>be me, have younger girlfriend
>hot ass asian grill in my psych class
>find out she's religious and super insecure about her body
>we've made out twice, grabbed her ass and tits both times but when I reached for the vag she pushed away
>ask for nudes and she said "I'm not really a sexual person"
>ask if she's ever gonna be open to anything sexual she says "I don't know"
>ask if she says she's saving herself for marriage and she says "kind of"
>Ask for a bj and she says "I'm just trying to take it slow right now"
>Now mind you, she's super into me, always texting, sending pics of herself, always calls me cute, etc.
>Oh, and she's also super Asian and will do homework while I'm trying to make-out
>I really like this girl /b/ and am too much of a socially awkward /b/ tard to go out looking for more girls
how can I convince her to do anything sexual?
pic related; it's her
well no shit
asian and super religious, she's gonna be real touchy about that kind of stuff
If you don't think you can get another cute asian girl, then stick with it...
but if you can then it wouldn't really be worth the effort to get up in those guts.
Goddamn, just wait until she actually wants to have sex with you. Fuck. Invest your efforts into making yourself someone who she would want to be like. I don't know, fuck. Just be happy that she is into you. She could be fucking around with any other guy, but it's you who she likes to text and Snapchat and talk to and shit. Fuck.
Just be happy.
Jack off to pictures of her. She is cool with you grabbing her ass, that's fucking awesome, man. Jesssususs
then stick with her and don't make the relationship about sex. If she's as amazing as you say then sex is a secondary. If you get horny, rub on out like a man rather than be pussy whipped by pussy you aren't gonna get anytime soon.
Just tell her that if there's a god, he created everyone with a sex drive and thus probably doesn't think of sex as a bad thing, after all it's purpose is the creation of new humans, which are all in the image of god, so he probably has no problem with creating new beings that are in his image.
Also Jesus didn't want anyone to suffer anyway, so Sex is probably OK.
alright autistic fag im in a similar position
dating hot religious white girl who is really modest.
wants to wait until marriage too. and here is where you decide: are you willing to wait that long or are you too horny and need sex that bad?
for me its easy because im not really a sexual person and i really like the girl im with. Dont try to get sexual. wait or flee
Lol, sucks for you. You arent supposed to date Asian nerds. I dated the gymnastics/colorguard asian. Fucked every chance we could. Was sick, showed up to my house in schoolgirl uniform with soup. You aint gettin shit because she doesn't give a fuck about sex, and thats all you seem to care about. Do both of you a favor and leave her the fuck alone.
How long have you been dating? Girls like that usually have predetermined mile-markers for shit so that they don't become girls who act that way right off that bat (because religion or something)
"Made out twice" insinuates you've been together like, a week. I'd say 3 or so months gets you a BJ. Stop being such a faggot about it. If you're really into her then just chill the fuck out and think of it as time invested for when her repressed pussy goes hyper active on your dick.
If you don't care that much, then I guess she's right to hold out to see if you're not a fair-weather fag. Just find another girl who puts out, it isn't difficult.
Wow, you're... pretty much castrated, aren't you...
She's just going to play coy until she finds some guy that makes her feel like the fuck bunny type and then fuck him. Women are completely internalized and as soon as an external thing allows them to accept an internal thing, that's it, that's the key, and she'll be all about the fuckening.
It's unlikely you'll bang and if you do it'll be less than what she wants.
Fuck if I know, I have no experience with relationships
>tfw no gf
>iz teim fur pus plz?
fuck you op you shit with religous girls it takes time for them to trust that you are not just going to fuck her and disappear
she isnt going to wait till marriage but it will take time to break her
take it slow and that sweet ass hymen is urs
>2 1/2 weeks
>UGH GUYS WHY NO SEX
Chill the fuck out man. Everyone moves at their own pace, and if you're not a pushy faggot there's a good chance you'll get laid by the New Year.
You are mentally retarded. You don't deserve the advice you've already gotten, but you do deserve her eventually dumping you for being too much of a faggot for even a pre-college virgin to endure
>how can I convince her to do anything sexual?
start by gaining her trust. Do things like not post her picture on the internet for the amusement of strangers.
show her you deserve the pussy and that she's not just going to get burned.
There are a good number of them. Used to be pretty dangerous for virtually anyone in an Asian nation to be Christian, so the ones that stuck to it or fled their home countries to keep at it, have carried the tradition strong.
As a Asian guy who grew up in Church, some religious girls are near impossible to have sex with before marriage because both the Asian culture and religion condemns it. You just have to not ask and get her in the mood so she cant think rationally. You might have to force her a little, start buy making out and grabbing her tits.then go for the Vagina and don't let her pushing it away stop you. You wont finger her very good the first time but you should watch videos to learn so that she would enjoy it and wont make you stop. Sex comes later
So much this. Sure, be respectful about her boundaries, but tweak the status quo within the lines. Next time you're making out, get her going at the same level you are and playfully back it off. When she goes in for the reconnect, counter it with something like pulling her down onto you or if you're standing up, pick her up and go with it. Call when she raises, and check when she doesn't. When she gets comfy, raise a bit to test the waters.
I agree, have 18 year old gf, am 23
She is dumb as fuck and immature and the only reason I'm with her is because she makes me food and lets me put it in her butt whenever I want
Don't listen to this cum guzzling fairy muncher. Hold her down and force her. It's the only way she's going to learn her place and accept her duty in a Man's world.
>with someone fresh out of hs
>complains that she's immature
You're probably emotionally crippled yourself, or just straight retarded. I wonder why a person with virtually 0 life experiences isn't more mature.
Holy shit faggot take a fucking chill pill. Don't be an asshole, just wait a little and then make a move towards it again. You might be a horny virgin, but chicks take time.
>but my gf fucked me after 2 weeks, OP is a beta
Enjoy your slutty gf and cheating.
OP don't listen to these fucking idiots. If she want fuck you then stop talking to her. If she comes crawling back and still won't put out, tell her that you are just interested in fucking. If she says no then don't ever talk to her worthless ass again.
that may be true but that can't happen until she feels how pleasurable sex is, then she'll want to do it all the time, then all the time with other guys, and THEN your relationship starts to die down. So OP, you not getting any is actually saving your relationship. As long as she doesn't know how good sex is, she'll focus more on your personality and shit
Don't fuck this up you fucking nigger. Asian women are perfect.
>Saving herself for marriage
Jesus fuck faggot, you couldn't have found a better girl. At least you know she isn't a complete fucking slut like white and black girls. Better to have a girl that saves herself for marriage than a slut that sucks everyone's dicks.