Alright /b/ so I Tried to catfish my gf so I can see if is loyal or not.
so I got her to send me a nude of me in just 20-30 minutes of talking and her dirty talking to me(fake account)
so I login with my real account and message her screenshoots of the convo and she was saying sorry and asking for a second chance.
I didnt forgive her and she got mad and told me why would I create a fake acc....then somehow we got back together and I asked her to tell me a honest answer if she meant all this and she said yeah but I dont want to be fucked by someone else.Losing her is always on my mind and that she is going to cuck me? how can I be sure that she wont do it again?
but at the same time is hot and I think that I am developing a fetish.I can only masturbate to that pic that she sent on the fake account and the chat logs of what she wants me to do to her.what can I do?
Who does this kind of thing?
Honestly, you don't sound confident. Something sounds wrong if you go back to her too. Something sounds like you almost invite this sort of behavior with your behavior.
How long have you been with her? What happened in your previous relationship, and how long between your last one and this one?
Are you out of your league with her? Why no confidence?
There is an old saying dude among guy sluts. Don't beat it cheat it. In your situation is suggest get too cheating it because she's a hoe and playing you for a fool bro. Women are liars and have perfected it. Get your penis in all the pussy you can. Wrap that shit up though bro.
Why do you say transparency is stupid? It's an accepted practice among people with nothing to hide.
I mean, taking off the password on the phone is not necessarily smart, because it's less secure I suppose, but sharing it to your significant other isn't bad.
I have secrets from my fiance, even on my phone, thus I don't show her.
These secrets have nothing to do with her and mostly involve other people.
Thing is that I don't lie to her since she knows there is things I don't tell her and I rely on her trust.
That "if you got nothing to hide you tell me everything" stuff is bullshit.
Ehhh, complete transparency is a bit far though, we're our own people after all, my bf added my fingerprint to his phone but I've never actually looked through it or anything, I didn't do the same for him, I have trust issues, even though I have nothing to hide, just like to have control over what I keep to myself
That has nothing to do with deserving or not deservig it.
As said, many of those secrets involve other people like friends of mine.
I am not gonna spread my friends secrets just because I am engaged to someone.
Then others are about me and my past, they are not relevant anymore and won't affect neither her nor me yet I still do not want to talk about these things and she knows that.
She knew that from the very beginning so she could chose to either accept it or not to start a relationship with me, I am honest and do not lie to her even if I don't tell her everything.
But let me turn the question, why would she need to know if it is not about her and does not affect her in any possible way?
As a matter of fact would I catch her looking through my phone, mails or fb or whatever, I would break up there and then with no second of doubt.
Even in a relationship one has privacy, disrespecting this privacy and obvious mistrust for no reason at all kill a relationship immediately for me.
Okay so in 20 minutes she sent nudes to a "stranger" and you wonder if she might cheat on you later on? lol do you have brain damage? Or are you just completely retarded, I bet she had cheated on you 10 times for each time you had sex with her, the last thing you can do to save some dignity is fuck her+take pics/vid, dump her and then post files to 4chan, afterwards an hero as quickly as you are able to, so that you genes are out of the gene pool once and for all, thanks.