Me and my girl were talkin recently and turns out she wants me to go down on her. The thing is I never did it before and I want to blow her mind. Any tips?
"Follow her lead" is like 90% of it. Start out slow and gentle, speed up when she's ready for it (it should be obvious), and for God's sake don't gnaw on it like it's a piece of bubble gum.
Honestly different women prefer different things. Don't be afraid to ask her what she wants or if she likes this and that. Keep open communication with her while going down on her. Try to take note of what turns her on alot, and what does not during the act.
That is kinda helpful but do I want to focus only on the clitoris or should I give the vagina more screentiem?
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1. Keep the same pace, don't change it every 3 secs
2. Lick clit and finger her at the same time, use the same pace on both
3. The clit is to be thought of as a tiiiny penis (get over it); gently sucking around it is better than licking up and down
My pussy eating skills are godlike. Basically, women need you to go slow and focus on a lot of other shit than just the pussy. Kiss her, kiss her neck, slowly go down while kissing her stomach while caressing her body all over (this is important and ongoing almost throughout). Caress her tits well (not just twitching her nipples like we are prone to want to do). Kiss her inner thighs until you get to the pussy, then kiss her outer lips without touching the really sensitive areas (chicks dig teasing) and continue up the other thigh. At this point she should be really fucking wet. I usually only sloooooooooooooooowly start licking the poon, until I insert fingers as Nina Hartley explains in her video.
My girlfriend doesn't have a super sensitive clit and likes it rough, but being sensitive and shit works wonders. Remember to build up intensity so you actually devour her cunt instead of just weakly licking it. Then you've demonstrated patience, teased her, been sensitive and aggressive.
Godspeed, pussylicker, godspeed.
That is a chunk of nice advice. Thanks, fellow pussyeater
>doesn't know about erotic zones
Thighs, tits, neck, and obviously genitals - along with a handful other areas - are "buttons" that can be pressed for almost guaranteed pleasure. Damn near no person on the planet isn't turned on by a kiss on the neck etc.
Obviously there's more to it, but still.
Women go apeshit over the thighs, and stomach. Neck works on some women. But you need to communicate with women, because every women is different. And most women hate guys in bed, because they hate to communicate. They assume they have to be this Chad Thundercock in bed.
Towards the 3rd act I have my arms under her thighs, with one on her tit, elbow on bed, and one fingering her. This allows me to "fuck" her with my hand with my elbows and knees to push off against - girls like feeling pounded. The hand on the tit, and the position I'm in means I'm sort of hugging her. Overall, chicks dig this shit and it never fails. This gets tiresome, so it should be done