> be me
> have chubby gf
> discover she has secret blog
> discover from it she hates giving head but is too insecure to refuse to give it
> am now addicted to having her suck my cock
> have made her kneel and blow me morning and evening every day this week
> read her blog and she says she's been crying at how much I've been asking for oral lately
> can't help it, am going to make her suck me again tonight anyway
Would /b/ do any different?
keep it going, mix your seamen with her tears when you blow a load on her face
don't do this, we'll definitely get you fired from your position as chubby girl's boyfriend
recommend hunting up a new bitch, you'll lose your negotiating power if she gets pregnant (which she will do to keep you and not have to suck your cock.
A keeper is a girl who genuinly loves to suck cock.
Only if I could get Ashton Kutcher to jump through the window and tell her she's been punked after a couple months of this.
Would do different? Depends.
If I want this relationship to last, must stop immediately and sit her down - "Hey, I sorta found your blog and feel bad about all the bj's. I want you to know that you are fucking amazing at sucking cock and I really love it - but I love you and don't want you to cry all the time. How can we work this out?"
If I don't want it to last, continue as currently going and advance to more perversion. She's doing what you want despite not asking for it, which means you can ask for anything and assume you are going to get it.
Anal, pissing on her, bondage, whatever you want. She's now your fuck toy.
You must accept that you are no longer treating her as a human on this path. It means you are manipulative and cold. Not judging, being honest here.
If you can handle that, take pictures and videos and start a blog. 50 Shades effect, you'll have an audience as a dom and can win.
At some point she'll either snap and leave, or you'll get bored and dump her.
So, depends on what kind of person you want to be
I wouldn't mention the blog, that makes it seem like you never noticed she doesn't like givin' em on your own = bad boyfriend.
If you feel that guilty, you can say you felt she's not enjoying it, even though she's sooooo good at it and you feel amazing, etc. etc.
I love my girlfriend very much, so I would just talk about it with her and try to work out a compromise that works for us both.
Frankly blowjobs aren't that important to me anyway. I could probably live without them.
I wouldn't be able to give up vaginal or anal. So if either of those became a problem I'd try very hard to find a way to make it better for her
In spirit I agree, but if you want to keep the relationship there is nothing better than being absolutely honest.
OP didn't say he hacked her accounts to find the blog, for all we know she left it up on a screen and he walked by, etc.
If it was a benign discovery, better to be honest even if that means she knows her secret place isn't a secret (and moves it).
If it was a manipulative discovery, he's already treating her like a fuck toy so there's no point in going down the "keep it loving" road.
OP: If you have to "lie" to keep this as a loving relationship, it's not loving and it's already over. If you can do this honestly, you have a chance.
If not, either fuck toy or dump her now.
Nah. I'm just honest and lean a little socio.
These are his opitons, there is a path that makes white knights shine with glee... and there is a dark path that makes you fuckers cry.
Both are there, both are valid. His karma on the choice.
mfw my chubby big titted gf loves sucking my cock and throatfucking makes her pussy drip
Finding her blog was a total accident, no hacking or anything. Clear conscience on that score.
I'm very fond of her and wouldn't normally be the type to hurt anyone.. But last night it was seeing tears running down her face that made me come and I swear I nearly passed out from the force of it. I love knowing she hates doing it that much but does it anyway.. Its a literal addiction for me.
My mind is made up that far at least - I'm going to keep making her do it as much and as long as I can
>being absolutely honest.
No. That is naive advice. Sometimes it really is true that what others don't know won't hurt them. You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.
Welcome to the manipulative bastards club.
Since you are on this path, you may as well accidentally cum in her mouth every now and then.
...and come back to give us updates every now and again.
I can't do the chubby thing. i've got too high of standards. although one of the best BJs I've ever gotten was from a chubby girl so I see your point.
I just like spinners, tiny little white girls with cute faces.
It's not naive. It's honest. If he wants to keep this as a loving relationship, he can't lie.
Cowards lie, and the lies always end up coming out to the full light of truth and burning you.
"what others don't know wont hurt them." until they know. They always end up knowing.
I had a fat girl with huge tits that I would fuck for fun in College. At one point she told me she was wondering if we were going to be a couple or what. I said exactly how I felt: "Look, I don't love you, I just want to fuck you." She took a few moments to process what I said, never taking her eyes off of me. Just a blank stare. Then she smiled and said "Okay."
I fucked that girl as often as I could. Titty-fucked her and had her on her back with me sitting across her chest, so I could stick my cock in her mouth and have her spit on my cock and on her own tits for lubrication while I fucked those huge tits. One time I didn't even fuck her, just her tits and I came with no warning all over her face. Then I got up, put my clothes back on and told her I'd see her later. She still had a load on her face and was just laughing and saying "Okay, bye". I miss that fucktoy.
In the real world your absolutist strategy will only make YOU fail. I know your entire lifetime of watching family-friendly sitcoms has told you honesty is the best policy. More or less, it is. There's no need to be 100% brutally honest, we ALWAYS filter ourselves.
It's not lying to not mention reading the blog, it's omitting the information. In this case, there's really no need to mention it.
Keep telling yourself that bro.
I used to lie out of desperation to keep things I wanted. Not lies like "I'm mad rich motherfucker" but little things like this here secret blog.
Every relationship in which I lied in order to keep it going because the truth was "unimportant" failed when the lies came out.
There is nothing you can do that is worse than a lie to a woman you want to keep. Cheating is telling a lie so don't bother going there... but that's exactly what their mind chains when they find out "If he was willing to lie about my stupid little blog, he'll lie about anything. Including cheating on my fat ass."
To lie is to manipulate. I'm not saying you can't do it, but if you do understand that it's not an act of love and the loving relationship is over.
It's now manipulating a toy.
Opinions are like assholes though, we can disagree and I can still be right ;)
I think that goes around the line of being an asshole but whatever, i don't care, go right ahead and treat her like shit.
And you are a virgin.
>both are valid
nah m8. the second you enjoy making another human suffer, you deserve someone to do the same to you. That shit isn't white knight, it's the truth. Frontier justice. You rape my wife, I fucking kill you.
You are pathetic and you are about to ruin your relationship while causing her much more than just temporary discomfort.
She loves and trusts you. You don't have to serve her every whim like a pussy whipped faggot, but this path is just as stupid. You are fond of her, yet willing to make her deeply unhappy just to get a fucking orgasm.
The fact she hasn't told you she doesn't like it means she is already not all the way there with you. How about you find out why she doesn't like it?
Goddamn man you don't even have to tell her about the blog. Just say you noticed she didn't seem that into it or something.
If you don't stop it, I swear to fucking christ you better not come on /b/ crying when she leaves. Because she will. They all get fed up sometime.
You are also pathetic.
she has a blog where she gets naked and she hasn't told her boyfriend about it
She has already confirmed that she is going to be a boring basic bitch once you start to settle down with her. She is already fat which only means shes going to get fatter and fatter. Then she will become insecure and not even want sex. Kill her with fire and frame the family pet.