ok so /b/ i'm ready for a serious relationship but my problem is no guys take me seriously. i've been on dates, but within the hour the other guy almost always hints to sex. like is there something wrong with me? do i look like a slut? or am i just so ugly all they see me as is a toy to use?
if it helps i already tried dating sites and the bar/clubs with no real results. all they wanna do is fuck and its annoying as hell. where can i meet a genuine guy who's interested in a longterm relationship?
Be upfront that you aren't looking for a hookup. Follow through and don't sleep with guys. You might have trouble with your age group... though not impossible. Mainly seek platonic friends and see what it leads.
In a fucking social place you go every day like school or working place not a fucking bar or club. We men go there to get pussy and you know that you fucking faggot did you really think i believed, even for a fucking second, that you are a girl.
MANTITS or GTFO!
>>Looking for a long term relationship at a bar/club
Most of the people there are looking for one night stands and fuck buddies. You're looking in the wrong place
Also, how hard is it to follow simple directions? TITS or GTFO- and dont forget the timestamp like 90% of the other dumb bitches do
i should probably be more upfront, thanks. :)
lmao. you're probably right.
is it my interests attracting the wrong people? i mean, for one i'm big into gaming and a lot of fandoms...and make it kind of a statement lol. it's not like i'm overweight or anything either.
Maybe you're just not an interesting person so guys just want to fuck you instead of getting to know your bland personality. I don't know you but perhaps?
There are rules here whore.
Timestamp then pic related
>>573937121I dunno. Not all guys just wanna get into your pants. It's just about the right guy I guess.
Haha, if you were in South Africa I would totally take you out on a date that would blow your mind.
well...my personality can't be that bad, can it? i tried to be very diverse with who I gave chances to. you know, different races, different types...no luck yet
Admit you are a guy and then i shall tell you how i've met with my gamer 90ish/60ish/90ish girlfirend and been in a relationship for a year now and i'll probably marry her after i'm done with college! Also i shall tell you about my personality so maybe you understand why that girl loves me.
No OP, the problem is not with u. Maybe the problem is that u r expeting, when waht u have to do is relax and slide. Dont expect, life will take the rest
Honestly. First impression when looking at your pic I immediately think, shopping barbie.
Shopping barbies usually only love shopping and girlfriends. Not much in common with them.
Do you like other things other than shopping?
I used to be that longterm serious relationship guy but i got fucked over by too many worthless cunts like you OP so now I view your entire gender as nothing more than walking cum-buckets and i have no intention of ever having a "serious relationship" ever again
enjoy your cat farm
>well...my personality can't be that bad, can it? i tried to be very diverse with who I gave chances to. you know, different races, different types...no luck yet
There's your problem...you're a nigger fucker
You're cute and I'm sure a lot of guys would be happy to have a serious relationship with you. I don't know your town or where it's better to look for some people/gamers of your age. By the way how old are you?
Long term relationships are dead. Come to terms with the fact that this is the age of instant gratification, and if you won't give up your pussy, LOTS of other girls will, lest you be forever alone.
Think I could be of service m'lady :D First off my name is Brien its nice to meet you. Second you don't need to worry about me asking you to make me sammiches, If anything I'll be the one in the kitchen. You have a beautiful heart and an even prettier outside. Care to exchange emails?
I think you're probably realizing the inconvenient truth that relationships are very hard, and this is why most people are unhappy with their love life.
I would say just wait and develop your interests. If you're not into hooking up and aren't clouded by youthful lust that should be easy. The right guy will come to you, you'll know when. It will be someone who's your friend but not a beta faggot loser who's willing to do anything just to lose his virginity and it will be someone willing to spend time with you and listen to you but also has their interests and their own life going on that you want to be part of.
It'll happen if you give it time. you're very pretty so you don't really have much to worry about.
Don't listen to the negative jerks, bars/clubs or a no go when it comes to long term relationships.
Yes guys do want sex, some guys so soon, others know that the woman/lady wants to get to know him first, I am the get to know the person and sex later type of person. so you see, they do exists.
I would go on a date with you anyday.
nope you dont look like a slut. you look like a hot sweet grill next door type. date less douchy guys. if you find one who is beta enuff - you will have to put the moves on him.
i'm sorry to hear that :/
like i said, i'm in toronto
Don't look for guys in bars/clubs.
Don't look for guys who are populair.
Don't look for guys who are very handsome.
Don't have high standards.
Be interesting and you better make a mean sandwhich..
The shy guys are the good ones, but can be axe murderers aswell.
SO I TOOK THE BAIT. You should be happy. I live in far away land so I can't gain anything anyway.
TITS WITH TIME STAMP OR GET THE FUCK OUT BITCH
Dating diverse doesn't actually make you a more interesting person. As I said, maybe you just don't have anything to offer than what's between your legs. You should work on that (if that's the case).
Just come to my university, I'm not saying that everyone here have a long term relationship, but you'd be surprised. Two of my friends have been with their gf for more than 6years, I've been with my BF for 3years and a lot of other students are in my case. Most of us are just looking for long term relationship.
>i've been on dates, but within the hour the other guy almost always hints to sex
Guys want tits and pussy, then a good personality if they want something more permanent. It's just a fact of life.
>do i look like a slut?
>or am i just so ugly all they see me as is a toy to use?
With that attitude, sure ;-)
>where can i meet a genuine guy who's interested in a longterm relationship?
There's a fucking huge world. You'll want to get with a guy who already has a strong motivation in their life. You'll want someone who doesn't "need" you and clings to you like a parasite. Maybe try older men?