Single father here. My 13yo daughter wants to buy thongs, because she is wearing leggings quite often and she says that you can always see the panty lines and she doesn't like that.
Now I think she really is too young to wear thongs. I guess if I won't allow it she'll just buy them herself. Any advice on what to do?
You should install a hidden camera in the bathroom to see if she's really a girl. And then bring the video here so we all can agree and confirm her gender.
After that we'll discuss her underwear collection, what will fit her, what colors and so forth.
Quit being a fucking faggot fail father and tell the dumb young cunt that she's not going to wear leggins anymore and quit fucking spoiling her. I bet she has the newest Iphone right now huh? amirite?
Goddammit this fucking generation of young kids are fucking pathetic, 13 yo and already a fucking slut. Be a good fucking father OP, shit.
actual serious answer.
tell her no. end of story. wtf is wrong with you?
if she doesnt like it, tell her not to wear the fucking leggings then. when she's od enough to drive to the damn store on her own and buy them with her own money then she'll be mature enough to understand the situation.
you are her god damn father, act like you know what the hell you're doing.
That's the best excuse I've never heard to get thongs.
If panty lines bother her so much, then buy her lycra panties. They don't show, nobody can notice them and they're more comfortable.
Hmm, I'd be somewhat appreciative that she actually asked that. Asked about her underwear. >From her dad.
I'm pretty happy if my daughters'll come to ask me something along those lines later on.
Anyway, she'll do as she likes, but you need to at least try to awkwardly sex-ed her since she is buying the sluttygear anyway already.
>children these days
>asking /b/ for parenting advice
stop being a fag. Tell her to not wear faggy clothes that makes her look like a slut.(ie leggings are super slutty) if she fights cut her off the $ cuz then she's got shit. Tighten the noose or face life with a moron child that will never learn a god damn thing other than "gimme". Fail parent.
It's not technically his fault. The mom must be one of these sluts also.
Like I said the problem is too much freedumb here in the first world.
Get used to seeing little girls everywhere being empowered little half naked sluts. If thats too much of a cultural shift for you?
Move. It's that simple.
Dad to dad with daughters, tell her no. That's way to young, explain to her that kids her age shouldn't try to dress older than what they are. Then put your foot down and tell her she can comply or not wear leggings anymore
are you a parent or aren't you? Your only job is to enforce rules and instill values in your kids and you are fucking that up hardcore. Parenting doesn't mean "let your kid do whatever the fuck they want"
tumblrfag pls go
actually, please stay. how the fuck is telling her not to dress like a dumb slut anything other than empowering her to be a stand-up example of a strong woman?
if you raise her right from when she's a child, then when she's actually old enough to rebel by sucking a thousand dicks, she won't feel the need to.
if you give your kids everything they want, they don't respect you.
conversely, if you lock them up and never let them have any self expression or freedom, they hate you.
a good parent finds the balance between boundaries and self expression.
so... know it all fucktard, how old is your daughter?
She will buy them and then use them to turn on boys.
And you and me know perfectly what 13-15 (because let's face it, she is turned on by older boys at that age) have in mind.
It's time for you to discuss sex with her.
Just beat the shit out of that little fuckin' bitch!
Whip her ass, op!
Whip. Her. Ass.
My wife told me that she only wears thongs because of leggings, so I don't see a problem with it. Honestly, I hate leggings, though. Makes you look like white trash and like you don't want to take the effort out of your day to get ready. Kind of like a guy wearing gym pants, I guess.
I'd let her make her own decisions about fashion. She knows more about it than you do, and the last thing you want is a daughter that rebels at a later age or gets picked on.
Wearing thongs doesn't even make you a whore. If you think so, then damn you are sheltered.
tell the dumb bitch that you will break your foot in her ass. if she argues send her to the closet where she can spend time with her faggot aborted brother. Continue to ramble about how much better of a choice he would have been. Trust me. Works every time
The thong just makes it easier for guys to ram their dicks between her supple 13 year old ass cheeks
I bet her cheeks are nice and soft. Would be perfect for slamming against
just be a good fucking father and give her enough self esteem to make smart choices for herself. make sure she knows that you love her no matter what, that you're always there for her and that you support her.
If you raise a girl without daddy issues, she wont grow up to become a slut. regardless of the clothing she buys
If your daughter is ugly, don't worry about a thing, the only person shell get close to is the ugly kid that's in her class, niggers will be together for years after that cause they're both too ugly for anyone else. Your good OP
God dammit i hate the fucking slut shamers so much. Let the girl wear a thong so i can enjoy it when she bends over
this advice is good as long as you emphasize that it doesn't mean she has a free pass to do whatever the fuck she wants. You still have to instill values. A father that 100% supports her daughter for being a agender furry otherkin with 15 headmates from sonic the hedehog is a terrible father
Dude just let her wear it. I guarantee you that girls in her class are wearing the same thing, and probably with thongs (weaker parents start the ball rolling). If you want her to fit in you got to let her have things like this.
Just tell her that they aren't allowed to look sexy or something and at least theres some sort of compromise that way. She might not even find them comfortable.
13 seems like an appropriate age to wear thongs if she wants to wear them.
But also remind her they're only for her leggings and that if she wears a thong with jeans, there is chance of a whale tail--the calling card of a slut.
but honestly, this is a troll fake thread, an op with these concerns wouldn't post a thong with discharge in it
Teen girls wear thongs when they want to. If parents wont get them for them they will find other ways to get them.
I dont think its that big of a deal, I remember being in middle school and girls were wearing thongs by then.
I say just let her, it really isnt any different from wearing panties.
now just to make sure you're not a dumb fuck.
the next time she goes out with the leggings and shorts, to school or whreever you let her go, give her some time, and then drop in on her with no warning. make sure she didn't just drop her pants as soon as she was out of your sight.
don't be naive anon.
though to be honest, if she does drop her pants as soon she's out of the house, she's a lost cause. you have failed. if she already has "that" attitude at 13, it's too late to fix. just get her birth control pills ad start teaching her about diseases.
OP, the fact that she came to you an asked for your permission instead of sneaking behind your back and doing it anyway is a good thing, and a sign that your doing a good job as a father. If she was intending on doing promiscuous things in the thong, then why would she ask you and bring the fact that she owns one to your attention? If she was really slutting around, she would try to hide it better than that. If I were you I would discuss other options with her, like seamless panties. Their the same as regular one but without the seams that create panty lines.
I see you have not helped a young teen hide her thongs
so lemme get this straight, youre suggesting that everyone is that inept at being a parent that they cannot control what their children do, and the logical conclusion is to give into every whim children have? pic related.
Couldn't agrre more with this guy
Also, OP, if she won't listen to you (her own fucking father!!) be a son of a bitch and cancel her mobile-phone, don't let her visit freinds in the weekends and make her do the dishes. That will eventually teach her. She is "only" 13. It's not too late
in return i will also agree with you. if you can't make her see reason, then do what you can to protect her whether she likes it or not. like cancelling phones, deleting her facebook, taking her computer away... etc etc...
in the end she'll hate you for it. but it might be a sacrifice you have to make depending on how far gone she is.
I think the leggings are more of a problem than the thongs, OP. If she wears proper pants, no one will know she's wearing a thong. Furthermore, leggings are far more revealing than the underwear they contain. Sounds like you already shot yourself in the foot; you can't take away the clothes she already has. Just let her have the damned underwear. And get her birth control. Because kids will be kids and they're doing it younger every year.
This a mollion times. Let her wear whatever the fuck she wants, so we can fap to her.
because of that picture in combination with your post now >99% of the faggots here are thinking of your daughters pussy juices. Some are even fapping to the thought I bet
ok this could be true.
example of conversation with my daughter or son about something they want that's age inappropriate.
>Can i have GTA?
no, go play portal or minecraft.
because you're not old enough for that game.
>but my friends have it
>their parents bought it for them
then they have bad parents, you don't. now stop asking.
>can i watch you play it?
no. but if you want we can play portal or forza together later.
it's not that hard op. both my kids are in middle school too.
go out and find her a pair of underwear that doesnt show lines under her leggings.
and perhaps maybe your daughter shouldnt be a whore and wear ONLY leggings. fuck. Keep her in line now, or else shes only going to become more of a whore.
tell her she should wear legging because creepy fat balding man children will stare at them and possibly rape them.
and if she says something about 'still not asking for it' then you fucking slap her in the mouth.
How many sheep for daughter?
How many goat?
You sell daughter me, many animals have.
Give you land if want, good opium land, lots of talib, dooooshmans.
Need white wife, good young one for more sons.
She bleed yet?
Call me plz.
Allah hu Ackbar.
oh and then you show her this picture and say he loves girls in leggings
ITT: people who don't have a teen daughter and never will because they will never find a willing mate.
OP: My best advice - Victoria's Secret has some cute things that should fit her. Just make her pay for them out of her allowance (even though they're really for you). Oh, and she has to try them on to show you that they fit.
>implying thongs mean as much as you're making them out to
>implying age means anything
Let your daughter do whatever the hell she wants with her underwear. If it's more comfortable for her or more attractive to other people or whyever she wants them, why not? Don't be my entire family... telling me I "have to wear underwear" forever, and even in my 20's act like I'm a fucking alien every time they remember that I don't bother, just because "that's how it's supposed to be because that's how everybody else does it". You're trying too hard to be what you think is a good father and ignoring reason in the process
Honestly, video games aren't bad at all, unless you have some dumbass white trash little shit who screams profanity over the mic because it's the cool thing to do.
I'd let my kid play what they want, but if they're not mature enough to handle it, in the trash it goes.
OP are you really this retarded this is how girls become whores to get back at their fathers. If you just let her do what she wants and actually consider her feelings towards it she might not be sucking dick by the end of the month.
This picture sums up everything that's wrong with western society today...
Liberalism, socialism and feminism have eroded our moral values and encouraged degenerate so-called "culture" like this to develop. These girls are dressed up like a bunch of cheap whores about to go to work in a brothel yet they look about 15 years old, it's disgraceful. The younger female generations of today have no self-respect, yet demand to be respected by others and are surprised when they get treated like shit. Rather than self-respect, it's all about self-gratification and being a "strong", "independent" women. Innocence lost; I really should've lived in Victorian / Edwardian England.
She will buy them, just send some female you have access to with her. Like her aunt, a neighbour, big cousin etc. and tell the attendant one that she should go for the simple plain basic one and no super sexy lingerie.
no i get that. i'm pretty liberal with what i let them play, but gta has some shocking things in it. i don't want them to be emotionless and desensitized to such things as ripping a man's teeth out with pliers, watching "not linsday lohan" get ass fucked on a table, or skull fucking a teddy bear.
if either of them wanted to play halo, metal gear solid, hell even mortal kombat i wouldn't care. violence can be fun. it's the subject matter behind it that i think they're too young for.
Good advice, dont punish her for being open.
Still, this is a dilemma. Tell her to wait until she's 15.
Seriously, she respects you enough to ask, so at least reward this respect in some way. Just make it clear you're not comfortable with her being degenerate.
how old are your kids? oh you don't have any? yeah ok.
my youngest is 11. too young for GTA. and it's not because the game is about stealing cars. >>560597612
see here for explanation.
What? Let aunt, neighbor, cousin steal your fun? Heck, you are the one who has paid and sweated to raise her for 13 years. It's your right to help her pick out the sexiest undies.
ITT: Those who will never be dads, or if they do will never understand how to enjoy it properly.
leggings are sex appeal? are you even a chick? its annoying as FUCK when people call you out on being able to see the outline of your underwear. She's 13, she's too young for you or literally anybody to be sexualizing her.
i was referring to the thong.
if it were my daughter, i'd much rather her wear leggings with (what i'm assuming to be short) shorts than just wear the shorts or the leggings by themselves. it's just more tasteful. the leggings with the shorts wouldn't bother me at all. it's decent.
the thong, leggings with nothing over them, or shorts or a skirt that are too short with no leggings under them, they are not age appropriate.
take her to the store with you and help her pick out a thong you both agree on. then violently rape her screaming in her face that she was asking for it. when the police show up don't stop until after climax. no matter if you have been shot or taserd (cocaine just before the incident is great since it will make you feel bullet proof). after climax hope that your daughter is now pregnant with your grandchild. the next part is pretty hard, but you need to drive it home in order for this to stick. you need to die... and your final words need to be something stern but light hearted. "if your going to dress like a slut be prepared to be treated like one"
die and maybe your daugter won't be pregnant on on murray before 13
you don't want a 17 year old nigger for a son in law do you?
back to my point, wearing thongs does not mean you're a whore. the only people sexualizing thongs are grown ass men (which is fucking creepy). also shorts over leggings are tacky ;(
My 14 year old niece wears thongs all the time, I only know this because when she takes a shower she leaves her clothes in a pile in the corner of the bathroom and goes into her room when she is done and leaves the clothes there. I go into the bathroom shortly therafter and sniff her worn panties. MFW 14 year old pussy smells like heaven.
this isn't 1920. Its 2014. Teens arent innocent little kids anymore. Buy her the damn things.
a girl wears a thong because you want people to look at your ass and see the actual shape of it.
yeah, that's sex appeal. and 13 is too young to want people to look at your ass.
I can't believe we die to eat good pussy and that is the shit that pours out of it during the day. What is the reason for that discharge? Any femanons around reading this shit?
Yep, the mess depends on a number of things. Each girl is different, and where she is in her cycle also makes a huge difference. Fucking and masturbating also cleans all the discharge out for a day or two. So a 18yo with a perfectly clean thong either got fucked or recently fucked herself.
this. do this.
film it too.
>mfw this is the type of person who doesn't want you to properly raise your daughter so she might be dumb enough to get smashed at a house party and suck his pimply little dick
this whole thread
>actually attempting to stop teenagers from having sex
Even if you convert to Islam now you can't stop it so just teach her safe sex and protection and hopefully she gets tired of being a slut by the time she graduates (really, most of the appeal for girls to be slutty is rebellion, girls that young don't actually LIKE being fucked so without the rebellion aspect she'll probably just normalize to serial monogamy)
Thank you. And furthermore having sex does not make someone a "slut". Also that is none of anyone else's business. I'd say 99% of everyone on this thread hates "sluts" but still believe women should cater to their sexual needs
I find your lack of dirty teen panties disturbing. Pic related, this is from a 15yo cheerleader after a football game
Sounds like a non-overbearing yet stern, respectable father.
Worthless scum for whom respect from their peers or potential children will never be realized.
Or better yet let me raise that little slut up, straight into the air as im grasping her thigh meat beside her ass, pounding her tight pussy and pumping her up and down as my tight shiny gym body flexes and toils.
>Single father here. My 13yo daughter wants to buy thongs, because she is wearing leggings quite often and she says that you can always see the panty lines and she doesn't like that.
>Now I think she really is too young to wear thongs. I guess if I won't allow it she'll just buy them herself. Any advice on what to do?
Check with her school...most schools have dress codes to avoid these situations...teachers don't want to have to stare at her cameltoe, or deal with horny 13 yr old boys
Femanon here. Let her wear them. It most likely embaresses her that she shows underwear lines. They hurt a lot though when worn too much, so shell most likely hate them within weeks.
seems like you have a pretty good relationship with your daughter, OP, don't fuck that up.
let her buy them, and tell her you trust her judgement, but also tell her "by the way" that guys actually do like seeing the panty lines, and that thong-wearing girls are stamped as "sluts" automatically.
let her have a pair.
just because she wants to wear a thong does not make her a slut. i started wearing them at 14 for the same reason she wants to.
and thongs are comfier than reg panties.
How the fuck is putting your foot down and telling the little whore in progress to not try to flaunt the ass she just got, influencing her to "cower in fear"? The minislut is thirteen and asking for thongs. He should slap the shit out of her for even thinking about it.
What perfect logic you have, I sincerely applaud you. Go back to Tumblr you feminazi bitch dyke.
Seriously OP, this. She conned you into leggings and now she's trying to con you into buying thongs. She can wear the shorts over her her leggings if she doesn't like her panties showing.
OP you should let her wear what she wants, if she wants to wear g-string thongs with only leggings and no shorts then allow her to do it.
If I were you I would have bought her anything she wants, in fact I would encourage her to wear g-string thongs.
How about growing some balls and making her obey? Your the man of the house and you say what goes she shuts up and listens to you. Come on man you're not honouring your manliness...
My niece is 15 and she comes to me whenever she wants to buy things her parents don't buy her, I've bought her clothes from g-string thongs to g-string bikinis, in return she doesn't tell her parents about me doing this for her. Recently I've started to give her recommendations and she loves them, pic related: one of my recommendations to her
OP, ask her why she wants to wear leggings.
If you find out the pant line thing is bullshit, ask her why she wants to wear a thong.
the real answer might be embarrassing and cause her to question it.
but wtf do i know about raising small girls.. just an instinct. i find genuinely asking why a lot is good for trying to understand ppl
Society has gone to complete shit. I remember back when I was in middle school, everyone dressed modest. There was maybe that one whore who had parents that didn't give a shit and she dressed how ever she wanted. Now we have 13 year olds walking around in booty shorts, thongs, and owning I phones. If you even need to come here (especially fucking HERE), and ask advice like that, then you already failed as a parent. Have fun paying being a grandfather and paying for her and her kid within the next 3 years.
Best part about this, is that whenever the family goes to the beach, my niece would wear one of the g-string micro bikinis that I've bought her. I basically feast with my eyes and also watch my brother freak out.