I think my boyfriend is too close to his daughter. He likes to cuddle with his daughter, kiss her on the lips, take baths with her, go shopping for underwear together, she likes to touch him all over and always dresses loosely around him, among other things. She's 14. Should I be concerned?
Sounds fine to me.
Id be more worried why his daughters mother wants nothing to do with him, I mean there must be serious red flags if you leave someone who is such a great farther to your daughter.
Electra complex case incoming.
But seriously, if he's been a single father for a long time with her, they are going to be close.
You may not be used to seeing a father/daughter be that close since it's pretty uncommon to see a single dad / daughter scenario these days. If he's the affectionate type, the daughter is going to grow up being the affectionate type because that's all she knows.
If the mother left on bad terms with both and she's old enough to remember, that's probably why they are very close. They both suffered together and their bond is even stronger as they are the only close family to each other.
If you have a problem with it though, it's best not to say anything if you want to avoid rocking the boat. At some point, the daughter will eventually start to drift away as she learns that her peers are nowhere near that close to their Dad's isn't really "normal".
It's not certain though. A daughter not having a mother figure is going to obviously have her be overly comfortable with her father and males in general. Think about it. If she ever had any female hygiene issues or any personal girl problems, there's no Mom to give the women's view. There's only Dad, who only has a guy's version of the women's view.
I'm here late, also.
There's nothing right or wrong with what's happening. This is their relationship. Unless abuse is happening, there's nothing you should be concerned about.
A father, too close to his daughter. The shit you're implying. Someone should really slap the fuck out of you. This is life ruining stuff.
at first i was like "this doesn't sound too weird"
the fuck.. i was picturing his daughter as about 4. its a bit odd to say the least. especially the fact that they take baths together. i mean, at that age she will start to develop sexual feelings.
Hes fine, they are fine
Dont bother yourself too much
culture is different, some people just drag on stages in life longer than others.
They did thoes things when they were younger so there is no stigma, its just family
You know men actully have a special box for nonsexual encounters with family you know. I dont think of sex with my sisters or female family cus that shit doent even sit right. Mentally your sisters have no sexuality how you see them.
So basicly that same applys to his daughter, its his fucking daughter, the thought of anything sexual is out of question.
Not a biggie. You gotta understand that all households are different from each other. In some cultures, being touchyfeely and affectionate is normal. As long as he ain't fucking her or abusing her, don't worry about it.
That has molestation written all over it. Get the fuck out of this situation, girls that age are developing and usually very protective of their own bodies, I would suspect some form of abuse is occurring