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Well /B/ro's. The girl that I was dating for 6 years. The girl I thought I would marry. Just left me.. Im pretty much fucked.. How do I get rid of these feelings?
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1) drugs
2) other women
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>>596857356
Ive never really cared for trying drugs.
I dont think you understand anon, I poured everything into this girl and relationship, starting again is fucking terrifying
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Work more.
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>>596857523
I work 5 days and go to college as well
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By posting her nudes. Trust me, it's cathartic or whatever
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>>596857612
Sorry Anon. Cant do it.
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>>596857255

The girl I was with for 4 years and 3 months left me for another guy. She started ignoring me, too. I started doing drugs and after a while was up to shooting a gram of heroin a day and drinking a liter of jack daniel's at night. I have a degree in computer science and almost threw it all away for some bitch. I put myself in rehab and am now 10 weeks clean. So,
>>596857356
Don't listen to this fucker. I wasted a lot of time on a single bitch and almost my life. I now am talking to a gorgeous, intelligent female, have my priorities straight, getting life back on track and being just pure awesome. I can't get rid of the physical scars from the shit I did to myself, but my emotional scars are healing.
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>>596857492
Everyone goes through this. It really sucks. A few years from now, you'll still think about her often, I'm sure. Just have to find new things and people to love is all.
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I'm 30 and have never had a real relationship. Get over it, you fucking bitch.
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>>596857587

You'll meet someone man. I swear. It hurts a lot but you heal up, grow up, and learn some shit along the way from it. You'll come out stronger on the other side. Next few months are going to blow though, no getting around that.
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>>596857701
She just fucking left Anon. She wont even return my calls.
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>>596857822
I envy you, you wont have to deal with this.
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>>596857587
Could work 7 days a week. My portfolio loves every divorce I have.
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>>596857255
Find someone else or teach yourself to hate her long enough to burn the love away and move on.
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>>596857255
stop being a beta faggot. grow some balls and tell the world it can kiss your ass.
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>>596857931
I suppose I could Anon.. But I dont really want to cover everything up with work
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>>596857492
i dunno, when girl left me i became a musician. quite succesful actually.
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>>596857255
That Hello Kitty tattoo will look fucking amazing from ages 40+
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First of all Op, dump the rest of her nudes. Second, bag a bunch of other bitches. I just got out of a three year relationship. Being inside other girls after that long is liberating.
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>>596858025
Is that honestly the best thing to do? I started dating this girl when I was 13/14. Lost my V card to her and Took hers
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>>596858052
do you have friends OP? how old are you?
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>>596858052
Sets you up for success.
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>>596858243
Have friends. 20.
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>>596857913
You're envious of someone else lacking personal life experiences?
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>>596857255
you waited to long .... i wonder why she stuck with you that long ...she must loved you very much .... you are sorry looser
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>>596857856

It's going to hurt, bro. It's going to hurt a LOT. Just think to yourself: What are you going to do to change it? Are you going to potentially destroy yourself mentally, emotionally, potentially even physically? Or are you going to talk about it to your closest people, get it all off your chest, work through the emotions, accept that you're better off without the negativity, and continue improving your life? Take it from someone who tried to OD and die and couldn't; it's not worth it. Spend 2 weeks to yourself to work through the stress of it and then focus on better yourself and your future. Love yourself, anon. If you can't love yourself, you cannot love anyone.

I don't want to be some 12-step asshole about this, but... Just one day at a time, bro.
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an hero
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>>596858375
In a way yes, right now I would honestly not have been through all that to feel like this.
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>>596858395
thanks fgt
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>>596857666
666 Devil has spoken
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Pump one last load into her wether she likes it or not
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>>596857255
I am in the same place /b/ro. GF and I broke up 6 days ago. if you need a story i can green text it for you. feeling too down to walk the dinosaur, its just a sob story no one will care about
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>>596858415
Thanks Anon.. Means a lot to me
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>>596858542
Honestly? The sex was great but having someone who knows you so well and is always there for you is what Im going to miss
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1. head on over to /fit/
2. read the sticky
3. get shredded
possible 4. become a homosexual in the process

you can thank me later
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>>596858395
This ...6 years .... you should marry her long time ago ...
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>>596858229
Well, I was in love with his one chick I was real beta over. I loved her for four years and never got any. I no longer physically saw her anymore, and I pathetically obsessive. I accepted it wasn't healthy and got angry at her. I never said anything to her given that was a faggy move so I mentally vilified her until I didn't love her and moved on.
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>>596858302
Im a mechanic, getting paid $20 an hour
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>>596858619

If no one told you they love you today, I love you. I don't even know you, but I love you, man. You are me. Don't do this to me. Most importantly, more importantly than any female, any job, any reputation, any accomplishment... Don't do this to yourself. I love you, /b/ro.
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>>596858802
We're only 20 man.
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>>596858852
I love you too Anon..
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Hookers and blow.
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>>596858762
That was my first idea actually, but I just cant find the motivation
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>>596858889
Then you did not date her for 6 years ... you are childhood friends
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Became stoic. Look at your emotions and realise that they are truely the only thing you have control over in your life.

Everything that happens, happens and its important not to blame yourself.

Had pretty much the same thing happen, I put so much into to someone (which I never do as I'm slow to trust) and they just up and left.

I lived in denial for nearly a year, telling myself that if I tried a little bit harder I could have kept her.

But the reality is, I have no true control over how other people react.

When ever something shit happens, I don't deny my emotions I just say, "its good" until the fear and pain goes away.

Tl:Dr be a based god. And people like her and perhaps even her will come back to you.
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>>596857913
Nah dude, a thousand nights of missing some girl that broke your heart is better that one night thinking you'll never have a girl that could break it.
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>>596859080
Again, no drugs and no stds
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>>596858229
then you're 19/20. start going out as much as you can. really, as much as you can. party hard, work out, get a hobby, become the better version of you. since you're alone now you obviously need to focus on yourself, not on her anymore, no no no. and focusing on yourself isn't whinning "oh my god how sad i am", but developing yourself and having fun you need to have at the moment. don't cover up shit with work, because it won't make you happy no fucking matter what. because at some point you'll end up home alone every day anyway. and you need to feel good with yourself. sign up for a gym, start making music, painting, drawing, sculpting, cooking, anything constructive. grab a life by its balls and make it your bitch op. trust me, i've been through this.
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>>596857255
You poured everything into it and it didn't work out, she didn't care for it... Hate to be capt obvious but it just wasn't meant to be. Find some comfort in that. Why would you want to be with someone who didn't care enough to make it work?? Find a rebound chick, the pendulum will swing the other way and you realize what it is you really are looking for in a m8.
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>>596857255
You don't get over it anon, but you use the experience to build character. This'll make you stronger. Sure it hurts like hell now, its shitty, but a girl isn't worth doing anything crazy over. They're just chemically induced feelings in your brain mate, there's another 3.5bn women to have another crack at.

>We're /b/hind you.
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>>596858836
So? Run your own shop. Make 70$+ an hour.
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>>596859169
/thread
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>>596857255
>Go to gym
>Get ripped
>Save money
>Get bitches
>????
>Profit
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>>596859177
She cared Anon, we both were around each other almost every day, we were both there for each other..
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>>596859400
Dubs have spoken
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>>596859266
Money isnt really the issue, its more so what I can do. Im constantly checking back for messages and constantly looking at her.. its become a habit to check on her messages..
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>>596859257
<3 I appreciate you anon
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>>596858450
after 6 years of relationship and good (and bad) times, now you'd prefer to have not lived that?
man, seriously, that's bullshit
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>>596859570
It's done man, All you can do from this point is cry over it, or better yourself. The latter helps the most.
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>>596859775
.... youre right anon.. Im just trying to think differently
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seduce her parents or siblings and go plow some ass
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>>596859789
How to stop constantly checking back though? Any thoughts?
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Another woman. Get on Tinder and go nuts. Be the dude from Forgetting Sarah Marshall.
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>>596859989
I actually am already talking to another girl.. But more for help than sex
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>>596857701
>my girlfriend started accusing me of fucking girls
>I was secretly WASTING my money by snorting coke everyday
>spending about 90 or more snorting
>cut down costs by shooting .66g of cocaine once every 2 days
Life has been better
>me and my girlfriend are still together
>even though I feel were slowly slipping away
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>>596859989
second that, knew a guy in college who'd just finished an 8 year relationship because the gf wanted to get married and he didn't so she dumped him and he was doing a milf the night after
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>>596860207
Will stay away from any drugs Anon. That wont change.
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>>596859987
Keep yourself busy, Cold turkey. Going through my second divorce and I'm only 25.
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>>596859987
Stoic man here. You stop checking by not blaming yourself. You stop checking by just realising that checking won't make her say anything.
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>>596860618
Hard to do anon...
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>>596858607
I'll listen. shoot.
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>>596858607
Dont want you to have to go through that again anon...
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>>596860903
You know what's even harder? Living your life in regret of this shit. Or waking up in the middle of the night wanting to die because you feel like you fucked up the best thing that ever happened to you
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The one who didn't want to make it work anymore cut bait for some reason and decided to end the relationship anon. You both fulfilled the roles you were supposed to play at this time of your lives. You'll both be better from this if you can accept that and you'll end up with the person you were always supposed to be with.
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>>596861259
Itll go away Anon.. It has to..
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>>596857255
anhero
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>>596861773
Thanks a lot Anon.. I hope so
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>>596861900
No
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>>596861811
I'm not OP just someone's whose been there and decided to turn an experience like this into a somewhat positive one.

Men arnt hurt by events, they're hurt by their reactions to events.

Unless that event is violent of course..
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>>596862105
Thanks Anon.
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Thank you Anons for the responses. I know a lot of people talk shit about /b/ and it is still a pool of hate but.. You guys are amazing... And I love you all
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>>596862280
Anytime anon, never forget that you're a worthwhile person. And that youre more than enough for this world.

By not hating her and blaming everyone else for this, you've proven yourself better than a lot of people.
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>>596862936
You cant hate someone who has been through everything with you Anon, my family has always been fucked up. So has hers. We got through it together..
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>>596857492
Drugs will end you up in a worse place emotionally then you are now. You'll lose everything you have. You just have to take it day by day. Shit always gets better
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>>596857255
It's simple

You don't
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>>596863555
Thank you Anon, drugs were never even on my mind
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>>596863870
I am hoping youre wrong anon
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>>596863878
Don't ever let them be. You feel good for a few hours and then it all comes back worse than before.
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>>596863222
Take solace in the fact that you truely loved someone. And that what goes around comes around, you'll meet the right person. If you were to hate someone who meant this much to you, it would just be love in deep denial.

And you don't want to live in denial.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rfMK-zT_wnM
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>>596864196
Cheers Anon, I hope this advice isnt from experience.
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>>596864192
I figured as much, ive seen what happens to people who rely on them too heavily
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>>596864358
Will give it a watch Anon
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>>596857713
This.

Also
Im surprised how well this thread turned out for you OP.
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>>596864668
I know Anon, /b/ never fails to amaze me, thank you for the reply <3
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>>596864655
Keep in mind that this dude may or may not be totally insane. Or a genius surrealist. I can't tell.
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>>596864963
Haven't started watching, how do you mean Anon?
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>>596865121
This video is pretty good.

Just some of his other videos are really fucking weird. He's a weird dude.
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