>had ex's number in phone >text once or twice a year >randomly text last week asking if they remember the time i got really high before getting my wisdom teeth removed and threatened to 'ninja-kick' the dentist >we digitally laugh and reminisce >randomly throw in >'ever think we should masturbate together again?' (we were weirdly vanilla kinky where our favorite form of sex was mutual masturbation. they loved watching me edge) >'that could be fun' >me: 'we meet, we masturbate, we go our own ways. no baggage' >they're coming over today at 4
>>16861906 Yes. She's an ex for a reason. Either her fault, your fault, or most likely both of you were at fault. It doesn't matter though, because the only way you two could hook back up is if you BOTH work diligently on the reason(s) you split. I've never seen that happen. All the couples I've seen hook back up, mine included, always have some dark cloud hovering over them threatening to drop a tornado of old feelings and bullshit down on them.
It's hard to say without knowing all the gory details.
>>16861906 I speak from common sense. If something doesn't work you try something else.
I have never been able to reconcile what I lost with an ex. Granted, all my relationships have generally ended messily, but no matter how well you break up you're still two people admitting it can't work like it did.
Part of having the years of experimentation and growth that comes from the modern approach to finding a life partner is that you're always free to start again. And really, there's a world of better women out there for you.
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