves of the prostate, and the nerves of the penis feed into the same main nerve group in the spine. Same with nerves in the rectum and anus. You stimulate these nerve endings, you can trigger an orgasm of some kind. The muscles that contract vary based on the stimulation, and to some degree on your own biology, but thats why this works. Study the fucking science people. I read internet articles and they dont know what the fuck they are talking about. They are letting their penises talk for them, not using their heads. Dont let your penis have a voice. Dont let hormones and arousal get the best of you.
It varies on a lot of things. If you are certain you cannot find it with your fingers, then you need to invest in a toy. I have always known the second I have hit my prostate, like a switch went off in my brain. Its a feeling of "that's a different sensation" its not instant orgasm. It feels good, but not like instant good. Just different. When you apply a small amount of pressure, I feel a feeling like an urge to urinate combined with a feeling like I am going to cum, but with no pleasure.
Milking is mostly just moving fluids around. Doing to yourself is kinda awkward, and tends to happen more by accident. Its easy if you have a partner. Milking yourself means you need to be kinda flexible. While normal prostate stimulation, for me anyway, works best when I am on my back, milking works best when I am no my hands and knees. Your significant other could lay you over a chair for example.
The prostate is not round, its kinda almost heart shaped from the prospective of your ass.
You want to avoid the sensitive middle part, and focus on the lobes that are on the side. Rub one, the rub the other, with gentle pressure. In this case, its best if you have not ejaculated in at least 3 days. You will start to pump fluid. Small sphincters need to be passed, but normal pressure should allow fluid to get though. Its so much better if someone else does it. Then you honestly dont have any control. Its a really great felling. As then do this, you will start to feel things moving. When they are done, maybe a ml of fluid will drip out. Run a finger down the urethra from the base to the tip, and 1-2 more will come out. Its mostly prostate fluids, with a good amount of cowpers and some semen mixed in. The person milking you might have different goals. For example, if she feels you twitch, then she might withdraw her finger and wait 1-2 minutes. This will allow you to be milked with no orgasm. If you are doing it yourself, - cont
Such a jealous bitch.
you probably want some pleasure, but those contractions can limit the amount of fluid you get, so its up to you. you will likely want a dildo you are conferrable with, and feel safe using. Its the same game, massage the lobes gently until fluids drip with no muscle spasms. You just dont have the same submissive feeling when someone else does it, and I think thats the fun of it.Someone stealing your fluids and you cant stop them, no matter how much you want to. Might as well try and get a prostate orgasm or something if you doing to yourself.
I should add another health warning. if you have prostate cancer, a history of prostate cancer, a family history of prostate cancer or any infection of the prostate, Do not do this, or any activity like it. This can spread and assist the spread of the tumor, or increase the area of infection. Some people say that prostate milking has health benefits. It does not. It makes no sense that it would. Those people are like the vaccine people, repeating old discredited studies. Even if it does have health benefits, the risks greatly out weigh them. Do this because you enjoy it, not for some bullshit reason.
Sadly, most people in this thread will ignore what you just said and will walk down a path that they otherwise wouldn't have (and if they met a younger version of themselves, they'd probably get shanked by said younger version)
Thats why I keep focusing on the safety part of it. I would rather give my car keys to somebody who does not know how to drive, and does not not have a drives license then let someone who is ignorant of biology and safety anywhere near my ass.
Sex, and by extension human sexuality needs to be about trust and companionship. Not lust. People in this thread are defining their actions with lust, and making poor decisions based on lust. Chasity and S&M activites should only be done with some you place 100% of your life in. Not some guy on the internet. Lust is the reason I have to pull vibes out of guys asses at 2 in the morning. Love is why I have to give a guy skin grafts because he ran back into the burning car to pull out his pregnant wife.
PS - all you people buying chastity cages - look up something called a penis fracture. It will help when you get the joy of firsthand experience. Ill be happy to explain how we treat it if anyone is interested.
please do expand on the penis fracture stuff i only dabble in chastity and have been worried about any possible forms of damage it would cause
Your penis has two zones of spongy tissue that fills with blood when erect, these then support the urethra. These are called the penis corpora cavernosa While not a prefect analogy, imagine you have one of those freeze pops full of juice. You can kind bend it right? But if you bend it too far, you burst it, and juice flies everywhere. Or squeezing a water balloon too far. The same thing happens with your penis. One or both of the corpora cavernosa burst. Cages force the penis into a position that it cant stand. The tissue expects to be able to move freely, and if you lock it into a place, sometimes it bursts. At which case, we make a cut down the penis, open it up, and sew up one the one that burst. Normally, the stress causes the other one to stay filled with blood, so we stab it with a needle and drain it. Survival prognosis is fine, but the vast majority of the time you will have poor erectile ability in the damaged side. Total ED not responsive to drugs is pretty common. Your penis will point off to one side. I have never seen a case where the erectile profile has not changed.
Your penis should be free. All the cases I have seen (never treated one personally, but have had 4 I observes) were caused by the person moving their penis during masturbation. "Fit" does not come into play here. Its not clothing, its not a medical apparatus. Its more the corsets of the victorian ages. You are using a rigid materiel to force a part of your body into an unnatural position. What good do you think will come of it, even if nothing instantly happens? If you get the belt type, where your penis has free motion, and it just covers it, those should be safe. But the kind that bend the dick into a shape, or worse, bend it, and are made of wire (more focused stress)? Holy fuck, I think thats just asking for it mate.
(If your dick goes, you will know it, you might or might not hear a crack sound, one half will get harder, the other instantly soft, and your dick will swell up like a balloon as blood pours into it. )
Been trying to find my prostate for at least an hour, with no luck :(
There doesn't feel like there's any different sensations anywhere in my ass. A lot of other articles say it's meant to be 2 inches in, but I don't know.
There feels like there is a bend in my anus/ass, is the prostate anywhere near there?
I don't think I'm going to be able to get my Holy Trainer to work right for me.
What other device could I get? Don't know if I'll be able to bite the bullet and get it straight away as there's other shit that I want, but I may as well know what's out there.
Your prostate is not "inside your ass" Its its own structure. There is tissue between it and and the inside of your rectum. You will need to use light pressure to feel for it. Some people can't reach it with their hands. Light pressure. You are inside your body for fucks sake.
Also, read some god damn fucking biology. I cant imagine you can reach your sigmoid colon if you cant reach your prostate. Fucking a, your ass is not a sexual organ, learn its structures before you shove your hands up in it.
See this? This is 75 pages of us doctors making fun of people who did stupid things. Ask yourself, is what I am doing worthy of a post here? If the answer is yes, then you might want to reconsider your action. I gave a lot of information, but not once did I not emphasis the safety factor.
If you live in the great plains region, I better not have to fix one of you assholes up on my shift.
>the point of thigh bands is mainly so the girl doesnt just spread her legs as far as she can because that would move her hips back, she'd gain access to her clit
Still, it's interesting how it has this secondary function in the case turning guys into traps.
Yup, eBay'd that model, is a shit.
Heavy, not particularly secure, pinches at the hinge AND where the pins meet to be locked, clanks like a motherfucker...
Bad design exacerbated by shitty knock-off manufacturing.
But I still wear it because god damn is this my favourite fetish.
I hope youre trolling you piece of shit
If they were "money obsessed" they wouldn't do one of the most stressful jobs there is for a salary they could get by being a lawyer, or a dentist
You're an idiot
Not that guy, but I just want to point out that most doctors, and ER docs in particular, have to deal with the lowest bubble of society day in and day out. This guy sounds like he works in ER, and I am pretty sure that the only way they stay sane is by by either moving out to the country side, or becoming cynical and sarcastic. Otherwise they would fucking burn out fast, dealing with an never ending cycle of drug overdoses, stupid injuries, uninsured assholes with a cold, and otherwise straight up stupidity. Only two groups of people use the ER, people with honest emergencies, and people too stupid or uninsured to go to urgent care. Smart people know whats going on, every body else goes to the ER.
trdr, docters become cynical, because other wise they go insane.
Well, to be honest it was a discussion about doctors and their cold cynicism rather than health insurance, but fair enough.
None of this shit belongs in a chastity thread anyways, everyone from the rude guy who posted the link to that forum to the people who replied to him are in the wrong.
Back to the porn and lewd pls
Does that whole thing go in your urethra?
Jesus, that sounds painful. But at the sime time really hot that there's so much control over me
Thats a pity. Depends on what kinda doctor. Shrinks, are the biggest scum bags on the planet. and even those in the medical profession agree. Never go to a shrink, always work with your primary provider. Shrinks don't believe in "things getting better", IE, you have anxiety now, you will for the rest of your life, if you disagree, you can be locked up against your will. Your "diagnosis" will follow you for the rest of your life. Any kind of interaction with the mental health community is about as risky as using a rattrap for chastity.
Different anon so I don't know much about it but it seems there is a small niche of people using chastity in combination with diaperplay. I would assume the urethral insertion basically inhibits bladder control but that's just an assumption based on a very limitted pool of blogs I have seen mentioning it.
Some just use a regular catheter, but that doesn't necessarily prevent erections. It does make it harder to get one though. For me its more about the violation of my dick. having a dom slide a catheter into it and making me follow them around naked is one of my biggest fantasies. Bonus points for fucking me while the cath is dangling between my legs.
Probably bending their dick too far. moving it around, etc. Shit happens.
Its a very niche fetish, and not everybody is part of a forum or a blog. In addition, its not a topic people are comfortable talking about. If you dont partake in an activity that has risk, then you are 100% free of that risk. 99.99999% of people dont stick a cage around their their genitals. A fraction of those that do have issues, and a small fraction still will ever talk about them. In addition, people in the fetish community seem hesitant to discus risk. Very little text is spent on the risks and complications from activities. In addition, as I have mentioned before, their is an extreme lack of emphasis on biology, preferring slogans and empty statements. People in this thread are discussing catheters and messing with urethras. The risk is extreme, but there is no touching on it. I believe that people have a right to do with their bodies as they see fit, but they should be educated about their decisions. In a limited size community, there should be open discussion of both the good and the bad.
>whats the point?
its a control thing, makes it so you cant control your bladder. But mostly i just like the idea of being plugged up by a dom (im not into piss play or scat AT ALL). It's also a humiliation thing as well, sort of a way to make your dick useless. But you can also add a cage in as well for preventing erections.
I guess my posts have gotten more and more preachy. I want to correct that. I dont mean you should not engage in fetish play at all. I engage in prostate and anal play, as is evident in earlier posts. I am just appalled at the community when I look around, and want other /d/eviants to be safe. I am willing to provide information in that direction, but people should start to seek it out themselves.
Do you want a paper that indicates that penis fracture exists? Or maybe something that talks about how shoving unsterilized or poorly sterilized, poorly designed equipment down your urethra is bad? I think most of this is obvious. I have no desire to search pubmed's presumably thousands of articles on penile fracture, looking for a link between SM activities and penile fracture. Not to mention what my boss might say if he saw me using the database for that.
PS - all you people buying chastity cages - look up something called a penis fracture.
You're very unlikely to get a penis fracture from wearing a cock cage. IF you had a full erection and tried to force your dick into a cage I could see it happening, but otherwise the cage will simply limit the amount of blood that can enter the corpora cavernosa.
Refering back to the freeze-pop anaglogy, the sealed freeze-pop is analogous to an already erect penis. Getting a hard-on while in a cage would be more like filling a balloon inside a bottle. The balloon will conform to the shape of the inside of the bottle when filled, and any overflow will wash away. Similarly your body doesn't try to force a definite amount of blood into the penis, whatever there is sufficient room/blood pressure for will enter the corpora cavernosa, and the rest will remain in normal circulation.
So you have no proof, source or argument to back up your facts.
Wearing a chastity cage is perfectly safe even in long term as long as you are not stupid.
A shame stupidy is a really bad disease.
I dont feel like arguing, but you just admitted that there are risks. The majority of my posts are about risk awareness. If you agree, then you should help spread information. A safe fetishist is a happy fetishist.
The facts are thus: Penile fracture exists, and it is an established medical phenomena, and that the most common cause of penile fracture is stressing an erect penis, by bending it or shifting it aggressively. Finally, penis cages are made of a fixed materiel in a fixed shape, which is unyielding in most cases, and this shape is one which does not allow for a normal erection, commonly forcing the penis down, a stressful and unnatural position. This is the path of logic that I used to state my belief that use of a chastity cage could result in penile fracture.
A belt type system is much safer, as it allows free natural movement of the penis.
We really should be pointing people at responsible sources, instead of posting off-topic threads about toys in a board meant for impossible, drawn fantasies. Especially one that has /b/ right down the hall.
There's nothing wrong with assplay or chastity or whatever, but I've seen a lot of spurious suggestions and downright dangerous advice in other threads. This is simply not a good place to discuss these topics.
/b/ is useless, and nobody uses it. People are discussing these things here, and people need to be aware of the risks. Not redirect them to a worthless board. /h/, /d/, and to some extent /jp/ is where human sexuality is discussed. The internet is full of fucking awful sources on anything sex related, and there is a terminal lack of legitimate information available. The first step is for people to understand their bodies, and how they work. Using lingo or slang is counterproductive and dangerous.
Full belts are unfortunately prohibitively expensive.
I've been interested in chastity play for a while now but I'm not sure sure anymore. It's one thing to lock up your dick but I really, really don't want mine to end up getting hurt if there's any reasonably significant risk of it happening.
A belt costs a lot and needs to be custom-fitted, hence why it's not really an option for me. Are there any recorded cases of penis fractures from chastity cages?
I think it's a more than suitable topic, given the heavy RP slant these threads have taken and the fact that there is a lot of talk regarding buying devices. It's not that this is a good place to discuss these topics, but rather, that this is a place where these topics must be discussed.
If all that was being discussed here was fantasies, you'd have a point, but I think there are definitely people here who are locking themselves up.
>common cause of penile fracture is stressing an erect penis
What about the (tiny) soft resin of the holy trainer? You can't even get erect in the first place.
Plus my dick has been caught pointing downwards and tried to get erect in tight jeans about a million times, never did explode
If you are interested in working with this kind of behavior, sit down and have a heart to heart conversation with your primary provider about what you are planning to do. Its not going to be the strangest thing he heard, and is prevented from talking about anything that can identify you by HIPPA. Your secret is safe with him. He will likely point you to have a consultation with a urologist, and you can raise your concerns with him, and he will likely know risks and things to be concerned about. This will not be the strangest thing the urologist has seen that day, and he has likely been peed on at least once that day, unless you are his first patient.
Penile fracture is not likely, but other effects may be present, such as loss of proper circulation, nerve damage, muscle atrophy, skin irritation, and losing the key. You are keeping a part of the body from behaving as it should. Talk to your doc man, thats what they are there for.
Speaking of which...
When we get someone in the ER who as a cock ring we cant get off, we call maintenance. Never had a chastity device, but I need both hands to count how many cock rings I have seen cut off. They use a little saw.
Domme w/ huge huge huge chastity fetish here.
I think its pretty hot to break my subs penis. I want to lock it up so he can't touch it.
he can't use it, it's mine.
he doesnt need it.
he is used for my pleasure and only gets to cum when I decide so. Sometimes he'll get to cum with it, but I am training his boypussy to take my strapon, and stimulating his dfc. his nipples are much more sensitive when he is a good boy and chaste for me.
I want all of him, he is my property.
So if his poor little benis gets broken, that just makes it a better clit for me to play with when I want to. :3
If his dick does break from being locked (which i doubt, i dont think you can fracture a penis from putting it in a cock cage) then alright. awesome. I mean, he's already going to give me his balls
I mean its not like I realllyyyy want to break my favorite toy (ok i kinda do..) but I want to make it mine and change his body to only respond to me in the ways I train it to.
>>Do you want a paper that indicates that penis fracture exists?
I mean, a penis fracture isnt going to be caused by a cage.... It's long term exposure to pressure.
normally fracures are caused by *sudden* movements and sudden manipulations.
normally hardons in a cage will go away before damage can be done, and its not like a sudden movement that will break it.
>>Vaginal/anal intercourse and aggressive masturbation are the most common causes but the practice of taqaandan (also taghaandan) also puts men at risk of penile fracture. Taqaandan, which comes from a Kurdish word meaning "to click," involves bending the top part of the erect penis while holding the lower part of the shaft in place, until a click is heard and felt. Taqaandan is said to be painless and has been compared to cracking one's knuckles, but the practice of taqaandan has led to an increase in the prevalence of penile fractures in western Iran.
You realize how stupid you sound? This entire thread has been nothing but proper medical terminology, and people becoming aware of the possible hazards of fetish activities, the means to safely partake in them, as well as encouragement of research and involvement of medical personal. Statements like yours make you sound foolish, ignorant, and dangerous. Fetish play is about mutual trust and enjoyment. Openly stating that you dont care for your partners health is a demonstration of how emotionally shallow you are, and statements like "boypussy" show ignorance, and poor reading comprehension. Not that your spelling and grammar is anything to write home about. I honestly feel sorry for anyone who gets into a relationship with you. Grow the fuck up.
>Plus my dick has been caught pointing downwards and tried to get erect in tight jeans about a million times, never did explode
This, his entire argument is horribly flawed by this single fact. A chastity cage is no different than a tight pair of pants. I wore one for a week straight, no breaks. My penis didn't break, it didn't shrink, I didn't get some ungodly rash or infection. The only thing that happened was I had weird twinges when I was hard for about a week after because it was a spiked silicone cage. They went away after a week like I said and never came back. The spikes are gone now though because it made the device nigh impossible to put on. When I got hard it would simply fill the cage then get no bigger and after a bit it would just go back to being soft unless I was being stimulated.
There are countless chastity threads on countless kink forums and they all say the same thing. Your dick doesn't shrink, your dick doesn't break. The only thing I've found is that it might shrink your /flaccid/ size if you were already a shower and that after very long periods (months) it can take a day or so for you to be able to actually get hard again.
Different anon here:
>This entire thread has been nothing but proper medical terminology,
It has been hijacked with people wanting go preachy for some reason.
You can go to the BDSM thread aswell if you want or the corset thread or whatever thread you want to preach the risk of any given fetish.
Any fetish is to be enjoyed responsibly, if your penis is hurting/having issues unlock it immediately, period. People in the previous thread were telling other anons here not to buy certain models because they are junk and because of bad design they should be avoided altogether and nobody told them that they were being pussies for not wearing something that is obviously not properly designed for this kind of use.
> Statements like yours make you sound foolish, ignorant, and dangerous
Except you realize this thread doubles also to discuss fucking fantasies people have and not just what they have done in real life? Do you know the difference between an erotic fantasy and people actually ignoring the real life implications of fantasies? Of course you fucking don't because you are being a preacher in a fetish thread assuming people are idiots.
If people want to ignore risks, they are free to do so as they are if they want to ignore when their body is telling them "THIS IS A BAD IDEA STOP IMMEDIATELY" but you are not going to stop those people by coming to a /d/ thread were civil discussion was already ongoing and people were recommending people to get different models depending on their size or on if they just wanted to try this out short term or dip into something long term (and even then what they need to observe when going long-term).
So either lurk around and learn what the thread is actually about or fuck off and learn to differentiate when people are talking about their fantasies or actually living those out IRL. If you cannot do that you do not belong in this thread and are basically shitting it up for no good reason but your own medical circlejerking.
They weren't terrible unless squeezed or I was really hard in the cage. They were pretty flexible. It was a "knockoff" birdlocked cage but I'm positive it's the same exact model that birdlock sends out.
google mortithingy. It's a little electronics board that hooks up between the two cables controlling the release of a safe.
It has software so that you can give him a code that will only unlock in a given amount of time, or until he enters the unlock code only you have, or both.
>It's practical but imagine you just downloaded a porn movie but instead it's two hours lesson about STD. Maybe it's useful, but come on
Bonus points if it wasn't a mistake on your part but done on purpose by the producers.
This stuff has its place but it's definitely not in the middle of an ongoing discussion on /d/.
If he's so concerned, he could have opened a new a thread that's basically "PSA Thread, feel free to ask doctors about the potential risks of your kink/fetish" which would affect a much broader audience (I am sure people in the BDSM thread would not mind to voluntarily ask a few questions regarding different types of "punishment" and the risks involved).
Actually, this is more akin to you streaming the movie on something like a porn youtube site and it stopping midway with SDT PSA that you cannot skip or load another movie until you have watched it.
It's tonedeaf as hell and basically a bonerkiller (which is kinda ironic in this thread but still not funny).
>Also, what's with the little plastic white "Keyholder ####" tags?
It's to prove that you haven't unlocked it until your keyholder tells you to. IIRC you basically need to break them (not hard with plastic, you can normally cut it) in order to unlock your cage.
>I can't get soft enough to put it on though, which sucks. Any ideas?
Ice or a cold shower. Or you could masturbate and lock it immediately after that.
>To prove you haven't unlocked it
I still don't follow. It's like a padlock-esque thing with plastic prongs that push down into the hole, but you can freely pull it back out again without needing to break it, Unless I'm doing something wrong
I've been locked for a week now. Just tried to cum without my dick using various vibrators inside and outside, but I couldn't. I'm so frustrated right now.
Bought a silicone CB6000-esque cage (not sure if genuine or not - probably not, was fairly cheap and off ebay)
Anyway, my main problem is the ring for the balls. I've used the largest one, and I have to squeeze them through quite painfully, and even then with the cage locked on they can pop out again, and I could certainly do it deliberately. Am I doing something wrong, or what's the point in it if you can take your balls out the way they got in in the first place?
I think I'm fine now. I had to squeeze the flexible silicone around the base of my balls to its a very tight fit, then put the locking pieces through the ring. It pinches a bit, but I don't think I could take my balls out now.
Still, it makes me wonder about non flexible cages, like metal. What would stop them from pulling their balls out?
Ball-trap designs should have very little space between the ring sitting behind the balls, and the cage, so that when the cage is placed over the penis, the testicles don't have enough room to get past the cage and out through the ring.
coincidentally just got this in post today. It's tight as fuck. I just hope the circulation of my balls is okay.
Pull-out is the bane of every ball-trap device. Sometimes you can get accessories that will catch the skin on your dick to prevent you grabbing enough to pull it out.
My recommendation is to live with it. If you're in chastity it's because you want to be, and when you're most tempted to pull out, you'll be hard anyway, and won't be able to do so.
You seem to be advising against the wrong behavior. Like, according to your own post. Every case you have seen has resulted from it being bent too far while engorged with blood.
That isnt the same case as it being locked in a cage. You actually dont seem to have given any information about the risks of chastity cages at all. You, rather, have warned people about chastity cages causing something that you have never seen happen, from a sample size of four injuries with different damage methods.
You arent being as medically irreaponsible as the wanton, cathetering doms, but damn, sensationalist ER tech much?
Im not saying that a cage couldnt possibly cause a fracture, but its weird to preach so much harm about an injury youve never treated, or even seen, happen that way.
Med school has bad pedagogy, tons of bullshit to memorize, and has a way of changing the general benevolence that students have into a compulsive god-complex. Then you see lots of people who are alive only for the grace of fortune. You cant judge them too harshly.
Even if you still arent going to get a penile fracture from a cock cage. Unless you chug some viagra and are a massive grower.
I think it was just a dramatic way to get people to think about the complications of fetish behaviors. Broken dick is a lot more eye opening then "increased risk of rash" In any case, I agree that you should talk to a doctor before starting anything long term.
you can buy addons that attach to one of the pins which is an extra piece of plastic that grabs a bit of skin, makes it pretty much impossible
that said I don't really like it since it grabs skin, doesn't hurt but it makes the skin look quite red and I imagine prolonged use would make it pretty raw so I didn't use mine for very long
though thinking about it, it can get quite uncomfortable if you get hard, so don't get hard I guess
I think I am a little unfair to them, but all the docs I ever faced were pain in the ass and absolutely useless. I guess the only working method here is praying to the almighty.
>a cock cage
I am not even locking myself, really.
That feel when you buy yourself a 170$ device, only to realize that while you ordered the smallest ring they have, its too loose to trap the penis effectively AND while your penis is long enough to reach the end of the cage, it is much too narrow to fill it. This allows for the penis to easily be removed from the device and even reinserted without much effort.
I am so disappointed. I guess the only hope for chastity is probably a custom device and a PA piercing :c
its plastic and it goes on your dick.
I kinda think thats pretty doubtful
I'd get another tube (one of the short ones), but thats another 110$+shipping. Also, since length isnt the issue but rather thickness, I'm not sure that would even change anything
I'm sorry anon, having such a tiny penis to not even use the small chastity cages :(
If it makes you feel any better, you'll always have the natural chastity of being too small for a women
I love reading about all the cute anons all locked up and horny and unable to jerk their poor cocks and empty those poor balls
It makes me want to cum just thinking about it. I might go jerk off and shoot a huge load right now, it's gonna be so satisfying and stress relieving, mmm.
It took a while to get in, but once you're totally flaccid even for a bit it's tough to loosen it back up.