I can fuck multiple people and still feel like both people are important to me. But if someone I fuck fucks someone else I get really depressed. I imagine this is pretty common. How do we get over ourselves?
Point a gun to your head and pull the trigger
I'm used to people being hostile on 4chan but this is just weird. Could someone explain what I said that is triggering? or am I being memed
would options help?
a) you can't get any and deny that people that do get some have concerns and feel hurt too
b) you're autistic and care too much about my hypocrisy because you don't understand how feelings work
c) you're a sjw and care too much about my hypocrisy because you don't understand how feelings work
d) you think I'm referring to people I'm in a relationship with
e) you think I shouldn't be fucking multiple people for some reason
what's your reasoning then? I mean I'm obviously not going to kill myself, but I can't even see what's objectionable about what I said or am doing, so you're going to have to elaborate. also, I can't get mad if there's no substance to what you say, if that's your goal
I object to the notion, you coarsely described, of fucking multiple people at once and calling them important. You fucked them and they're important. Clearly some high caliber women you're dealing with here. You get "depressed" after one of these sluts fucks someone else. Like it was unexpected. Your hedonism is disgusting. You and your harlots should be cleansed with fire.
Well, it's not like I fuck just anyone, and neither do they. And they are important to me, which simply means I care about them am interested in them and like them as people which is what I hope they feel of me. And I feel like they do, which is why my jealousy seems unwarranted to me
>I hope they feel of me
>jealousy seems unwarranted to me
That's called being insecure
Yeah, I can't deny that. I was pretty avoidant for a few years because I assumed no one liked me. Lingering feelings like that probably contribute to my jealousy. The question of how to get over myself still stands
Knowing is half the battle
Maybe just point blank ask them how they feel about you
Don't make it a habit to require reassurance or might become a dependent crybaby
Like me ;^)
I hate all these replies.
But yes it is common I'd imagine. I def feel that way. Apparently polyamorous people train themselves to 'feel happy' that someone they care about is getting pleasure. I don't know. Maybe read 'the ethical slut'
I did a similar thing, had a girlfriend and a side girl at the same time. They both knew.
I left them both, that was my solution