Bullying - did it ever happen to you? And did it have any longterm effects?
Not really a fag, but fantasies about being dominated and humiliated.
>did it happen to you?
>did it have any longterm effects?
yes. i feel like shit every day knowing no cute boy wanted to bully me to win my affection and show his dominance.
>no cute boy wanted to bully me to win my affection
>to win my affection
That's not what bullies have on their mind typically... Bullies do it to humiliate others and raise their own status.
>that feel when all you ever wanted was to be used as stress relief by the junior soccer team at school
Dearest 4chan, where would I find young bullies to molest and humiliate me?
>tfw your bullies will never know you secretly loved it and wanted more
Bullied at PE. Everybody would jump on me, try to knock me down, trip me, etc... i fought them off most of the time but eventually I quit school in the 10th grade because i was just sick of the abuse. I might've had a better life had I stayed in school and graduated when I was supposed to.
How often did their bullying make you cum? Did they force you to suck your cummy undies dry?
I wish I was bullied that way
At that time I definitely didn't love it, I hated them with all my heart. It only turned into a fetish much later.
With one possible exception, my 8-year-old cousin tried to kick me in the balls when I was 14. I dodged the kick at the last moment. I spent the whole night fapping thinking of what might had happened if he had actually kicked me. But this was more centered around the possible reaction of his girlfriend (who had whispered into his ears that he should kick me after we got into a fight).
Also Digimon is my favorite Shota
I got fucked with a lot as a kid at school and at home. Fat, autistic, socially maladjusted retard who was poor in a private school filled with rich kids. The first two years of high school were bad until I adapted.
Even though all that shit happened to me, I don't bullying is the insane demon the media has made it out to be. I've never felt loved, and I only want to live by myself and have very little social interactions but that's mostly by choice. Most of the kids that fucked with me in school now have terrible lives themselves. The ones that aren't dead often have drug related issues, or children spread across different skanks and are unemployed. It is what it is.
>children spread across different skanks
Not sure if this is better or worse than being a permavirgin (as in my case). And the feeling that I could not even defend myself against kids much younger than me certainly was a key factor in never finding a girlfriend.
I was the bully, but I bullied people for positive effects such as bad hygene, doing bad at school due to lazyness. It worked out most of the time, the people that smelled like shit started to shower more regularily and the lazy fucks had better grades.
I didnt really do it to somehow assert my status, i just did it cuz i was tired of their behavior.
Yeah, I got bullied a lot. It was mainly because I was a fag who didn't know how to deal with it though. I would always cry, threaten to kill myself, shit like that. God I was stupid.
I was bullied lightly here and there when I was younger, and I bullied others as well. That's the way the pubescent pecking order works itself out.
Never was beaten up or beat up anyone else though, just antagonizing type shit, pushing in the hallways, calling each other faggots. Typical "I have no idea how to be an adult man" behavior.
No big deal to me, but there are definitely some moments when I felt humiliated that still come to me late at night in bed. Married to a woman I love, own my house, have a six figure job and cool toys, travel, and genuinely like myself, but it's fucking amazing how you can still feel like such a fucking loser remembering that time you didn't stand up for yourself in class 15 years ago.
I never cried, but I avoided confrontations with friends and classmates at all costs. As a result I had no clue what to do even when I was attacked by kids much younger than me. And the little brats really seemed to smell this.
Yeah, that may not have been bullying so much as speaking your mind. However, really drilling into people who are lower status or who have obvious weaknesses, like fat kids or poor kids, is just fucked up. When it bleeds over into other people's lives though (whining, smelling bad, sucking on their whole hand in class like this one weirdo did), fuck' em. Their feelings matter little unless they consider other people's.
I feel like being hated for being shy and never speaking is why I'm completely autistic now. My anxiety is so bad that I can't go anywhere without being terrified and constantly shaking. I try to make my life seem worth something by making music, and now I'm trying to learn code. But even if I make something that's worth anything I'm still gonna be a worthless piece of shit that can't interact with anyone. I don't even remember the last time I felt calm.
sometimes i wish i could go back and change my actions, id likely get the shit kicked out of me for it, but fuck it, buises heal easily.
social issues are only ever solved by forcing yourself to socialize with people man, even if its just grabbing a pint with a couple of mates every once in a while.
bullying isnt always all negatives, if i hadnt been bullied to some degree i wouldnt have realised how much of a twat id been. course it could have all been avoided if my parents had paid any attention at all to my social development (or lack of it at least).
if my chance any of you fags here have kids, fucking FORCE them to socialize from a young age, it stops them growing up as autists.
I know it sounds fucked up. But at that time I was so shy that I avoided contact with most boys of my own age, and I didn't even dare to look at girls. Next to my cousin and his girlfriend I felt completely relaxed because I thought the age difference would guarantee that nothing embarassing could happen to me. Then suddenly the shock that an 7 or 8 year old girl had whispered to my cousin he should kick me in the balls - while she was flashing the cutest smile at me! Next shock was when I tried to confront my cousin and he told me not to be such a pussy - that he had kicked most of the boys in his school and they kicked him too. He is six years younger than me ! It made something flip inside my brain I guess.
>fucking FORCE them to socialize from a young age, it stops them growing up as autists.
Throwing kids into the water without teaching them how to swim is not good advice. At least you have to tell them how they should behave if they are confronted with bullies.
i dont mean in that context, i mean in general. i spent the first 10 years of my life with no friends, playing vidya all day, and when life eventually forced me to engage with others i was lost, i literally acted like and autist because for all intents and purposes i was one. obviously youve gotta teach your kid things, but you cant let them shy away from socialising, it only leads to worse problems down the road.
Yea. 7th grade, by a tall lanky ginger that everybody else picked on. I beat him with a coathanger in the locker room after a few weeks of being harassed, he cried, never happened again. Graduated from the same school and never got fucked with again except by a black kid that only went there a month. Got a smart mouth one day with me (I'm Aryan as hell) and a super redneck kid in my class beat the shit out of him before i could even react.
I was bullied in class 1-4 (german school system) for being overly aggressive. I was bullied in class 5-13 for being smarter and more polite than everybody. I was fucking bullied by most of my teachers for stating my own opinion.
Long term effects: I became arrogant, still smarter than average, I now have a shitload of confidence and I absoloutley HATE incompetent teachers (hopefully they all die and we get a complete set of new, competent teachers..)
So... Quit being pussies, quit being betas and get on my level bitches..
Not trying to be edgy but anyone who ever tried to bully me ended up getting their shit kicked in
Which also made me a loner cause people who didn't already know me thought I was a psycho when really I just wanted to be left alone
I don't feel offended by this, I'm just saying it is not true, as I am not attracted to the male body.
I just have a massive fetish for situations where anybody is defeated and humiliated by someone supposedly weaker than him, because I can so completely identify myself with the victim. I already had very strong feelings about this as a kid, but I thought it was a feeling of hate (and could not explain why it gave me a boner). Only now I can admit how much it turns me on.
Gif related, already fapped to this (not the gif, but the pics from the comic) before I could cum.
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Yes and yes
Happend whole my schooltime and fucked up my mind survival method hugely. Still hold a grudge againt them. They are my enemies. Never have they appologied and I am plotting my revenge.
kid or not you did it to yourself m8, move on and leave it behind you
I came to this thread to have a nice conversation about my shitty childhood but I guess it's just a thread of faggots posting pictures of naked male anime children. Kill yourselves, all of yous
I didn't acknowledge that get.
I'm not really sure how common it is. It doesn't feel common.
Its a feeling of being used that doesn't really go away. I am positive that there are pictures of me circulating on the internet somewhere. It just doesn't feel good.
Is this a shota thread disguised as a bullying thread?
you were a kid exploring your sexuality
basically had a shared jerk session remotely
shouldn't feel bad
>I'm not really sure how common it is. It doesn't feel common.
they probably tried, but since I have a mild case of autism... I never realised it. A few kids who I suppose were "bullies" attempted physical violence but... lets just say my response was either excessive and brutal (chase kid down and bash head off concrete floor till someone drags me off him) or insane-person creepy (laughing uncontrollably as someone attempts to beat me).
This gained me a reputation which caused even the worst of the high school jock bullies to steer clear and let me get away with stuff.
Simply wasn't worth it for them.
Have both. I just found that one first. Finding anything in my porn folding is maddening.
Also, adding a little bit more detail.
I remember he b lost 4 teeth and had to go to school in bandages. After that I realized that people that built others out do any of this shit are just stupid little maggots useless in any way, the only way to deal with them is violence and dominance
Was bullied my whole childhood by my brother and beginning wih the third school year till the 12th by my classmates. Not really had friends cus I was that shy nerd who was better at every school subject (except sports) eventhough he never raised his hand. I really dislike the word bullying because it became this vague thing that everybody seems to identify at the moment. Even an insult is bullying to some people and is demonized to all hell.
Meanwhile I was getting insults, constant reminders that I don't deserve friends, should kill myself, was beaten up almost every day, got my face pushed into human shit by multiple occassions, was followed to my home and got scissors thrown at me, was stripped naked in gym class and everybody laughed, and when I fought back they called the teacher and I got detention. There was this girl that constantly told me that I was just born because my parents couldn't get an abortion or that I should pair up with the dumpster to finally lose my virginity. No wonder I had self esteem issues. When I told my teachers they just told me to "ingnore it", when I told my parents they said, I should stop being a pussy and just fight back. I did think about suicide and I even fantasized about doing a mass shooting, but in reality I could never do that. I didn't even wanna fight back due to some "You don't want to be the same monster" reason adults teach you.
So yeah, it stopped after I could leave the town and my home. I don't need to see my brother or the classmates ever again and I actually found new close friends at the university who gave me the self confidence I was lacking.
Did it have lasting effect? Hell yes. I feel like I am a paranoid freak, always turning around without even realizing I am doing it. To check if I am safe. I have trust issues and can't stand people wanting to touch me. And yes, I still think about this eventhough I know it can't be changed. But ignoring thoughts is hard when you try to sleep.
Was bullied by a bunch of fags that clearly weren't going to ever leave the town they were raised in, Let alone progress in life.
Long term effects? I know how to fight hand to hand, Pretty shitty though. I'm no alpha. Later took to studying how some people work because of these events, I can now avoid violent confrontation if a person or two is angry at me. Most of the time at least.
i see where youre coming from, but ultimately he had to be the one to seek it out and actually go about camming for someone. not saying it was ok, just that its not life ruining, and hed do well to move on from it and leave it behind him.
Well lets see bullied in highschool contemplated suicide many many times during that realized what a fag I was being stopped caring about everything graduated went to college flunked because of drugs but fuck it still do drugs to this day but working full time living in apartment with good friends I'd say being bullied helped me realize that if I didn't care life is easier I realized drugs are amazing and nothing like betafag media says they are and made a lot more friends then when I cared
>I came to this thread to have a nice conversation about my shitty childhood but I guess it's just a thread of faggots posting pictures of naked male anime children. Kill yourselves, all of yous
Fuck off and take your fake feelings else where you fucking cunt loser
Also contemplate murder on a daily basis but don't care to get arrested even tho have I guess you could call it mafia connects since they aren't gang trashy but also gang and drug lord connects
>they probably tried, but since I have a mild case of autism... I never realised it. A few kids who I suppose were "bullies" attempted physical violence but... lets just say my response was either excessive and brutal (chase kid down and bash head off concrete floor till someone drags me off him) or insane-person creepy (laughing uncontrollably as someone attempts to beat me).
>This gained me a reputation which caused even the worst of the high school jock bullies to steer clear and let me get away with stuff.
>Simply wasn't worth it for them.
>Did it ever happen to you?
>And did it have any long term effects?
Yes. It taught me that standing up for yourself and what you believe in has a price, some people are just dicks get over it, getting your ass kicked is not the end of the world, you can take more physical pain then you think, pay attention to what is going on around you at all times, and don't count on someone else to save your ass.
To be fair, it's kind of hard, when 5 people and myself tell him that I fight, but when it came to fighting BACK, most of the class was silent.
I honestly can't blame them. They too wanted to stay safe.
Yes, and Yes. But I'm talking serious bullying. Damn near every waking moment of my life. At school everybody I knew was one of my bullies or indifferent. No friends. When I got home, my 5 older brothers would pick up the bullying slack. Mom and dad work 14 hour days so it was basically lord of the flies at home. Anyways, subject a person to that kind of treatment for a good 16 years and they'll pick up some baggage. I have a lot.
My bad. Guess I'm not fagsavvy enough to have realized that this is just a thread where someone is fishing for fictionalized (or not) pedophilic gay porn stories. I'll let myself out.
Only ever got bullied one time in school, went to catholic school up until high school, best friend (and now boyfriend, but at the time just best friend) had been going to regular school the whole time, everyone knew everyone, except me, I was the "new guy" when we entered high school, on top of that, short, small, and weak, so a little bullying did happen on the very first day, but my best friend stood up for me and it never happened again after that.
Does it fuck you up that bad? I still do it once in a while. Being half korean also helps in looking like a shota even though I'm way past the age. And the free shit I get from the faggots is a huge plus for me.
I only do it through skype. I'm pretty sure there's sc's of me in an onion.
It's full of faggots as it is. Just search around tinychat during the summer in the asian chat rooms.
Married Male, in my 50's... When I was 11, I lived part time with my dad in an apartment complex. Always tons of other kids around. We had a kind of clubhouse built into an oak tree, off the property next to a drainage ditch. It was a cool place to hang around, but if the older kids came they kicked you out. One day I didn't go school, I think I missed the bus, I just know I wasn't sick. I wound up at the clubhouse, looking at the fuck mags there, and saw one of the older kids approaching too. He was a real asshole, so I really didn't want him to see me. The clubhouse had no roof so you could climb up into the tree, so I did, but he saw me anyway and made me come down. I thought about jumping for it, but it would have been like 15 feet. He first asked me for my money, but I didn't have any, the he took my shoes, which were just cheap ones from K-Mart. I thought i was going to get my ass kicked, and then he said, I'd have to do something for him to make it right since I was trespassing in HIS treehouse. You guessed it, he made me suck his cock. First sexual thing I ever did was being forced to suck off some asshole punk jerk who came in my mouth and held my head on his cock until I gagged. After that, whenever he saw me he'd always call me faggot, or cocksucker, no matter who was around. I hated that motherfucker, and was so glad when he moved away with the rest of his shitty family.
Same, though I never cammed for anyone, didn't have a webcam back then, was more walking around naked in the locker room at the YMCA instead of showering in my swimsuit like all the other guys my age, so not exactly the same since it was more just showing myself off to a bunch of guys that were probably almost all straight, but somewhat similar
they are pretty much all around hands down best, for many reasons, even as a lewd fan, I can't be angry there are no proper lewds, and likely will never be. The edit was done by a namefag ages ago, they don't announce themselves anymore.
I kept getting robbed and beaten up throughout my childhood and into my teens.
Long term effects would be the fact that I keep very few possessions and don't get attached to material things.
I avoid hurting people and make an effort to always be kind. But I seldom go out of my way for anyone
I now know how to fight pretty well, good enough to beat up a few amateur fighters and most untrained people. I'm still developing my fighting.
I'm paranoid and depressed and don't disclose feelings to anyone.
I wasn't bullied in HS but I was on a travel hockey and experienced bullying here and there one season. The only difference in my situation was that I intentionally broke the unwritten rule of going easy on teammates in practice. I would level, hurt and cheapshot anyone i didn't like in defensive drills and they eventually backed off.
I was the bully. Some of the kids i bullief are my friends as adults. I found out roughly 50% of the bullied kids will grow past it while the other 50% will wallow in self pitty their whole life. This has led me to believe that bulling isn't the problem, but rather the continued pussy-fication of the American and globalized society.
>be really ugly chubby gril
>pushed down stairs once, broke a finger
>didn't even tell anyone
>had gum put in my hair at least once a week
>had death threats from bunch of nigger bitches
>ate lunch in library
>last time I tried to eat in lunchroom ,chair was snatched out from under me and I fell onto the floor, ran out sobbing
>somone drew a picture of me with a knife in my head,taped it to my locker.
Fucked me up during school but it made me mean as fuck. I got thin, Went to college, bitch who put gum in my hair tries to be nice cuz she didn't reconize me and I shoved her into the school fountain.
Got expelled now I'm here.
Maybe she put gum on your hair because she likes you. Sound far fetched, but Janes and Johns are some of the stupidest fucking people around. Glad it worked out for u in the end.
Threads gonna die but I got bullied hard in jr. high. I'd call in sick every other day so I wouldn't have to worry about what someone was going to do to me that day. At my school of 700, I was part of the obnoxious nerdy clique that got a lot of negative attention. We we the most powerful of the nerdy cliques which is something I guess, there were some kids who had it worse than me (kid with the last name Fagan, another kid who was a furry, etc.)
Anyways in high school it was a fresh start and everyone was pretty chill. I got a part-time job at an amusement park and the social interaction really helped me catch up and develop confidence and humor. It also introduced me to my first girlfriend which was fun at the time
Long-term effects: Larger balls. Bullying hurt at the time, but making friends later in life put it all in perspective
I grew stronger from what happened to me.
I no longer cry at the drop of a hat, I can fight and hold my own pretty well and I got into shape because of it.
I might be using my past to fuel rage induced growth but Das it mane
Just let her know that no one can hurt her while you're around. You never knoW when long term suffering can cause medical depression and axiety on a weak person. Not Everyone was built to stand on their own two feet.
That would be a good line if we were more than friends. She's off looking for love in the wrong places, if security is what she needs. She's tough though, and mean. I respect her too much to tell her how to live her life. Personally, I'd be happy to just deal with a little less bullshit and a little more real talk.
Lol u mad she hungers for foreign dick. if u only want her for your own puposes then leave her alone before you hurt her more.
Love unconditiinally and without expecting anything in return, anon.