I have a friend who is a nerdy obese girl. She isn't very attractive and is kind of a sperglord, I hung out with her because i like playing video games with her. A couple months ago she asked me out of the blue if she could touch my sick, from then on she's been getting me off on the regular. Lately i have been wondering why... She's dressing how i tell her, wearing make up and styling her hair, wearing lingerie under her clothes, sucking me, jacking me, using her tits.
I don't want to break off what's going on, its way too good, she gets me off a bunch, she talks about wanting to watch me fuck other women. Do I continue? Am I hurting her? Should I try to actually fuck her?
Even I you made this up, you're getting me hard as a rock. Post more.
I'm sure you're probably hurting her, but at the same time she's having fun isn't she. You SHOULD fuck her and other fat girls. You lucky son of a bitch.
she is offering herself for objection, wathever op and her are doing is clearly consensual.
She is not a child nor a dumb animal she doesnt need protecting, wathever goes through her mind and wathever way she chooses to lie to herself is her own fault as everyone is responsible for their own stupidity
as long as op doesnt promise anything he is not lying nor decieving
She knows what we are, she is not a jealous woman. She also seems to get off on me treating her like a sex object.
I kinda am doing that, hence why I wonder if I should fuck her, we do everything but already.
I feel likelike she's having fun, why else would she suck me 3 times in the same day?
>>16877437 anon, what this guy
is trying to say is this:
You're looking at this woman as a sex object, and that isn't good. What you hold so fond of her she can just as easily use against you.
And you obviously care to some degree, so just know that it likely won't end well.
She has very low self esteem. She enjoys pleasuring you because it makes her feel worthwhile and good about herself.
The desire to watch you fuck another girl is a way of insuring you don't dump her for someone else, she's trying to ingratiate herself and appear cool and down with it.
Stick with her and keep having fun. Ask her if she'd like to fuck. If not than ask if she'd like you to get her off too.
Anytime sex is involved emotions aren't far away, so unless you're cool with having some type of relationship be careful of hurting her.
Even though shes fat as fuck, shes cleaned up quite well, and she gets me off really well, I do want to fuck her, so I guess getting with her wouldn't be a bad thing, specially if I can fuck other women.
You sure? she points out women when we hang out and says stuff like "I bet her tits would look nice around your cock" or "I'd lick her ass while she sucks you." shes kind of a giant perve
That is an unhealthy level of obsession and fascination with seeing you happy. I hope that you don't ever come to the realization that you have potentially made a huge mistake. That is one of the most dysfunctional fetishes I have ever heard.
I don't know whether or not you're hurting her, but do you honestly even care? She's obviously very insecure and I'm sure that you know you're taking advantage of her. I would try to help her out with her self-esteem, but her actions are very self-destructive, for lack of a better description.
I do care about her, I don't want to hurt her, but at the same time, I fucking love our relationship as it stands... I'm so conflicted, she seems happy, I'm happy... Fuck
You obviously enjoy it so keep going, just don't play with her emotions or make promises you're not going to honour and it's fine.
She is happy, you are happy, it's all good. Remember a lot of people here are frogposters who don't even know where is the clitoris.
>She SEEMS happy
See the difference here?
This is obviously a dysfunctional relationship, but you alone are not going to be able to help her. If you want to take advantage of her, fine. If you want to let her go and continue to be depressed? Fine.
I'd recommend telling her to see a psychologist, but most of their knowledge is superficial and not actually practical and I think it is complete bullshit when it comes to "fixing" deep-seated psychological issues in human beings.
In all honesty, I think her situation is completely out of your control.
Yeah... Putting a stop to that relationship isn't going to make her happier.
Could she be reasonably attractive if she slimmed down ?
If yes, just make her exercise, fuck other women at the start then progressively just her as she gets better, then marry her.
>she seems happy
How does this express anything but the fact that anon can't read minds?
Stop trying to enforce your standards for relationships on her. Maybe she just wants a fwb that's essentially what they are. Perhaps she's too insecure to ask for that so she offers to service instead and hopes to get there.
I would do the same. But I'm a guy, so I'd have to be hot for that to work.
Jump to conclusions much?
Cause he is he and he is in his head so he knows he is happy
>She SEEMS happy
Cause she is outwardly displaying signs that humans can generally expect to mean that they are happy and he isn't in her head so that's what he has to go by.
It may be dysfunctional, it may not. If you think she needs to see a psychologist, you probably need to see a psychologist. This isn't even remotely behavior that warrants professional help.
Source: I'm a psychologist.
Honestly, the new sluttier clothes, new hair, and make up already upgraded her a lot, her weight is an issue but not a huge one, she's fuckable now.
See I think she's just after sex and friendship, she seems more like a horny perve than the relationship type
So is what me and her doing OK? Is she happy? Is it possible she's happy? What's your take on the whole situation
Only you know. I have been in a few fwb situations and been told about more than a few and it's extremely rare that someone doesn't catch feels to some extent. That can go poorly, or that can be just fine.
The bottom line is you are both adults. Your relationship is fine as long as you honestly communicate with her when needed. If it turns into some sort of thing where you are grooming her (whether you know it or not) then it could be unhealthy, but it doesn't seem like it's at that point, and to be honest, there are plenty of sexual relationships where one partner has a lot of control over the other that are mutually beneficial.
Maybe she wants dick. Maybe she is madly in love with you. That's on her and her decision. You, however, also have to be an adult and be honest with yourself about the situation if you see signs that it is no longer a positive thing for her.
I guess you're right. I was probably reading too much into it. Then again, maybe I'm not. You don't sound like you can draw a conclusion that you're confident in either, except that she probably doesn't need professional help, which I can't really argue with.
Man I wish I had a potentially broken, self-esteemless, obese chick sucking my cock.
To be honest I don't know what would be keeping me from being with her now.
I wouldn't do that to her
It is very nice
I will look for something, it'll take a bit since i don't watch fat girl porn.
>she talks about wanting to watch me fuck other women. Do I continue?
Sounds like the ideal set-up. In return, make sure that you're a friend who is actually there for her when she needs you.
I am still her friend, I still treat her like a friend, we just have more stuff to our friendship now. We have sex now, we hang out a lot more, have a lot more fun together, her self esteem honestly seems a bit better now that she dresses differently and does her hair and make up. She spends the night sometimes now, and is more adventerous