My girlfriend drives me fucking crazy. Everything in our relationship is great except for our sex life. I feel like half the time having sex for her is a task. Don't get me wrong, when she's into its great, but the other times its just like can you please try. The problem I think is she's just not very sexual. She was a virgin til like 23 when we met. We've been living together for 4 years and I'm considering marrying her one day but I can't live the rest of my life like this. If anyone has any advice for this sort of thing please help a /b/ro out.
tl;dr girlfriend not very sexual how fix
Maybe its something that you do that makes her into it only half the time. You should just be honest and ask her m8.
I have that situation with my wife. I found myself becoming an angry dude over it all. I then started having flings on the side. Odd how there's guilt, but there's also a really big turn-on from it all. Something about giving it to the wifey while thinking of the hottie I had been with just days earlier (or a few days hence) made me harder. . Like you, mine is great once she gets going, but hard to get going. She's enjoying the better boning she's getting. Maybe someday she can be let in on the secret.
we actually talk about this shit all the time, it's like pulling teeth trying to get her into it sometimes. she always says she's tired or some other excuse. Most of the time she's just not into it .
Unhappiness soon turns into anger and resentment (for both parties). Sexual compatibility is important. Don't try to pretend to be 'evolved' and say it is less important than it actually is. If she is like this now, it will most likely get worse. You are not married, young, and don't have kids... End the relationship.
Sometimes girls just want a good hard assertive dicking.
She doesn't want to be seduced all the time, it's smothering her shifting emotional state of being. Remember, women are not logical thinkers. They rely heavily on their emotions, which are constantly weaving about as their hormones change, especially around the time of her monthly period. And after that time. And oh look you're back at that time again. It's basically all the time they're unstable - and you approach her 100% of the time as a romancey lovey dovey sperglord dorkatron9000, to no avail, as she's repulsed by this static retention of emotional state of being you present to her, possibly influenced by actual feelings for the woman.
Women remain game the rest of your life. Just because you're secure in your relationship, doesn't mean you are. You have to keep coercing her.
Listen to her, understand what she's actually feeling 'in the moment'. She isn't 100% of the time enshrouded in this romantic cloud you've divined in your infatuated consciousness regarding her, she's selfishly evaluating her position relative to her surroundings in an absent minded laboring of routine daily life.
Similar deal op, married 7 years and I still have condoms from like 3 years ago.
She won't change. Especially if talking is such a chore. Stay I'm control though, letting your feelings build up to explosion won't work out for you.
Sorry, still searching for solutions myself. Bettering yourself may help.
I am not a woman, OP is with a woman to have sex, but he is missing out on the best part of sex, creation. Nothing will bring you more joy than raising good children, it will make you want to make more.
That is the only reason sex exists you know
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>I am not a woman, OP is with a woman to have sex, but he is missing out on the best part of sex, creation. Nothing will bring you more joy than raising good children, it will make you want to make more
Don't make me repeat myself
Slip some aphrodisiac pills into her food fool. Or maybe she's lesbian and finds you utterly disgusting. Either way you're sick is probably too small.
Sex is a wonderful gift from God and children are the cherry on top of the sundae. You get enormous pleasure and then you get a little you to teach? What could be better that creating life?
Having sex with children is a disgusting notion