so i have 4 ferrets Bilbo, Frodo, Sam, and Merry. I love them all except for Sam and I HATE her for no apparent reason. i hate her so much that some times i think of strangling her till she passes out (but to kill her i want her to suffer) and i dont know why. I do not feel this way toward any of my other ferrets. it scares me and i was wondering if anyone has a similsr case
What? You just try to find out what the immediat thought before the urge to abuse her was and then go back as far as you can. For example: "my god i need to squeez her eyes out " was after "oh, loooook at you, sitting there, grooming yourself as if you are the cutest shit everrrrr" was after "xyz". Get it?
Exactly. Maybe in the end you will find that the starting point is often "triggered" by similar events, like you feeling that sam doesn't deserve the slack your gf is cutting her or whatever.
I was in a similar situation once. My bf had two cats. They both were the dumbest cats i ever came across. But one of them was too much for me to handle. This piece of shit did nothing more than destroy stuff, shit and vomit on the bed and everywhere, wake us up all night long, and so on. And if you got near her she acted as if you are about to kill her. God, i hated her with a passion.
I think it's normal to some extend to resent something that causes you a lot of work and troubles but you get NOTHING in return.
yeah but she didnt start doing any of this till recently i was really trying to find out if this will pass on to a different ferret when sam is gone. thats what keeps me up tonight
and i dont want to see her get hurt. its like there is someone one else inside of me saying "hurt her" constantly and its driving me insane. it scares me to the point were im up at 3 am asking 4chan about while half drunk off absinthe and borboun