Were you spanked as a child?
Do you think parents should spank their children as a form of discipline?
I was a disrespectful prick, and my mother and father beat me.
Maybe my dad had been a little rough, but I turned out to become a really nice person.
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Yes but there's a way to do it.
Leaving your kids ass a bleeding mess after you go to town on their ass with a coat hanger, bad (thanks mom, I love you)
But like using your hand or a belt to make them feel a little physical pain does the trick.
It isn't so much the pain that gets the kid, it's the mental "oh shit I fucked up enough to get hit"
I got some pretty nasty treatment growing up but turned out fine.
I'll spank my kids but it will be light shit
This is serious business though, faggot.
Go back to reddit, fuck.
Yes I was
It taught me there were consequences for my actions. It's not that it hurt its just that I knew a punishment was coming because what I did
I will spank my child and I believe children should be
My parents, one time each, asked the other to spank me. On both occasions, i was taken into another room and the parent pretending to spank me would tell me to pretend to cry and clapped a few times. This was how i learned to lie.
Yes. Usually a belt or something was used, I still have some scars.
My parents were harsh on me when I did shit.
Yes, kids should definitely should be hit when they missbehave or they will turn out to be cheeky little fucks, but there is a limit.
My dad blooded me up more than once as a child, although I think it was justified. I'm sure hearing your son say "I hate you" can't feel good.
Anyways, I'll for sure be lighter on my kids, but not soft enough to where they get away with shit and become disrespectful pricks.
My dad had a belt encrusted with little metal pegs, he wipped the Shit out of me and my brother with it, we even Reyes to bury it, but he made us find it, but wipping us with a board, out whatever he could find
Also yes it should be used, more often I think
Yes I was, it was a fucking horrible experience. I don't think I was a particularly bad or spoiled child, but I couldn't take no for an answer (I still can't), and my mother was fucking terrible with dealing with this. I was hit with a wooden spoon, shit fucking stung. I mean, what kind of fucking concept is mercilessly beating your child? That's fucking horrible. I couldn't do that.
That being said, most other softer forms of discipline don't fucking work and kids are just shit-eating fucking pricks today.
Funny story I genuinely used to ask my mom to spank me, I really enjoyed her doing it to me as a kid for some reason.
Probably because moms are pussies and spank really soft to the point where it's practically a tickle.
I dunnno, just really enjoyed it.
Spanked once or twice by my dad which was humilitating and degrading. Not sore as far as I remember though.
If I have a daughter I absolutely intend to gently spank her when she's mischevious, pulling her little pants down or her little dress off, removing her little panties, bending her over my knee and gently spanking her smooth little bottom in the same enjoyable way my mother used to do to me.
No, but I think spanking is hot.
>mfw I spanked my niece when I was watching her
Parents really shouldn't discipline their child with this sort of behavior, they'll just grow up to be more pessimistic, and the world will never change.
Honestly if more people would just talk to the corrupt people of this world everything would be alright,
yea I was beat the fuck out of for fucking my little sister, turned out I actually became a nicer person... gonna have to give props to dad for beating me... I would to have respected him if he was some understanding, liberal fag
Now that I think about it, my parents did a fucking shit job raising me. I'm a narcissistic, lazy asshole. If I wasn't smart then I'd have nothing going for me. that was pretty much raised on fucking 4chan from ages 13-18. Beating me for being bold did nothing.
Yes, and yes-up to a certain age.
I can't remember being spanked after age 7. My parents had taught me by then what exactly bad behaviors were, and I knew enough to stay out of trouble.
I think that younger than that the kid probably doesn't know what poor behaviors are, and you probably have to have that immediate stimulus to get it into them that something was wrong.
Older than 7-10, a child knows what they've done, so reason and logic are better used to educate them, and it's better to take things away etc. for punishment.
What you don't want to do is have chores or "do your homework" be a punishment because that builds in a resistance to doing those activities when the kid hasn't done something wrong.
>I got some pretty nasty treatment growing up but turned out fine.
And my grandad smoked for over 60 years and died to natural causes. That doesn't make smoking okay because he turned out fine.
God I hate those fucks who think "reasoning" is the better thing to do then just disciplinig your kid.
Are they insane? How do you reason with a little prick?
You think they won't do it just because you told them its bad?
I was, and it depends. A swat on the ass prior to standing a kid in the corner? Fine.
Holding a kid by the wrist and repeatedly slapping their ass as hard as you can? That makes you a pussy.
Not only are you showing that you're incapable of raising a child or requiring them to understand why they should not have done what they did, you're also proving that you're too stupid to assert yourself over someone less that half your size except by striking them.
I laugh at my father every day for having spanked me, as he was not only too weak-minded to discipline me properly, he was also too weak to overcome his alcoholism. He could easily have raised me without spanking me, but he chose to anyway.
I never have and never will respect him and he deserved every time his father beat him until he cried on the floor. I only wish grandpa had hit him harder.
I wasn't blaming them, you dumb motherfucker, I'm just saying, from age 13-18, I was a total piece of shit. Everything I do from here on out is entirely my own responsibility. Recognizing where they fucked up is the first step of improving myself.
I think there's no "one size fits all" answer to that.
I was not spanked, and that was good for me because I was an extreme hyper-sensitive faggot with rage issues... all it took was the slightest indication of displeasure for me to feel regret for my actions... punishment made me switch over to pathological rage mode.
But not all kids are like me. Some are tough as nails and don't think twice unless they feel pain. Some only see punishment as a reason not to get caught next time. Some can be reasoned with using words, others don't have a clue what you're talking about. It's one of those tough on-the-spot judgment calls where you just do your best and hope you didn't ruin the kid's life.
It's not "telling them something is bad," that's not very effective. You have to have the child figure out why they shouldn't do it by asking questions like "why do you think this is wrong" so that they come to the conclusion that something is wrong.
I used to get beat with a stick.
I think I deserved every one of them.
Didn't stop me.
If my mum was alive now I guess she would still beat me.
Never laid a hand on my child as I'm still the naughty one.
Yes and no, i see some parents just spanking their kids and thats no way to educate them, Just as a serious measure. Im a father myself and i think im never gonna be able to do that to my kid.
On another note, the father of my ex punched her in the face when he found out she was selling drugs as a teen, she never did it again after that, so, good use of a punch in a face.
Only a few times by my step dad but he was a fucking asshole. I hardly ever did anything though.
And no, parents shouldn't spank your child. When you break the law, do the cops whip you? (well, the GOOD ones anyway don't). Then why the fuck are you beating your kids.
It's not rocket science. Find out what you child can't live without and take it away. iPhone, Xbox, etc. Is what they did severe? Grounding. REAL grounding. Like being in jail grounding.
All you have to do is show your kids what life is like. If you don't show up for work, you don't get shit. If you really fuck up, you don't get freedom. Pretty simple.
When I was little I was about to put my hand on the heating plate. My mom wanted to stop me, my dad let me do it. Guess what, from that day on I knew I should fuck around with fire. Physical stimuli can be quite effective if used reasonable.
>my parents did a shit job raising me
>recognizing where they fucked up
the first step towards self improvement is recognizing YOUR own faults, because only you can change. Also, bitch piss and moan some more, cunt.
Teacher student here; even if we disregard moral sayings like "violence begets violence", there is another hugely important reason why physical dicipline of children, if not already illegal, should be: hitting a child conditions it for obedience and intolerance, while it simultaneously destroys the bond of trust between the patent and child. Loyalty and dicipline is not love or trust; regardless of how much you keep on loving a parent that uses violence to teach, this love will always be stained. This had nothing to do with forgiveness or moving on; the svars are there. This conditioning folklores the child into adulthood and may very well become a "trigger" (sorry for that term, but it's correct) for the adult either to act out, or to shut down emotions.
Great way to create drones, but terrible way to create humans.
Now, not everyone ends up like this, of course, but there are other ways of raising a respectful son or daughter that doesn't potentially rob them of emotional security.
As masochistic as I have become I am glad I wasn't or I would probably have some odd parent fetish.
>spanked as a child
>with one finger
>inside my ass
>from my dad
>mfw when I was molested
Literally has nothing to do with spanking whatsoever....
get out of here liberal scum fag!!
I think one of the reasons for ADD's prevalence is the problem of convincing a child that they should be interested in something and be able to do just one thing for a very long time, to increase concentration at a young age. That's just a lapse in parenting. There are some genetics involved (gf has it and so does her mother, sister, and other family members) but otherwise I think it's a parenting issue.
Yes, I was physically punished as a child.
No. The only forms of discipline shown to be highly effective are negative and positive reinforcement. Punishment has been shown over and over to be very ineffective. Physical and emotional punishment cause higher levels of aggression and hostility that eventually carry over into adulthood.
There's so much overwhelming evidence in the scientific literature for what I am saying that I don't understand why this is even a question. We've solved this riddle decades ago.
That's not true, I was diagnosed in 3rd grade I believe. This was the same period where teachers began calling DSS to visit our house and look for signs of alcohol/drug abuse or unlivable conditions.
My father spanked me every time I did or said anything he didn't like.
>You have to have the child figure out
Thats only for when they are older.
How are you going to explain a little kid to not touch a fire because they can burn themselfs or not get near a power point?
You can't, even if they do listen, they are just going to forget about it.
You need to give them a scare
Was spanked as a child and, as I got older, my parents also slapped me when I REALLY screwed up.
I think that a well-placed spanking as well a well-dosed slap should be incorporated in any education. Sometimes the kid needs to know it really fucked up and sometimes, words are just not enough to convey the message. Not everything is grounds for a spanking or a slap, but corporeal punishment has its place.
>tfw you're sitting nearby parent and their kid
>kid is being the worlds worst little shit causing trouble and being a cunt in general
>"Stop, stop doing that, be nice, don't do that."
>kid keeps on acting like a cunt
DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT, CHRIST. You don't need to beat the shit out of them just a single spank on the ass is enough
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If it's done properly. alot of the times when i was hit with a belt/slapped/wooden spoon, I was confused about why it happened.
Explaining why i was being a fucking brat wouldve helped me understand alot better.
Of course people would abuse the power since it's probably one of the more powerful punishments and easily done. Using the belt for spilling milk or just being overly loud in the evening.
if the child is acting violently towards another person to solve their problems or express their emotions, yes spanking is warranted as they need to learn that violent behavior will lead to violent responses from others.
Also, it depends on the offense. If the kid did something dangerous, by all means don't spank them... let them get hurt on their own so they understand how life works.
But if the offense was like... being a douche to their sibling or throwing a tantrum at the grocery store, and they're not responsive to reasoning, then a spank or two would certainly be reasonable.
Who the fuck spanks their kids while they're walking away from you?
White people don't spank their kids, and they all become mass murders, shooting up schools and movie theaters.
Sounds stupid, right? Now go back and read your post, and see how stupid you sound.
>Were you spanked as a child?
>Do you think parents should spank their children as a form of discipline?
Of course. We're animals, most mammals do this in one form or another, its actually really important for kids to understand the concept of consequence.
This hippy shit about making it ilegal to smack kids is born out of child/social services starting witch hunts against parents.
Should gets get smacks, yes, should they be beaten? no.
Yeah and now I'm a very aggressive person because my mom took out her anger about my father on me.
Sure, but there's a very fine line between discipline and outright abuse.
Is spanking really much worse than washing your daughter's pussy when she's in the bath?
Probably a lot less pedo really.
Some girls love to get spanked, they love having an excuse to take their little clothes off and get their smooth little bottoms gently but firmly spanked and rubbed.
Honestly sometimes they roll over and ask you to spank and rub their belly as well, then make dirty inappropriate requests that can never be carried out.
Yeah I got spanked. But apparently that's okay because the second my father actually punched me, that's when my mother divorces. I don't hate my parents for spanking me, because I learned to behave at a young age. Do I think it's a good form of discipline? It's up to them. There's better ways to teach your child not to be a dick but it's not a bad way.
The answer to public education in the USA as well as the cure for ADD and ADHD.
My dad used to choke me and break my toys as a kid.
One time I got bad grades on my report card and came home to find he'd trashed my room. He then put me in his truck, drove me five miles out and dropped me off. He left me with this "walk home before sundown or I throw the rest of your shit away." He would drive down the roads on occasion to make sure I wasn't hitching.
Kids these days don't know what real abuse is until they have a parent that feels nothing for you.
I got hit a lot as a child until around 17
and I agree with you.
I barely trust my parents and I don't trust people.
looking back sometimes I might have deserved it
but there were times I never understood why I was getting hit. maybe if they told me why I would of been like oh ok hit me til you get tired.
Problem is you lib pussies take everything to far like a spanking is the same as putting your ass in the oven. No it's not spank the shit out of your kids just don't go all middle eastern torture on em
Fuck off you dumb nigger, you need to learn a thing or two about context. They DID fuck up, you don't know me or my family, amazingly not everyone was raised identically to you. That doesn't mean I can't look back objectively and then try to improve myself.