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How am I supposed to get a job with severe anxiety and no qualifications?
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>>585985873
stop being a little bitch.
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>>585986016
Even if I stopped being a little bitch, I've still got no qualifications.
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afraid for what? no one is gonna attack you.

people think you are weird if you don't respond normal.

if people ask a question, you answer it properly

if you have a question, you excuse yourself and ask what is up..

no one is gonna eat you,,..,,,.,
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>>585986133

dishwasher, factory, pizza guy, catering, office job, garbage man, mailman
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painter, demolition, you can aplie for construction jobs, you start at the bottom with no XP

smae goes for restaurants, yo ucan be a fuyckign chef, people start as dish washer
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>>585986259
I just get really anxious whenever I'm about to go somewhere. I guess it's worrying about having Panic attacks that stops me.
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>>585986360
>>585986472
You don't need qualifications to work any of them jobs?
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>>585986601
how do people start somewhere?

some companies say you need XP

but there are always a few companies where you can start at the bottom, they will know , you know jack, so they will teach you
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>>585986550

but what triggers the panic attack?

if you can't work because of that, you can get monies from the government
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>>585985873
go and see a dr. about your anxiety , fight it , keep trying , don't give up. look for entry level jobs or course that can give you qualifications, maybe go back to school ? keep trying don't give up , I am in the same situation as you but I am slowly getting better and hopefully I will be employed by 2015
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>>585987057
I know I can but I don't want to. Even if I have Panic attacks, I will still try and find work. I'm going to try and work somewhere small, where there won't be a lot of people. So I can get used to working and being around strangers.
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>>585985873

> Dress as trap
>suck cocks
>???
>get moneys
>Profit
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>>585987061
Thanks for the advice.

I've tried going to the doctors and I am on a waiting list for counselling but I've been waiting ages now and it's really frustrating. I understand I must try to improve it by myself, so I do occasionally try to go out even if I don't feel up to it. I'm sure I will get much better than I am now, I've just never had to look for a job before.
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>>585987057
The thought of going out in public or people coming round to see me triggers it, I think.
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>>585987967
even now I have sweaty hands and usually feel really anxious throughout everyday when I'm not even doing anything.
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>>585987832
Do you have any experience with that sort of thing?
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>>585987614
Don't be a dipshit by easing yourself into it, just get a job in a local pub and go from there.
If you pussyfoot around trying not to set off an "anxiety attack" then you'll never get anywhere, and you'll be stuck on the dole forever.

Stop making up excuses and get a fucking job, there's plenty of them, you just need to wake up in the morning and go outside you faggot.
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>>585985873
Webdesign
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>>585985873

>borrow money from some fag
>score coke
>bump all day erryday
>become cop
>visit the fag you borrowed money from
>yell STOP RESISTING
>shoot him
>advance your career
>keep bumping all day erryday
>ruin people's lives
>pimp junkie whores to roodypoos
>steal money / weed / phones from potheads
>turn it for cash in the ghetto
>???
>profit
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>>585988264
It's better to ease yourself into it dumbass. Not sure if you're being serious but if you are, you're a faggot who obviously doesn't know what he's talking about.
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>>585988396
That's a possibility
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>>585985873

Primark, McDonalds, any job that says no qualifications required, there are tons of jobs that hire the lowest tier of worker in every city every week, also everyones anxious, there is no other cure than just sucking it up.
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>>585988122

No, Just making a suggestion...
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>>585988691
I'd prefer to work in a small place, just to get used to everything. I'm not trying to pussy foot around anything because I do want a job. I just think if it started working at a big retailer/restaurant I would feel a lot worse.
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>>585988833
>Wants job
>Does nothing about it
>24/7 stayathomefaggot

Nice dubs btw
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Work out the source of your anxiety. Why do you feel anxious with other people? What is the actual root source of the problem? Why do they make you feel that way? Be brutally honest.
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>>585988833
Completley wrong, going into one of the bigger employers all you have to do is exactly what they tell you, no initiative required and being around the general public with no obligation to socialise just plodding on doing your job will reduce your social anxiety, it'll become normal to be in crowds.
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>>585989134
I've felt like this since I was around 12/13 years old and it sort of manifested itself when my Dad passed away. I never had Panic Attacks until a few months after he died.
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Start selling drugs.

>Be me
>Severe anxiety and bektrevs disease
>Get wellfare 2k USD a month
>Sell half my prescriptions drugs for 2k USD a month to online buyers and send thru mail.
>Get money transfered from them and marked as different things like PC parts etc.
>Have 50k USD on my bank account.
>Browse /b/ and game all day being high on pain meds and xanax.
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>>585989193
You're right.
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Are you me OP? I have the same problem. Get help.
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>>585985873
do what i did
>Lie on CV about qualifications
>Drink 6 cans before interview
>Make sure you know your fucking bullshit lines
Anxiety eventually leaves
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>>585989364
I've tried to get help before. I need to try and help myself, whatever that might be.
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Try jobaline
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>>585989445
>6 cans
Is that all?
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>>585986259
I might.
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>>585989312
send me some funky murica drugs man
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>>585989445
What sort of thing have you lied about?

>>585989493
I'm from the UK
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>>585989312
>Have 50k USD on my bank account.
>Get wellfare 2k USD a month

The IRS is going to fuck you so hard, enjoy prison
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>>585989312
This
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>>585989774
I live on cash, the wellfare money is clean and never used.
I get maybe 1k USD wired on bank account, and sell for 1k USD cash face2face.

Also, worked as a nurse and much of the savings is from that time, and the money is from over a 4 year period.
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>>585985873
do you take meds/therapy for the anxiety?
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>>585990137
Don't take meds because I feel better without them. I've tried to get therapy but there's a long waiting list. I've noticed that exercise helps me the most, so I guess I should start doing more of it and try to go out more.

I have the ability to get a job, it's just a difficult thing for me to do at the moment.
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>>585989640
Its actually european, but made the earnings converted to ~ dollars.
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Why don't you just stay on the fucking dole and get a council flat? Maybe knock some slag up and get some more money
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>>585990025
>I live on cash, the wellfare money is clean and never used

that is why the IRS is going to fuck you, you never use the wellfare money yet you have 50k in the bank? stop now and leave or enjoy prison.
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>>585990343
They make you feel more anxious? what did you try?
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>>585989445
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>>585985873
Take MDMA.
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>>585990479
They cant do shit without evidence. That the money is never used can be excused by Im having a sugar daddy that pays everything to me. And if the say thats false (still no evidence, innocent to proven guilty), then I claim discrimination against gays.

The IRS dont check small timers like me, they are busy with the big guys with millions.
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>>585990420
Because I'm not a worthless piece of shit who can't be bothered to find a job.
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>>585989445
this is what I should probably do, I'm in the OP's same situation.
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>>585990540
Valium, which I know is weak and can't really cause any trouble besides addiction. It's just how my mind works. I have the same problem with food and drink.
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>>585990742
But you haven't found one. The longer it takes for you to find a job the harder it'll be to get one. Have you done the job placements? Like working aldi?
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>>585990692
I would if I wasn't so much of a pussy.
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>>585990895
I've turned 18, 2 weeks ago. So it's not like I've been job hunting or living on benefits at all.
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>>585991030
Assuming you live with your parents, why don't you go to college?
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>>585990837
If your doctor gives you a benzodiazepine first line for anxiety, your doctor is an idiot. You need an SSRI like citalopram (Celexa). That is first line treatment for anxiety.
Source: I'm a pharmacist
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>>585991030
Well, you're young. How about going back to school? Can you go to college?
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>>585986360
>Catering
Mother fucker, I took culinary in College just to get a catering job.
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>>585991146
I dropped out of school early because of my anxiety (Which I regret massively)

School was terrible and I can't really bring myself to look for a college placement.
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>>585990695
>They cant do shit without evidence
>The IRS dont check small timers like me, they are busy with the big guys with millions.
> And if the say thats false (still no evidence, innocent to proven guilty), then I claim discrimination against gays.

I bet you feel awesome leeching off the system like that,faggot, enjoy prison they will catch you. You are in denial and trying to justify your pathetic little scam.
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>>585991247
Most doctors are retarded because most the drugs they give you have terrible side effects or a placebo effect.
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>>585991300
There's one place where I could go. It's really claustrophobic and there's people all around you though. So it's difficult for me to actually go there.
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>>585985873
I have severe anxiety too op and I have a difficult time getting a job too. Truth is no one will hire you even if you have qualifications. The only way for me to get a start somewhere was to have some strings pulled by someone I already knew.
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Look for 'First Start' jobs, unless you're over 24 then you're fucked.
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>>585991624
That's the main problem. It's difficult enough actually trying to look for a job, whether they hire you or not is another problem. You're more likely to get a job, if you know someone.
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>>585991672
Having a look at this now.
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>>585991413
>scam (Im not a scammer, I sell drugs and get wellfare for a genuine disease)
>I know how to lounder money.
>In my country they dont use half the budget on police and guv employes.
>And if I should make a mistake, I get probs a 1-2k fine. Laws in my country is silly.

But gtg, so fuck you poor faggot :DDDDDDDD
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>>585991505
Let me say this first: I hate drug companies. They are fucking evil, and I have no reason to say anything nice about them.
HOWEVER, you don't understand the complexity of the human brain and how your body uses the same chemicals in different parts of the body. SSRIs, admittedly, are hit and miss for everyone. You need to try a few different ones for three months before you're going to find something that has a low enough side effect profile that you can tolerate it. There are no quick fixes and it's common to need to try a few different drugs.
Meds are tested for the placebo effect. That's part of what drug trials ARE.
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by ceasing to be a pussy
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John boy
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>>585991861
I don't take meds because they suck and make it worse for me in other ways. Most normal people see anxiety a different way than people with anxiety. It's like a mental disability to them and there's a stigma attached to it the same as depression. I can't interview worth shit and fold but if you try hard enough you might find someone who can understand your illness.
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Op, look up Samantha/Mindfulness meditation. It's a type meditation that is specially designed to deal with anxiety, stress and depression. It has worked wonders on everyone I've met who did it, including myself. I used to be so anxious and stressed that going to the store was a giant task that took ages to prepare for. Then I started meditation and counseling and I am getting better every day. I'd recommend you start with the meditation and wait for the counseling. If you can manage to look for a job without it screwing you up too much, you should do that too.
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>>585992032
>Meds are tested for the placebo effect. That's part of what drug trials ARE.

Or the Pharmaceutical companies know how to make a quick dollar. Have you seen how many different pills they hand out for bi-polar disorder?

They change the formula to one pill by a tiny bit and there you have it, a whole new brand of pills.

Yes, some pills DO WORK but that doesn't mean people like me have to be prescribed them instantly after seeing a doctor. I've felt massively better after exercising/diet but my doctor has never once suggested any of those things to me. They get paid to prescribe pills, just like the Drug companies do.
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>>585992902
I agree with you. A lot of people believe pills work for everyone and that is the only answer.
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>>585993034
I've heard of that before but never looked into. I'll definitely have a look at this.
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I've got a job centre interview today at 4:10pm.

I should start getting money soon
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>>585993324
Money is the motivation. Good luck with your interview.
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>>585993034
Is this what you're talking about?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mdi1AQyyjNA
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>>585993089
If you think like that, I'm not going to change your mind. I've had plenty of friends from university who work in drug trials unaffiliated with companies. The shit is tightly regulated.
Three quarters of all drugs don't make it to market because they're not statistically significantly different than placebo. You just don't know about them because they don't make it to the fucking market.
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>>585993282
It's really one of the best ways to deal with stuff like this. Medication can work for some people, but it's only treating the symptoms, when you do mindfulness meditation it teaches you to deal with the root causes of you problem. It's been a life saver for me and countless others.
>>585993556
Yes this is what I am talking about. This combined with counseling will help immensely, at least it did for me.
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>>585993657
I've done my fair share of research about the drugs they can/can't prescribe and the ones that haven't made it to the market. I have my own opinion on the people who supply them and the industry itself, so no you won't be able to change my views on that. I'm not anti-drugs because I believe for a lot of people drugs can be the answer to some degree, just not for everyone. Drugs numb you, they provide temporary relieve, they don't address the root of the problem but they can still be a good thing, just depends on the dosage and the person taking them.
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>>585986016
/thread

Just start putting in 100% effort
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>>585994072
The fundamental problem is that people are forced to work in jobs they hate in shit conditions and have to go home to ungrateful families. So, fix that for us.
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>>585994676
If our system wasn't so shit, we could all have jobs we would enjoy and be on a decent wage.
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>>585995396
I agree, but that will never happen.
Thus, antidepressants shall reign.
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GET A JOB BEING A HOMELESS LITTLE SHIT.
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>>585995396
>>585995621

Didn't the USSR try that?
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>>585985873
idk but I did it so you can too
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>>585995944
That doesn't pay much and it's a hard life style. Perhaps you could give op a reference in the entitled angry teen business, you seem to be doing well in it.
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>>585986988
Seriously OP. This. Aim low if you have no qualifications. And stop being a fucking autist, it is NOT hard to talk during an interview. Write it down or some shit. Just use some generic "I work hard" bullshit and recycle it every time you go out for a new job.
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Too late foreigners have all the jobs
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amerifags have at least minimum wage work, when you're unable to even get that in poor countries it's so sad.
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>>585996022
No, the USSR was an oligarchy, just as Russia is now. There is the ultra rich and the destitute.
I wish the US and the UK realized where they are headed.
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OP you sound exactly like me when I was 18. I dropped out of sixth form because of anxiety/retarded angst and started signing on when I could and trust me it only gets worse, you're just gonna have to force yourself out there or after a while every employer will ask about the big fucking gap on your timeline. Lie on your CV, say you've worked at small shops and give a friends email as a reference (obviously ask them first), do not let your time alone get to you, that shit is a horrible spiral into depression and anxiety. I can't even smoke weed anymore because of my anxiety, I start twitching and being fucking weird. I have constant chest pains because of the anxiety because my muscles are so tensed, feels like a stabbing pain, I've heard voices in my head and a whole number of things because I spent 3 years on my own waiting for it to get better while it gets gradually worse. If I didn't have my one friend to go out and get fucked with I'd be insane by now. I just managed to get a job in a brewery this week because of this one friend but that is the luckiest thing that ever happened to me. Seriously you need to sort this shit out soon because the job market is getting worse and your anxiety will get worse. I'm honestly worried about someone else living this life for this long, you have to stop feeling sorry for yourself and get motivated for a bit no matter how hard that is
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>>585985873
You can't, pls kill yourself so I, and the rest of the working population, don't have to support your worthless ass.
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>>585997260
I heard that in the USSR that they creayed arbitrary jobs like sitting at a desk for 6 hours literally doing nothing, just to employ people. Like a third of the population were watchman or worked an info booth.
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>>585985873

Alright let's pretend OP never picked up a pen
Let's pretend things would have been no different
Pretend he procrastinated, had no motivation
Pretend he just made excuses that were so paper thin they could blow away with the wind
OP, you're never gonna make it makes no sense to play the game there ain't no way that you'll win
Pretend he just stayed outside all day and played with his friends
Pretend he even had a friend to say was his friend
And it wasn't time to move and schools weren't changing again
He wasn't socially awkward and just strange as a kid
He had a father and his mother wasn't crazy as shit
And he never dreamed he could get a job and just lazy as shit
Fuck a talent show in a gymnasium, bitch, you won't amount to shit quit daydreaming kid
You need to get your cranium checked you thinking like an alien and just ain't realistic
Now pretend they ain't just make him angry with this shit
And there was no one he could even aim when he's pissed it
And his alarm went off to wake him but he didn't make it to the job centre
Slept through his plane and he missed it
He's gon' have a hard time explaining to everyone these food stamps and this WIC shit
Cause he never risked shit he hoped and he wished it but it didn't fall in his lap so he ain't even here
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>>585989312
how does it feel being completey useless
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>>585985873
You can beat anxiety believe it or not, eventually you accept natural fear of certain situations/ contexts and desensitise. Hard to believe when anxiety is acute and strong, but anxiety results from faulty cognition, and not seeing the world and others perceptions of you as they really are. Good luck Op
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>>585997436
>big fucking gap on your timeline

This right here is a huge reason you won't get hired. I am experiencing it right now. I have family as references but no work or friend/aqautence references. I'm thinking about going to AA/NA meetings because the people that attend them are sometimes bros who will help out with this.
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>>585997611

This.

Capitalism > Nature. Fuck OP, if he can't get a job who fucking cares? There are people who would eat shit and cut their own dick off to be in this country and have the opportunity to work hard. OP get the FUCK out.
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>>585998285
INB4 acquaintances*
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how to even begin explain a 6 years gap? ahem...
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>>585985873
you can pack fruit you pathetic waster
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>>585997611
>>585998469
You and people like you are part of the reason a very treatable mental disease doesn't get treated. You take away hope through shaming tactics and willingly stop people from seeking the help they need. I really hope you never go down with stress and have anxiety problems, because you're gonna feel like shitheads for behaving like this if you do.
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>>585985873
Start giving head
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>>585985873
anxiety is probably regarded as a mental illness now along with adhd, dyslexia etc. Have a diagnosis, then, enjoy life
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>>585999362
idk - the anxiety is sad - but the no qualifications? We have a lot of willful wasters.
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