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Cause I'm a horrible person. I keep dating people and breaking up with them.
Last relationship lasted a month... I'm at the point of trying "contract dating" In which I date people for a set time limit (2 weeks to 4 weeks) but in truth it's just fooling around and trying to do things to brighten up my shitty life.
>>565148718 >>565149094 Damn Anons, I knew an Ashley that slipped through my fingers years ago. Knew each other since middle school, we came close multiple times for years but nothing ever happened. Still think of her whenever I see her name
>>565148370 >>565148286 I'm with a Hannah and I could tell her wanting kids will be our downfall. Weird shit bros.
My girl is named Anna, senior year of high school she got drunk and made out with a couple of guys at a party I wasn't at. I ended it the next day, never fully got over it. Now she's coming to my school which is a huge party school and I already know she's going to be out and about, a free bird of her own. I only hope she thinks about me every once and a while.
Thanks. It's been about 3 and a half years now. In a stable relationship again, which is great. I love my new girl lots, but it is always hard to balance feeling like I'm betraying Sam by being with the new girl. I know it's dumb because Sam would of course want me to be happy, and that means be with someone else eventually, but sometimes I feel like I have to carry her on inside of me.
I don't feel that way as much anymore, but it does still happen from time to time. Sometimes I just need to get away from the current girlfriend and ponder life. Nothing is forever, we have so little control over anything, and it can all disappear so suddenly. These are hard things to reconcile.
Miriam and because i fucked up when we were together she witnessed some violence on someone else it scared her away...and since i married a cunt of a woman im only with here because of the two kids we have....gggrrrrr my wife isnt supposed to be the mother of my children my ex is....what do
Nah, it's ok. That's how it goes. I am MUCH better than I used to be, but it's the kinda thing that'll be with me for the rest of my life. And in theory I'm ok with that, but it can be hard when it hits heavy. Thanks for the condolences, though. It honestly means a lot coming from a place like /b/. After the accident happened I actually made a lot of threads here, and I was shocked at the comradery I found here. Even in this cesspit people reached out and helped. That's honestly why I come here: to see the full scope of humanity. Both the worst and the best can happen here.
>>565147006 Her Names Anna, I went to school with her and we still write every day for hours, sometimes deep into the night but im pretty sure that she doesnt love me the way I like her. Im too afraid to tell her that I lover her because it could destroy our current relationship. I might see her tomorrow after 4 weeks.
>>565147006 Grace. Her friend likes me, and I like her. My best friend likes Grace, but she doesn't feel the same for him. She and I are good friends, but I'm currently in this big circle of fuck. Advice?
>>565152750 damn i know how you feel. i told her, but engaged full beta mode when i thought she wanted my best friend. well she got fucking pissed (not because i told her that i love her, because the thing with my friend). kinda repaired it though and got friendzoned.
Sara. For the past two years she's constantly left me for another guy, then come back to me. I still love her. It's been 6 months since I've seen her. It's been 7 since we were together. It's been 8 since I've felt something other than lonely..
Sam, and she doesn't want relationships. Never had a bf(or gf? Pretty sure she's bi), virgin, one of those focused on other aspects of life people. Plus in general she just doesn't like people, she tolerates them. My brain SURE picked a winner here.
Katie, and its because I fucked up hard, but we're both too awkward to confront it. Its been sitting between us for about 3 uncomfortable years now like the elephant in the room and we'll probably never even mention it again. Or have a relationship, for that matter. ;_;
She's 30 minutes away and she doesn't want to have a relationship with me because she's unsure about how she feels about me even though she flirts with me everyday, also if we did she would never tell her mom, she'd just want to keep the relationship a secret which I hate
His name was Duke......long ago I had a dream, RULING THE WORLD but then I met him. His short blonde hair and muscular body so beautifully positioned at the front of his team. After that day all I wanted was to see him again, I could never tell him how I felt so I created wild and crazy ideas to get his attention I would make these ridiculous plans to take over the world with a weather denominator or death laser. My men thought they where dying to conquer the earth but in reality they were just helping me see my forbidden love.
I grew more anxious as the years went on I became angrier and more vicious to my men the pain of not being with him grew stronger. I could never show my face for it swelled from my endless tears my voice grew raspy from endless crying. I pushed on with my plans hoping that one day we'd be alone abs I'd have the courage to tell him why, why I'm so angry, why I'm so violent, why I'm so crazy, crazy in love. I can never be with him for I am the villain and he is the hero.
>>565155650 I mean I've already told her like yeah I'm ready for a committed relationship and everything and she's really great we have a lot of shared interests and we get along well but i don't know, something's off
>>565147006 There's two and there's multiple reasons for both, including the fact that I'm unsure who to pick.
>Azrin Not exactly sure how she feels about me. I think she thinks of me as just a friend, but I'm not completely sure. She's always "busy", but I think she's just avoiding me.
>Livia We don't really talk much, but when we do I feel something. Maybe it's just infatuation, but it's something. The only time we hang out, or even talk to each other, is with mutual friends of ours.
Lidia: I told her that i like her She told me that she like me too She never answer my messages When she answer, it's one phrase So I stop texting her (4 months) She text me Started talking to her again yesterday Same shit again Says that miss me But don't answer my texts Just sees them and don't answer
They are mostly jokes, because she's on a bad mood...but, what the fuck? not one single laugh or answer?
Fuck me /b/, why do I like her? I feel so shitty yet happy...It's something wrong on what I'm doing?
>>565155916 Look anon, I dont mean to burst your bubble, but most girls that say that kind of thing use their parent's reaction as an excuse. They're just not ready or have their eyes on someone else... Maybe her mother really is gonna freak out but if she really would like you she wouldn't care she would go for it. Try to ask why her mom would freak out about it and just be calm about it, no fucking autistic rage or anything.
>>565147006 Sara. She's my best friend. We have fucked in the past but nothing really happened at a relationship level, we just continued being good friends. I have a girlfriend now and she's dated other guys in the past. Now she's single but I know nothing is gonna happen. I fucking love her.
>>565156608 >Introduce self to parents >Look like an upstanding Anon. If you really are upstanding, it's easier. >Look really super-responsible and ask if you may take daughter out on a date >If the answer is yes, her excuse is invalid.
Lexi. I went on a date with her. Too nervous to eat my food. Laugh all you want I couldn't help it. Didn't matter anyway. She is perfect in every way and I'm just a fucking idiot. It took me 4 years to ask her out. That was high-school. Man I still think about her everyday. Its past that point of sexual desire I just really really like her for who she is. Nothing hurts me more than knowing she won't ever feel the same way
>>565157327 It's okay. It's better to stay you than to try to pretend you're something you're not. If you can GENUINELY change into a different person, by all means it's worth a shot, but it's easier and less painful to find one who will accept your lifestyle, and hopefully has plenty in common with your tastes.
James I'm too socially autistic to talk to him. I'm barely his friend, we're on a first name basis but nothing else. He's into the same stuff as me and he's attractive. I just don't want to appear too needy or anything.
We're smoking weed tomorrow with my two other friends so, I guess that's a step?
She left.. I dealt with so much shit from her because I loved her. Some things anybody would have left right away for. But I put up with it because it was worth it when things were good. I never did anything wrong, she always talked about how perfect I was and one day just left. The pain still hasn't gone away. I want her to have a good and happy life but a different part of me wants her life to be fucking hell.
>>565158805 Just leave her alone. Nothing is more of a turn off than coming on too fast. Maybe you think you didn't, but she does. At least this text says so. Be cool and awesome and stuff and just act normally around her. If she still doesn't talk to you or anything then date some other girls. Taken guys = sexy.
Or she just hates you and never wants to speak with you again. Who knows, it's a text.
>>565159069 Bitches be like that sometimes, and it's likely not in your best interest to want to get serious with her.
She sounds like the type that likes to wind guys up around their finger just to make them feel better about themselves or have some stupid sense of "control." Let it go long enough she's got your balls on a leash and you haven't even had a date with her yet.
I've noticed some girls who do this tend to want to bring themselves up because they're hiding some really annoying personal issues, like being a fucking lunatic, or a whore.
Ashlee. We were close friends that turned into pretty much a honeymoon couple without the sex. Make out sessions and the cheesy dinner dates etc. I wanted to be with her then suddenly i found out she had a GF she had been living with for 2 years. How the fuck did i not know? i backed off, she pushed harder. I asked her is it me or her? and well she chose the gf because it would be to hard to explain to her family that shes with a guy after working so hard to be accepted as a lesbian. i tried the whole friend thing for a while, oh how i did try, but it was too painful to have feelings but know i cant act on them, so i had to drop contact with her. so many feels
>>565147006 Her name is way too distinct and you never know who you'll run into on here so I'll just be vague.
Japanese girl with name starting with A
Not with her because:
-We met in college. I just graduated but she's got some time left. I'm not stupidly far from the school where visiting is a problem, and our hometown's are even closer, but the divide is there.
-She's hard to pick up on and is quick to sour on people. Sometimes she acts as though we're really close friends, other times she's dismissive.
-We basically don't talk at all outside of group hangouts. We get along very well and act like old friends but there isn't that intimacy that comes from getting to know someone privately.
-I like her, that's really really rare for me. I usually have no shits to give for other people either way, but I'm really attracted to her. So, of course, she's definitely too good for me.
-This may be an old reason that's about to change but.. She's dating a friend of mine. They're very private people so their issues aren't too public but I hear there have been some long lasting cracks that are growing deeper. They're all the more likely to break up seeing as how he's about to leave the country for a while (over a year) to study abroad.
-Adding onto the last, her boyfriend is a good friend of mine. Even if they break up it feels like a no-go.
Those are the ones specific to her. In general I've got a lot of very deep-seated self hatred and that shit is a clear indicator that any relationship isn't going to work. You can't be with someone when you fundamentally disbelieve in your worth as a person. I'll always be doubting them unfairly, etc. Part of it is me, part is my shitty upbringing, and the rest from past relationships. One day, maybe, I'll get past it. But for now I'm essentially doing any poor misguided girls willing to date me the kindness of saving them from a bad decision by just not dating.
>>565158687 ok then estimate if you have a realistic chance for scoring with him and try to be a bit playful and see how he reacts. you can make up some witty phrases or think of what you can do to him before the meetup
>>2014 <<cant greentext >>not a neckbeard by the way.
>>565158805 >>565158805 Forget about her, honestly. How long exactly has it been? She might have not been thinking about you, even if it's been a while. Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to put you down, just to make you see what it's really like...
Thea. I've had many other women both long-term and onenight stands that people would consider hotter, but I'm still in love with her many years after. I added her on fb and we talked for a bit and even though I got some game with others I go infra-autismal when talking to her so I just unfriended and fucked some other bitches.. didn't help as usual. I'll just continue trying to kill that abstract kind of feel.
She said she wanted to stay friends. I took it kinda hard for like six weeks and then we'd talk like once every week or other week, I've just gotten back into it. We talk all the time now as friends, and it doesn't feel that bad. Plus, I'm not sure she's set on that decision.
All depends bro, you can either let the gov't lead you by the balls because they sign your check, or just let them THINK they are but really your balls are scoring mad pussy.
I know quite a few active/former-active people from different branches, some have managed to use service as a spin to score like mad. Apparently works especially well outside of America, ironically, even though it should be domestic that's most grateful.
>met her last year at my McJob >started talking >started dating in June >gave her my virginity >managed to fall in love with her >live together the end of July/beginning of August >she's at school right now and I only see her weekends
I feel so fucking lonely that it's pathetic, I didn't know I could fall for someone and miss them this much. I wasn't prepared for these feels from just not seeing her 5 days in a row.
>>565160184 Sounds like you have nothing unique to offer and that's why someone is better. Get really really good at something interesting, be a god at it. Try it for several things to make yourself more interesting so you have more to offer.
I'm guessing it was because I got bigger-better-deal'd out. She was half-flakey in the time I got to know her online through webcam chats but that's still better than being a full flake. In my eyes, she was an 11/10 and to this day I cannot find anyone physically hotter. She'd play with her big tits for me and even accepted going into a relationship and plan to meet up. Then she reneged which I should've taken as a red flag at the time... I set myself back career and money-wise just to bring myself geographically closer and try to meet her face-to-face. By that time she was broke, busy, and barely online (once every few weeks, and not for long) and I was dumb enough to wait... and wait... and wait just so I could make contact again. Then there was a falling out because she pretty much told me after I described how far I've gone just for her "I don't want to hook up with you" which I felt was coming anyways... I called her a tease and didn't talk to her for months.
The next time we would speak I ended up falling into deep depression and drinking a lot of nights because of how isolated I had become post-moving and not seeking a job that entire time. I made it pretty clear how upset I was on occasion and hoped she would stick around to see me through it. And then when things started looking up she sends a message while I'm taking a nap "Don't call or text me. I can't help you." Again, half-expected because this girl was not easy to trust.
The strangest thing was even while she had a boyfriend she didn't mind telling me I had a huge cock. But taking conversation beyond that was apparently outside of the comfort zone. I've probably talked to this girl more often than any other woman in my life, and I thought (and sometimes still think) that she was the best possible outcome for a girlfriend. Ever since that period I've been able to date and fuck but I've never been as excited about anyone else as her.
>Meet girl from a friend online >End up crushing hard >Long distance relationship >She's this cute curvy girl. 9/10 >Two months into it my ex comes in to the picture >She still loves me, blah blah blah typical apathetic attitude until I actually learn she's telling the truth >I love long distance girl, but the distance is too much so I ask to see her >"anon aren't you broke? You can't see me yet" >Tell her I have family a good ten minutes away from her so I wouldn't have to worry about anything. Hell, I could transfer >More excuses >whateverman.jpg >ex comes back to the house >use her; start making out and shit >Almost go all the way until I'm stopped by a phone call >Continue seeing ex on the side. She knows everything, including the fact she's being used >when I told her she said "Anon, you've been unhappy for a really long time. As long as you're happy, I'm happy." >Shit hits me like a truck >Don't think about it much then >eventually stop seeing the ex, but still keep in contact >Actually talk to her more than the gf nowadays >Thoughts start to waiver away from both of them
You know how some people have shit 9-5 jobs and the only reason they even show up Monday is because after Friday they have two whole days to look forward to? Your situation is quite a bit bigger than that, but still in the same vein.
Don't look at the loneliness. Look at how much more quality the time feels when you DO see her. And without constantly being by each other, there's less propensity for fights, which is a plus. "Absence makes the heart grow fonder," and all that. It does seem to work that way.
>>565159471 Even knowing this I cant get mad, all I feel is hurt. I legitimately enjoyed every minute I spent with her. College just started so the work helps me forget, but when I'm laying in my bed at 2 am I can still feel her lips.
>Katrina Went through mounds of shit from when were 10 until we were 21, I just don't understand why we couldn't be together. I hate myself when I think about you. I've thought about you everyday since the first time we spoke and the last time we kissed. I miss you so fucking much. You tore my heart out with the bullet you put in your own skull. I just wish you were here laying with me play Mario party having the few shots of wine I could steal off my parents. I miss you more than anything in this world.
Nikki, my best friend on the planet. She moves across the country in a month and I haven't had time to hang with her because of college starting back up. But the past week she's been giving me the cold shoulder and it's fuckin icy. I'm not sure exactly why, but I can't get her to say a word to me about whatever it is. I know she's scared to move away, but I know she needs to because living here is killing her. I'm doing my best to be supportive, but idk if I'll get to see her again before she leaves. And I'm not sure I'll ever get to see her again. And I don't know how I'll get along without her here
Because after 21 years on this earth, I've come to realize that dating is pointless. I've been in a few relationships that lasted from 5 months to a year. Sure, it's cool while it lasts and it gives you a sense of importance and purpose, but all in all staying single was one of the best decisions I've made.
For example, my last girlfriend was one of my best friends. We've known each other for 7 years and we always had a thing for each other. She changed completely, started turning into a psycho bitch, and holding me back from where I'm at today. It really sucks that I ended all communication with her after knowing her for so long, but fuck it.
>>565160184 >>565160393 Agreed. Become fucking awesome at something and then you'll always (or almost always) be better in that thing. Make sure you like doing it because being passionate about something makes you a more interesting person.
Madeleine, im with her right now and ive sacrificed my sainity and my friendships for her. But she is still emotionally unstable, cuts, goes on pill binges. And now she wants to go out to a party and fuck another guy. I will break up with her after, if she actually fucks a guy at the party. >smoking a shit ton of weed with her ex-bf who was an asshole to her this weekend >i have no feelings TL;DR: troubles
Maria. She was perfect to me despite her flaws. We were in love and I had never been more content with my life than when I was with her. For the last 3 months we were long distance, during this time she was slowly falling out of love with me.
We broke up this week. I still love her and wish she would come back to me.
>>565147006 because it's 20 to six, I have exams in a little over three hours, I'm studying and she's still sleeping in my bed. I will go and wake her later, by putting my dick on her face. She actually asked me to do it.
>>565160816 Then what you need, is a rebound. Hit up a party, bag some poon. There's literally billions of fish out there, there is none that tastes so much more right than the others that nothing else will do, just some that are tastier than others.
>>565160653 Then I don't know why she still isn't ready... Anon there's something wrong with her, I don't know what but is she worth the trouble and stress youre giving yourself? I mean you both like the same things, sure. You're alike, sure, but you're gonna meet a lot of people that are the same as you and she wont be the last. Idk the whole story but god she just doesn't seem worth it. What if you do get in a relationship? She'll still hide you from her mom? I dont know it just seems like a lot of hassle for so little.
>>565161659 Are you madly in love, or just kinda digging her like that? Either way, if you want a good chance of salvaging the friendship after being shot down, just make it seem like you're just interested in her like that just a bit. Not too much, you'll look clingy and distance is guaranteed then.
A crazy thought that occurs to me is to like joke about going on a date or something, and lining something simple up. Just to get her mind exploring going further.
>>565161585 Thanks anon, my older brother goes to the same college as me and is having his 22nd birthday party this weekend, there will literally be hundreds of people going, so I guess then will be my chance.
>>565161659 Every romantic comedy plot line ever. Which sucks because while in the movies the protagonists typically resolve everything and fuck off into the sunset, reality is a lot more awkward and shitty. Asking her is a risk. Maybe go on a one on one 'date' but don't actually call it that. Like say, hey, you want to see (x) movie sometime? Or do you want to play (x) videogame? Have dinner together (like cook it yourself at you house. If you can cook well, you're awesome). You won't ruin a friendship if you do something like that. Don't treat it like a date, exactly. Don't label it a date.
His name, I guess in an American sense his name is Jacob. So. Gender switch. I'm not with him because he lives 5000 miles away. I haven't spoken to him because he went missing a month ago. I miss him so much. He just... Stopped talking. He was drunk texting me about something stupid, a little pitiful but nothing abnormal around his 2am, and just... Cut out. Haven't heard from him since.
>>565162479 Me checking my phone for him is a constant cycle and a little overbearing. I'm the type of person to record dreams, but I forget them because I'm always eager to check my phone and see if he's back.
>>565147006 Audrey. Known her since highschool, She's gorgeous, active and down to earth. We go to the same college now and we're friends, but I can't bring myself to ask her to hangout one on one or even with mutual friends. Even if I did, it wouldn't go anywhere. I'm middle of the road at best, but she could date anyone she wanted too; I've never heard her being in a relationship though, which makes me think she's not really looking. I always get the impression that I'm just boring to her.
>>565162001 Coming from a former McDrone, I understand exactly what you mean by dead-end. They tout about the career opportunities; I can't remember if it's the current or the last CEO, but he actually started out at the bottom (well, near it). But that's some rare shit, man.
I was fortunate enough to get a factory job. Not exactly top-tier pussy-getting material, but solid income and good, consistent hours and a schedule that doesn't jump to fuck-all. Not everyone has the fortune of getting out of McDick's and the like on their own time, or ever in some cases. I feel that feel, bro.
>>565162341 My nigga. Who knows, maybe you'll find a girl that's serious dating material there? If not, you can hopefully at least bag some ass, it always works to clear the mind.
>>565162453 This guy gets it. If it doesn't appear to be working, then hey, friendship. If it does, you've opened the glorious door. At least putting the thought of "hey, maybe Anon and I should ACTUALLY date instead of this kinda-feels-like-one stuff" in her head via this.
Marlene. We dated for 4 months, broke up in February, a week after my birthday, and stll are friends. Tonight is especially bad for me, because i still cant get over her. She says her feelings for me have just faded.
>>565162954 I worked with a solid 9/10 at McDick's, who had a boyfriend who was fucking HUGE (and not in the muscular way) and halfway to being a neckbeard. Anything is possible, and the first step is to get your confidence in balance. Not too low like it is right now, and not too high where you're practically slapping a pricetag on your head that's far too inflated.
>>565160852 >>565160852 To clarify I am a weird person in all honesty when it comes to grills I am pretty good texting and shit but pretty beta in person until I get to know them and let's just say I got a date with her and was basically autistic/10 and then didn't talk to her for a bit but I've picked back up now>>565161226
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