Help me!! Guy issues!!

he's married or some shit you dumb bitch

Get the hint and stop replying with emojis

>>16888362
He's not married! We have been friends since I was 14 befor I moved to Paris I know him we text everyday!!

HE DOES NOT WANT TO FUCK YOU

MOVE ON
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Bah parce qu'il a peur que tes sentiments ne soient pas réciproques....
C'est pour ça qu'il fait son faggot a pas dire que c'est une date, t'as qu'a lui répondre que t'aimerais que ça en soit une et pis voilà, soit claire bordel !

Si il fait pas le premier pas, c'est à toi de le faire, quand on veut quelque chose on se bouge pour l'avoir s'tout.

>>16888388
ça ou il n'est pas attiré physiquement.

>>16888361
Maybe it's the age gap or your just a really nice girl. Obviously if he hasn't asked you out by now he's not going to. Move on.

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>>16888392
He says I'm pretty a lot ...

>>16888388
Ta raison...

Or maybe this fag boy is not worth your time. When it's right... It will be easy.

>>16888404
c'est vrai que t'es pas mal.

Bah fonce comme je t'ai dit, fait le boire, soit plus tactile avec lui, fait de bons gros sous-entendu sexuels et fini dans son pieu ^^

>>16888403
ive asked him about the age gap. he said is wasnt a issue. we have been out befor alone and he kissed me. lots of sexual tension but i had just turned 17 at the time.

>>16888383
Hahaha thanks for spelling it out for her

>>16888404
Zu viel Make-up

>>16888412
They guy sounds like a loser. Why is he hanging around girls so young? Does he ever date in his own age bracket?

>>16888421
>Zu viel
asshole shes fucking hot

>>16888422
we met when i was 14 at a dance competition. we won .. we danced together for four years on and off. im very mature moved out at 18 to paris from the uk. he has loads of older girls after him. i dont want to lose him

>>16888433
>I'm very mature
You'll look back at yourself when your 20 and realise your not.

If you must why don't you ask him out? Tell him you want to date him. If he says yes, date him. If he says no, you've been rejected and you can choose to continue being friends or cut him of. This shit isn't that hard.

>>16888456
>This shit isn't that hard.

your right

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>>16888460
>>16888456
>your

>>16888469
you grammer natzi

>>16888469
Dude calm down... I thinks she's french.

Hot btw

>>16888361
>I have been texting this guy since he was a child and I was old enough to have a degree.
KEK

>>16888502
dont be an asshole

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>>16888478
So this is how betas function

>>16888502
He's got a point... it feels a bit pervy. And now you're "of age" .... he's not as into it

>Are you asking me on a date?
You know what that's code for?

>DO NOT ASK ME ON A DATE, THAT IS CREEPY
You're a fucking retard OP
Just make your fucking move on him you shitty teeniebopper twat.

>>16888541
OMFG! DUUUUDDEEEE that makes freaky sense .... what mind blown!

When you met before there were never dates? Something is weird about this and it can't be the age gap or something else he's nervous about. Are you bf and gf? If not, do either of you date? In all this time why hasn't more happened? Sorry, a lot of questions but this is crazy.

>>16888548
I love you

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>>16888361
>I am 18
>I love him

>>16888572
Still a better love story than twilight

>>16888562
they where never official dates. we met in london for drinks one time and he kissed me. the other times we have been in a group. i totally agree. hee hasnt had a gf in four year. i have had a bf but we texted in my relationship as friends when we broke up he started telling me how much he liked me. we are not bf and gf! thats the dream! we live very far apart and i was a child for a lot of the relationship.

>>16888562
i wish more had happened .... he asks me to send naughty pictures from 16 onwards it only started getting serious after we kissed. i love him

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>>16888478

you dropped your hat sir

>>16888605

>he asks me to send naughty pictures from 16 onwards

...

>>16888591
I'm anti-ulta matum but you have to. You're hurting yourself more by continuing this. The consensus is to end it by far.

Seems like a fling and he's done now... but he doesn't know how to end it. He's not that into you... If you stopped talking to him... would he text you?

>>16888591

>i have had a bf but we texted in my relationship as friends

you emotionally cheated on your bf and kept him as a backup, you're not mature as you think you're, little girl.

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This is an updated version of our current conversation ... I've taken the advice ...

>>16888630
Yeah I've stopped texting him for months and he texts saying he misses me and we fall back into the texting all day relationship.

Good job! You did nicely. Keep us posted!

>>16888634
It wasn't like that. My boyfriend was fully aware and we are dance partners we kept it professional

>>16888658
Thanks :) I will.

>>16888648
You can't force date people.

>>16888702
She's trying to get commitment out of him without a yes/no structure.

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WHAT DO I SAY?!? WHAT DO I SAY!!!??

29 here.

I don't think I could bring myself to date an 18 year old, I'd probably be able to fuck one but emotionally and mentally they are like children.

Don't take that as an offense though, it's just that someone who is 18 still has a lot of personal discovery to do, whereas someone in their upper 20s has stability and confidence about where their life is taking them...I just don't see the compatibility.

>>16888748

"you better show me a good time!!" or something

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>>16888748
Ask him if he supports the legalization of prostitution

>>16888750
You have a fair point but I'm extremely mature and he has known me for years! I live on my own and work I moved to a different country and speak two languages and am I professional dancer. I'm not some kid! We are compatible we would have talked for so many years of not! But thanks for your opinion sir

>>16888748
he said YOU could call it a date if YOU want to
He doesn't see it that way. Ask him if he calls it that too, he is very clearly toying with you and taking advantage of you because you are young

>>16888713
You can't fore or talk someone into commitment

>>16888765
Hit it on the head

>>16888765
It is his humour to joke like that. He is taking the day off work for me .. That has to stand for something?!

>>16888761

I never mentioned maturity once, and yet you start defending your maturity. Do you see the problem?

Look, I'm not saying you shouldn't pursue thing guy if you like him, but growing up is about more than being able to take care of yourself or being mature, it's having wisdom.

Wisdom manifests in different ways, you might end up telling yourself 10 years later that not going to school to be a professional dancer and leaving the country to meet somebody was young and silly.

>>16888361
He's just being playful... I think he's down for a date.

Ya'll fucking autists.

>>16888792

Also holy shit I sound old.

>>16888765
This. I do this exact shit with little girls like OP.

>>16888780
Lol

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HELP!!!!! EEEEEEEEEKKKKKK

Seduce him more. Nobody owes you feelings.

>>16888809
>I'm suuuuper mature, guys!

Also,
>a long lunch

Yeah this guy doesn't give a fuck about you.

>>16888803
No you've just slowly become captain hindsight my friend.

>>16888816
FUCK YOU

Im excited ive loved him for years

>>16888816
Hahaha hahaha so true.

>>16888826

>b-but i'm mature guys... pls believe me.

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I feel like you all should know who I'm talking to ... So here is a picture of him. Also opinion would be great!

>>16888843

>"I feel like you all should know who I'm talking to"
>implying that he is some Chad

he is an 6, not big deal, you're easy as fuck.

>All these Europeans
This is an american board faggots. Get the fuck outta here.

I wonder if it's better to live in France or Montreal.

>>16888853
im a virgin you asshole! hes the top jive dancer in the uk

>>16888765
Either he's being manipulative, or flirting. If it's the first, he'll say whatever it takes anyway.
If he's flirting though, OP would sound completely autistic.

>you mean a date?
>lol no a drink ;)
>let's make it a date
>you can call it a date if you like ;)
>No but really is it a date? Is it a DATE date, or just a date? Is it a date DATE date?

>>16888866

>jive dancer

This is one of those threads where you need the MJ popcorn gif. There is nothing to say, you don't care who is trolling or not, you just sit back and enjoy.

>jive dancer

>>16888857
I'm American... and live in Amsterdam... can I be here sir?

>>16888478
She said she moved to Paris from the U.K. at 18. So she's not French.

>>16888879
im english! i speak fench

>>16888865
France.... hands down. Just not Paris.. its expensive as shit

I think he'd have girls all over him.

>>16888890
i know right!! thats why im scared, i don't want to lose him! he has been my everything for four years!

>>16888887
>Just not Paris.. its expensive as shit

i agree! currently paying way to much for milk ..

>>16888866

>hes the top jive dancer in the uk
>jive dancer

lmao, nobody gives a fuck if he is a faggot, also... >>16888843

that guys doesn't look 26, he looks like some man in his mid 30's, i think by the fact that you started working really early you developed some daddy issues, and judging by the chat pics, this is guy isn't into the same emotional level as you, having an teenager chasing you when you're way older is an huge ego boost and this guy is just enjoying it.

>>16888906
>>16888887

Have you guys been to the states? What are the biggest differences to you besides "Holy shit the fat people" on getting off the plane?

I'm hoping this works out and if not I hope you can handle it.

>>16888907
hes 26 .... ive known him since he was 22.
daddy issues? thats a first. he has issues with trusting i know that. i know it might look that way but he doesn't treat me like some kid. we stay on the phone for hours. last night we talked until 4 am

>>16888917
wow ... thankyou

>>16888911
I have 7 weeks paid vacation but taxes are a mother fucker. .... The only reason I'm not over weight is because I have to walk everywhere.

>>16888926

>he doesn't treat me like some kid

do you realize, in the 3 pics that you posted is basically him making fun of you?.

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>>16888937

>I have 7 weeks paid vacation

Oh yea, that. You guys do make less in tech fields though, which is a turnoff. Except in Switzerland, but it seems so quaint there. How much is rent somewhere within walking distance / 10 minute bus ride of the city? I assume your public transport is balla.

>never been to France
>shiggy diggy

>>16888943
really! Why do you say that?

>>16888949
Switzerland is the shit! my mom works there... salaries are higher and everybody is filthy rich. And filthy;)

>>16888950

because he knows that you're into him, he know that you would kill to go on a date with him, but instead of giving a direct answer to you he just keep giving blank answers.

>>16888962
Your right soo .... What do I do?

>>16888962
This
Hes not really answering, hes just playing with ya, my ex used to always gave me this kind of responses she was just playing with me, move on op

>>16888968

LONDON
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>>16888970
What about London?

>>16888969
Maybe your right? But why would he string me along for 4 years ... He hasn't got anything out of me!! I haven't slept with him. What's the point?

>>16888979>>16888979
He may like the attention who knows, can never really know whats inside someones head

>>16888857
Make me fegit

>>16888968

Its really matter what would i say? i mean, you can't change him, the age gap is big, you're too young and naive, you may be mature enough to take care of yourself, but you clearly isn't emotionally mature, only time will teach you how to proceed correctly in situations like this.

>>16888988
You just feel uncomfortable being around people who might challenge you.

>>16888979

>having an teenager chasing you when you're way older is an huge ego boost and this guy is just enjoying it.

i've already answered this some posts above

>>16888987
But you can read the signs

>>16888997
No it doesn't matter what you say ... But this is an advice board right? I'm asking for some help! Yes I'm young and I haven't delt with a situation like this befor but .. I'm learning. Plus 4chan advice got me this "date" so I'm going to continue to ask what to do. Because I'm mature enough to know I need some help.

OP he's fucking with you. Read those texts out loud and tell me he's not fucking with you. I don't even think he's your friend he's toying with you probably for his ego. Consensus is forget about him, listen to us or don't. Your not convincing anyone.

>>16889002
To get off your board? What challenge could you possibly be to someone on the opposite side of the world.

>>16889017
Thanks ... Maybe your right I have a lot to think about. Reading over are messages Its a little one way. Can't quite believe over 100 posts on this!
I think I need to say I want it all or I want nothing. I listen to the consensus.

>>16889009

>Plus 4chan advice got me this "date"

4chan got you nothing, he invited you at first, you said to him that this would be an date and he basically answered "just for you", i think you're delusional and will not to take any realistic advice towards your situation.

>>16889017
Shit Sherlock you got all that in the three posts and two smileys he did?
>>16889025
The only solution is to ask him in person, and get him to answer by yes or no. Any speculation by underage virgins who are visibly frustrated that someone other than them could fuck you is entirely worthless

>>16889032
Maybe I just don't know how to let go ... It's easier said than done right? I have taken advice.

Gurl, you reek of desperation. This guy is probably NOT a god like you think he is
>case in point
>>16888843

Please just be yourself and don't obsess any more. You'll really fuck up your chances if he just sees you as a little girl with an unhealthy crush

>>16889035
I like you ... I'm goi to ask him when I go back to London. Thank you sir

>>16889024
Fuck your assholery

>>16889040
There's a difference between aspiration and determination. I admit I love this guy and have done for years.
I take your advice and I am trying to play it cool. Any tips on how to do that?

>>16889037

yeah... i know its hard to let it go, i've already been in your shoes when i was a teenager like you(funny), was hard for me to think that all my dreams about this person would never come to reality, but once you find a person that you will love with all your heart and that person reciprocate your feelings at the same level, you will see how much time you wasted in the past.

>>16889051
Desperation not aspiration stupid AutoCorrect

>>16889051
Aspiration? You could be a great spin doctor. Aspirations are for careers, not relationships. Because you can't force someone to love you, you can't show them all your amazing qualities and expect them to give a fuck.. if you're not it for him, the that's the end of that.

Playing it cool: You talk about your maturity a lot- STOP. It's not mature to do that, it's a big red flag of someone who isn't.
Ask about him and show interest, like as questions and keep the convo going, but never turn it into flattery. When asked about yourself, be humble but excited for your achievements.
IDK, just keep cool. Do you have any questions? You know the guy so I'm sure you can anticipate a potential social situation better than I can.

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>>16889065
I ment determination, sorry auto correct.

I do all of that. The conversation has been going on for four years.
The last time we went out just the two of us he flirted with me ridiculously and touched my leg and teased me to the point of me going crazy. He has this control over me. He loves teasing me and then when he kissed me it was so passionate. I guess when I go back I don't know how to be I've changed since I moved to Paris and I know I need to be myself.

>>16889051
Don't ask him as soon as you see him, just get a normal conversation going, wait for a blank and tell him "I want to ask you something. Do you want to be my boyfriend?"

If after asking him out he just laughs, just tell him "I'm serious" and wait for him to reply.
If you see he's not going to say yes, do not beg or scream or shit like that. After he says no, don't go for anything more than "Well, too bad.". Really just prepare yourself mentally for him saying "No", this way you'll have the worst covered. Always keep in mind that him rejecting you isn't a problem, it just means that you'll have to spend some more time before finding someone else.

>>16889083
>"I can't return that to you"

HE LITERALLY JUST GAVE YOU YOUR ANSWER, HE DOESN'T FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT YOU

The fact that he flirts with and kisses you, is because he knows you're down to fuck anytime he says. Not because he has any feelings for you

>>16889083

this pic is so sad and cringe, you acted like a 14 yo girl confessing to her HS sweetheart, but anyway, you already got your answer from him, so i think this is /thread.

>>16889091
Okay ... Seriously thank you so much for the advice! It seriously means a lot. I'm prepared for him to say no. I've asked if he saw me as his girlfriend befor but he never give me a straight answer ....

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>>16888970

So it's over now? You're not meeting up with him any more? Probably for the better:
>missy
>lovely thing

come on.

I know it is hard to let someone down but four years of chatting and occasional mild sexual contact? No big loss.

>>16888899
How many chicks do you think he's fucked in the last four years?

>>16889129
No I'm still meeting him in three weeks! What's wrong with him calling me miss?

>>16889083
>>16888809
>>16888748
>>16888404
You look and act 12. Grow up.

>>16889083
Sorry to tell you, but he's gay.

>>16889140
Why are you still going to see him if he's clearly rejected to you? You poured your heart out in the cringiest way possible, and he obviously doesn't reciprocate any of that.

Do you still not understand that you're just a potential fuck buddy to him? I highly doubt he's been sitting around waiting for you for 4 years.

>>16889137

I don't know, I don't think about that ... He hasn't had a gf in four years

>>16889152
Getting that vibe as well.

>>16889140
miss is a pet name, given to someone you see as your "little sister" in a way. Not a girl that you'd want to date.

If you're in a relationship ALREADY, miss may be seen as a cute thing to call your SO, but not many people do that

>>16889083
He literally told you in that picture that he can't return what you said to him. This is all in your head. You're naive.

>>16889155
He hasnt because he's gay. Look at the way he dresses. Look at the way he responds to you. He even dances jive. He's already given you a straight answer: he doesn't like you the same way you like him. You're just chasing a dream and wasting your time.

>>16889140
miss/little miss, baby, honey, sweetie, etc - these are pet names so that he doesn't have to always remember your real name.

>>16889123
Yeah, if he still hesitates tell him something like "I do love you and I do want to be with you, but I can't bear you keeping me in the dark about this so I want you to answer me, yes or no". It's probable he'll answer "I have to think about it", tell him right away you're taking this as a no, that'll push him to explain himself.

Whatever the answer, it'll all be benefits for you, since that'll prove you actually have the balls to ask someone out

>>16889168
>if you wear a suit and dance ur gay

>>16889155
Why not? You've had a bf. I'm not sure I believe him or not but he's a least had sex, no fucking way he hasn't in four years. Maybe all that seemed kind of mean but missy and lovely thing I don't know they seem to be teasing more than endearing but maybe that's how it is over there in the US it's more baby and stuff like that.

>>16889155
Judging by your pic of him he's had plenty of lovers in that time, male or female. He also turned you down in the last text, unequivocally.

>>16889180
Look at the type of shirt he's wearing and the tightness of the suit itself, you gaylord. It screams gay.

>>16889180
I don't think he's gay, I just this he's British... different gaydar up there!

>>16889196
ur gay
>>16889197
Oi mate top of the morning lad

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He's not gay!!

>>16888361
Don't be fat

>>16889209
Stop posting, holy shit.

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>>16889209
this dude sounds like such a huge loser, holy shit.

The sir thing is pretty hot. So if he says no when you meet what are you going to do stop talking to him? what are you going to do when you want to text him or he texts you.

>>16889223
I'll delete his number ... I live in Paris now it's not like we would ever see each other again.

>>16889235
You won't though, you fucking child.

>>16889249
There's really no need to be rude .. I will I've had enough. I need to move on and if he won't commit I'm done. Your all right!

>>16888361
Don't be fat

>>16889254
>if he won't commit

There's nothing to commit to. There was never even a prospect of a relationship, just you desperately throwing yourself at him and still wanting him. Get over it already jesus fucking christ

>>16889260
I'm not fat! You want proof?

>>16889254
Protip: men don't respond well to the mind games women play. It's very possible he hasn't caught on yet. Just be extremely direct to the point that there's no mistaking what you're trying to say.

Move on, miss. He does not love you.
But if you only want to fuck him, that's easy as pie though.

>>16888648
*accept

>>16889209
Just ask him to fuck holy shit

>>16889083
Is this fucking real?

>>16888361
Maybe he's deathly scared that if he reveals his feelings that you'll turn him down.

Just a thought.

>he's banging other chicks
>he's banging your mom
>he's banging your dad
>he's banging your siblings
>he's trans now
>he's gay now
>he's using you as an emotional tampon
>he's got a deathly std
>he's got the plague
Come on grill, he doesn't need you and you don't need to fly out to him if he doesn't want to see you.

so this conversation has been going on for a few months apparently.
it's fake. please move on.

>>16889271
Sure. But you probably are.

you could always fuck dogs like she does
>>16890331

>>16888361
Hey you bitch. Of course he is asking you on a date. But if you fucking put it that way he is going to deny it. Its a date, going out for drinks.
Grow up

>>16888758
Do you have any idea how autistic that image is?

>>16889271
yeah

fuck you and matthew clark lol

Guise, we've found the female version of a beta-orbiting oneitis neckbeard here.

These texts remind me of me and my bf when we were long distance friends. He was always cautious about us, redirected more direct questions about he felt, etc. He felt that it was pointless to even think about unless we lived near each other.

Everyone saying he's just stringing you along, but idk my bf and I are together IRL now. Maybe I just backed him into a corner until he passively accepted to date me. But there's a chance it'll be ok! He might just be nervous because you live in Paris, he in London, and it won't really work out unless one of you is willing to make a huge change for the other (and he clearly isn't).
>>16889235
>I'll delete his number ... I live in Paris now it's not like we would ever see each other again.
See how easy it is? How distant you are already? You can delete his number and he'd be more or less gone forever from your life.

Why would anyone want to express deeper feelings to that?

>>16891573
Your right ... I'm moving back to London in 4 months so maybe when I tell them that it will change his mind!
I love him I'd move anywhere for him if he just gave me a little commitment.

>>16891630
hey baby ill give you some commitment

>>16891639
Hahaha haha hah no

>>16891543
Vvvvhat? I'm autistic I don't get it

>>16891676
I'm pretty sure I have a bigger dick than him

Your loss

>>16891687
Awwwww. I'll date you loser

>>16889083
Goddamn... tfw no one has ever written a msg like that for me

p.s. I don't think he's interested

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>>16891701
>>16891687
>>16891639
>>16891573
>>16890720

Updated conversation....

>>16891706
when he asked you what food you like, you should've said 'just the taste of your penis is enough'

>>16891694
I don't date women, only sex them

Wow.. He's obviously mad shit crazy in love with you. I'd say give up all your goals and dreams... them get pregnant.
Duh

>>16891734
Sarcasm?

>>16891719
I'm loyal, good with in laws, give good head and I'm a quite positive person! We'd be so happy ;)

>>16891744
Yeah be so happy until you decide to leave for X reason

>>16891757
Do you want a hug?

>>16891757
Personally I'm loyal to a fault. The more meaningful the relationship the kinkier the sex. Trust me

>>16891789
Hugs are perfect to position your prey to stab them in the back

>>16891793
I know your tricks woman, the fact that you already had sex with more than one person proves how """""""""loyal"""""""""" you are

>>16891800
Heyyyy.... I've only been with one guy... We were together for 3 years and he got addicted to Ex and completely changed.

I get why you're hesitat to believe there decent women out here... Most girls on 4chan are b tard sluts

>>16891830
Its true, I'm extremely hesitant to trust women

Shame about your ex though

If you want to catfish me and laugh at how gullible I am you can email me at [email protected]

>>16891830
>>16891847

Can you two love birds get off my advice board ... I'm happy you found each other but I have a serious issues over here!

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>this thread is still going on
god bless

>>16888361
Having a male commit is ensuring a suicide later on
If he really likes you, he'll orbit around but DO NOT force him, else he might leave
>Too late, the harm is already done
The only thing that will ever fuck you this hard is karma

>>16891883
Awww you mad?

>>16891883
I'm just a shocked as you are ... 187 replies :O

>>16891890
Hmm great advice thank you. I'm mostly concerned about the date in three weeks hoping it goes perfectly!

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>>16891894
>mad
I'm entertained if anything

the thirst is so real among females too
wow