A lonely thread for lonely people >rules >be nice xd

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Hello, I'm here to keep you company!

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Hello everyone

>>715660974
You know I wanted to reply right away "how are you". But what would that do for you op? You would tell me something like small talk or some sweet nothing and we have this award little conversation about who knows what.

What would that accomplish in our hearts? Why do we feel so lonely.

>>715662029
because you feel like just being by yourself isn't good enough.

Am I allowed here if I choose to be alone?

>>715662120
I'm just not trying hard enough... Hmmmm.

I'm sorry I will just leave the lonely thread.

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i'm lonely but also i hate everybody wtf is wrong with me
i wish the apocalypse would happen so badly

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>>715662204
yeah
Gonna dump some relaxing gifs

A girl just moved away. We were only together a few weeks, and started to get some strong feelings for each other, but she had to move back home a couple days ago. I've been missing her.

Hi, my fav cereal is honey oat clusters.

Talking to other humans makes me nervous unless we're one-on-one or it's been established that they're "weird". I have an awesome gf who's better with people and awesome to me. Life is good/bad.
I hope all your likves are more good than bad.
I am stoned and alone.
Cept bb gurl she asleep o the bed. \

I'm watching freaks and geeks and Bill is my favorite.

Hi.

>>715662354
I know this feel, it sucks cause I wanna hang out but the minute I do I just hate them so fucking much...

Hello Everyone

>>715662411
Lock it down while you can man, and definitely don't do long distance. Be smart, and be safe, but mostly be happy.

Lonely reporting in. Just took myself to see the new Star Wars (I live across the street from a movie theatre; I'm kinda a movie buff and I used to do this with my friends but college is over, everyone's graduated and I'm kinda getting left behind).

I'm trying to find some contentment with loneliness and companionship with myself. I'm almost 4 months in from a breakup and I stopped being a little bitch about it and crying about it every night before I go to sleep a few weeks ago.

Things are starting to pan out but there's still some moments.

I'll be praying and hoping that everyone tonight finds some sort of peace and comfort in whatever it is, hope you /b/rothers are cozy.

Got rejected by a qt on okc. It's just one person, but it still hurts.

>>715662646
I. Love. You.
Keep trying.
And check out Chelsea Reject. She's one of us.

>>715662675
Sorry to hear that /b/rother. I'll say a few words for you that you find some comfort elsewhere and that the feelings will subside quickly.

Remember to not focus too much on the materialistic side of relationships. There are drawbacks despite the perks, and most importantly know and find yourself before offering it to someone else.

Just general sageing but do what you need to do. Try to be kind to yourself in the mean time and make the improvements you need in order to sustain YOU, and for no one else but you. Stay strong /b/rother.

Hello everyone, I wish I had some real friends instead of just colleagues. I can't count on anyone other than myself, my father and my boyfriend in times of trouble.

>>715662340
The trick is to not try. Accept the fact that you are perfectly fine without the attention or affection of other people. That's all loneliness is, anyway. A craving for attention and affection. If you are happy with being alone, you will stop craving. When you stop craving, you allow love to come to you.

It's like fishing with your hands. You can jump in and chase the fish all around the stream and never catch anything. However, when you are still and peaceful, fish will swim right next to you.

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>>715662537
ikr
every time i go hang out i end up just wanting to go home.
even if there is a time i meet a girl she starts talking and spewing garbage and i don't even want to engage with them at all.

>>715662762
I'm not sure "trying" is something I'm willing to do anymore. Too many factors in my life (as well as my age) are working against me.

While I don't enjoy being a debbie downer, I think this last relationship (one of my only few) was just reinforcement for my prior years of living and not trying so hard.

I'm okay with not being in a relationship because I went so long without it, just left over feelings make it so needlessly difficult to just return to how I was before.

Love you too /b/rother. We've got this, Either way just keep pushing. I won't be an-hero'ing anytime soon but I think I need to find some happiness in solitude for a little while. Sometimes it's nice to crawl back out of my cave though and into threads like this just for a little reminder that there's still some folks struggling out there just like me.

Anyone else going through college but strictly focusing on your studies with no social life?

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>>715662430
Honey oat clusters make me lonely too

>>715663171
That was me, and it would have been fine if I had actually found a job with my degree (Graphic Design), which I totally could but I've lost some motivation the last few years.

Even so, I'm not working a terrible job, just not one that's very impressive (backroom processing for a bank; mostly paperwork pushing etc).

Anyway I'd say prioritize what you think will help you out in the long run! If you struggle with school, you can still socialize, but find other academics who are serious about their careers to bounce off of and network.

Or if you're going for some bonk degree you know won't nab you a job and college is just an outlet for your social necessities then focus on that shit.

You'll know what to do when the time comes.

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>>715662646
lol, yeah we know that long distance won't work. I know it's over, and I'm happy that she's moved back home where she will be happy. Still just missing her for the good time we always had together.

I kind of felt the same thing with a lot of my long-term friends after college, and we haven't really stayed as connected as I had hoped.
Still haven't figured out how to be happy with just being alone. Part of it is my co-dependent behavior. Another is self-esteem probably. Who knows?

Either way, it's something I'm working on.

Hi people alone :)
Someone want to break my loneliness

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>>715662906
Yo
What kind of work do you do?

>>715663411
It's something people shouldn't ideally have to work on but you know it's there for a reason. Some of us are born as social butterflies, some of us need to find some peace in solitude.

Either way don't be bitter about it but embrace what it is you need to.

Sorry to hear about it though, I am slowly finding myself again. I hope you do too. Do what ever it is you need to do though, and I urge you to consider moving if you really feel like it's something you want to move forward with (be realistic though).

Otherwise the feeling will subside as you find other people to be with (sadly) but that's how we are programmed as people; just gotta find distractions.

I hope you can find some in the mean time.

hey...

>>715662119
This is me.
I miss caring about people, but then again I now know that I shouldn't because I know what will happen.

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>>715663025
Maybe instead of trying, you should just let go of those things that are bothering you.

How heavy is a glass of water after holding it for an hour? two hours?
How heavy do you think that glass of water is when you put it down? The things we lie awake thinking about are like this. We can choose to put them down. They are only in our heads.

Seems like no matter what I do it always leads to disappointment

I try to help and love others but it never seems enough; I don't know if I care too much or just get hurt too easily. Some days seem like my best but most feel like the worst. I just want someone to be there and care for me, someone who genuinely loves me and not bound by some social contract.

I can't lie, but I've been basically addicted to drugs for a good while, they're the only thing that brings me out of this hole and makes me feel alive again like I used to feel, but then they push me back and leave me in the same hole, sorry about the rant, just not sure what to do anymore...

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>>715663436
What are you wearing?

>>715663699
hey... same question

hello

>>715663780
I have been slowly putting them down. Problem was my last relationship was enough to tip the bad relationship I already had with my family.

I have not talked to her though, I have not texted her or facebook'd her (she's not on any of my social media). I am now having trouble letting go with my subconscious, occasionally I'll have dreams about her which briefly sets off the things I grew attached to but I'm slowly getting better.

I'm told this won't stop and could haunt me for the rest of my life but I am dealing with it.

I started going back to the gym (by myself) and I've lost a good 20 lbs and I'm getting my body-form back. I'm doing it for me though just to try to prove to myself I am strong enough to handle this shit.

For now though I just want to find some peace, away from my family problems, away from the problems I found while dating her (her family didn't like me, they were very ethnic and didn't like the fact that she wasn't dating within their culture).

It is what it is though, she made her choices and I'm now making mine to sustain what's left of myself.

I am taking your advice though anon, I will do what I can to let it go but we all know what it's like to just let yourself free fall after holding onto something we thought was our foundation for the longest time.

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Hello mates, lonely person without a life here!

How is everybody going?

>>715663947
I wear clothe i think ..

>>715662675
It's ok /b/ro at least you did it, it's better to know than to wonder

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I never understood why people need interaction. I guess it's because I am a paranoid schizophrenic who hears voices 24/7 makes isolation a necessity. This thread is for pathetic people who haven't been crushed by life enough.

>>715664101
Kickin it squeeky style /b/rotha. I'm feeling the NHK mang, how's that conspiracy holdin you these days?

>>715663580
I don't work yet but I study. I do get £50 a month from my father for doing chores though

>>715664164
What do the voices say, and how do I get some so I can find some peace in solitude?

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>>715664104

yes

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Be me

I'm a Sommelier (wine guy at nice restaurant) make decent money, look ok (but I'm short) and work with people every day. I never form human relationships though, but I am the master of superficial interactions.

I'm lonely in a crowd.

Pic is my job's wine cellar.

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>>715663924
You seem like you're focusing on the happiness and well-being of others to substitute for the lack of happiness and well-being in yourself. I've found that when I focus on my own happiness and well-being, I exude those things, and help other people passively by my own positive behavior.

Remember that while most of your actions are habits, every single one of them is a choice. Don't hate yourself for the choices you make. Simply accept the results of your decisions, and learn from them. Don't beat yourself up when you make the same "bad" decisions. You're imperfect, and it's expected of you to screw up. Allow yourself to be human.

>>715664343
What about you?

kill me

>>715664225
Considering for the past 3 months I only went outside six times. I'm feeling pretty nice!

>>715664418

Actually I wasn't the one asking..

I happen to wear clothes as well. What are the odds.

I've been out of a relationship for awhile, when me and this girl got pretty serious. We had sex but it felt so empty, afterwards see pretty much negated talking to me all together, when not even two weeks rolled by she was with someone else. I feel like I'm destined for this loneliness.

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>>715664521
Hopefully not socks

>>715664515
Fuck yeah dude, keep livin that conspiracy. I'm a believer, I'm not quite a shut in but I am quite reclusive, it really kinda destroyed my last relationship or at least was part of it.

I'm not "exciting" enough but it is what it is. Best of luck either way.

>>715664626

sorry footfag, I do wear socks and I have hairy hobbit feet.

Can this become a vocaroo thread?
http://vocaroo.com/i/s0ZFuqE8SIHv

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>>715664085
>sustain what's left of myself
You are still whole, just as you have always been. There is no part of your mind missing. It's simply thinking different things than you want it to think.

Kind of a long listen, but this is a good talk on ending relationships by a buddhist monk. He has a really good perspective on how to approach it from a place positivity rather than sorrow or grief.

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>>715664724
Take off your socks

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Everybody take your socks off

Let your feet be free

>>715664401
Makes sense I guess, kinda reminds me of my favorite quote from Max Payne 3: "I tried not to think about when it was that my existence became less about the things that make up people’s lives, and more about the holes that losing those things leave behind."

I'll try to remember that and it's not really that I hate myself for my drug addiction, I kinda hate to admit it, but I actually love myself for it since it helps me feel like things will be alright and everything is all good, only thing that makes me hate it is I know it's slowly killing me but maybe when I start working on myself and things get better I won't need them anymore, at least that's what I hope for.

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>>715664282
They tell me to kill myself repetitively. With constant reminders that I'm worthless. You can get some by having shit genes.

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>>715664765

It's cold. I'd do if I had sexy girl feet.

What are you even doing here? Weirdo?

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>>715664744
>>715664085
Forgot to link video
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D3XIw8D_vI8
It's about an hour long but worth it, I think. It really helped me be at peace with ending a long relationship with a girl I lived with and loved.

>>715664744
I'll look for it, I'm slowly coming to terms with it and trying to be neutral about it but as weak as we are as humans, we're sadly going to go through all the emotional shit.

Thank you for the advice though. The wounds are still pretty fresh and I'm still dealing with a few things because of what I did "lose" but I think it was all stuff that was impending. Either way I'm finding a good portion of my self esteem again but I have to push every day for it. But that's true for anyone. Thanks again /b/rother.

>>715664364
>I am the master of superficial interactions.
Sounds exhausting. Like successfully chatting up a cute girl only to never see her again, but doing it multiple times a day with different cute girls.

here lonely people.... helps me...https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jw5UmFVt5jY

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>>715664230
At least you can count on yourself in times of trouble, lol. There are a lot of people who wish they could say that.

Are you in uni?

So, I'm a few months into some useless studies.

For the first time I didn't try to socialise, not seeing the point anymore.

I'm just perfectly alone, except talking to teachers here and there.

I just get back home everyday and work on my own. It's doing ok for now. Hopping that I won't go crazy too soon.
It's hard to sleep because all the neighbors are social bastards and like to party all the time.

Only a few months left before I can move to another hell, though.

Hopefully it will be easier.

I feel strangely ok though. Other than a few brief moments of suffering, I'm even somewhat happy just living for work.

>rules
get fucked faggot

"well things could go way better, but there are many people who are living worse situations, I can't really be sad about my life."

>>715666666 for s4s

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>>715664897
How are you calling me names when you're the one wearing socks?

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>>715664611
All relationships end. Many just don't work out. More will come, and more will end. That's just life. Loneliness is only a state of mind, though. There are some people who spend their lives happily in near complete solitude. They don't have different brains than you or I. They just have different mindsets.

*is rude*

>>715665321
Not yet, last year of college. I guess it's good but I wish I had a friend to count on. Like this sometimes I feel helpless.

>>715664840
They will get better. You won't even really be conscious of it. One day, you'll just be driving down the highway and realize that things are good. They're not perfect, or even how you planned them to be, but they're good.

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>>715664844
schizo?

>>715665336
Are you moving to another city or just to another apartment?

>>715664844
I'm sorry, I won't say otherwise cause I don't personally know you and I don't want to stroke my ego like I'm some white knight cuck, but stay safe anon. I'll say a few prayers for you, I know it's doesn't mean much but it's all I've got.

I hope you find some peace in that, I can't imagine living in that sort of daily torment.

>>715665483
suffering is all relative, man. People experience depression all around the world for various reasons. Nobody's is right or wrong.