I just discovered that my sister draws copious amounts of very extreme furry porn all day and I don't know how to feel (maybe a little bit angry).
I am posting here because I feel like I need to talk about it but telling my mum would hurt her and if my sister knew I knew she would be hysterically upset.
I have nothing against porn. I look at it myself but she is literally spending her entire time drawing it. How do I know? She is always drawing in her room but she always hides the screen whenever anyone enters. Her tumblr is full of it dating way back and she does a lot of self inserting OC's. I should stress, it's VERY graphic, group, gay etc. etc.
I believe people can and should do whatever they want as long as they are not hurting anyone, and she isn't. I think it's a very fulfilling pastime that gives her a lot of joy. So why do I feel so angry? Yeah, I need to get over it so that's why I'm here
This is the first part of the story, now for just a little history. I had a huge fight with her 6 months back, her bedroom is next to mine and we haven't spoken a word to each other since. I won't go into details but I was super, super depressed, problems sleeping and anxiety, I was trying hard to land my first job. My hair was falling out due to stress. I can't tell you how bad it was. She judges me because I've had a hard time. I feel like this in a way relates to how I feel about the porn thing. I'm feeling pretty lost at the moment.
No, this isn't her art. No, I won't link it. There is more history but this is already a huge post.
I want to clarify a few things. I am female. I guess I should mention that.
About the job thing. I have been aiming for a particular type of job and it's really competitive. I have been working very hard (I have another interview soon). I work in retail while I look but my family are disappointed I haven't landed a career yet. Everyone has expected a lot from me since I was considered 'gifted' and these expectations have weighed on my heavily upon me.
Is she doing commissions? It is well known that drawing furry porn of people's OC is the best way to turn drawing skills into money.
>feel like this in a way relates to how I feel about the porn thing.
Maybe you associate both of these things because you want the secret porn to be your legitimate reason to hate her back?
I do furry erotica commissions sometimes and can second this person ("it is well known that drawing furry porn of people's OC is the best way to turn drawing skills into money".).
It's not just easy money -- they thank you profusely for the opportunity!
I don't hate her but the way she reacted to my depression does disgust me so I don't have any feelings of sisterly bonds. I felt betrayed since I felt she basically wiped her hands clean of me.
The porn isn't a reason to hate her either. I am just really, really, disappointed. This is a huge part of her life and it's really nothing, just smut. a low income and a fantasy. No aspirations to get a job, read or broaden her horizons. I wouldn't be so bad if it wasn't ALL porn. It's like seeing the very essence of a person and all it is is lewd trash.
how old is your sister? does sound like she has some major problems. I mean, i think drawing porn is fine but the fact that she doesn't draw anything else is obsessive and worrying. i have had really bad arguments with my brother but we normally make amends after a few days.
She is 21. She never leaves the house except to go to work, she has no real life friends and a boyfriend who she draws in her artwork having sex with (also furry). She has put on a lot of weight and she is a real shit to live with sometimes (she goes apeshit in an argument). She owns a dog but never takes it out. Mum has to do it.
Like you said, I feel that just drawing porn all day is kinda off. The characters never hug, or show intimacy for that matter. They are just giving blowjobs etc
Well it is the most biggest source of joy she has, if she wants to move on, then she needs to have something else that is more fun.
Perhaps drawing other projects is much better.
If she does it all day long its not. Unlikly she is a very hopeless individual but apparently its the onlything she had to do all day long.
If she wont do or draw something else based on your concern then blackmail her by saying you will show it it her parrents if she does not try to have fun in another way. If that doent work then tell your parrents in a way to undertand that she needs to have fun in other ways with a proactive subitution.
Dont just say dont do it and take it away, that makes the situstion worse. people are addicted because its there best sourse of joy, once they are in a better enviorment with a better sourse of joy then they will move on.
Stupid thing to say. You didn't read the thread obviously. OP said she wasn't going to do anything or say anything about it. People are free to form their own opinions, they are also free to discuss their feelings and also reap the consequences.
Thought police pls go.
>So why do I feel so angry?
Well you say it's because she's been hard on you for your own failures, so you probably see this 'deviant' sexual expression as a failure/flaw and wonder why she treats you this way
>She judges me because I've had a hard time.
That being said, are you sure about this? Or are you just insecure and projecting your self-loathing onto others. Normally people don't hate people for struggling, especially close family members
also would you fucking link the porn here already so we can see what we're dealing with?
How about you work on you and ignore your sister you little bitch. You can't control your family, she can do as she wants.
Sounds like my neice. She draws a lot of sexual furry content. But she also draws other things, none sexual, does fashion clothing, painting cloths you name it.
I draw exclusively furry erotica. I find it fun and easy to do. I don't do commissions and neither does she. Wah Wah, people bitch about furries and furry art.
How about instead of acting like a 11 year old cunt. You ignore her problems, her passions and interest. This goes to everyone else who makes big deals out of shit you don't like. You will have a happier better life and no one will care what you think or do.
Only the weak attack others for having interest they don't share. And no one needs you to till them what makes them happy or not. If she wants to stress and make no friends and draw furry porn so be it. You wanna fuck niggers all day long and bitch about your sister not riding the tiny snickers merry go round, that's your business.
Fuck off in other words you stupid cunt. The world needs less retards like you and most of advice running around. Or should I say, hiding behind a computer screen, while you cry like a bitch cause your hollywood chad thundercock won't pay attention to you. And who would pay attention to an obese lard land-planet whore trying to control her family and likely if you're that lucky to have friends, controlling them too.
Have a nice day :^)
there is literally nothing wrong with being a furry
I think you recognize that wolf girls and cat girls are miracles of life
catgirls are not furry
they have bare skin, not fur
therefore not furry
actual furries where carpet and don't bathe... they also pay ludicrous sums of money for furry porn. While furry porn is utterly disgusting, it helps many struggling artists pay their rent.
>the full furry suit is creepy and to a point disgusting
I can get it as a fetish thing, like people design this character and have all this art of it fucking so they want to live it but I really don't get why people would wear a fursuit for things other than fucking.
You've got to let that go senpai. You know how shitty it feels to be judged. Best thing you can do at the moment is accept her shitty behavior and hope she brightens up in the future.
It took me so long to realize this but, siblings grow apart. You're family, not friends who share every single interest with each other. When me and my brother were little we were into pretty much the same shit, kids games, all that jazz, but now he plays a bunch of mobas while I'm still here trying to be a cartoonist. You're different people, you can't change that. If she likes furry shit whatever, you've gotta realize siblings just kinda...drift apart. Come to terms with it, and focus on your shit.
Let me start by saying, you realizing that hating her for it is wrong already makes you a good person, OP. This is a step not everyone takes.
I also have somewhat of an aversion towards furries/furry porn, and if I understand correctly, you feel like what she's doing is wrong because it's not normal, and I agree with you to an extent. True, it's not particularly healthy to do something like that all day, but the truth is, she'll be the first one to realize when too much is too much. Until then, you can't judge for her without knowing her side of the story.
I personally would just ignore it; she's been disrespectful to you once and you can't ever be sure she won't be again, in which case worrying about her is definitely not worth your time. That said, if you feel compelled to preserve family bonds and you want to reconcile with her, I'd say the best way to go about this would be to approach the matter with her in a friendly way, tell her you're worried about her. Tell her you don't think it's healthy for her to do nothing but this all day. Odds are, she'll be defensive about it, and if she is, it probably means deep down, she knows there's something wrong about it, in which case I would press her to be honest about it. Does she feel like she's missing out on the rest of life, doing this? You're sisters after all, if you can't trust each other, why are you even trying?
Bullshit in my experience anon. I dated 3 different girls who drew furry porn when i was going through middle and highschool. Ive never seen a girl do non furry porn irl.
Im not a furry btw. Also never date one anon they're socially destructive.
Yep shes going to turn into a social wreck
That's a good one.
Wouldn't you rather she draw it than just look at it? Least she must have some skill
>Bullshit in my experience anon. I dated 3 different girls who drew furry porn when i was going through middle and highschool. Ive never seen a girl do non furry porn irl.
How do you meet these people? Furry sites?
All the girls I know are just into shopping, vacations and cafes
Op you never really got into the whole fight thing but by your description of her, it seems you are angry that she doesnt care. Doesnt care about her current life situation of being mostly a shut-in. Doesnt care that you had a bad time with you job hunt.
In a way, I am like her. I find it real hard to show that I care about something if there is nothing I can do about it (talking about your situation). As for her own life situation, she might be depressed. Shut ins usually feel safe and at ease in their room just wasting all day on the net. Its their comfort zone. Normally I rely on my friends to get out of said comfort zone.
Try to patch things up with her. Show her that even if you dont like furry porn, you can still give her advice if something looks good. If her art is good enough, try to get her to make comissions and earn money that way. If you feel that her art isnt good enough tell her and try to push her into learning anatomy so that she can improve.
Much creative, wow so original insults
>Meme generator insults 2016.
I have a great happy life, calling a whore out and getting the dumb shits like yourself to crawl out of your holes for a few moments is exactly whats wrong with this board.
If she's an artist, she could make quite a bit of money off of her interests. Furry community will pay ridiculous amounts of cash if someone can draw their terrible fetishes well.
Well at least it's not as awkward as when I found out my brother and his wife took part in one of my favorite amateur orgy videos. All of the semen I spilled watching that video would be able to fill a cement truck.
>that made the holidays awkward as fuck
> it's really nothing
>broaden her horizons
Wow, you sound like a real shitheel kid. You must be a blast at parties.
Every single one of these traits describes me and my interests. I spend me free time by myself, talk to strangers on the internet occasionally and avoid socialising whenever possible. Yet here I am with a car, a reasonably well paying full time job and a life of blissful contentment stretching out ahead of me, because my being a shut-in has no bearing on my ability to pass for an acceptable person in a world occupied largely by people like yourself, who love to inflate their fragile egos by looking down on others.
I spend most of my life hiding my powerlevel from people like you because I don't want to expose myself to this kind of self righteous attitude and misplaced scorn.
So yeah, I have no idea how your sister is going to turn out, but fuck you on general principal, lady.