No online comm thread?
What the fuck am i looking at gulls
I am and I have caps for everyone who isn't in it so get ready for a photo spam ya'll.
This is all I can get for now so if anyone else can get the rest, that would be cool but up here is the main part of the whole tumblrinas crying.
Basically the only thing worth capping from then on after that edgy tryhard and Tumblrina kept arguing and posting bullshit memes at each other.
how bad are the limits/requirements for those 'exclusive' fb groups that try to background check you before you join? I don't exactly publicise that I'm a lolita on my facebook so I haven't bothered applying; you can kinda see that I'm wearing a dress on my profile pic and I'm a member of some groups but not the local comm. thinking of LSEU in particular but I guess this applies to others too
>you're a brown person?
>why aren't you mad?!
All these people ranting about classism like lolita is a necessity. It's not classist if your broke ass can only afford Bodyline, and you get your precious feefees hurt because you can't spend more than a hundred dollars on a coord.
Hi, I'm a mod for a cosplay group on facebook that does "background checks"
Idk about lolita, but we usually just check to make sure you're an actual human being. We get a lot of fake profiles trying to join to post ads to a bunch of bullshit.
Like the other anon said, if you get denied, just message an admin. Let them know you don't really publicize your interest in lolita on your profile but still want to be apart of the group.
Yellow is doing the 'Eat your greens because there are starving babies in Africa' speech, but for lolita, because she is clearly dumb as shit. You can feed your dog and the dress looks clean BUT SOME PEOPLE DON'T EVEN HAVE THE MONEY FOR A DRESS AND THIS HURTS MY FEELINGS. Like damn, I get that poverty is a real issue, but lolita is a luxury fashion. And it's Bodyline. It's not like she made a dog bed out of Puppet Circus.
If you don't know, you probably shouldn't be posting and need to lurk more.
I'm so sick of people putting lolita on the same level as basic needs and having this shitty attitude in general.
Some girl in my comm got totally miffed at a meet up a while back because people were talking about new releases and things they'd bought, which totally ~excluded~ her and a few other poorfag anons because they couldn't spend hundreds of dollars every week!!
I hadn't bought anything recently, either, but I didn't feel the need to bitch about it; I just talked about what releases I thought were cute.
Oh holy fuck this. You can't afford to buy a million dollar dress every week? Cool, neither can we. Look up 'saving money' and learn how you too can buy secondhand brand and the occasional new dress. If you can't afford to put aside a bit of money every month you can't afford frills. If you're offended because you're princess-sexual and your gender is 'royal', just channel the Little Princess and be butthurt in your attic until you have the money to buy the stuff you so desperately need.
I saw that thread and immediately wondered why he didn't turn it in at lost and found. The whole "missed connections" thing always strikes me as vaguely creepy because of its one-sided nature, but seeking someone out with one of their possessions in tow is even weirder.
Is been deleted already. I'll post what I got tho
GOOD. I had no idea the thread had descended to being so outright creepy until I read the archive, and just kind of rolled my eyes at the people saying how "sweet" it was for him to try to get it back to her this way.
Reading the archive, though. Shit. That escalated from "potentially a good (if awkward) Samaritan" to "nope" territory so damned fast.
It'd be sweet if he was genuinely trying to help her, but the fact that he could have handed it in to the lost and found and then made the post is just the first of many signs that he's not someone you'd want to meet.
It's incredible how little social grace he has, if he's this bad online (on fucking 4CH of all places) I'd hate to imagine how he was planning to woo his captured princess.
Agreed. If it was lost somewhere that didn't have a lost and found (like a park or something), I could see it as being a kind thing to do. But he said this happened in a store. Most stores will have a box or basket for lost items, and I know the first thing I'd do if I'd lost something would be to check with places I'd been that day, not look on Facebook or cgl.
idk if he just wanted to continue the conversation they were having or if he recognized it as burando and was nervous about leaving it at the store.
as someone who works in retail, I can guarantee that it's not uncommon for employees to keep shit that gets left behind, esp. if it's something pricy like jewelry or something.
anyways, as someone who knows this guy irl, I can vouch he's harmless, but a little socially awkward. I think he just wanted to do a good deed that had a personal touch to it.
but thanks to all of you sandy cunts who doxxed him and then felt it necessary to report him as a ~creep~ to the comm admins, apparently his post to the Washington-Seattle FB page was deleted & he was banned from the group. so the likelihood that whoever left their parasol behind will ever get it back is real fuckin' slim now. congratulations.
So the sissy and rape myth shit wasn't his? He still seems like a douchebag and not worth the effort.
Anyways he probably would have noticed soon enough to just hand it to her before she left if they had actually been having a conversation.
I'm not trying to defend his opinions, which admittedly can come across as pretty off-color at times, or his sexual fetishes. The way I see it, that has nothing to do with the topic at hand. People have a right to do whatever they want in the bedroom as long as it's not hurting anyone else. Sissies leave a particularly bad taste in the mouth of lolitas only because normalfags tend to mistake the fashion for the fetish so often, but I can at least guarantee that OP knows the difference (and isn't the type of person who would volunteer that information, if y'all hadn't decided that his dirty laundry needed public airing). All I'm saying is that he's not a bad person. Lacking in social grace, yeah, I can see that, but he isn't the kind of person to harass or stalk anyone Denko-style.
Besides, 'not worth the effort'? all this girl would have had to do was arrange to meet in a public space, bring a friend if anything felt weird to her, and pick up her parasol. Shipping on those things is a nightmare, I sure as hell wouldn't want to order a new one if I could get it back as simply as that. You guys make it sound like he was planning to follow her home and kidnap her or some shit, jfc.
I think lolitas are just really sensitive towards weeby dudes with potential ulterior motives. In the initial thread he made on here I remember him being like "I want to return it so I can make some depressed neet girl happy :3" (it wasn't said in so many words but he definitely said depressed neet) I think that comment alone just really turned people off and made girls uncomfortable. Not saying that he deserved to be doxxed or publicly humiliated, I'm just saying this is why people may have flown off the handle in regards to him. He seemed a little awkward at first, then came off as full blown weirdo the more he tried to defend himself calling lolitas "lolis" and again making assumptions that we were "sad and lonely" cuckquean freaks. People were just very bothered by him because, I dunno, maybe in his mind he was attempting to compliment or relate to us but it instead came off as creepy and the more he spoke the worse it got. If he's as innocent as you say he is then unfortunately it's one huge case of open mouth insert foot; lolitas are very protective over the community and the fashion so I'm not surprised someone jumped the gun. He would've been better off though if he just focused on trying to return the umbrella and not trying to be a cool guy and talk to people...like I said, his first mistake was that his comments came off as weird and insulting. I'm not sure why he thought calling us depressed NEETs would make us jump for joy. (perhaps other boards would've laughed but I thought everyone knew that cgl isn't like most other boards)
And with this post you have outed yourself. You said that bit about the parasol verbatim on his Facebook status about it. So it's not like we can trust anything you say about this freak
I totally get that. In fact, as soon as I read the archive and saw that comment you're referencing, I figured it probably wasn't going to end well.
I'd just like to throw in my two cents because I don't want him going down in /cgl/ cringe history as 'Umbrella Denko' or something like that. I feel partially responsible because I was the one who suggested posting on /cgl/ after he texted me asking whether there was a 'lolita hotline' or something like that. He doesn't have much prior experience with the ways of the seagulls, but since livejournal is pretty much dead these days and he hadn't received a response from the Seattle-WA comm at that point, I figured that the girl who left her parasol might be a lone lolita and this was possibly his best bet at finding her.
Also, I'm under the impression that he thinks 'loli' is an acceptable shorthand for 'lolita', rather than referring to the other kind. Probably should have given him some guidelines first before I told him to try here, but I never figured that it would have blown up in his face to the point that it did.
Even assuming that I'm whoever you think I am, why is this a problem? I've already 'outed' myself as his IRL friend, and I don't have anything to hide. He wasn't trying to do anything nefarious to this girl other than return her shit, so I'm completely comfortable defending him whether I'm anonymous or not.
Anyone know what this is about? I really want to know what cringeworthy behavior is having her banned from tea parties 10 years later lol
This event's ticketing terms are kinda fucked up???? Tickets are non-refundable but they can chose who does and doesn't get to use their ticket...
I know I can be picky-chosie about who I want to come to my meets but this is next fucking level
Oldfag here. Isn't this the chick that lied about modelling for Japanese brands and having custom-sized Moitie made for her? I think there was also some shit about her with other comm members that led to her being banned and becoming a lone lolita or some bullshit.
Edit: found her tag on getoffegl.
Isn't she the lolcow that claimed to be the plus-sized model for Moitie/Putumayo/AP/a bunch of different Japanese brands, while wearing nothing but replicas?
I seem to recall her stirring up shit years ago, and shit-talking the comm, so maybe people haven't been able to let it go?
My comm has a policy of making sure everybody who wants to join is a lolita, which means some people have been turned away. Some people have taken it as a slight and consider us cliquey but some people just tried again and explained they'd only just bought their first dresses etc. and were allowed in. I think it's one of those things where it'll vary from group to group, and it's always worth messaging a mod.
Isn't this the radioactive cupcakes chick? She's still been posting about how she's been bullied but her story keeps changing. Next week, she'll say it's been going on for 20 years.
Since it was brought up in the now-deleted confession thread, does anyone know the name of the lgbtq/lesbian lolita fb group?
Also, experiences/thoughts on it are cool, too. Someone said it was a tumblr shitshow, which I guess could be expected.
Please stop. This is nothing to derail a thread over, you can all stop posting now.
Has anyone felt like RC really died down after a few months? Is it because people feel like everything has already been discussed? I don't understand how there used to be so many posts on EGL every day when the online comms are relatively slow now.
It's the way that Facebook stacks their threads- it's a platform issue. Many topics would get posted and reposted over on EGL because nobody was going to dig through to comment on dead post from months before, or hadn't seen it a similar post in a couple of days so new post, new discussion. Look at some of the top posts from RC:U they're dated from months ago. It's the Facebook style bumps that keeps dead posts alive so there's no new incoming posts or discussion.
I keep trying to respect you but you've derailed multiple threads before with your pointless comebacks. Someone obviously has a vendetta for you, but now you're just giving them the reaction they're looking for and trying to make it about you. Just stop.
When that LGBTQ lolitas group was first made people got really upset that someone posted a thread about its existence on cgl. The mods said that if nobody came forward & removed themselves from the group theyd delete it.
It was me who started that cgl thread. I deleted it after 15 mins cuz I was convinced they'd figure out it was me from the EXIF data of the picture or something.
The group is inactive it was just the intro threads that had any activity.
I'm not the only one that saw this and cringed a little right?
I hate to say it, but weaboos would buy the shit out of those if she took better photos or sold them at an artist alley or something. They have the same sort of look that those hideous cat ears and mini tophats always have.
Exactly what I was going to say (blue and yellow) I'm not saying take the post down, but if the OP expects people to just take the joke, they can expect to take the criticism for being a tasteless edgelord. I'm not a tumblrina and love shows with dark humour like South Park, but like they said, the message isn't just about straight up belittling people; there's usually a sound argument or decent moral compass behind the crassness.
It's not a big deal by any means but the principle, man. If you think the commenters are whiny, the people defending playground-level humour is just as dumb.
Making a joke about bodyline, When you OWN bodyline (as she did) and actually the butt of the joke, isn't "tasteless". A joke doesn't need a moral to it in order to exist. You and the rest of the whiny babies in that thread can shove it.
I've been stalked by this furry for several years who just doesn't get the message. My friend left her stuff on the train when he tagged along (invited himself) to go to a con with us. I gave him my address to mail it to as not to endanger my friend. He sent me gifts which I feel guilty about (don't want to be seen as a 'user' or golddigger) but he did fucking molest me.
If this is directed at me, you do realize I am actually gay, right? So that's probably the least effective insult possible.
That said the issue becomes either delete the topic, link to the old topic, or have a new post about the same thing that was posted ~ a month ago. None of them are really "great" solutions.
If he continues, start refusing the packages. You have nothing to feel guilty about. You feel guilty because of the concept of reciprocity. When someone does something for us, we feel obligated to return the favor. However, you should not feel obligated to do anything for this person, as this person is not being respectful of your wants and wishes.
So you keeping the items already given is not using him or being a gold digger. He gave you an unwanted gift, you kept it.
You just don't want to keep doing it because he might mistakenly interpret that as interest and think you owe him something (he would be wrong, but still it's not helpful when your goal is to get rid of him).
That'd sell like hotcakes at any AA with a large number of weebs. Failing that, Tumblr has a sadly large amount of DD/lg blogs whose mods would be happy to buy all that shit up without a second thought.
This is damn depressing.
Still, at least she's making an effort to sustain herself, right? The collars don't look like they've been bought en masse from China and she's not begging for donations.
If he hurt you, you can use him until he has nothing left in his wallet. It's his choice to send you shit and if you don't want it in the house, which is understandable, sell it. He's a creepy asshole who doesn't understand boundaries, you might as well make him pay for it. Also, only euphoric gentlesirs would think you're being a golddigger in this situation, you gave him you address to not endanger your friend and he took it from there. You're not doing shit to encourage him, and if he's got enough social grace to send you presents when you don't want them, he won't understand that you don't want his furry fedora self no matter how clearly you tell him. He'll be an ass either way.
Good for you. It wasn't even intended to be an insult because being gay isn't insulting...also, no one cares! Gay, straight, bi. We're all meat bags. And I mean that in the most sincerest queer-straight alliance way possible.
Wow. Anon. You just made yourself look like an idiot. Many, many people liked that joke. Just because one of those people stand up for it doesn't make it the op. Nice try though...
Sorry the internet lacks tone of voice and in hindsight I realize that could look really special snowflake y
I'm not mad. I'm not having a little grumpy fit or anything. I just... It's really hard to resist the irony of that one.
But, I was serious about the second part. I'm leveling with you all; it's one of those situations where there is not a really good solution. People get upset no matter which thing is done. So it can it can sometimes be hard to find the balance between what option will annoy the fewest people, You know?
>doesn't recognise an obvious typo.
Sorry anon, but you're way to butthurt about the fact that people don't like the bodyline jokes anymore, because they're overused and uncreative. And aren't worth standing up for.
I need people to stop wearing Lolita to their fucking prom. There's a time and place to wear it, but prom just isn't one of them.
Or at least wear an actually fancy dress. One of those really lovely solid-coloured pieces in nicer material than basic-ass cotton that could be confused for a cute cocktail dress or something.
I mean. She chose the lolita equivalent of a Walmart sundress for her prom, ffs.
I thought used emoticons a lot but hot damn
This is a guy, too.
this is sad and I think I understand why she would try to share this but...just not the right place. she should've just posted it in some community groups and shared it to community news pages. especially if they just went missing like, that day, it makes more sense to share it to the people within the community then thousands of people who live around the world. most people don't go missing very far away from where they went missing from.
So, um, I guess I'm Umbrella-chan?
Here's my side of the story. I was in the food court at Uwajimaya to eat lunch last Saturday, and I had brief moments of conversation with a group of three dudes. After I left, I realized I didn't have my umbrella, so I retraced my steps. Uwajimaya said it wasn't in lost and found, so I whined to my husband and went on my way and got rained on.
My husband has already bought me a replacement, so I really don't need it. I've emailed him (assuming the address from the archive thread was really his) and asked him to turn it in to Uwajimaya.
So if anyone wants a free umbrella, you all have my permission to go to the Uwajimaya in the ID and claim it. Just so you know, the handle has some damage, and the top spring occasionally unlatches.
saw this in LSE...if you can't pay for this in full, then you shouldn't be buying it.
Hey Michigan - yeah I took one look and noped away. As far as I'm aware he's never come to a meet but if he ever does it should be interesting. (And by interesting I mean cringe-worthy.)
Second update, he's emailed me that he dropped it off at customer service at Uwajimaya Seattle at 1:10 today. Someone go get it!
And whoever is lucky enough to pick it up, please post here so that the Uwajimaya employees aren't overrun with too many gulls asking for an umbrella.
He was civil and apologetic in his emails. So this matter can be put to rest.
If you'd like a happy ending, though, my spouse added "Umbrella-chan" to his list of pet names for me when we're being silly. And his comment on the matter: "Well, at least he can say he succeeded in making you wet."
>I am actually quite shocked that what I previously thought to be a nice open and friendly community could react in such a rude and ostracizing manor. Possibly people should actually consider that Lolita is a bit more about what's inside than which dress you decide to put on in the morning.
Gimme 1 sec. Sorry for the line down the side. This was her reaction people saying it didn't belong in the sales group.
Mod deleted all comments and then posted this.
Same mod just when full rage before deleting the whole post. A few people replied to her first comment saying it was bad that something g like this was allowed, and her response was pretty much
"You three ladies are free to leave the group if you disagree with the moderators"
It happened so fast I didn't even get to cap.
If someone really, really, really wants to be a lolita, the first step is to buy lolita. You'd think that this would be an obvious and necessary first step in any fashion, because your lolita meter doesn't fill up with tea and loveliness and duets with nearby squirrels, it fills up with decent lolita clothes and improved coording skills. It's like these people are waiting for the petite coat fairy to pop into existence and sprinkle Milanoo on all lolitas-at-heart. Shit's not gonna happen.
I looked this chick up and apparently she lives in Melbourne, which is my local comm. I hope she doesn't find the comm's Facebook group.
No rufflechat thread, but this made me cringe.
Wear something muted and respectful that isn't attention grabbing, or just don't wear lolita for a day.
yes, but the main "WTF" about this is that they posted a sales post for their shitty crafts in a group about sewing (where no sales are allowed and even if they were, they would likely just be materials rather than finished products)
anyways I agree with you on that point but my beef with people complaining about LSC and "wow i thought this group was supposed to have standards" is that no one ever fucking posts concrit. concrit is totally okay in the rules and plenty of people ask for it but no one ever tells the people who really need it. you can bitch and complain all you want about "but if I say something then they whine" but people don't get better when you laugh at them in your head instead of giving them truthful criticisms. the way I look at it is, if they complain about getting concrit then let them make a fool of themselves. also, if you look around there IS some decent stuff that gets posted. most of it is newbies who seriously need help.
I agree with you 100% but
iirc, the last time someone said anything even remotely negative the OP lost their shit and everyone jumped on the person giving concrit.
I'm just not surprised that people are reluctant to give concrit after that.
My second job is catering! My boss likes me to wear lolita at work because it's cute and he likes that it draws attention to us especially since nost events we cater at are in public spaces like parks. I allready planned to wear toned down old school or casual lolita, but i havent decided exactly which dress to wear. Lolita is my daily clothes anyways so I wouldnt have much else to wear anyways. The location the walk is being held at is in a large public park so there will allready be tons of people there aside from just the people who are there for the walk/the mayor's speach.
Is that you in the screencap?
>Lolita is my daily clothes anyways so I wouldnt have much else to wear anyways
This is SUCH a bullshit excuse. Every adult should have some sensible business and formal wear in their closets. And if you don't, go to the mall and buy something. Simple.
Regardless of what your boss asks of you, it's in poor taste to wear lolita to a holocaust memorial event. End of story.
I think it's more that gulls are vastly out-numbered by dumbasses who want to protect everyone's feelings. It's filled to the brim with the same idiots who are in the other sewing group and turned that to shit, so there's not even a point for it to exist anymore.
I guess so but if the amount of people on here who ~talk shit went and gave concrit to those people I don't think it would even matter, or it would at least drive people out.
like, if a band of 10 people giving concrit can't tell 11 dumbasses to chill out I don't know what to tell you. I suppose it's one thing if OP freaks out but if they're asking for concrit and they at least respond neutrally to you then who tf cares about all the other dumb bimbos?
I know it's easier said than done and I know we all like to come here to talk shit and blow off steam but I truly do believe that if half the amount of people here were able to post their comments as concrit directly to the person without caring that some moron ita is gonna cry, we would see a lot more improvement in people. (but again, I guess easier said than done)
I agree with you, and I even tried to back up the person who tried to give concrit last time, but it sucks when no one else wants to back you up and everyone else just dogpiles you
Seems like no one wants to be direct off anon
>Seems like no one wants to be direct off anon
it's funny, too, because they frame their reluctance as "but then people don't like my feedback." well, with your concrit you are telling someone you do not like what they posted. you can't complain about other people being too sensitive when you yourself fear feedback on your feedback...
Yeah like, what the fuck, how can you not have any other clothes? What do you do if and when you need to clean, or do an otherwise dirty activity? Exercise? You're telling me you lay about the house in lolita in your downtime? Not to mention sensible formalwear as anon already mentioned.
Hey so is there a facebook comm of some kind that includes all comms in the US?
Some anon posted in another thread about committing a crime that resulted in another girl being injured. I would like to find out who this girl is and let her know I have screencaps that provide evidence that it was someone at her house, that way she and authorities can narrow it down.
>What is anonymity?
Seriously, the last thing I want is one of these whiney little tumbrinas trying to doxx me because I told them their shoes weren't really lolita. If failbook wasn't such a bitch about using your real name I might be more tempted leave real concrit.
Music game hell comm is filled with special snow flacks.
10/10 people who love dank music game memes
This one takes the cake.
Her drawing never get better.
people have asked her to stop.
Cringy weeaboo drawings
This one was posted in the comm.
Sorry, but this really is very disrespectful.
I know you probably don't mean it in that way, but lolita is a very attention-grabbing fashion and this event should be about remembering those who suffered, not about what "cute outfit I'll wear"
If your boss likes it BECAUSE it is attention-grabbing, then he/she is attending the event for the wrong reasons. You should politely decline to dress up that day.
If you absolutely have nothing else to wear (which I find difficult to believe) then wear something very very very simple with no accessories or petti.
Try to make it as normie as possible.
Too bad I'm late to the party, it is a Clamp cosplay.
I mean I hope it never happened, but either way it is against the rules here to talk about committing crimes, regardless of how minor they are. (People have been banned on /tv/ for posting download links in the past even tho pirating is widely accepted)
That thread was already in autosage which is probably why the mods didn't bother. That also makes me think the anon posted it thinking it'd be a way to get it off their chest without getting caught.
I've had a conversation with a friend of mine who practices law and there are ways to report this kind of thing.
See the thing is we don't know if it happened or not or where it happened. If it happened outside of the US, I can't be much of help unfortunately. If it did, I want to know if someone was harmed due to an extreme reason.
Sorry but words are nothing compared to tampering with someone's belongings without their permission and causing physical harm, not to mention they wrote that it was a planned thing.
I almost wore lolita to my junior prom...everyone was telling me it was such a good idea and I thought I was so original. I had bought a super cheap looking pink old school dress without even doing any research. Thank god my boyfriend suggested that I ask cgl for coord help because I started browsing cgl regularly after that and quickly figured out what an absolutely awful idea that was.
Oh my god nobody fucking cares. Topics like this are so pointless. We don't have a lot of darker skin people in lolita because a lot of darker skin people just aren't into it. Nothing is stopping them from wearing it jesus fucking christ.
Why does nobody care about the ban-happy janitor? A whole bunch of people cared in the thread that got deleted, and led to many bans. Is everyone now just too scared of being banned to talk about it again?
I just don't understand, I'm not trying to end the site I'm just trying to discuss cgl as a community. I'm not some kind of terrorist, I just want to talk about being a gull.
I wish this person would stop posting. I've tried talking to him multiple times in gentle ways about maybe not wasting hours of their time making shitty drawings for MGH. Honestly you should just make a callout thread in the group and tell them to quit it with this shit, rather than posting in /cgl/.
I feel like everyone is imagining some ott convention-ready coord. Like I said I honestly have nothing aside from lolita, my work uniform clothes, and one maternity shirt(that i wear as a dress now on laundry days).
I wore my btssb Dessert OP with a boater hat, ankle socks and no petticoat. No matter what, I have to look cute for work. I cant imagine anyone would want to buy food from someone who looked like a slob or someone wearing spandex or sweat pants. I don't own that shit and I'm certainly not going to go out and buy a new outfit for one day of work.
I was wearing a simple non printed brand dress. No one, unless someone who actually knew what lolita is, would of even recognized what I was wearing.
Aside from that, even though the vendors were on the far end of the field away from the stage, the speaches were pretty cool and empowering. It was more anti hate then it was focused on the holocaust. Some congress women and pastors and rabi of all different religion and ethnic backgrounds spoke at the event, and i really enoyed it. We did a lot better business wise compared to the guy who had bbq pork(who would of guessed).
>sage because no1 gives a shit
">sage because no1 gives a shit"
Really more like
>sage because I don't want to be called out again
I'm not saying what you wore was a bad outfit to wear, but your reasoning is selfish and stupid.
No one was telling you to look like a slob, just to wear normie clothes instead of LOOK AT ME clothes.
>eyes out for you to become a future lolcow
I only saged because my reply was OT. If i saged because i "didnt want to be called out again" i wouldn't of replied at all.
>your reasoning is selfish and stupid
Ok so it's selfish and stupid for me to not go out and buy new clothes to wear to a 4 hour shift at my second job just because you dont think i should wear my normal clothes. I wore something out of my closet that looked pretty normalfag, and unless you were in the know about niche japanese fashions, you would of never known my dress was from glorious nippon. If I wanted some "look at me" clothes i would of worn some wacky meta shit or AP pastel vomit. I always dress to the occasion of where we are working each weekend. I just happen to do it with clothing typically worn in lolita. I mean I get what you're saying but you are overreacting like crazy. Take a fucking chill pill.
I think the point that she was trying to make is that it's weird/awkward of her to make the "you're being too sensitive omg calm down it's just a joke" argument when that's argument is (supposedly) turned against her a lot for w/e other issues she has re; race/gender. I don't think it was about the lolita specifically.
>"Source: I'm a plus size designer."
>No black brand models
>I'm mad that Japanese people don't have black models
>Let's sue them to include black people! That's a sure way to make them like us and and want to include more people in the future!
The worst part? This bitch is totally serious. I think if a Japanese lawyer saw that lawsuit come over the table he would laugh so hard he wouldn't be able to litigate. Like seriously.
which group is this? anyways sparky spud is a fucking dumb bitch lol I watched people in frilly-free-for-all tell her not to support AM or the Leigh's stupid store, and she still went. the post must've gotten deleted because I remember she posted pics in the group of her haul and was like FRANKUHLY, THOSE WARNINGS DIDN'T SCURR ME SO WHATEVER!
Honestly if you can't go anywhere online without being 'bullied' by a bunch of different strangers then you're probably instigating it yourself in some way. This coming from someone who experienced actual bullying in middle school.
Of course by 'bullying' he/she/they/sparkleself probably just meant that someone told her to get a better petticoat or something.
That girl is ESL, seems like she verbified 'provocation' without realizing the correct term is 'provoke'.
Personally I'm More concerned with That one dumb whiteknight's Seemingly random mid-sentence Capitalizations. Is it a code...?
Begging for asspats in the San Japan cosplay group. Dude has a shit wig, shit material, and shit construction. Still, the groups a total hug-box with similarly shitty cosplayers so there's just comments praising him. "So brave".
I'm just in the group for cringe at this point.
If you want to wear lolita, fucking wear it. It's a very niche fashion, you don't get many people of any colour in the lolita industry. Plenty of people only see it as a weird baby fetish for haggard women who seductively suck lollipops and wear pigtails, they're not gonna go out of their way to be associated with that sort of image.
I can see why he got rejected. Everything about him is atrocious.
Since nobody had posted about picking up the umbrella, and I was in the area anyway today, I stopped by Uwajimaya customer service and asked if they had the black ruffly umbrella. Nope, it was gone. So hopefully it will serve their new owner well, whoever it may be.
Goodbye, B-grade oddment pack IW umbrella that unlatched and ate my head at least once a month. From your disappearance, sprung forth a hilarious story.
Damn right. If I can't have Princess Butt Sparkles then she can't have Bat Queen.
Different anon but it literally makes me cringe to look at it.
Consider the following:
>Rebecca Smith: I think this is too highly priced! I could make a replica for $20!
Mildly annoying but clearly just an idiot, right?
>Dark Moon Princess: I think this is too highly priced! I could make a replica for $20!
You take one look at the name and it's immediately worse, isn't it? It makes you wonder why the heck an edgy middle schooler joined and shouldn't they be in school?
On top of that what >>8852169
>>8852227 said. I don't like having my real name attached to my Facebook because of family but it's certainly made me think twice about posting things on FB that I would here because now people can associate my real name to it.