Hey /adv/, I got a question. I feel like I'm annoying someone without actually knowing I'm annoying someone. I mean he's a pretty cool guy but I almost feel like he's being nice just to be nice. How do you know you're annoying someone? Is there a way to find out without being too obvious? Should I just go away and never look back? I don't want to unintentionally be the shadow of someone's day. I mean he seems like the guy who would tell me to fuck off if I'm bothering him but you never know.
If they don't want you to know, they will never let you know.
Perhaps he isn't really being annoyed. Or perhaps your type of annoying is tolerable enough that he doesn't mind humoring you.
There's no way to know. Don't do anything stupid. He may be totally fine with it. If it was adversely affecting his life, he will most likely tell you. But since it isn't affecting his life much at all, there's nothing to worry about.
I know this feel too well anon but the best thing to do is to just assume you're not annoying him and act as you normally would. If something in the way you naturally are is annoying to him, there's no point in pursuing the relationship further anyhow.
Most people are not in the charity business. If they don't like you, they don't choose to put themselves in the unpleasant experience of being with you.
That means that if they do invite and accept your company, it is pretty likely thagt they like you.
Are you a girl who isn't morbidly obese?
Yeah, he probably likes you. Might not be "feels" kinda like though - but if you're giving him attention he's probably at least flattered.
If you're a dude, he probably would've told you to fuck off by now.
I'll keep this in mind. I'll just keep quiet and hope things go well. I must ask though, what exactly would you consider "stupid"? I have an idea, but just to make sure.
I'm already in a relationship, and I'm not referring to my boyfriend. Just a friend I happen to know. I mean all of your advice makes sense and I thank you for your input, but I feel like I should state that.
Also to answer >>16862527 's question, I'm probably closer to being underweight than overweight. I'm not saying I'm underweight or anorexic but I am small.