How can I make my gf cum /b/?
We lost our virginity together, we have had sex 5 times and I want to make her cum for the first time tomorrow.
General sex advice thread I guess.
No. I'm 22, somehow I met her and well, I won't be a wizard anymore.
Do I need to stick a finger inside too?
She likes that but I don't think I'll make her cum that way.
Alright, here's what you wanna do..
You're gonna use your ring-and index fingers, like when you grab a bowling ball. Stick it in her, and push them up, towards her G spot. Put the other hand above her pubic area. Continue doing this until she cums, then fuck her until she cums again.
Fuck in the spoon position and reach over for her clit with your free hand and play with it meanwhile you fuck. Works eveytime unless you have a small dick or dont last longer than 5 minutes. If thats the case.. I'm sorry, you cant never please a woman sexually
My gf don't cum when I tease her clit while fucking. She can only gasm with my dick and not whith my tongue or fingers. For some reason when she is close to an orgasm she asks me to finish her with my cock
Well... I can last for a while so that isn't a problem, my dick is 6in...
She was, the first time we had sex she had some pain but since she was very wet it kinda went good.
Second time still hurt, third time she finally started to enjoy it...
How heaven? which position?
I had an ex who claimed this same shit. Claimed she had need cum or had an orgasm from sex or otherwise. (she would fake it ALL THE TIME apparently while we did it)
Got annoying when I realized she was faking it. Pretty much ruined our relationship.
>ProTip: She probably needs therapy
fuck, I meant ring-and middle fingers. And don't push them up with your hand, instead curve them like when you do the "come here" sign. Also, you could use your pinky to massage her asshole with the same hand.
As for the clit, sure, licking it could definitely help. Just pay attention to her body language or listen to what she wants you to do.
Source - Made my GF cum 4 times in a row doing this. She was exhaused and dehydrated afterwards.
>Also, you could use your pinky to massage her asshole with the same hand.
Thanks for this awesome tip anon, she loves when I lick or touch her ass a bit, last time I even inserted my index finger a bit and she smiled and enjoyed it.
Girls are completely different tho. This one was easy. She had a g-spot (only 1/4 of girls do) so all I did was put her on a table just above waist height so my dick pushed up against the top of her while I was in her. While I did this. I applied gentle pressure to the clit with my thumb, twitching my thumb occasionally.
Most girls only cum with clit stimulation. Pretty much every girl you will ever have sex with cannot cum through penetration alone. Some can, but it's a pretty small percentage.
In other words, get her legs apart go down there and give her the old lickaroo. I will green text how to do it, enjoy:
>kiss all over and her down from her belly and just put your face in front of her vagina, she'll be begging for it
>start to lick up quite slowly, make your tongue as wide and broad as you can if that makes sense
>slowly start to go around in circles, don't press too hard
>when she starts to loosen up you can try to put your whole mouth around her labia and gently suck and keep your tongue going in circles gently
protip: the bottom half is all pointless, keep licking around the top.
protip x2: especially at the start don't directly lick her clit, go around it a bit teasingly. i'm told it feels too sensitive (almost all girls say that)
>her cum for the first time tomorrow
>Not making her cum at least twice every time you fuck her.
>She had a g-spot (only 1/4 of girls do)
This whole thread is a joke. Don't come on 4chan for sex advice. Honestly, the best thing you can do is have good communication. Most girls like clitoral stimulation. Some like g-spot (typically squirters). Some like deep spot stimulation. Basically do what you can, and ask what she likes the most. A massage before sex can help relax her body and make vaginal orgasms easier.
captcha: fingers laddyP
>How can I make my gf cum /b/?
FUCK HER RIGHT IN THE PUSSY
only true if you
a) don't know shit about foreplay and/or cant into fingering/ licking
b) cant stay hard for at least 5 minutes
and you're protip sound like you cant fuck for shit so you slobber her to orgasm because you're just really really bad
g-spot is non existent there is no magical cum button - you can make her believe there is to make it easier - placebo effect
and sometimes just jab you're finger up her ass while fucking her, don't ask a huge amount of bitches love it
Keep sharing tips for me /b/, please.
If you've never seen the way babies eat when they first start transitioning to solid foods and they don't have teeth yet, it's this real out-in-front lips and tongue slurping type action. That's what you need to emulate. You need to slurp the gerber off of the spoon of her clit. Fingering and nipple play is nice but not necessary. The clit is the female dickhead and it's not gonna suck itself. Just pay attention to her reactions and figure it out. Don't be afraid to explore. Lick her gooch, tongue the opening, do the alphabet thing, but the clit is where the magic happens.
Get that down then come back and we'll talk about the g-spot.
For sex, you want to make sure your cardio game is strong.
Alright OP here you go. If you really wanna make her cum first start off with foreplay, and I mean some serious foreplay, whatever you think is enough, double that for just the right amount of time. Start with long kisses and work your way to her neck, softly kiss her neck and start licking your tongue will be your best friend for foreplay. Couple times as your licking her neck go up and lick and suck her ear. Don't forget to go back to give her a couple kisses while your doing this. At this point you should get her topless but keep the panties on. Lick her collar bone a little and drag your tongue down to her nipples and experiment and she if she likes sucking, licking around in circles or flicking with your tongue, go from tits to neck for a little while and on your second to third trip down to play with her tits take your hand and start lightly touching her pussy over her panties. Lick her stomach and all around and especially right about her panties and finally get into position like you're gonna eat her out, there lick the insides of her thighs and find which side gets her going most, it's usually the girls left but everyone's different, don't pay too much attention to one side though, also drag your tongue where her pussy is over her panties and start licking the legs. Spend a good amount of time here till she's nice and horny. Now you can either take off her panties or flip her on her stomach and start licking and kissing her spine for bonus points, work your way down kissing and licking and towards the end you wanna pull her panties slightly down and lick from the start of her ass all the way up to her neck in one lick. Now you can flip her over again, tease her again from neck down to her legs if you want but you can go straight back to a little teasing of the inner thighs before you take off her panties and start eating her out
Wank 2 hours before
Work till your eyes still from the sweat in them
Thanks for your help /b/, I'm delivering the few OC I have.
My girl orgasms most times we have sex. Foreplay is key. Find her soft spots like around the neck, hips, back, etc. I've had her close to an orgasm without any sexual touching, just kissing the back of her neck and dragging fingers across her back and waist area. Wait for her to beg you to fuck and she'll cum faster than you.
If I met someone this stupid in real life I would slap that person across the face.
>implying the things done in porn can not be done in real life
>implying the things done in porn are actually good at all
When you take them off to start eating her out get you lips in there and let her feel the heat of your breath for a moment, lick around a little and then find her clit, the key here is repition find a speed and area that gets her going and keep doing it, with all the foreplay she should come pretty fast, 1 o'clock position on the clit seems to bring the most pleasure, you can start fingering her while you're eating her out too but don't lose rhythm that's most important. Really by this point she should have cum buckets but I'll give you some pointers for sex positions too. At this point get on top for missionary, but don't just shove your dick in, you said it's 6 inches, gears you're above average, tease her with it, put just the top in, massage her clit with the head of you penis, just don't fuck her yet. She will most likely start begging for it if you're doing everything right. When you decide it's enough put your whole dick in, hold it for a second there balls deep, and then slowly take it out again. Now tease her for the last time then start slow fucking her. Get in your groove and really now it's important cuz you don't wanna bust early and ruin everything. Change from slow fucking to fast fucking, not only does this further tease her it's a good warm up for you. When you're ready, grab her tight and start going as hard as you can, try to make as much contact with your pelvic area, this with stimulate her clit while you fuck her
I am protip?
the other stuff okay whatever. Just keep shoving your finger in their ass randomly, apparently they love that hahaha, man what sort of hookers have you been fucking?
Thanks for that detailed foreplay, I've never kissed her back before, I'll do it tomorrow!
Reading comprehension? I was asking him HOW to make a girl squirt... Faggot.
I really enjoy eating her out, her pussy smells amazing.
Well if you love eating her out, go for the top of the clit (as some others have said).
Remember OP, all girls prefer different things. You have to try shit out. Just tell he to be honest. If she likes something you do tell her to say.
Use the fact your both just ex-virgins to your advantage. Your still experimenting and understanding you bodys, so communicate.
When you've tired out that position I usually like to let her get on top and let her do her thing and let me get some rest, when you've rested up though ran her ass tight and start taking control, eventually you wanna grab her and bring her in close to you and literally just go to town, this is a guaranteed way to make my girl cum, the orgasms aren't as strong as in other positions but still good. Finally get her on her stomach and do what's in the pic, the pillow isn't necessary but I'll tell you I've given my girl the best orgasms in that position and once a five minute sessions in that position was hitting all the right spots she didn't talk after for a good while and finally opened her mouth to say that was the best sex of my life. Also what everyone is saying about squiring is good too, best time in my scenario would be after missionary to try it in my scenario. Follow what I've told you OP and you're sure to make her cum, but remeber practice makes perfect. Enjoy
From my experience size definitely helps. I was with may ex for 5 yrs. I'm 8"-8 1/2" but in those 5 yrs I may have made her cum maybe 2 times if at all. Current gf have been with her for 8 months and she has orgasm 2-5 times per session on average. She also has a much higher sex drive then ex. She leaves puddles sometimes on the bed when she squirts. Can make her cum with dick and oral.
My point is some woman cum easily while others not so much. Just be open minded. Try different things and find out what feels good and what doesn't. And practice.
>whilst saying how beautiful she looks
agreed with all your post but that part. "daddy's little whore/fucktoy/cumslut" etc. works better on 99.9% of women. 0.1% want the sweet talk
actually it's reverse spider man
weave your middle finger and ring finger together to form a pseudo "spiral" if you will, with the middle finger sticking out a bit more than the pointer. leave all other fingers out and stick that 2 finger spiral spear into her and slowly twist the 2 finger spear while slowly fingering her for a tease
then just rapidly jab the vagina with the finger spear
if you didnt understand it heres a picture of the finger spiral spear
30% of women can't orgasm for some reason. It baffles scientists. Look it up, I had this with a girl and broke up with her because she did almost nothing in bed because of it.
All girls are different OP. but this is my current method for making my girlfriend cum:
>find clitoral hood (google it)
>rub it in a circular motion (the hood, not the clit itself) with some pressure. You'll know if you're doing it right, feed off her noises/body language
>I usually use 2 fingers, ring and middle for this
>sometimes we fuck while I do that, if you want to try like that do this:
>she lies on her back
>you lie on your side, facing her
>she brings the leg closer to you up, you bring your pelvis under so you can put your dick in
>your rubbing hand goes over her leg
>fuck and rub her at the same time
1. make sure you don't cum before her
2. if you want to go for maximum style points, edge yourself (get close to cumming) and slow down the pace of your fucking so that you don't cum, then wait until shes right there about to, then when she cums, you cum
3. don't fuck up your rhythm. she WILL notice if you keep getting slower/lazy. faster is ok but make sure you can commit to the extra effort. I have botched my gf's orgasms by changing the pace too much.
on average it takes my gf maybe 10-15 minutes of work to cum, so take that as about average. It'll probably seem like longer though.
My GF normally doesn't like me touching her anus during oral, but one time she was pretty drunk and I was fingering her butt while going down on her and she loved it. The feeling of her rectum clenching and unclenching around my finger as she came was awesome. I still get hard thinking about it. I wish she'd let me do it more often tbh.
This. me and the gf got drunk once and i pretty much just said fuck it and fingered her butt while she was on top of me. she fucking loved it, but is too embarrassed to let me do it to her sober.
it was so fucking awesome.
Poor suckers. Mine is all about assplay. However the kinda annoying thing is she doesn't like anything to do with her pussy that much. I haven't even had vaginal sex with her yet, only anal. Shes a vaginal virgin still. We've dated 6 months and lost virginity to each other, shit was cash.
Small dick whiteboy detected
>tfw 7" and not black
btw OP. Just practice with her, you probably won't make her cum for a while but you can work on getting better at it. When in missionary put a pillow under her ass/bottom back.
Also eat her out and foreplay go well together
Its not that nice tbh, it took us 4 whole times to finally get anal into the point where I could actually finish. The very first time I couldn't get it in (I wasnt fully erect, and we didnt have lube though) and after that for 2 or 3 times it hurt her too much to bear so I had to pull out in under 10 seconds or so. She claims I'm too big but I'm like 5.5 inches long and 6 girth which isn't much. But now we do it pretty fine but I still can't go all that fast, she's pretty small so it still hurts her even with tonnes of prep (and NO I'm not a pedophile were both 19).
However the whole time I've craved pussy, seriously, anal gets boring. I was near cheating once but she claims we'll do it maybe in september or october. Not sure.
Meh, maybe or maybe not.