I've been practicing extending my sexual endurance. I find it odd that there are no forums dedicated to this type of thing.
>lose virginity on 21st birthday to girlfriend
>we fuck constantly after that
>I can last pretty much as long as I want
>can also cum multiple times
>we break up
>No girls or sex for 2 years
>not realizing my depression is only getting worse
>put on weight
>finally decide to better myself and stop being so pathetic
>look up how to pick up girls
>spend about 8 months getting numbers and learning how to attract them before I actually start having sex
>realize I cant last more than 30 seconds
>my most recent ex left cheated on me and I think that was why
So I need to find the best way to fix premature ejaculation. I keep hearing its all about staying calm but its near impossible for me to stay calm while I'm having sex.
I've fucked three girls since my most recent ex and I know all of them were disappointed.
Its gonna sound weird but try to spread your focus. When Im having sex with my girlfriend, I let muscle memory take over and focus on numbers or hamburgers or what Im doing tomorrow, it helps.
Also, relax your butt muscles. Push out if you have to, but fucking relax them. Changing positions frequently helps with me and keeps it exciting for them (different angles and shit). Them being on top in a cowgirl position but leaning back literally blocks it off and is slightly uncomfortable so it helps as well.
Remember its okay if you are slightly uncomfortable until they finish, you're gonna get off anyway so stop being selfish and focus on them. Sex is way better when both people are enjoying it.
I've never understood why you pussy faggots "put on weight" when you get depressed. I've had my fair share of depression, but I have keep the same weight through it. God damn learn some self control.
This. Also, take it slow at first don't go right into hard fucking. If youre about to cum, pull out and switch positions or eat her out/suck her tits. Just keep her on while you recuperate
What kind of depression is everyone else having? I did some stupid self destructive shit when I was depressed, but getting fat just because you're sad doesn't make any sense. If people didn't actually care about themselves why not just blow their brains out?
The fix in my opinion are kegels. The post would become too long if I went in depth on how to go for a long time without cumming.
I'm writing a book which includes this you can sign up to the email list, in which I will give some quick tips before I release the book.
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and BTW devercing your attention takes away from the pleasure of fucking so I wouldn't recommend it.
getting fat is self destructive shit anon, not sure why you don't understand that getting fat is something that one needs to prevent by exercising and eating healthy when you are depressed why would you care to prevent your self from getting fat.
You can buy a spray for your dick called Stallion, it helps you last longer
Yuu Shinoda sure has an amazing ass.
Alright op first thing first. Since you lost your virginty not too long ago. But had sooome practice. Great. Riddle me this though so we cam continue. Are you fucking like a rabbit and only trying to bust your nut?
Man the secret is ALCOHOL, you can go for hours without cumming, even need to pretend cum sometimes... sure it's not that great [for you] but it leaves them forever wanting more, and gets you past that gone in 60 seconds shit when first going at decent girls.
Slow down sometimes. Girls dont like to get pounded fucking hard all the time, they also need variation. Pull out your dick sometimes and eat her out or finger her. I also clench my muscles (like youre holding up your piss) when im about to cum and wait a little and then i kiss her and stuff. If i do that a couple of times while having sex the extreme excitement os gone and i can go on forever and ever.
>Think about something else entirely. If it still doesn't work, thing about something nasty like your grandma's snatch
>Whenever fapping, try to fap for as long as possible. Keep extending the time you fap
>Hit the gym (this is HUGE) if you're in bad shape, you will cum much, much faster. Do some endurance as well as weights
>Just keep pumping after you have cum. Unless you blow a huge load, or she was completely dry, she won't notice
I can semi-control when to cum.. But the first time is really hard to control myself..
Try masturbation till you get to the point and stop, and do it multiple times..
I also believe that porn makes it worse..
Shit, I miss fucking
Thats exactly why I'm attracted to them. I can fuck one, and think that I have just fucked most of the other ones out there. I can walk down the street and see a cute chink, and say, "I already hit that. I think. Close enough."
These things help
- change your pace if you feel yourself about to blow
-masturbate a lot. A LOT. constantly. Like. Make yourself able to come five times in an hour. That fifth one is almost painful to reach and not worth it, but you're not going to run a marathon without training, amirite?
- when you jack off, think about the woman you're going to fuck. It will demystify the sex and calm your dick down.
Ahahaha Whiskey dick. Done that a million times. After an hour and I still havent came I'm tired and sweaty as fuck so I pull out, take condom off, quickly tie it and toss it in the trash
>You don't want to cum because you want her to cum, because you're a golden find
>This makes you think about not cumming, therefore you feel like you're always about to cum
From what I can tell, the girls have been screwing with you and your head;
>Don't care if they cum, and you will still get to have sex.
>Most girls will want more sex the less satisfied they are
your ex prolly drugged you and fed you some shit that completely fucks your endurance
>tfw there's drugs that can make you last really long, or incredibly short, neither of which is all that noticable when mixed in your drink
it truely is a shitty fucking world my friend.
When I'm balls deep in my girl and she starts moaning and says shit like "Fuck me, Anon!" "Don't stop" and all of that is just so sexy to me and it makes me cum. I dunno why, but maybe I should invest in a ballgag
kinda agree with this dude, if you want one night stands, just fuck her without caring if they cum or not, you'll be less nervous and you'll last longer too.
also fuck while drunk (not that drunk) that will make you last four times more
Best way to prevent premature ejaculation is to pre-game before a night out on the town. Crank out a few jerks before you go.... it numbs your dick up
Of course, by doing this, you risk not going at all. Nothing ruins the moment worse than a woman not being able to get a guy off.
I'm pretty much mastered the art with my wife - however, when she goes - I instantly cum. Its fucked up... one moment I'm not even close - just humping away and enjoying the moment. The next moment - she's convulsing and screaming, and my dick explodes. It may be the super kegal she does that makes me lose control, but its probably the best orgasm Ive ever had. No buildup what so ever, just straight up HNNNGGGGGG bliss.
>I cum in like 15 seconds flat. Yesterday I had sex with gf before she left for college, was told I'm amazing.
>Yesterday I had sex with gf
>I cum in like 15 seconds flat.
>was told I'm amazing.
> she left for college
Nigga you betta start cheating on that fraulein
I dated a 8._/10 for 5 years and sex was pretty good. Broke up three years ago and hadn't hooked up with anyone while I was an undergrad except this one fatty. Got soft after like 10 minutes. Total regret.
Started talking to this new chick who is awesome and sexy. Started making out a few days ago and it progressed quickly into having sex. Was a bit worried the first time we hooked up. Ended up not busting a nut the first time, but shit lasted an hour and a half. Hooked up again and came buckets.
Here the deal, /b/ro... If you are with someone who really cares about and accepts you, and by that I mean someone who doesn't give a fuck how long you last and is totally cool talking about it and just experiencing whatever happens, you'll naturally fucking relax and it'll be like it used to be with your first fuck. You won't have to think about large prime numbers, or hamburgers, or dead babies. You'll once again be able to fuck your brains out while focusing on fucking your brains out and cum when you're damn good and ready.
I have seen a video that helped with premature cumming. it was an instructional video with two people fucking and someone commentating on positions and whatnot.
anyway when the guy starts to feel like he is going to cum he pulls out and pinches the head of his dick and he fingers her while he does it. he hold it until i starts to almost get soft then continues to fuck her.
I have never tried this. because im a 27 year old wizard apprentice.
dude why do you think it's called whiskey dick? The alcohol in the whiskey decreases the amount of blood flow in your dick. (Blood flow is the thing that makes your dick hard btw) By reducing the blood flow it makes it MUCH harder to cum.
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I'm talking to this girl. She knows I'm a virgin. She mentioned something about waiting, but theres still a lot of sexual tension between us every time we see each other.
I'm scared I'm going to nut fast.
It's pretty simple and complicated.
It's almost sure that's somthing neurotic/psychosomatique you just have to think about it, why it's hurt yourself, why you were so depressed. Ask you the right question.
Like a blocked gear, you have to unblocked it / or a bug in a program if you prefer.
You can do it by yourself, or you can see a psychologist.
Also shes very experienced sexually.
I saw her Sunday and was rubbing the shit out of her outside her pants. She said "Stop, I'm trying so hard not to have my way with you right now"
We're going drinking tonight, shes treating.
Hopefully theres still some alcohol in her system when we get back and we fuck.
I have a bit of a different issue, but help will be appreciated. inb4 manlet
I'm 20 years old, pretty healthy, I play hockey for my university team (study business in said university), played for my national team U18, currently in army reserves, good looking, so whats the issue you ask? I can't seem to get a 100% erection most of the time, or I quickly lose it... What the hell?
THis sounds ridiculous
Your best bet to prevent cumming too quickly is to jerk it before fucking. Jerk it 2, or 3 times if once is not enough.
What's happening, which is completely natural and evolutionarily advantageous, is you're busting your nut quickly so as to get the female pregnant. To prevent this you're going to need to put yourself in a happy place in your mind while fucking this girl where you aren't thinking about her hot, sweating form writhing beneath your loins. You will need to ACTIVELY remove yourself from your physical feelings and mechanically fuck her.
A couple of suggestions:
1. Get her to ride you (cowgirl position)
2. Buy a dick-ring vibrator and use it during coitus (she may feel a bit embarrassed/wary, just try to talk her into it.
3. Finger her clit to the point where she is near cumming then fuck her.
4. Have her finger herself while you're fucking her.
5. While in missionary position attempt to press the top of your shaft against her clit while fucking her. This will require that you shift your body upwards, toward her head. Be wary, your dick may pop out of her in this position, but if you can stay inside of her and put pressure on her clit then you can be assured that she will cum much more quickly.
Notice how most of my advice revolves around the clitoris?
The clit, in my experience, is more magical than the g-spot. It's easily accessible and incredibly sensitive. The g-spot, while aiding in the female orgasm, is difficult to stimulate and sometimes impossible to find.
This is coming from a man who has made every sexual partner cum multiple times.
This is also coming from a man who has ejaculated in 30 seconds while fucking his long-term SO.
I know that feeling... i remember the last girl i fucked came like three times and was like..no stop i need a break..all i could think was bitch i'm gonna fuck you until i put a baby in you.
You should drink a ton and she should only drink enough to not be disgusted by your smelly drunk ass.
Jerk it several times before attempting to fuck her.
Don't dry-hump or let her jerk you off. Focus on her first and foremost. She she's moistened fuck the shit out of her. If she's not down to fuck then eat her out or let her give you head.
for real! its the exact opposite with a condom on, its like...am i ever going to cum jesus fuck i'm bored.
just beat off a lot and when you do, hold off on cumming for like 20 mins. I've gotten to the point where I can hold-off ejaculating and basically hold onto that feeling of right before orgasm for a very long time. feels fucking awesome, then when you finally blast your load it always has more pressure.
Ever had a hard on that would not go away after multiple ejaculations, and your dick is sore? On a related topic, I don't get how people can go past 2 hours. After an hour and a half and every position in the book, I'm bored as hell and just ready to cuddle/watch Netflix with her.
do you even foreplay?
kids these days just dump in dick first without getting her all riled up first.
rub the easy one out, spend as long as possible teasing her, she wont last any longer than you do if you are good at it.
Here's the thing, I tried to get her to give me a BJ in the past, and then Sunday night things got hot, and I grabbed her and was going to eat her out, but then she said she wanted to wait.
She told me like a week ago, that she thought BJs and getting eaten out were more intimate than sex, and if anything sex would come first.
I usually massage her through her pants, should I go to unbutton her pants this time and see if she stops me?
No she definitely is experienced i'm pretty sure.
She was in a 4 year relationship from like 16-20. And then since then shes just "seen" guys.
She admitted to me that she was also in a sex only relationship.
That is, unless shes lied about that...I don't think thats the case though...
same thing happened to me in my early 20s, although iwas drinking a lot and smoking cigs a lot...prob didn't help. I don't have issues anymore, I have quit both drinking and smoking (except weed).
So I want you to picture a woman like a winding mountain road right.... So yeah you could of just driven throug hthe tunnel to get there, but sometimes you gotta take the scenic route.
I knew this one girl who damn near came when i kissed behind her knees, I don't know if its a secret erroginous zone or what but the point is, don't go straight for the prize man, explore her body, treat it like a temple with your fingers, mouth and tongue.
If you get her riled up enough she will practically beg you to fuck her.
Exactly!!! I'm all about fucking eating pussy.
Heres the deal. I'm a virgin. My last girlfriend, we were both virgins and were waiting a year, but I ate her out all the time and she was always giving me BJs so I was satisfied.
In any case, we broke up before the year and I didn't lose my virginity.
Now this girl, STILL doesnt believe I'm a virgin....I'm not fucking prude, Im just inexperienced with intercourse.
I can't believe that she turned down me eating her out the other night, blew my mind.
Your dick maybe isnt sensitive enough, like you beat it off to much, I had to ease on using hand when I got my gf and then it kinda fixed it self eventually. Also, your dick might die because you are worried, nervous. First time I got in a bed with a girl I couldnt get it up, like it got hard and then died or when I was putting it in it soon after died, the cause was anxiety, It happened like 3 times in a ROW ! every time I tried but later I got more comfortable, eased up on hand and bam something just clicked and wambam I could fuck. Probably you try to impress girl too much, what helped me was : I though of the girl as some sort of sex toy, I dont give a fuck you like it or not, I dont care if you like it or not, I am fucking to cum, I am using you to get an orgasm and I focused more on MY SELF. Try thinking more about your self like try to be more selfish about sex, I want to fuck and cum bam and just go in with that aim, dont be like damn I have to put that bitch in all kinds of positions go deep inside make her cum shake moan whatever. Just fuck for fucking.
Thank you anon, I will continue what I'm doing.
I feel like I get her turned on when we're together although I've never felt her downstairs area outside of the pants.
When shes ready, shell probably beg me to fuck her.
watching porn also sets you up for unrealistic goals once you get to actually having sex with someone. so try and stay away from that before going into it. And try wacking off once or twice a day or two beforehand (if you think chances are good it'll be going down soon). Use your imagination and work at relaxing yourself and thinking about each detail. Instead of speed beating and cumming instantly