Asking all involuntary virgins: if you could loose your virginity to a random girl you don't know, that is aware you're a virgin and doesn't care, maybe even sees it as an advantage, doesn't want any money and generally just wants to enable you to finally experience how awesome sex can be, would you do it? If so, what would your perfect scenario look like? If you could choose with no restrictions.
Wouldn't do it.
I'm not incel because of a lack of sexual options. I've had options.
I'd prefer some emotional attachment though... gettin' off doesn't matter to me - at the end of the day I can just jerk it.
I'd just rather be with someone who matters to me, rather than a stranger.
Or I would try. Last time I had an opportunity for loveless sex, ten years ago, I couldn't get hard.
The perfect scenario is a pretty girl, a comfortable setting and the ability to take our time.
It's quite simple. You just have to be awkward, nervous, and incapable of smalltalk.
Being friendless, and without hobbies also helped a lot in my case.
Waiting for an actually attractive woman might have been another of my problems.
I've recently been housemate with two women who seemed interested, but they were not pretty or sexy enough. Before I left, my virginity came up in a conversation with one of them and she couldn't believe me.
I lost my virginity from a girl I met that was just gonna give me succ and it just went there. we fugged for literal days in the following months. don't regret it. puss is puss, get over your oneitis
>if you could loose your virginity to a random girl you don't know, that is aware you're a virgin and doesn't care
Probably wouldn't. For some reason I feel if I lose it to someone who doesn't matter it will leave me feeling empty inside.
>How do you stay an involuntary virgin in the twenty-first century?
You don't, but you can piss and moan about the changes you'd need to make but don't want to, and tell yourself that this means it's involuntary, and no one is allowed to question you for it.
i think id go for it
when i was younger i was always holding out for that perfect relationship that just never happened
now that im in my upper 20s i just want to get it over with, but am too embarrassed to admit to girls my age that i havent done it yet
If she's not repulsive/fat, yes of course. But I'd probably chicken out or try to convince her not to do it first, she'd have to actively pursue it and convince me.
I wish I was lying/exaggerating here...
my girlfriend lost her v-card to some loser in highschool. i lost mine to her. just be a champ and fuck a random. gain some experience and look better to future partners. i wouldn't suggest fucking someone that's ugly or anything you'd regret. make it count, but don't savor it or anything.
Damn, OP. That sounds exactly how I'd want it to go down. Just some cool chick that wants to help me out and is understanding about the whole thing? Since she's completely random, there's a high chance that when I perform terribly, I'll never see her again?
Fucking sign me up.