What should one do if they find that someone they know is using Tinder?
I saw my girlfriend's brother's girlfriend on Tinder today. She has been with him for a few months now. He had had 2 former relationships and they both made him super messed up when they failed.
Is it worth it to tell him, or should I just hope she doesn't actually use Tinder for sex? Is it better to ruin it now before he hopefully becomes even more attached, or just leave it alone and hope she doesn't break his heart?
Thanks for advice.
Why does she have an actual profile text then instead of just a picture?
And why is it acceptable for girls to do it, but if a girl found her boyfriend on there she would say he is a cheater..
>Why does she have an actual profile text then instead of just a picture?
To acquire more validation.
>And why is it acceptable for girls to do it, but if a girl found her boyfriend on there she would say he is a cheater..
Its generally acceptable because most guys are beta as fuck and wont put their foot down.
I dont think mine would do it, but I also have no insecurities so literally dont care.
she is probably using profile text to attract more guys, it may not necessarily be for sex. Sounds like what she is doing is talking with other guys incase something goes wrong with her bf. Girls will often have a bunch of guys they talk with. she will say they are just friends but really they are potential partners. Girls are obsessed with relationships. What they are doing is wrong. and you probably should tell her BF to give him a head up. There is a good chance she will start fucking others guys even if she isn't atm. best letting him know before its too late. women be crazy.
English isn't my first language, I really don't understand the relationship apparently.
I have been reading it like 6 times and I still see it as OP has a girlfriend, girlfriend has a brother, brother has a girlfriend, and this girl was on tinder.
Maybe I am genuinely retarded.
OP has a girlfriend who has a brother (the one uing Tinder)
MY girlfriend's brother.
>OP has a girlfriend.
>OP saw his gf's brother on tinder.
>OP is on Tinder even though he has a gf
>I saw my girlfriend's brother's girlfriend on Tinder today
Just to clarify, do you mean you saw her using tinder, or that you were on tinder and came across her profile?
Looking at the thread, you seem to have quite some in depth knowledge of her profile. I can't imagine you managed to glean that information by leaning over her shoulder for long enough to read it all without being noticed. Equally, I don't think you saw her doing it and said "Oh hey, is that tinder you're on there? Gimme a look at your profile page then".
Wow you guys are a bit spergy. Just because im allowed to fuck other girls probably doesn't mean that my gf's bro's gf is in an open relationship as well. Really doubt it because they been together only 3 months!
Because How would I go about that without ending awkward?
Either they will think I want to fuck, or even if somehow they don't say they're open, then it sows the seeds of doubt in his mind and kinda forces me to tell or lie.
Just ask and say you're curious no one is gonna think you are trying to fuck them
That is cheater paranoia and since you are cheating on you're gf you don't want to admit you are on tinder too
What we have learned in this Thread
1. OP is cheating on his gf
2. OP is upset someone is cheating too
3. OP doesn't know how to exposed said cheater without revealing himself as cheater
4. OP wants our help to expose a cheater without getting caught.
Fuck you OP