Just spent hours de-hairing my body for valentines day and now I'm wondering why I even bothered.
My relationship is basically a joke now and I know he's only with me either out of habit or he's too afraid of I won't be able to take separation. Where did it all go wrong? Why does it all go wrong? Why can't two people stay in love forever?
Holy shit op. Are you a femanon? Im kinda going through the same shit. I love the hell out of my SO but sometimes its just tough
I honestly wish I had advice. I love my SO and want the relationship to last but I cant help but feel she feels the way you do. I dont know what I can do.
If she you suspect she does feel the way I do, I'd definitely communicate about it, clear things up, and make the necessary adjustments that are less conducive to her feeling this way.
Part of why I feel the way I do is because my boyfriend doesn't bother with any of this anymore.
People in long-term relationships hit a point where they become comfortable and stop fretting over constant emotional neediness. Maybe you're overthinking things whereas he's just content to live comfortably with the girl he loves. Just talk to him about it. Ffs it's valentine's day, why not use a day focused on relationships to do some work on yours that doesn't involve grinding pelvises?
Love isn't a permanent thing. Or at least whatever stage of it you had when you first started seeing each other.
Nothing is forever and everything changes. Try and accept that fact and you'll be a lot happier going forward.
I guess partly why the things not working is so devastating isn't things not working in and of themselves, but knowing I'll have to go through the shame of having to tell people it didn't work out and have them all silently think to themselves "I knew this would happen."
ehhh it was just kind of mentioned in passing and only because someone asked them. It's nearly valentines day and lonely, unhappy people wanna talk about shit like relationships. No need to go full spiderman.