My nuclear family feels like it's on the brink of collapse. We're all at odds with each other. Mostly, my kid sister has been really bitchy and a hindrance to our family healing. When I was seven, my mom died, and about a year ago my dad began dating again. My sister can't bring herself to accept a new woman in her life so she takes it out on us. In return, my dad, my other sister, and myself find ourselves easily agitated by her. She plays victim even though she contributes the most to our suffering. I'm tired of being angry at her, /b/. She needs help, but I don't know how to give it or if I have the patience or kindness to. We're all seriously stuck in life, and the first step out is for one of us to make a breakthrough with my sister. I need help, /b/.
Love to cross dress but whenever i buy clothes and panties and stuff I can never control my spending.
It tears me apart because it's something i love doing but I just can't control it.
It also takes a lot of time away from school. I find that whenever i get even slightly horny, il go put a bra and thong on and play with myself for at least an hour. It's been very detrimental to my grades in the past and will probably be so this semester too
See what she's interested in and try to get her involved by joining in. A breakthrough won't happen, it's up to her to let you in.
I'm also suspended from my frat for showing up to a baseball game drunk.
Meanwhile other guys who aren't suspended have multiple MICs, MIPs and arrests for drugs.
Everyone hates me, but the guys who got arrested for pot and alcohol possession as minors are held in high regard for "righting their wrongs"
No one wants to help me with homework.
Calculus is a bitch and I've barely been able to do the first half chapter. I'm afraid I'm going to fail out of school.
She never let's us in. That's the problem. Thank you, though. I'll find something we can share together.
I still need to mend our relationship a lot, though. I've said nasty things to her, even hit her a couple of times (very rarely). She really tries to get under my skin (and dad's skin) to try and aggravate me to the breaking point.
This is the second day in a row that my fuckbuddy has stopped responding to me while planning a rendez-vous.
She talks about getting ready to meet up with me tonight, then stops responding. She "fell asleep" last night, but tonight, her facebook shows that she's been actively talking to someone all night.
This is the last night we could have seen each other before I leave for college. And now she's ignoring me.
Make me feel better, /b/ros.
It may take time anon, but don't address the issue until you've improved your relationship with her. Once your relationship is improved then you should address it.
Also, you're welcome. I'll be here bumping if you want to ask anything else.
At least you have a fuck buddy.
The closest i ever had come was a girl i knew in high school who was a total nympho. She was into me too, but I never made a move.
Even after we had sex a few times, I never made a move. She dropped out and now I never get to see her.
She's also the reason i started cross dressing
I'm not meaning to judge you, you can cross dress if you wish. But is it possible it is an addiction at this point?
Find someone who respects you anon, you deserve it.
I currently have a 14 year old sister who is bitchy too. I'll give you a hint. She's most likely starting the period phase, which is a shitty time for sure. The thing is you can't really address that issue to them because it embarrases them to talk about. If you have a job, mend your relationship with her by offering things. Chocolates works often with girls new to periods. (Including my mother I've dealt with 3 women that are really bitchy in that time, and still have my 10 year old sister to deal with) girls love peopled spending Money on them. Ask her if she wants to go for icecream, just with you. Don't talk about the woman. Just talk about normal stuff lime how's school, Amy boyfriends yet,.etc. reestablish trust. Then you can eventually start reasoning with her. Sorry for slow typing on phone in bed atm
I have no in-between. When I show people my true self, they take advantage of me and show me no respect. When I project the more "social" me, they're either too intimidated or think I'm a douchebag.
As a result, the only person I really fuck now is an old female friend of mine who I really shouldn't be having sexual relations with for multiple reasons anyway.
You're a smart man, anon.
Make sure you have necessities and school supplies. If you are able to control your spending, then donate some money. It should feel good to know that it will go to help someone else. Good luck, anon.
Don't make it all about sex, just befriend others who enjoy your company. Respect them and hopefully they'll respect you.
lost my mom to MS when I was 11
currently watching my uncle die of lung and bone cancer
hopelessly addicted to heroin
probably have hepatitis c
havent had sex in like a year and a half
meh could be worse I guess
hope you guys are doin good
no I havent but Im hoping to go to rehab soon
I just dont want to go into a program and have my uncle pass while I wasnt here
hes only about 10 years older than me and weve always been really close
No problem man. I've got lots of experience with this issue and wish to share it. Just wait for a day where she seems calm, make some jokes and get her laughing then invite her to icecream or something. Be the big brother (or sister) she needs you to be, she needs to trust you before you can suggest a new concept like a stepmother to her.
Thank you. I believe you have a above standard intelligence too.
Try to get help for your addiction. Whether it be religious, like the other anon suggested or rehab, like you suggested. Possibly try and overcome your addiction just by spending time with your uncle and limited time around the drug. I wish you luck.
You're welcome, /b/ro.
It seems that when it is night time in the US not as many assholes are around.
I know it's hard, man. Make sure to tell him you love him before he passes. My mom died of a brain tumor. On her last day, she was in a coma. My last memory of her was kissing her before I headed off to school. I wish I could tell her I loved her when she was awake.
On that note, I'm going to bed. Thanks to everyone for their advice. I'll buy my sister something from Coldstone and talk to her more often. I just want to be a better brother to her. It's hard to see her as a human being when she antagonizes me. I pray that I don't screw up with her again.
I really hope I can, thanks anon.
damn man that hits close to home
my mom was asleep when I left for school the morning she died and I did the same thing.
Well, my sis just walked into the room and smacked me a few times with a pillow pet because I let our younger sister watch Doctor Who with me, who is now having nightmares and fussing about it. She had a bit of a smirk on her face, so I'll take that as progress.
The universe finally killed my Mother and rid me of her burden, my Grandfather was in remission, everyone in my family was finally happy and healthy. I finally met a woman, got engaged and married and was living happily working easy hours and living off my savings from Military service.
After a year my Grandpa went out of remission, prognosis was 4 months to live. I packed up and blew the rest of my savings moving my whole life back home to take care of him, working a shitty job to try and support myself and my wife, along with his retirement and disability.
He died in February, all his extra money is gone and no one else in my Family will take care of my Grandmother and I'm stuck in a shit job barely making ends meet.
I had a fucking nervous break down yesterday. Not because we're in any danger of losing anything, but because I can't give them anything extra.
I am stuck with two people who have a roof over their heads, food in their mouths, internet, central cooling, electricity. I feel completely taken for granted and taken aback at their selfishness.
I'm the only one who seems to remember what it was like to be poor, so poor that I had to watch my parents go hungry so I could eat.
Summerfag trying to call others summerfags on /b/ i don't think you know where you're at. You either kill her or grow a pair of fucking balls and put her in her place. She'll keep doing it till your pussy ass stands up and bitch her out.
Pic for you.
It appears so. Goobye, friend.