Is it normal for a girl to have a rape fantasy? It's not like I actually want to be raped, but why is it such a turn on in a fantasy context?
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that could be it, might also explain why I can appreciate Hentai more than I imagine most would.
For example, let's say rape was common enough phenomena at some time in mankind's past that women who were turned on by rape were more likely to get impregnated during the act than those that weren't (assuming of course she was fertile at the time) then it's not unthinkable that some inkling of this might have been passed on.
Feminism is all about appropriating power.
Through the acts of cavemen past the instinct and genetics of rape being over all beneficial to the continuation of the human race. If you like being raped your less likely to struggle which means less chance of injury so if you so get pregnant at least you wont be crippled and unable to survive long enough to give birth.
As a male I must say I do enjoy the idea of dominating someone in this way.
you probably are a guy and just want to know if rape thoughts are normal for girls.
i think it is normal for some since i heard of a lot who like that kind of stuff, though not everyone is the same, so dunno.
also i'm a guy so what do i know ;)
>nature to be submissive
>Feminism is all about appropriating power
They're both consistent, feminism is more about trying to rationalize this genetic inequity with social equality. It's really a bit of conundrum since Feminism has reached a point where embracing being female means embracing the opposite of social equality, thus why Feminists are always pissed off and probably have no actual hope of achieving anything of significance since there really isn't any objective goal that can be reached which isn't in some form or another self defeating.
Its the self inflicted curse of feminism. Back before feminism women were live at home caregivers who cooked, cleaned, and took care of the kids. Now that thats considered wrong all they have left to offer is sex. They expect guys to pay for them in many many ways while all they give in return is their vagina. Rape means they can't and didn't monetize their vagina for all that it could be worth and they hate that. Their only worth now is ruined and gone.
My wife is totally into it and loves it when I grab her and carry her to bed. She likes to put up a slight struggle to make it even more interesting for her even when she knows she cant do a thing when I hold her down and have my way.
She talks sometimes about doing something more painfull, but I know she really couldnt take it for real. Forced sex is nice hurtrape nope.
> Saria will always be your friend anon...
why not you take a seat over there?
The reason people think they would enjoy being raped is because they feel safe when envisioning it happening in their minds, but if it were to happen irl, they would have no control over whats happening and go into panic mode. What you need is for someone to consensually rape you.
every girl I've ever dated admitted to me (not at first) that they totally had a rape fantasy, in the same way you mentioned it. I'd say its probably unusual (or just denial) for any girl to say she doesnt. Evolutionarily, it makes sense to want a strong man to dominate you, he's more likely to dominate other men and animals too then
Is OP lurking? or did OP when out to get consensual rape?
It's a fairly common fantasy, but the difference between a fantasy rape and real rape is that in the fantasy, YOU still have control. In a real rape you have NONE. When you remove that element of control, you turn something hot into something horrible. Even submissive people still use safe words as a form of control during sex. If you can find someone you trust to indulge you in your fantasy, that's fine, otherwise you're better off leaving it for masturbation fodder.
well and just because it's a natural female trait to enjoy being dominated, doesnt mean all women are 100% feminine. Theres lots of very manly (maybe hormonal as well) women who push the feminism thing cuz it doesnt match their unusual internals
i hate when people who can't speak english try to put english sentences in porn. it sounds like a robot speaking when you say it out loud:
"Hey! It. Is. My. Turn."
yes, i am annoyed over hentai
I think most girls want rape in that fantasy way because it's still their fantasy.
>Strong, handsome man being super confident and dominating is sexy.
>Strung out desperate smelly indian dude with a blade wildly trying to get what he never could... not sexy
>I think most girls want rape in that fantasy way because it's still their fantasy.
That's what I mean by control. They are in control of the fantasy whereas they have no control in an actual assault.
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1. Yes I write to you because you're a female on 4chan, 'tis an awesome thing to see!
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Look who it is again, ID Heaven. I'm fed up with your shit faggot. The other day when you called me a newfag, yeah, haven't forgotten about that yet.
Fuck you I've been on here for months and probably get on here more than you anyways. Don't you know that you make yourself look like a newfag when you call others newfag?
Just because you learned how to hack your name and change it to "Heaven" does not give you the right to disrespect anyone at any time.
In most rape fantasies the girl is not afraid she's going to be killed afterward, or kept prisoner for 10 years
On the street those are very real concerns though
So executing a rape scene always involves some kind of boundaries, with people you can count on to let you go later and not kill or permanently injure you.
You can totally do it though, with enough set up create a period of time where someone briefed on what can and can't happen may suddenly appear and "kidnap" you, then go Hanoi Hotel on you for a few days.
As most women are physically smaller than most men and most women understand that our testosterone make us lust-filled and aggressive, some delight in the idea of being a sexual tool for such output. They understand that this act will be sinfully pleasurable and may result in birthing which will add an element of both fear and arousal.
oho, we got a junior psychologist in here
I wish, it would make it less likely to happen. Some of my good friends from hs settled down with some controlling bitch, definitely the dominant one in the relationship.
>we're hanging out at some decent restaurant, the wife/girlfriend is like "I dont like my food, honey go to <random fast food place> and go get me some". I'm like WTF? We're eating why would he leave for 30 mins to do that. And he's like okay, I will no problem... its obvious this is nothing new for him. We basically finish the meal without him, and when he gets back shes like oh no Ive changed my mind I want this stuff lets go get this instead. And off they go. Guy was super chill, now is just her slave.
This is why masculine traits in women are a bad thing. I wish that bitch was a lesbian, she wouldn't have taken my friend captive like she has.
What some people here are saying about how fantasizing about rape feels safe and okay because you have control is so true! I often fins myself fantasizing about it, but I still feel scared walking home alone when it´s dark outside. Rape is horrible, no matter what. If it´s a scene, or a "rape-part" in a roleplay, that´s something completely different. And saying that all women have left to offer is sex? Just get out of your room and talk to one some time, you fuck
I'm sure he does, in a easier-to-give-up-control sort of way. I can't respect that, though.
He used to be easily one of the most charismatic people I knew, super smart, super successful, super happy and outgoing.
Once he fell in love with this girl, that all sort of faded off. Hell, this girl cheated on him regularily (she on multiple occasions tried with me - like, reaching into my pants, grabbing my cock and asking to fuck me) and he would never face that fact. He used to be super chill, and now he's all about feminist bullshit (from her).
The one way I know 100% it's not right is his smile. I knew this guy for like 5 years before her, and I knew his smile. The, laughing, blissful sort of natural smile, he did it all the time. Once he met her - his smiles became those forced ones you see people do. The mouth widens, but the eyes and face dont look happy.
I suppose its his choice, but it still sucks to see some bitch ruin a good friend of mine, and to see that it lasts (He dropped out of an ivy-league school and now hangs out at home while she goes to nursing school, theyre married and about to have their first kid so its permanent now).
I love women, but shit like this has definitely left me kinda bitter about feminists and bitchy dominant sluts
yeah, but as I get older and more of my friends start to settle down, I'm starting to see it's not unusual. 80% of dudes go immediately into total beta slave mode when they get a good gf
That's what I thought too. Years ago, when relationships were more transient, it wasn't as apparent.
But dude, I'm fairly confident by now that this is the norm, not an unusual thing. These girls arent necessarily super unusually dominant, the guys arent otherwise submissive. They just fucking cant stand up for themselves in the face of sex. I cant understand it - these arent even neckbeards, most of these guys have fucked dozens of girls before, its not something new.
Sad state of shit nowadays...
thats the end friend
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Women that submitted to rape were raped by the conquering tribes. The stronger women or women who may have resisted were probably still raped but then killed for being a problem. Submissive nature was passed down through either genes or shown in maternal nature where girls learn many of their traits.
Many guys are also turned on by the rape fantasy as they imagine themselves completely in control and the domination is very appealing.
it is common. it is because women are meant to, and like to be dominated and controlled. it is why men are meant to lead and women aren't. and why women like men who are good leaders, who take and do what they want. men tend to be more sadistic with their sexual actions, and women tend to be more masochistic. its just how our psyches work.
now would you be a good little femanon and write out your rape fantasy for us? I'm sure we would all like to hear in detail what you would like to happen to you.
It's not normal per se, but these sum it up quite well:
1. Guilt avoidance – She may have a familial background where women who enjoyed sex were looked upon as dirty and trashy. Rape fantasy play can allow her to "resist" and say "no" to intense sex that her socialization forbids, yet still experience it.
2. Feel irresistible – Women may want to feel so attractive that even a normally innocent handy man at her home simply cannot resist the urge to touch her and ravish her body. She's so attractive, in fact, that when she resists, he just takes what he must have.
3. Thrill of submission – Women in executive level careers in which they're always the assertive, decision making boss, may feel coerced submission offers a release from the everyday pressures of assuming the position of power over others.
4.Thrill and chill of fear – Even though the role-play is planned and consensual, some women can suspend their disbelief to the point of experiencing a certain level of fear that feels thrilling. This may appeal to those who feel bored in their professional lives, homemaking role, or are tired with the day-to-day duties of life.
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last one, thanks for watching