I am 21 and had one boyfriend in my life. There is a guy who flirted with me but I told him I have a boyfriend. He was disappointed but very nice.
I think he could tell I was attracted to him but I felt bad for talking to him.
Anyway, my boyfriend and I broke up (not because of the guy...) and I've been taking my time to heal, go to the gym, meditate, etc.
I still think about the guy sometimes, but not sure how to start things with him. How to let him know I am single now? Is it a good idea to date someone after I "rejected" them?
Also, a little problem I have is that while he is an A student he smokes weed like every week and that's something I don't like... I grew up with stoners and saw how lazy they became. Do you think it's a legitimate concern?
>>16863167
My professor of biochem smokes weed. Its nothing but a diciline game with weed.
If you have no will power you will be lazy. It don't mean all stoners are lazy.
>>16863170
Hmm... That's something I haven't thought about, thanks. I guess I should get to know him better to know for sure.