Quality of life is so shitty as an ugly person. Basically spent the last 6 yrs alone and have ppl give me shit for no reason what so ever. It's an uphill battle bros. Going to die a virgin too not that i care about sex but shit lol what a pointless life.
OP here. Guy in pic is me. Its funny you mention hard mode, only social factor I have going for me is mmos and I mainly play them so I can talk to people otherwise i'd go weeks without saying a word yo.
I go to gym already. I have read books, books tell you of a world which really does not exist. They promote insanity to deal with reality nothing else.
I actually am one of the strongest people i know. I play soccer, do swimming, do karate, do weight lifting, I do hiking. That's all i do along with playing MMOs and studying 5 hrs a day so i can have a job and nothing to spend that money on lol.
I don't hate women. Actually I am inspired by alot of them. Don't really hate anyone to be honest. But I am quiet and I never initiate contact because in the past it has ended very badly.
Ugly dude reporting in
Do you find that customer service people treat you badly? Like when I walk into the coffee shop, I'm always the one that says "hi" to them, they never greet me first. Then when I'm done paying they're like "thanks" in this sarcastic tone with like a little shrug type motion like "why did you even come in here"
You're just extremely self conscious. Attractive people usually get better responses from people subconsciously. Customer service people just hate their job and will project it any way they can.
Group of girls called me a "creep" and laughed at me. Was into another girl but she basically had zero interest and subtly told me to fuck off. Often times when I go to a food place and they have female servers, I can tell women are annoyed by my presence or uncompfortable. Basically if I ever show more interest than just a friend woman put their guard up.
Had this kid who I was friends with. Dude tells me he has a birthday party coming up. I ask him when he said I wasn't invited lol. I said why n he says "you'll scare all the girls". Basically i've had shit like this happen to me alot. In high school friends were embarrassed to be seen with me in public. So I ended up cutting ties with them and deleted my facebook. Like one time I was in a car and the driver tells me to duck so people can't see me in a car with him.
I don't get this 'I'm gonna die a virgin' shit. Go get a fucking prostitute you faggot if you really care that much about your virginity.
Hard to make friends after you go through stuff like that. And it's not really about sex or virginity, I just have had a really shitty and stupid life. And I feel like whatever I do doesn't change that. I am afraid I'll be old and still be in this state of existence. I am actually really afraid of dying now simply because the way I see it my life has been garbage up to this point.
Shit sucks, but they aren't really obligated to go along with your feelings. Would be more polite if they would state their intentions of friendship and maintain that level of humanity. But you can't look at relationships with women as black and white. Not to sound like a dick but that's Elliot Rodgers material. Keep probing until one probes back. It's just a matter of time.
Alright if you really hated yourself and were as sad as you say you are you wouldn't be posting stuff like this. Your definitely insecure and that fuckin sucks because im like that to but just dont fuckin fish for compliments, pick yourself up
Also, I'm going to be blunt here.
The way you look in the OP screams 'serial killer socially challenged'. Try adopting a personality that's more friendly and make your image match that. The rest of the shit, like the driver telling you to duck down, is superficial status bullshit. Most people grow out of it.
That's it! I seriously think I've had it.
Op, post contact info. You got an email. Post it!
If you trust one thing in 2014, trust me when I say you will NOT regret it. I'd be yelling it at you if I could.
Do it for yourself!
People like that are shit. Avoid them, pick yourself up, and try not to care as much! People that say that sort of shit are ugly inside, and it's seriously what's on the inside that matters. You can't rely on others' opinions to be happy! Plus, maybe you can try online dating if you want a girlfriend? That sort of stuff takes patience and luck, though. You have to focus on making friends before you can make lovers!
guys like you are a dime a dozen. I see them on a daily basis. Do you know why your failing in life and why people treat you like you are worthless? Its because of your victim mentality, that "poor me" attitude. Its the main reason for all your problems. Some people have it easier and some don't that is a fact of life, its no one's fault. Get over it and get stronger or stay where your at and be a pussy.
Op u exude this toxic aura of faggotry that brings people down when they are around you because of your victim mentality. Stop blaming and start improving yourself to a point where your happy
OP here. Not sure why people are comparing me to Elliot Rodgers. I had a really hard life growing up, I actually worked hard to earn money and still do. That guy was a self entitled prick. My parents are nothing like his neither is my mentality. I had a brother die when I was young, I had two friends also die during my high school years. There's like an entire fucking history behind me and I am just tired of all the stupid sadness. The worst I could do right now is drop out of college and run off to some foreign country - but I will not do that as success is all that keeps me going forward. Regarding friendships and dating I know the flaw is in me but I am yet to find it, mostly I think it's my looks. I've taken enough bio, evolution and science courses in general to not be bitter at social dynamics or the whole mating carpola.
In all honesty, I'm not at all just trying to be a prick on the internet, I would much rather hang with OP than with you self-entitled, fake egotistic, sucking on a silver spoon bitch ass. You don't know shit about where OP's coming from. You feel like giving real sympathetic advice? Go for it. Otherwise, stop showing the world your moral composition because I promise you, not one person drawing breath on this planet thinks as highly of you as you do of yourself.
OP grabbing his balls and getting himself out of bed every FUCKING morning regardless off what he knows is waiting for him excludes him from the label of "pussy" that you want to smack on him.
Go count your money or do some push-ups in a mirror but just know that you'll have to go through some ACTUAL shit to ever be able to call yourself a man.
You're a bitch.
you do complicate things at an extreme .... Wake up. Wake the fuck up and embrace the world. As long as you're not a mentally / physicaly disabled guy, you cannot complain about your looks. Everyone has someone for them. I think you are a coward, even if your life didn't seem the most bright I've seen. You know why ? because everyone has their problems, everyone may thinke they're ugly and everyone is struggling to live in this planet. And you're just there, contemplating you're so-called emptiness and despair ... You've done nothing, that's why you get nothing...
Learned helplessness. One of the largest contributing factors to depression. 'Why bother?' type of deal. Combine that with low self esteem and you get some pretty skewed approaches to interaction. I think the way you cope with your issues contributes to this. You're on the right path by recognizing the flaw is internal and not external.
Hey OP. Life isn't about being pretty. People who get stuff just given to them because of things they're born with never grow or gain a sense of accomplishment. I'm not the best looking guy, but I get girls and have tons of friends because I'm nice, and people think I'm funny. Get out there with some bros and just have fun and be happy, and the rest will come to you. you can't expect to have a good life if you always complain about how shitty it is. The only person that can decide whether or not you're happy is you.
It's funny how people tell you to just "pretend to be confident" as if it's that easy. I've been pretending to be confident my entire life, it only makes it worse. Eventually you need something to base that confidence on. It's like your trying to start a fire, but the wood is totally soaked.
>You don't know shit about where OP's coming from.
You're contradicting yourself, your defending OP saying that i know nothing about him and then you describe me with an entire persona you created of me from one post. You know nothing about where I came from who i am, and how hard my life was. The difference between me and op? I didn't blame anyone and got up and kept getting stronger.
Don't listen to people like this fag, they will only hold you back. They will tell you you are good enough even though your life is shit. These are the people who give trophies for participation, they breed the weak. Ignore them. Get strong OP. keep clawing your way up until you are happy. I have nothing more to say.
Let go of the idea of sex. Just let go completely for now.
Try interacting with people with no agenda but curiosity. Concentrate on finding the things you enjoy doing. When you start liking yourself, the rest will come, and you won't even have to go looking.
As if having a lot of sex with different women is less pointless in the long run.
Gotta say it's fun as shit though. But I don't think it's what'll go through my head the last years of my life. Or all grampa's must be savouring the poon they got when they were younger in their last years, but I refuse to imagine that being the case.
Fuck, I hate when people do shit like in your picture. That shit is fucking embarrassing and pride raping. Fuck people man, they only do nice shit out of charity and when the person is already fucking dead.
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If you choose to live in a world where the social constructs determine whether you are happy are not then you will fail in your quest for happiness no matter how swole,intelligent or rich you get. OP what the fuck does it matter what other people think YOU can choose to not let it affect you by making the conscious effort. Happiness comes from within yourself and you can't hope for other people to fill that void inside of you. With that being said i feel your pain and have always perceived myself as unattractive, eventually you realize it doesn't matter in the grand scale of things we all end up dead anyways your existence isn't pointless because you're ugly, and pointless compared to what? I'm guessing you feel that someones life has more value on their appearance that they hold.
You are great, one day and the day will come that you realize this so start embracing your life and take control of it by doing whatever it is that makes you happy.