God damn /adv/
Please help me
I have a 6/10 conservative, wife material girlfriend Whom I'm planning on marrying
she's loyal, loving and doesn't care about any shortcomings of me.
on the other hand I met this complete slut that wants to threesome.
Should I do it or is it slippery slope?
I love my girlfriend but I think this is a big opportunity.
He's already questioning it enough to where he wants someone to tell him it's a good idea. He's on /adv/ to find someone to rationalize it for him and agree with his stupid decisions.
I'd say OP is already a retard. A non-retard wouldn't need t come to /adv/ and could sort this out on their own, but like I mentioned he just wants to hear someone tell him it's okay.
Do it OP. Again, you've obviously made up your mind and you're not ready for commitment if you're giving it this much thought to the idea. You only want to hear the side that tells you it's okay. That's fine but don't beat around the bush. It's literally why half the people shoot a question off in here. They really only want to hear what they want to hear.
But you sure aren't.
Think about what you're going to ruin. One night of pleasure for a lifetime of distrust and pain; not only for you but for your girlfriend too.
Sluts don't keep their traps shut about who they bang.
>Sluts don't keep their traps shut about who they bang.
So she might tell?
I actually feel bad about doing it, but I also want do it
I'm not really looking for "Do it" encouragement
On the contrary I actually want reason NOT to
Aren't you worried about STDs?
Personally, I think you should cut all contact with her. It's not right to cheat. If you're even considering doing a threesome then there must be some sort of issues going on with your personal relationship, no?
This will help you decide.
I'm going to do this..
Girls like this are extremely rare..
She was virgin at age of 21, never even kissed anyone
above average looks and extremely loving, caring and loyal
slut ain't worth it
Sureeee. So you'd completely understand and be fine if your girlfriend had done the same.
And since you're considering cheating, I'm assuming you'd be completely fine if your girlfriend had a threesome with two hot guys as long as she didn't let your find out. Ignorance is bliss I guess.
What about part where I just talk to her via texts and not even meet her in person? I've completely changed my mind about sex, not even a doubt that I won't do it
but I HONESTLY see her as some kind of, nice friend
Is it okay to actually include her in my social circle? Or will she start talking about how I said "I'd probably have sex with her"?
That's called taking someone for granted. Unless you're an incredibly good looking guy, you're always going to be worse off when competing in sex. You want a threesome? I'm sure your GF could get enough men for a gangbang if she tried for it. You break up cause you're bored and want to spice things up by having sex with other girls? Your girl will have you replaced for the same thing so fast you won't even have time to blink, and while yours might be a one off, hers will be any time she feels like it. Don't fuck with girls using sex, you're fighting a losing battle.
>and she won't find out why not?
Do you really think people who get caught cheating expect it? You cannot guarantee that it won't get out, you just can't. It's not worth risking your relationship for an orgasm.
>This level of retardation.
Do her a favour and break up with her. You're obviously not keeper material. Honestly, who the fuck are you trying to kid about keeping her as a friend? We're anonymous here.You are wanting to keep her as an option incase you get tempted or something fucks up, and don't want to burn the bridge, under the false pretense of "friendship." What age are you, 16? Grow the fuck up, man. This is shit 16-20 year old girls pull with their beta boyfriends. You're fooling no one despite any protests you would say about it "being just friendship"
Shieeeet you're actualy right.
I'm an idiot
I am deleting her as we speak
Should I tell her that she should fuck off or simply stop responding to her?
Why not just tell your gf how you feel? Treating her like she's a once in a lifetime find will set you up for years of wondering what could have been. Telling her about your guilty thoughts is a good balance of honesty to yourself and to her. Please be a man when you bring it up to her.
>Treating her like she's a once in a lifetime find will set you up for years of wondering what could have been.
There's always plenty of sluts that will be up for a threesome. There's nothing special about it. Actually, most threesomes are shit, there's a fair amount of balancing needing to be done for someone not to feel like a third wheel. The fantasy is really overblown
Dude you replied to here. I've had a few threesomes; words can't describe how happy they made me. My approach to them is to make the third girl cum first, THEN my gf since she gets clingy when she finishes. OP, reflect over what you want, deep inside, past logic, past manners, what you really want. Think about what you're willing to put on the line for it, you'll know what to do.
I feel amazing already..
I'd never forgive myself if I actually did it.
We're all anonymous here, but you guys have no idea just how much you helped me..
She's not just my girlfriend, but we both agreed to marry in upcoming months so rather..fiance
I'll be sure to tell my children that only reason they were born is because some dudes on Taiwanese throat singing bulleting board convinced me to not have a threesome.
Gonna make hell'ova story.
>THEN my gf since she gets clingy when she finishes.
Yours is not OP scenario. Yours involves your GF, with both of you knowingly engaging in a threesome. OP is wanting to go behind his GFs back and cheat on her. Furthermore, what you're suggesting is pretty much coersion/bordering on manipulation. You can call it sweet talk if you wish, but when it comes right down to it, that's exactly what it is
You're right anon, some girls are into kinky things, but in my case I wanted the threesomes and coerced (to a degree, she was curious too) my gf into them. However, nothing, and I mean nothing is stopping her from leaving me if she wants to so as long as she's with me, it's because she wants to be. If she doesn't want to be with me anymore, then I don't want her.