i have this thing i need help with ok. i have never had a girlfriend ok so i didn't know what to do ok on valentines day i sent her a snapchat saying shes beautiful ok i worked with her the next day i was going to ask her out in a corny way but then i wussed out and just asked if she liked the snapchat she said yes but moment after she went home i sent a snapchat message ok what i was going to say it was going to say this
would you blank something blank becuase i dont know your middle name be my valetine today.
she replied whats it mean to be your valentine ok so after thinking about an hour i just straight up said i dont really know but my version is i would like a chance to be more then just friends then she read it and didn't reply for 4 hours until i got so worried i sent her a message saying she doesn't have to worry bout hurting me i can handle the truth then immediately she wrote stop and i fucking died inside i dont know what it meant i work with her so i see her tomorrow is there still a chance she says yes or she want to break it to me in person because that would be a kick in the nutts if i waited 2 fucking days for a no. i tried saying she doesn't have to worry about it because ive been denied so many fucking times its a world record but please a girl someone tell me whats i should expect to happen cuase to be honest i dont like my chances.
hey thanks for the none asshole response but ill post a thing tomorrow seeing if she does anything i just feel like shit becuase she didnt tell me no when i told her i wouldnt mind i understand
Its ok but its weird tho I've seen girls ignore lads just because they feel to sorry to reject them but in this case she might just be too shy to speak you who knows, go with what you thinks right
if all she responded with was "stop" then that means no and she's not interested. play it cool, you've expressed your opinion now just don't think about it and let her come to you. if she doesn't then move forward.
Could you post the conversation? As the question you asked -the literal phrasing- makes a lot of difference in what the "stop" means.
Could be she's shy or she just means stop.
> tl;dr post screenshot.
i would post it but it was over snapchat and the messages were deleted but like i told the other guy it was after i told her it would be ok to say no i said it like this
you don't have to worry about hurting my feelings i can handle the truth.
Oh I thought the first part was over text somehow, my bad.
But how long have you known her? Is she flirting with you? Most girls would send something along the lines of "we should stay friends" or other generic BS.
Did she send you any snaps back?
Here's some shit I'm working with,
19 yo kissless virgin finally talking to school crush.
"You don't know what you do to me girl"
"We need a face to face name the time name the place"
"I can understand that your young, wild and if you don't want to get into anything serious but I feel we can be really good for each long term"
"Seeing you luagh and smile makes me happy I swear"
no thats whats killing me after i said i wanted to be more then friends she didn't say anything im thinking shes waiting in person cause i wanted to do it in person but im just a fuck boy shy ass motherfucker idk im rambling no she didnt say no or yes she said stop to me saying its ok to say no
Hmm.. Did you ask it just out of the blue? I'm guessing she's either not ready (maybe because she doesn't know you very well) or doesn't want to.
That's why I asked if she's shy.
just ask if she wants to come back and watch a movie, then when the moment is right, share a blanket then just go for it, if she's gone that far she probably won't mind. a rough approximation of this is how i've always done it, but be sure not to say any of those corny lines. the only thing you should say is like normal conversation stuff
I've actually been thinking of sending her that, why no good?
She remembers me from mid and high school, but because of very young emotional scarring I had super social anxiety issues and was always the quite one and never had the balls to talk to her despite sitting next to her for 5 classes.
So I'm almost a stranger to her.
honestly, im this guy
and i understand the timing of everything. having said that, the way she's not responding and just said stop makes me think she has a boyfriend already. if you know for a fact she does not, then do what i said, play it cool and act like nothing happened. guys who act cool attract more women anyways, if not this girl then another
just say something like "hey, ive seen you around and i've been wanting to ask if you'd like to get lunch with me sometime this week?" and if she says no, then who cares move on, if she says yes just play it cool and get lunch with her then maybe more will happen.
Because it makes you look like you're 45 years old and settling with a dog and 3 kids. Girls want to go out, do fun things. In that sentence you're saying: "I'mm not fun but I''ll be around and available".
Don't do that, or you're a true beta.
dumping folder of gf nudes, what would /b/ do to her?