Hey /b/ my boyfriend doesn't have much of a sex drive, what could I do to help ??
Mismatch in libido is honestly a fair reason to break up with someone if you feel it.
My gfs libido is fairly lower than mine. We both value clear communication and have talked openly about the subject and work to an understanding of each other's position and moved on from there.
So, have you tried talking to him about it?
Tis a weirdo guy pretending to be girl so you tards reinforce his ultra tard fantasy.
If a guy won't fuck his gf and its legitimately not because he is tired or not feeling well, then it's most like the girl. Whether your gaining weight or just sexually boring. Or just boring. A boring fucking cow. I wouldn't fuck a boring cow. Don't be a boring fucking cow.
Offer up some anal and make him pancakes afterwards and don't expect anything in return you piggy.
As a man with a low sex drive just suck his dick unannounced rather than asking to have sex.
Or something like that, handjobs whatever.
It doesn't do anything but make us less in the mood to make us feel like sex is a chore.
And really, you and him need to have a discussion about how much is enough for each of you so you can both be happy.
We have talked about it a lot. Most of the time I feel as if it's me that's the problem even though he has said that it isn't him. He feels insecure of his body and when he isn't focusing on me during sex he becomes disinterested in fucking. He has no fetishes or anything that really turns him on.
>my boyfriend doesn't have much of a sex drive,
your boyfriend is faggot
he has plenty of sex drive. he craves cock. you don't have one.
btw, check 'em
yoghurt for breakfast
Salad + chicken breast or fish for every meal, try to eat different vegetables each time
Low callorie jelly in between
This will help you if you want to loose weight without working out.
Don't listen to the replies. You're hot as fuck. I would smash your cunt into oblivion anytime. That said, your boyfriend is probably just one of the few guys that simply don't really crave sex. It's normal. I even have a friend who only engage in sex to please his girlfriend, because tbh he'd rather just jerk off, since he doesn't find sex as stimulating. So either live with it, or find someone else.
Anon out. <3
For fucks sake /b/ros am i going to have to be the one that informs her.
>he doesn't want to fuck a fatty
>no one wants to fuck a fatty
I'll be honest here. I think doesn't mean you do.
Plus no matter how much you two "love" each other. If just even one of you is unhappy, it isn't going to work out in the long run.
From personal experience, "Love" can only go so far. A relationship is more then just love.
This is 200% true
One of my friends was a creepy kv WOW player, he got no pussy until one day he met a landwhale while playing and got her to be his gf.
They are 2 years into the relationship and he says he hast enjoyed sex for over a year.
He's 22, that means all of his sex drive was depleted in a few months, because she is so fat.
Not OP but... been with my bf for 5 years, 1 kid. I'm trying to lose weight (176lbs down to 145) but I'm still 40 lbs heavier than I was when we met. He doesn't make any moves toward me. Shit man he doesn't even kiss me or touch me.
Is this shit just a lost cause? He says he isn't staying 'cause of the kid but I think it's bullshit. I organized a night for us to get drunk together for once and he said "I don't like drinking", yet just 3 weeks ago he was smashed at a pub with his friends.
nobody cares, shut the fuck up and follow the rules
I don't deny that but he tells me I'm great the way I am etc, yet doesn't touch me. Wtf is that?
I am making an effort, though I did let myself go for a long while.
What do I do in the meantime? I can't snap myself into sexiness. I feel like he wants to cheat, tbh.
>haven't been lurking long enough to know op's a girl
He's off work 'til next Monday - holiday started before xmas. He's been cold for a long time now. He doesn't work late nights, he finishes at 4:30 PM each day.
I'd like to think it's other things, but I don't know.
>the best kinds of fettishes
Meaning, he's likely got more... "abnormal" ones than you. Likely satisfying these fettishes alone while jerking off. He's likely into ass fingering or something similar. Sadly, OP, sounds like he's either into traps or a complete gay.