meeting people

another bump
please help ;__;

take a class, in anything. These are great because they give you an excuse to meet strange people and interact with them. Stop for a moment and think about the kind of people you want to meet.

If you want to meet someone who is physically active, find entry level sport lessons such as rock climbing classes, bicycle groups, etc.

If you want to meet someone artsy, maybe art lessons, photography, that kind of stuff.

Someone more studious and focused on discussion? You could tutor ESL students, bookclubs, etc.

If you just want to go out and meet strangers about anything, find the nearest happy hour gathering on meet up.com or cooking lessons, dance lessons, etc.

>>16901637
im not really sure what ind of people i want to meet, desu.

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>>16901653
Then go meet people until you find what type of people that you like. If you find that you don't like anybody, then you probably just have a shitty mindset.

>>16901661
i like art, so i guess i can take an art class.

>>16901664
That's a good start.

>>16901668
how do i know if i have a shitty mindset?
can you give an example of a shitty mindset?

>>16901680
Nothing you should worry about right now. Just get out and talk to more people.

>>16901723
im also a fatty, should i wait to lose weight and be fit first?
may want to see a qt there.

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>>16901735
Why not both? I've never actually been fat but I have several friends that are pretty chubby but really outgoing. Working out makes you feel good, so I highly recommend doing it.

>>16901752
>Working out makes you feel good, so I highly recommend doing it.

No it doesn't

>>16901757
Depends on who you are, I probably should've said that.

>>16901752
i meant should i wait to get fit to go there and meet people? Like, if a meet a qt as a fatty then they may not like me as much, even later
six three 315

Take salsa classes. I go out every Friday because of it. You'll meet a ton of men/women. Makes me look forward to every Friday.

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>>16901772
Yeah you are overweight, lol. You definitely should start going to the gym and work on losing weight. I'm the same height as you, but I weigh 205. Your appearance does matter when meeting people, since people are much more shallow than they are willing to admit.

I'm not saying that you should wait until you lose weight to meet people, but if you feel like you must then do it.

>>16901785
that doesn't seem interesting to me.

>>16901790
i aiming for 235, im thinking i might wanna bulk up and get stronger later.
right now couch to 5k

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>>16901802
235 is a good goal to shoot for. I'd recommend getting even lower if you want to start bulking, though.

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>>16901820
Why are you avatarfagging with the worst girl

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>>16901827
lol tripfag

Who cares? I'm just using pics that I've had for a while.

>implying a middle school girl is better

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>>16901835
>implying she isn't

Go shed some pounds

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>>16901840
>implying your taste isn't objectively shit

>go she'd some pounds
So I can be borderline anorexic? No thank you

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>>16901845
>she'd