I need ways of telling my gf to lose weight without being a cunt. Any advice.
Say you don't like your own physique but you don't want to workout alone. Ask her if she would be willing to make some changes to eat out less and be healthier for yourself and try to make it about you. But emphasize that you need HER there with you. Then make games like whoever eats the least crap foods in a week loser buys a cheat meal or something. You can't expect her to get in shape if you're a fattie too
I've had the same problem. You've got to be blunt. It's the only way. She will of course be mad at you for a while, but she probably knows you're right (health, sex appeal, etc.) and if she takes your relationship seriously she won't break up with you over it.
Are you on the heavy side yourself? I was seeing a heavy girl and after I got fit I straight up told her, she needs to lose some weight. She tried, didn't last. I found someone else
she's fine the way she is
it's her body not yours, you cant push someone to do something with their body for your own personal pleasure
go find someone else if it's that big of a fucking deal
tell her you want to start exercising more. and then have her join you. simple as that. and if she thinks you're calling her fat, just tell her that you dont want to live such a sedimentary lifestyle.
But she is overweight. Any surplus amount of fat can put a strain on the heart along with other organs. It's an exaggeration to say she'll die in 40 years but still. Premature death.
Where's the rest for fuck's sake
Hard to judge with one picture
literally ask her to diet with you so you can keep it up. The only way to make her not get pissed is by making her believe your diet is because she's doing it with you and making you stick to it