So my gf broke her neck and will be getting out of the hospital soon and I have no idea how I'm going to handle this.
>If you're emotionally attached to her, get a green light to add a third party to the relationship.
This would be ideal but I doubt she would ever go for it.
Yes I still love her but dont know if Im up to this for the long term.
She has no control over anything below the neck. Theres a 99% chance she will be like this for the rest of her life.
Give her a few months. She will eventually realize that you two aren't married and some concessions will need to be made to keep you around. Don't approach it until you've thoroughly abused her paralyzed asshole and she gets over the initial depression/bouts of crying.
you have to act quickly op, you need to take a decision, I suggest you leave her unless you can take advantage of the situation somehow. It's not worth wasting your life babysitting someone, even if you love her
She clearly didn't listen to enough Wu Tang or else this would have never happened, OP.
I'm sorry for your situation though, I wish you the best of luck in these troubling times.
>you'll have guilt while running through a field of daisies with your able bodied wife and children for the rest of your life
Look, it's a shit situation but you aren't married to her. See my previous advice re adding a third party.
That sucks OP, unless you love her enough to wipe her ass and do everything she asks I would start the process if letting go, the trick is to make it a mutual decision so you don't look like a jerk who abandoned her.
Spend less time with her, slowly become less emotionally attached, then finally tell her it won't work any more but you'll still be there for her.
I just read an article written by a 24 year-old in this exact situation, and he said that his initial reaction was to stay with her. Unfortunately, within the next month or two he fell out of love with her for obvious reasons, and ended up breaking it off.
See, that's what you do. Pretend for a bit, then leave. People won't think you are a total piece of shit then.
I mean they will think you are worthless, but at least you tried to be a decent person.
Sounds like this situation (pic related)
Just stick with her. You never know how things will turn out.
If you love her you will stick with her, it's simple,
Enjoy sitting at a restaurant and all of a sudden hearing and smelling her shit her diaper. I know someone who is in the same boat as your G/F, he shits himself at the most innapropriat times and everyone can hear and smell it. For me I find it funny. but I only have to put up with it occasionally.
Also enjoy cleaning the shit up and her the dried period blood caked to her snatch and thighs.
don't try to pull this hawking shit nigger
I doubt OP's defective fucktoy is a scientist or someone who can make contributions to the world using brains , she'll just be a pointless waste of oxygen and a burden for everyone around
suggest her a trip to holland to get euthanized
Look, OP. This is a sticky situation.
If I were you, I'd keep it going for another 2-3 months, but I would slowly stop showing signs of affection.
Then, after a while, I would ask her to be serious, and tell her I feel like this wouldn't be possible for the rest of our lives.
Then, tell her you still love her, and that you think she is great, blah blah, she'll get it.
Also, post her tits
Not OP, not in this situation. If I were it would already be a poly relationship so I'd let her stay.
Sex isn't my only motivation to be with a woman, but it is a major part of all healthy relationships. If there is not mutual attraction there is a weak bond.