Recently been flirting with a female coworker of mine and she seems interested in me, one day she takes off her long sleeved shirt and I see a fuck ton wrist cuts.
some look well healed or dated, others still have scabs. I was talking to another coworker about her and it seems she's had issues with rejection before and hasn't ever had a BF
I'm at the point where I'm confident she'd say yes if I asked her out.
But I've got a few questions before going into this.
>Will her past set our relationship back?
>How and when should I talk about the cuts?
>any anon's with experience dating emotionally unstable grills before? if so how'd it play out
1. In this instance, yes
2. Don't. Depending on person she will spill her guts or never speak about it
3. Do not and I repeat DO NOT form any sort of relationship outside of fucking. These type of women always end up bad.
It's not emotional unstable. She do it when she feels stressing and all,not because she gets mad and angry and go to cut herself. She must be suffered something from the past and couldn't say it to anyone.
For me it's kinda red flag but i am a deppressed myself so I can't say that you should go away and never look back. Cause people like us need someone to understand and to share with us.
But make sure she's not doing it all the times or whenever she feels like.
>this is not going to hold your relationship back
>talk about it after few dates with her.
>one day she takes off her long sleeved shirt and I see a fuck ton wrist cuts
>some look well healed or dated, others still have scabs
>I'm confident she'd say yes if I asked her out
What could possibly go wrong?
used to be a betacuck, leaned to pick myself up and moved on. I know all to well what its like to pray for death anon... I'm sure I can relate
>But make sure she's not doing it all the time or whenever she feels like it.
I maybe asking /adv/ but I'm not stupid