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What is the best way to tell an annoying clingy hambeast to fuck off?

It's gotten to the point where I have to give her 1 word replies to everything she texts me about. It's been two weeks since I started doing this and she still hasn't given up.
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>>16890679
Why don't you just tell her you're not interested and that she's being too clingy instead of being passive aggressive
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>>16890682
Because I have no balls and I subconsciously love the attention anyway
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>>16890684
So you acknowledge that this is unhealthy behaviour?


What do you think you can do to grow balls so that a girl who you're not even attracted to doesn't scare you
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>>16890690
Yes, I acknowledge that it is unhealthy behaviour. How could I possibly deny something so obvious? In order to solve this problem, I will probably just make more threads on 4chan and mope around in my bedroom a lot. Do you think it's a good solution?
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>>16890694
No.

I think you need to grow some balls. Find a way to do that.
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>>16890695
What would you suggest?
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>>16890697
I don't know what's wrong with you. What do you think? Think back to how you grew up and your current views about yourself

What's scaring you? Why can't you do it?
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>>16890682
>>16890690
Actual OP here ignore the enormous faggot >>16890684

Although he's kind of right, I have no balls and I'm the kind of person that can't really simply say 'no' to people. The attention she has been giving me is at the very least, really fucking uncomfortable.

also btw she's a coworker so I'm afraid that me telling her fuck off will ruin any other friendships and cause drama.
>very touchy feely, touches me in weird places (read: knee, cheek, arm etc) and acts 12 about it
>pets my hair for no goddamn reason
>speaks like she's from an anime
>constantly tries to get right up against me

For a bit more of an idea of what she's like, think https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YIywnvQpS9c but a little less extreme
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>>16890704
Hey I'm the real OP, ignore this cocksnuggler >>16890708

Deep down I fear being alone and I fear not living up to other people's expectations about me. Although I don't like this girl, if I reject her it would conflict with my view of myself as a kind person who enjoys human company. And it would deprive me of one of the few sources of self-affirming attention in my life.
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what the heck is this all
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>>16890723
A shitposter failed at baiting someone in another thread and decided to try his luck in this one.

In other news, the sky is blue. More at 11.
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I'd actually argue that the shitposter has been the most helpful person in this thread, if you'd just accept the point he's making.

You claim she acts like a 12 year old, but aren't able to simply explain that her actions make you uncomfortable? If it wasn't her, I'm sure another person would eventually come around that would have the same effect, your lack of balls is the problem, not her.
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>>16890679
lmao 4chan complains about women stringing along men and having orbiters and then posts this kind of shit. It takes 5 seconds of your time to type "I'm not interested" and click send you fucking faggot
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>>16890679

Just tell her to fuck off. If she does some crazy shit then let her be. If it gets too extreme call the police.
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>>16890679

this happened to me, she got to the point of locking me in her house

in the end she ended telling everybody that I was behind her, I was the laughing stock of my friends for weeks
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Tell her straight. "Stop talking to me"
stop being a passive aggressive bitch.
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>>16890679

can't you block her?
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>>16890881
>>16890894
>>16890899
I'd block her but I see her almost every day of the week, soon enough she'd realize what the fuck is up and start drama. My boss is strict about this kind of thing so I want to be sure this doesn't backfire hard.

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>>16890772
I don't think she's after a relationship, so that would just make things awkward.
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>>16890679
Just don't reply at all to her texts. That what I do.
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>>16890679

depends on your definition of best. best way to not hurt her feelings? or best way to make sure she stops. if your answer to this is

>BOTH

then you already failed. pick one and go that way.

the best way to make sure she doesnt contact you is to say
'sorry but im not interested' then block her. dont talk to her about it or engage her cuz women (and even men, but in this case, women) will try to argue the point. you ever read that screencap of the fatty who asked out a ripped guy at the gym and he told her why he wasnt interested and she argued that none of what he claimed was true?

its a lot like that. she will true to argue your feelings in some attempt to make you see the light. so the best way is 'im not interested in you, sorry' and then just never talking to her again
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>>16890679
poison her food
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